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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do people have unrealistic expectations about who they meet?

Who gets to determine whether expectations are unrealistic, and does that determination matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aim for the stars, and even if you miss you might hit the moon!

And if you’ve got a vagina, the chances are you’re gonna find a thirsty hunk so why not?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think most people are probably unrealistic in their expectations, when they first arrive at Fab. Seemingly, many men expect easy gashfests and polite declined requests for such. Others have lower confidence in their appeal to others.

It helps to have a reasonable grasp on reality, so that disappointments don't discourage and that others don't bear the brunt of any misplaced anger,etc

Ultimately, it's best to have the biggest choice of users, who are both available and not holding grudges as well as doing their best to get on with others.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"...Who gets to determine whether expectations are unrealistic, and does that determination matter?"

Ultimately, it's us ourselves who will do the reckoning. I'm not sure that we're that good at it though

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

All my meetings have been up to my expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get put off by guys that seem to have a high expectation of me.

They'll get disappointed.

I'll cry.

No one needs that in their life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yes I have high expectations of guys I meet, I want the multiple orgasm please.

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I think I do have unrealistic expectations...

I expect them to be who they say they are & resemble their pics - for some that's simply too much to ask, they must like living in their own fantasy bubble

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Do people have unrealistic expectations about who they meet?

Who gets to determine whether expectations are unrealistic, and does that determination matter?"

I only meet with people ive talked for a while and we had meeting Of minds and the Outcome will as we discussed mind first Body follows .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get put off by guys that seem to have a high expectation of me.

They'll get disappointed.

I'll cry.

No one needs that in their life. "

I expected you to have a wash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But yes I have high expectations of guys I meet, I want the multiple orgasm please."

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get put off by guys that seem to have a high expectation of me.

They'll get disappointed.

I'll cry.

No one needs that in their life.

I expected you to have a wash. "

God women have to do EVERYTHING!!!

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Since returning after a break from here.

I only meet up with friends for socials,fun or turning into a lobster on the nudist beach.

Too much hassle finding new playmates.Most couples get in touch, but it's only the man who can speak/cam on the phone

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"But yes I have high expectations of guys I meet, I want the multiple orgasm please."

(Mr)

I'll refer you to Miss here for her assessment of that.

Yesterday was a good day, ratio of orgasm to cum was 12 to 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get put off by guys that seem to have a high expectation of me.

They'll get disappointed.

I'll cry.

No one needs that in their life.

I expected you to have a wash.

God women have to do EVERYTHING!!!"

I mean… I still did but I wasn’t happy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But yes I have high expectations of guys I meet, I want the multiple orgasm please."

I'd like ONE. That would be a 100% increase.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I probably currently have unrealistic expectations.

As a result, I've stopped looking.

If anyone thinks my expectations are unreasonable or thinks they get a vote on it other than me, they can take a long walk off a short pier.

If anyone thinks that I owe them sex or a chance at sex, then they're most welcome to become intimate with something laden with tetanus (this is an invitation rather than a threat).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing hence, why I always seem to have a good time more often than not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But yes I have high expectations of guys I meet, I want the multiple orgasm please.

I'd like ONE. That would be a 100% increase. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably currently have unrealistic expectations.

As a result, I've stopped looking.

If anyone thinks my expectations are unreasonable or thinks they get a vote on it other than me, they can take a long walk off a short pier.

If anyone thinks that I owe them sex or a chance at sex, then they're most welcome to become intimate with something laden with tetanus (this is an invitation rather than a threat)."

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have very high expectation but they clearly aren’t unrealistic or I’d never meet anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think after all this time being on/off fab I still have unrealistic expectations that most guys on here actually want to meet, when they've given that impression. The reality is, they like the idea of meeting. But it doesn't really happen in reality!

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London


"Do people have unrealistic expectations about who they meet?

Who gets to determine whether expectations are unrealistic, and does that determination matter?"

They may or they may not, I'm not equipped to judge.

They (and only they) do.

Shouldn't to anyone but themselves.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Do I have high expectations? I know what I like and won't settle for anything outside of that. Even if it means I won't get a meet. I've been there, done that many times previously. Now I am a lot more choosy on who I look for. Unfortunately usually they have high standards too!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My expectation is that if I don't find anyone that meets my standards I can have more fun with my tentacles and own company than I can with a mediocre man who thinks he's entitled to a wife

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My expectation is that if I don't find anyone that meets my standards I can have more fun with my tentacles and own company than I can with a mediocre man who thinks he's entitled to a wife "

Shame about the societal decay, but not my problem

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

My expectations probably are unreasonable, I expect people to be open and honest about themselves, unfortunately you don't find many who are true to their real selves in the online world. People create a persona/alterego online that just doesn't match up to them when you meet them for real, it's frustrating.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"My expectation is that if I don't find anyone that meets my standards I can have more fun with my tentacles and own company than I can with a mediocre man who thinks he's entitled to a wife "

(Mr)

I have a realistic expectation if we met that we could demolish one of the Sizzler Challenges, probably the Wing Roulette with Scorpion hot sauce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of don't know what my expectations are as I wouldn't say I have a type. And before people say "he'll fuck anything", what I mean is you see some couples together and you think "yeah, that makes sense. The sut each other". I can't say I've ever really felt that way about myself where others would look at me with someone and think the same if that makes sense?

That means my radar of expectations may be off somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of don't know what my expectations are as I wouldn't say I have a type. And before people say "he'll fuck anything", what I mean is you see some couples together and you think "yeah, that makes sense. The sut each other". I can't say I've ever really felt that way about myself where others would look at me with someone and think the same if that makes sense?

That means my radar of expectations may be off somewhat."

*They suit. Fucking proof-read Joe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of don't know what my expectations are as I wouldn't say I have a type. And before people say "he'll fuck anything", what I mean is you see some couples together and you think "yeah, that makes sense. The sut each other". I can't say I've ever really felt that way about myself where others would look at me with someone and think the same if that makes sense?

That means my radar of expectations may be off somewhat.

*They suit. Fucking proof-read Joe! "

Oh. I thought you meant "slut".

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I kind of don't know what my expectations are as I wouldn't say I have a type. And before people say "he'll fuck anything", what I mean is you see some couples together and you think "yeah, that makes sense. The sut each other". I can't say I've ever really felt that way about myself where others would look at me with someone and think the same if that makes sense?

That means my radar of expectations may be off somewhat.

*They suit. Fucking proof-read Joe! "

Can you proof read mine before I post .

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Do people have unrealistic expectations about who they meet?

Who gets to determine whether expectations are unrealistic, and does that determination matter?"

I only meet women who are supermodel sexy…. Oh wait I’m kidding.

My expectations are set by me, if I’m happy I’m happy, if I’m not happy I’m not happy it’s as easy as that.

It’s not upto me I set other people’s expectations though, that’s upto them.

Have fun, stay safe and be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of don't know what my expectations are as I wouldn't say I have a type. And before people say "he'll fuck anything", what I mean is you see some couples together and you think "yeah, that makes sense. The sut each other". I can't say I've ever really felt that way about myself where others would look at me with someone and think the same if that makes sense?

That means my radar of expectations may be off somewhat.

*They suit. Fucking proof-read Joe!

Oh. I thought you meant "slut". "

Well, that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of don't know what my expectations are as I wouldn't say I have a type. And before people say "he'll fuck anything", what I mean is you see some couples together and you think "yeah, that makes sense. The sut each other". I can't say I've ever really felt that way about myself where others would look at me with someone and think the same if that makes sense?

That means my radar of expectations may be off somewhat.

*They suit. Fucking proof-read Joe!

Oh. I thought you meant "slut".

Well, that too "

Saucy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be more worried about their expectations of me

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