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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so a female friend of mine’s best friend has been messaging me and seems to be keen to meet up but keep it a secret from our mutual friend, do I or don’t I ?

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Okay so a female friend of mine’s best friend has been messaging me and seems to be keen to meet up but keep it a secret from our mutual friend, do I or don’t I ? "

How good a friend is she and how much do you value the friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a close one, we go months without talking but we’ve slept together a handful of times, maybe should’ve added that

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Not a close one, we go months without talking but we’ve slept together a handful of times, maybe should’ve added that "

Go for it.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not a close one, we go months without talking but we’ve slept together a handful of times, maybe should’ve added that "

Fuck it, literally hahahaha! Go for gold then

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Okay so a female friend of mine’s best friend has been messaging me and seems to be keen to meet up but keep it a secret from our mutual friend, do I or don’t I ? "

She's not your misses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel the need to ask someone else, then there’s something else to it. Do what you know is right, whatever that might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you thanks right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edit: I’m not implying you’re doing something wrong, but asking for opinions suggests you feel you might be. Horniness isn’t an excuse for hurting feelings, so if that’s a potential consequence then address it first. Otherwise, you do you. But like owt else, manners, decency, confrontation and mutual understanding, all need to be the priority

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get that, guess I was just questioning my morals and was looking for other opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I get that, guess I was just questioning my morals and was looking for other opinions "

Why did ya need another opinion? Not being a prick, just what was concerning ya mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I get that, guess I was just questioning my morals and was looking for other opinions "

Really can’t give opinions has all we know is it’s a friends off yours best friend

You not gave any other information on it

Like dose she have a boyfriend or something then the answer would be stay clear

if yous are both single then there shouldn’t be a problem it’s not up to your friend who you or they friend see

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Edit: I’m not implying you’re doing something wrong, but asking for opinions suggests you feel you might be. Horniness isn’t an excuse for hurting feelings, so if that’s a potential consequence then address it first. Otherwise, you do you. But like owt else, manners, decency, confrontation and mutual understanding, all need to be the priority"

This guy knows what he's talking about.

Personally I'd tell the friend if you value the friendship especially since you've been sleeping together.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If she's keen to keep it a secret she KNOWS it will cause a problem. What is her motive?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

How big are her tits?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"How big are her tits?"

His friend or his friends friend?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Ask yourself what the fall out will be, when she finds out, especially since her mate has asked for it to be a secret... it all smacks of drama.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"How big are her tits?

His friend or his friends friend? "

His friends friends but I’d like to know about his friend as well for my friend of a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have a grown up conversation … problem solved

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I can't see anything morally wrong with it v but why does she want it kept a secret? That implies that the friends will be upset so you do risk losing her as a friend and hurting her. I personally souks be upfront and talk to all parties. But then that's what enm is all about.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Why all the secrecy is she embarrassed that would be question 1

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As soon as someone asks you to keep something they want you to be involved in a secret it's a giant clue that at least one of you thinks it's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secrets like that are messy. Say no.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Nope. Don't do it.

One. A secret? No fuck that. Have more self respect for yourself. Respect for others. Secrets rarely stay that secret anyway.

Two. Getting involved with friends can be very messy. The fallout isn't worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a reason she wants you to keep it a secret. She obviously thinks her friend wont be ok with it.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"As soon as someone asks you to keep something they want you to be involved in a secret it's a giant clue that at least one of you thinks it's wrong. "

Or she just thinks her friend wouldn't be happy and doesnt want the hassle. I don't see a right or wrong thing here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As soon as someone asks you to keep something they want you to be involved in a secret it's a giant clue that at least one of you thinks it's wrong.

Or she just thinks her friend wouldn't be happy and doesnt want the hassle. I don't see a right or wrong thing here. "

I don't see a right of wrong morally.

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