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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I for one, has never asked anyone to be my girlfriend.

For me it's always been a natural progression with both of us knowing where we are without need it to be said.

So am I the only one that has/being there. Or do people need to be asked or told that they are boyfriend or girlfriend stages in there relationship

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I don't think I have heard anyone ask to be their girlfriend/ boyfriend since I was around 13.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I have loads of girlfriends, they don't even know we're a thing but as long as I know

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together."

Oh... Easy with the olden days.

I still remember using the bunsen burner

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I for one, has never asked anyone to be my girlfriend.

For me it's always been a natural progression with both of us knowing where we are without need it to be said.

So am I the only one that has/being there. Or do people need to be asked or told that they are boyfriend or girlfriend stages in there relationship "
you have a girl who wants to be your girlfriend i mean how outrageous

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.

Oh... Easy with the olden days.

I still remember using the bunsen burner "

Me too

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.

Oh... Easy with the olden days.

I still remember using the bunsen burner

Me too "

I wasn’t allowed near the Bunsen burners after I heated a set of spring loaded test tube holders in one and then clipped it to another kid’s earlobe, there was a bit of a hoo haaa over that.

Still, he never tried to steal my lunch token ever again

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


" In the olden days when I was dating if you went on more than about three dates you were considered boyfriend and girlfriend. Now I understand that there's 'seeing' someone, 'in a relationship', 'Facebook official ' and many other ways of being together.

Oh... Easy with the olden days.

I still remember using the bunsen burner

Me too

I wasn’t allowed near the Bunsen burners after I heated a set of spring loaded test tube holders in one and then clipped it to another kid’s earlobe, there was a bit of a hoo haaa over that.

Still, he never tried to steal my lunch token ever again "

But you were on free dinners and I was hungry

Now I know where you are

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Oh jeez, someone assuming they were my boyfriend, after a few dates, literally gives me the shudders

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I always thought it a bit cheesy to ask things like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just kinda became... think the first kiss and the consecutive days of being together said it all

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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With women it's never been discussed, it just kind of happens.

With men, they've always asked first 'so are we dating/are you my girlfriend now?'.

Now? I'd rather it wasn't said. They're just pretty words aren't they? I'd look more to the actions than what's being said. I'd prefer it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not since I was 12, no.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Haven't since I was like, 12?!

Has them but it's kinda been more - so is this a thing? Cool its a thing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural progression doesn't need words...

Driving force chemistry.

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Asked a girl if she wanted yo be my girlfriend many years ago.

Her answer "I have been for 2 weeks now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Natural progression doesn't need words...

Driving force chemistry."
This

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Asked a girl if she wanted yo be my girlfriend many years ago.

Her answer "I have been for 2 weeks now""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask. I at least have a conversation about what or where we are. Don’t go around calling me your boyfriend or talking about breaking up just because we dated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asked a girl if she wanted yo be my girlfriend many years ago.

Her answer "I have been for 2 weeks now""

Real scary hours

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I always ask. I at least have a conversation about what or where we are. Don’t go around calling me your boyfriend or talking about breaking up just because we dated "

It must be a generational thing.

After taking a girl out to the ABC. Then off to the local Wimpy. She knows she has been treated right, so she must have a keeper

I wouldn't do that for any old girl

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’d be uncomfortable if someone assumed they were my boyfriend just because we’ve been dating.

If they’re going to assume they’re my boyfriend, I’m going to go ahead and assume we’re getting married and I’ll book a venue.

Wanna play romance chicken with me, then let’s play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always ask. I at least have a conversation about what or where we are. Don’t go around calling me your boyfriend or talking about breaking up just because we dated

It must be a generational thing.

After taking a girl out to the ABC. Then off to the local Wimpy. She knows she has been treated right, so she must have a keeper

I wouldn't do that for any old girl "

The problem with the youth of today is they care about consent

(Jk btw)

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I’d be uncomfortable if someone assumed they were my boyfriend just because we’ve been dating.

If they’re going to assume they’re my boyfriend, I’m going to go ahead and assume we’re getting married and I’ll book a venue.

Wanna play romance chicken with me, then let’s play. "

A new take on the Saw franchise

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I always ask. I at least have a conversation about what or where we are. Don’t go around calling me your boyfriend or talking about breaking up just because we dated

It must be a generational thing.

After taking a girl out to the ABC. Then off to the local Wimpy. She knows she has been treated right, so she must have a keeper

I wouldn't do that for any old girl

The problem with the youth of today is they care about consent

(Jk btw)"

To be fair (and yes I do believe and practice consent to be important) consent by some (very small minority) has been take to such extremes that it's hard to know where such things stand when it comes to consent. It is a weird one.

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