FabSwingers.com forum: I’m just not feeling it anymore

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think this is my ‘when the fun stops, stop’ moment.

What are you just not feeling any more?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Been a while since I last grasped on a pair of tatas

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh pickle that's not good if you're not enjoying it anymore.

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Faith in humanity.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Getting out of bed. It's the worst.

Mrs TMN x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Do you mean on Fab ?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Hotels. I think once my Marriot points are used up I’m done for good with this style of accommodation. It’s expensive and there’s so many more creative and interesting places to sleep and eat

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh Pickle.

If you're not enjoying something, take a break/breather until you are. Or change something so you do enjoy it.

I'm not feeling feeling like I'm not good enough to spend time with.

So I'm being proactive and minimising that noise and focusing on positive things.

Sometimes you just need that gentle push to take steps so things do bring you happiness/don't disturb your peace.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not enjoying sitting around watching life pass by waiting for things to happen …. It’s time to make them happen

Take a little time away and I bet you can refresh and reflect on what you want

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Oh lovely Pickle, hide your profile for a bit. Take a break and come back when you're feeling better. Because you add such a lot to these forums, they're a better place with you here!

Jxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who know me will know what I am not feeling

At times this place can give the impression everyone else is having a great time

At times I think of taking break but it's one of the few places I chat to people

Hope you find your drive again OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bandokay will solve everything!!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Happens to us all, take a break and do some things you are enjoying

LvM

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Focus on things you are feeling.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I think this is my ‘when the fun stops, stop’ moment.

What are you just not feeling any more? "

I live with an abiding sense that most things I do are pointless. I get you.

Take a break and focus on something else for a bit. Eventually, the fun should return.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

You could always go and read my entry on the "you should fuck me because..." thread. Read it a couple of times. Then, if you like, you might strangely feel like dropping me a message. The fun might return. Just saying...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be fair, it’s not even really so much about fab! There’s a few things I was excited about and enjoying that I’m just not feeling.

I do love the fab even when I’m not feeling posting so much because I’ve been lucky enough to make wonderful connections on here

Thank you for the lovely comments though. And with regards to the things that triggered this post, non fab stuff, think I just have to make a decision that’s best for my well-being.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Focus on things you are feeling.

I’m on my way

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I think this is my ‘when the fun stops, stop’ moment.

What are you just not feeling any more? "

Maybe time to find other hobbies to indulge in fella

. I find Sunday - Thur I’m not really bothered with Fab for example focus more on work & my hobbies gym training & my fish keeping. Fri & Sat I’m just a horny pussy monster lol

All about finding that balance

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Sometimes I find changing your outlook towards the the place helps too. Raise or tone down the seriousness, drop or add the comedy. Essentially a different approach to it all.

Then dip out if that doesn't help.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not feeling capitalism.

I minimise my engagement with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not feeling capitalism.

I minimise my engagement with it."

Don’t even. That’ll make me even more depressed. Might start another landlord thread

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not feeling capitalism.

I minimise my engagement with it.

Don’t even. That’ll make me even more depressed. Might start another landlord thread

Mmm. It's a bit like dealing with dog shit. You do as little of it as you can get away with.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I'm not feeling capitalism.

I minimise my engagement with it.

Don’t even. That’ll make me even more depressed. Might start another landlord thread

Not another landlord thread Pickles, I’m still not okay after the last one.

Hope you’ll find your inner knowing and peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always good to recognise/acknowledge when you’re feeling this way, and make the right steps to help it. Which is exactly what you’ve done, I’m proud of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been like that for ages on here for me. don’t wana leave but don’t want to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club …

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Focus on things you are feeling.

I’m on my way "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was done with something but last night was fantastic so I'm not done at all!

If the fun stops, stop.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Aww Steve, bad day?

I believe I did have one recently but I have the memory of a sieve so I only have the lingering feeling of sad nope, rather than the event that caused it in my head.

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