FabSwingers.com forum: BBC

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

But many profiles on here advertise themselves as 'BBC available for your pleasure ' etc.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I’m off to watch some Blacked.Com for a couple of hours and I’ll be back to see how this unfolds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But many profiles on here advertise themselves as 'BBC available for your pleasure ' etc."

Correct. Black man need to stop labelling themselves with that too. It's a label for black men constructed by white people. Many black people use it as a way to get acceptance and guarantee themselves some pussy.

They'll even degrade themselves by calling themselves BBC. Another issue, linked to low self esteem and ego issues in black men.

Also consider, many black people will call each other the racist "n" word. White people cannot do it or throw it around. It's rude and it's racist.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

I am not racist in anyway, I dislike people due to their personality.

But assuming a black man has a big cock is racial stereotyping. I have met many people through swinging and a lot of the black guys I have met have been smaller than me.

I am attracted to all kinds of different people for all kind of different reasons. I do not have preferences per se and what I fancy one day may not the next.

I don’t think folks on here use it as a derogatory term more to state a preference of what they are looking for.

I have no idea where the term originated so cannot comment on that.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"But many profiles on here advertise themselves as 'BBC available for your pleasure ' etc.

They'll even degrade themselves by calling themselves BBC. Another issue, linked to low self esteem and ego issues in black men.

Also consider, many black people will call each other the racist "n" word. White people cannot do it or throw it around. It's rude and it's racist. "

Ah right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

Generations after generations of degrading people and treating ethic minorities as below and having advantages over black people. That is a lesson that has come down the generation and is a lesson. It's also a lie.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it bigger than the bread bin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But many profiles on here advertise themselves as 'BBC available for your pleasure ' etc.

They'll even degrade themselves by calling themselves BBC. Another issue, linked to low self esteem and ego issues in black men.

Also consider, many black people will call each other the racist "n" word. White people cannot do it or throw it around. It's rude and it's racist. "

It's good that they have you to tell them what to do and how to think.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

When people stop using the term in their own profile names, bio, messages and veris - I'll maybe think about it.

But for now, regardless of it's "roots" it is purely a descriptive term right out of the Ronseal book of naming things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am not racist in anyway, I dislike people due to their personality.

But assuming a black man has a big cock is racial stereotyping. I have met many people through swinging and a lot of the black guys I have met have been smaller than me.

I am attracted to all kinds of different people for all kind of different reasons. I do not have preferences per se and what I fancy one day may not the next.

I don’t think folks on here use it as a derogatory term more to state a preference of what they are looking for.

I have no idea where the term originated so cannot comment on that. "

So why not simplely say, I have a preference for black men. There are some women on here that call themselves Queen of Spades ffs. Rules and queen's of black men's cocks! The mind boggles!

The term BBC or Big Black Cock has roots in racism. The BBC is possibly the most prominent trope when it comes to black male sexuality. In a society that praises hyper-masculinity, this is arguably a good thing – a ‘positive’ stereotype. But originally, it was used to dehumanize. A large penis was depicted as brutalistic, used as evidence for hyper-sexuality, hyper-aggression in the days of the trade triangle. These were factors used to justify their inferior and object status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok hate acronyms in general. I don't even like the term BBW despite having a preference for women of that nature, as it suggests a fantasist approach and I don't like that. Even when I come across a profile that says BBC only, it makes me cringe and shiver at the disrespect personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok hate acronyms in general."

OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok hate acronyms in general.

OMG

From a sexual standpoint I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But many profiles on here advertise themselves as 'BBC available for your pleasure ' etc.

They'll even degrade themselves by calling themselves BBC. Another issue, linked to low self esteem and ego issues in black men.

Also consider, many black people will call each other the racist "n" word. White people cannot do it or throw it around. It's rude and it's racist.

It's good that they have you to tell them what to do and how to think. "

It really is. They clearly need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I agree completely but there are so many threads on this.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop! "

Where were you taught that white people are superior to black people?

I went to a multi-ethnic school and I don't remember having attended that lesson. Apropos, I've never felt superior to anyone of a different race to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok hate acronyms in general.

OMG

From a sexual standpoint I mean lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok hate acronyms in general.

OMG

From a sexual standpoint I mean lol

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over! "

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

Where were you taught that white people are superior to black people?

I went to a multi-ethnic school and I don't remember having attended that lesson. Apropos, I've never felt superior to anyone of a different race to me.

Yes I have. Make no mistake it will very rarely be done in an outright fashion. But through insidious communication demonstrating inferiority.

I'm glad for your that you have felt neither. Both positions of the spectrum come with their issues and challenges.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop! "

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

I have experienced racism twice so far in my life and I have seen black kids on the bus do it to a white person. Neither of that rubbish do I condone and I wouldn't paint everyone with the same brush either

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"Ok hate acronyms in general.

OMG

From a sexual standpoint I mean lol

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental? "

Personally, I dislike the term all lives matter. All lives matter, when black lives matter too. Historically they haven't. Hence, the refrain of "black lives matter". Saying "all lives matter" (which of course they do) minimises the reason why people say "black lives matter"

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be very disheartening for black guys who don’t have a big cock, with all these stereotypical expectations?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over! "

Op do you know that white people once upon a time also have suffered the same circumstances happened between north Africa and Mediterranean into Europe . But also happened with asians ,this process made part of the human evolution throughout the times, what will be next we don't know , but probably cyborgs one day they will be writing same thing about racism and revolt against humans

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you."

This!!!!!

And I used to volunteer for the police so I KNOW what you are talking about!

If it hasn't happened to you great. Fantastic. Doesn't stop objectification and racism to hundreds of others repeatedly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Oh OK then. Its all fine we can all be racist to each other then. No need to speak up and make a change???

Wow that was easy. I didn't realise it was just a phase like the terrible twos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It must be very disheartening for black guys who don’t have a big cock, with all these stereotypical expectations?"

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you."

It's not dismissing it but its never going to die and shouting and ranting about it won't do anything either

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself! "

Do you believe that man are declining meetings because a woman , man, ts , tv, etc ,have used the term you have mentioned?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Ok hate acronyms in general. I don't even like the term BBW despite having a preference for women of that nature, as it suggests a fantasist approach and I don't like that. Even when I come across a profile that says BBC only, it makes me cringe and shiver at the disrespect personally."

Agree across the board.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I don’t know nuffin I’ll just agree with the attractive OP

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Ok I’ve got a MWC (medium white cock) but wish I had a BWC. I’m sure most men would agree that it’s a compliment for someone to say you have a big member.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Oh OK then. Its all fine we can all be racist to each other then. No need to speak up and make a change???

Wow that was easy. I didn't realise it was just a phase like the terrible twos."

There is no change

When will black kids stop killing each other?

They will not

There's good and bad in every race OP

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself! "

Wouldn't it be preferable to not be racist and discriminatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you."

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Fortunately it's not a term I have any need of and I would respect any body's request not to use terms they find unnecessarily offensive.

However, I don't think the origins of a term necessarily make a term racist or not now. Words change meaning and implication. The word wicked for example comes from witchcraft. People who use the term now would never have witchcraft in mind in normal circumstances.

If a woman is attracted to black men, I don't have a problem with that, or if they like big cocks. There's a term available for them both together. It can be used insensitively or with people who accept the term enthusiastically. I think the way it is used now and the attitudes that come with it are what should matter, not the origins of the term from over 100 years ago.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Oh OK then. Its all fine we can all be racist to each other then. No need to speak up and make a change???

Wow that was easy. I didn't realise it was just a phase like the terrible twos."

My point is that you mentioned that black people don't belong to white people, it seems a very strong opinion of yours. I can add vice versa as nobody belongs to anyone and people is free to live with who they want , fuck with who they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op this subject has been done to death

All you'll find is black men that use to term because it helps them to get their leg over and white people who tell you whether they find it offensive, even though race fetishism doesn't affect them in the slightest

The best you can do is just block those who use the term and ignore it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Oh OK then. Its all fine we can all be racist to each other then. No need to speak up and make a change???

Wow that was easy. I didn't realise it was just a phase like the terrible twos.

There is no change

When will black kids stop killing each other?

They will not

There's good and bad in every race OP"

Yes of course there is. That doesn't mean we ignore, step over, side step and close our eyes to the bad that's happening.

Not all white women that have a preference for black men is racist. Not every white person is racist. But its common- as you said in your first reply and should be addressed. Unapologetically.

And as for black kids killing each other, crime, drugs, prison populations etc, these are all other socio- economic issue that needs to be addressed.

It has nothing to do with scene or what I was actually talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwiw, I agree with you OP. I've seen plenty of references to "wife wants her first BBC" as though black men are just cocks and nothing else. The "it's just preference" crew will be along shortly. As usual.

Black men can label themselves whatever they want - doesn't mean the rest of us need to objectify them.

But - ranting at people tends to antagonise people and they're less likely to engage with the issue.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

OP, I don't disagree with you but this is not necessarily the correct forum for your rant. You're simply preaching to the converted. For those who need educating on this stereotype are far less likely to venture into the fora and take heed of your words.

I just performed a search within my locale - London/30 mile radius, black men - and out of the 300 entries 125 of them were self-proclaimed "BBC". It's not helping their cause if they are self-perpetuating that label.

Also, of those 300 men a high 'proportion' of them are exclusively looking to sleep with white women. I can only presume that during pillow talk and them whispering sweet nothings into their ears they are unsuspectingly giving their white lovers credence that the term BBC is somewhat acceptable (clearly it's not)...and thus those white women are (presumably) accepting the erroneous gospel. This is all presumption, of course... ...

I don't like the term BBC whatsoever.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Btw i must say OP she's hot

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Oh OK then. Its all fine we can all be racist to each other then. No need to speak up and make a change???

Wow that was easy. I didn't realise it was just a phase like the terrible twos.

Absolutely agree. We can fuck whoever we like but that doesn't mean we get to degrade a whole race of people while you're at it. Fuck who you want - leave the racism out of it.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Btw i must say OP she's hot

Like where’s the nods in agreement emoji?

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Op this subject has been done to death

The best you can do is just block those who use the term and ignore it "

Agreed, taking offence is one thing, it's not universal and objective, it is personal and subjective. And things that personally offend you, that you want people to stop saying, are just another way of saying you are incapable of controlling your own emotions so you want everyone else to do it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op this subject has been done to death

The best you can do is just block those who use the term and ignore it

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op this subject has been done to death

The best you can do is just block those who use the term and ignore it

No that's not what it is saying at all, and especially when the subject matter is about race.

Race fetism is a thing and if people want to talk about it it does not mean that they "can't control their emotions"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself! "

Is 'scum' acceptable language?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Fortunately it's not a term I have any need of and I would respect any body's request not to use terms they find unnecessarily offensive.

That would be true if its effects still weren't being felt. They did an interesting study in a school where they found that black and white children scored similarly on associating more negative words with black people. After a few weeks education both groups then scored much lower and the black kids lower still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op this subject has been done to death

The best you can do is just block those who use the term and ignore it

Racism should offend everyone, surely?"

The fact that they've make this statement about people being racist is just

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op this subject has been done to death

The best you can do is just block those who use the term and ignore it

Finding racism offense is not a demonstration of inability to control my emotions but a demonstration of people being unable and unwilling to treat others with respect irrespective of the colour of their skin.

I don't want people to stop being racist so I can control my emotions better. It's so that we can all live on this earth and be treated like the human beings that we are, instead an inferior subsect of people.

Funny how wanting to stop racist fetishization becomes me wanting someone else to control my emotions for me. We don't want to look at the wrong in it. Very interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a particular horse in this race but isn't Queen of Spades more problematic?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice "

My two experiences is just as bad as someone's one experience or another's plenty of it.

It shouldn't happen to anyone full stop

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

A woman of a certain color have fucked with a man of a certain color who's partner from a woman herself also from this same certain color and she's now mad at that woman who fucked with her man

This is not based in real facts and any coincidences are just fictional

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Early predictions says this one’s going west.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Racism should offend everyone, surely?"

It's not racism if the next 50 black guys that send you a message have BBC in their name, bio or status. If they are using it themselves, clearly they don't have an issue. QED, it is personally subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice

My two experiences is just as bad as someone's one experience or another's plenty of it.

It shouldn't happen to anyone full stop "

So why were you so dismissive of it in your original comment?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Oh OK then. Its all fine we can all be racist to each other then. No need to speak up and make a change???

Wow that was easy. I didn't realise it was just a phase like the terrible twos.

There is no change

When will black kids stop killing each other?

They will not

There's good and bad in every race OP

Yes of course there is. That doesn't mean we ignore, step over, side step and close our eyes to the bad that's happening.

Not all white women that have a preference for black men is racist. Not every white person is racist. But its common- as you said in your first reply and should be addressed. Unapologetically.

And as for black kids killing each other, crime, drugs, prison populations etc, these are all other socio- economic issue that needs to be addressed.

It has nothing to do with scene or what I was actually talking about."

My point is it will not end

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I dont use BBC to describe myself, never did and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Personally it's not a term I would ever consider using!but I get almost daily in fact got one this morning asking if I'm into BBC ?? Certainly not a racism thing! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, I don't disagree with you but this is not necessarily the correct forum for your rant. You're simply preaching to the converted. For those who need educating on this stereotype are far less likely to venture into the fora and take heed of your words.

I don't like the term BBC whatsoever."

Whole- heartely agree. Futile as it may be I'm going to say it. Silence isn't going to help.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over! "

You assume a lot there op and speaking for every black guy on here at the same time. Ive seen plenty of profiles which describe themselves as BBC but maybe they should check with their spokesperson next time they use it first. Also writing in capitals doesn't really do much to emphasise your point it just comes across as quite aggressive.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I know black people who use the term BBC (even though it's pretty average)

Also one of my friends hates the term,who is VWE.Nothing to do with racism,just people's preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBC: British Broadcasting Corporation

BWC: But, Who Cares?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

Where were you taught that white people are superior to black people?

I went to a multi-ethnic school and I don't remember having attended that lesson. Apropos, I've never felt superior to anyone of a different race to me.

Yes I have. Make no mistake it will very rarely be done in an outright fashion. But through insidious communication demonstrating inferiority.

I'm glad for your that you have felt neither. Both positions of the spectrum come with their issues and challenges. "

You were you made to feel that by?

Do you feel inferior to white people now? I'd be appalled if anyone felt inferior to me.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Education and enlightening others is great and certainly there are massive issues in society which need addressing in many areas but screaming on a website only serves to put some people's backs up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say I'm keen on this idea that if I'm doing it to myself then its ok for others to do it too or it shouldn't be highlighted.

Black men are calling themselves BBC so why should i stop using the term.

Its lazy behaviour by all involved.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I don't have a particular horse in this race but isn't Queen of Spades more problematic?"

Few years ago i brought a dress that a really love , all white with black spade heart . I brought the dress for a very special occasion a night out with my best friend at the time. I was a aware about the all thing and connection between the Queen of spades or the spades heart tattoo also , but when i brought the dress never in a million years i thought about that. Moral of the story , as i posted a picture on my social media of the dress and saying that was my dress for that night out , some people at my work place they started spread rumours whatever their imagination toke them. Me and my friend who is from Australia when we come aware of the rumours we couldn't stop laughing including her husband . I never wear the dress again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cant say I'm keen on this idea that if I'm doing it to myself then its ok for others to do it too or it shouldn't be highlighted.

Black men are calling themselves BBC so why should i stop using the term.

Its lazy behaviour by all involved.

Some. The more ignorant ones in my opinion. I've given you reason. You want to ignore it, I have no control over that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Education and enlightening others is great and certainly there are massive issues in society which need addressing in many areas but screaming on a website only serves to put some people's backs up..

I'm OK with that

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh. "

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant say I'm keen on this idea that if I'm doing it to myself then its ok for others to do it too or it shouldn't be highlighted.

Black men are calling themselves BBC so why should i stop using the term.

Its lazy behaviour by all involved.

Some. The more ignorant ones in my opinion. I've given you reason. You want to ignore it, I have no control over that"

I actually agree with your sentiments OP and often comment on these threads in an attempt to educate or inform. Sadly the stickler in the argument is always going to be ‘they're doing it so i can do it too’.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Cant say I'm keen on this idea that if I'm doing it to myself then its ok for others to do it too or it shouldn't be highlighted.

Black men are calling themselves BBC so why should i stop using the term.

Its lazy behaviour by all involved.

Some. The more ignorant ones in my opinion. I've given you reason. You want to ignore it, I have no control over that"

You don't have control over what others do except what you tolerate being said and done to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first."

So if black people use the N word is it OK for white people to start using it as well?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself!

Is 'scum' acceptable language? "

I can't see the word "scum" in the OP or thread above. Did I miss it?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first."

that's right

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"You were you made to feel that by?

Do you feel inferior to white people now? I'd be appalled if anyone felt inferior to me.

From the friends I have who are POC... It's as much about systemic racism.

Medically (for example) while womens pain is dismissed by doctors at a far higher rate than mens... Women of colour are dismissed at a much higher rate than caucasian women.

And the amount of people who won't try to learn how to pronounce someone's name correctly - imagine if someone continually mispronounced your name, or just decided they would call you something else entirely because it's easier...

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself!

Is 'scum' acceptable language?

I can't see the word "scum" in the OP or thread above. Did I miss it?"

People just like to go from one extreme to another really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first."

Are you 12?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont use BBC to describe myself, never did and never will"

I use it all the time, but it doesn't get me anywhere. What am I doing wrong?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is quite correct, the term BBC is racist. I have a list of potential candidates for my gangbangs and I've removed 3 of them from that list who have used that term on their profiles. My eyes have been opened, but my legs will remain closed to them. Thanks OP

Bess x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"You were you made to feel that by?

Do you feel inferior to white people now? I'd be appalled if anyone felt inferior to me.

From the friends I have who are POC... It's as much about systemic racism.

Medically (for example) while womens pain is dismissed by doctors at a far higher rate than mens... Women of colour are dismissed at a much higher rate than caucasian women.

You can just say black its better than saying woman of colour.please

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"You were you made to feel that by?

Do you feel inferior to white people now? I'd be appalled if anyone felt inferior to me.

From the friends I have who are POC... It's as much about systemic racism.

Medically (for example) while womens pain is dismissed by doctors at a far higher rate than mens... Women of colour are dismissed at a much higher rate than caucasian women.

Just to add . In reference to the above I have a Gaeilge bame (on my passport). People mispronounce it once, maybe twice but then funnily enough they are ok with it... Some of my Pakistani and Indian friends however... Years people call them the wrong name.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Ok hate acronyms in general.

OMG

From a sexual standpoint I mean lol

LOL

PMSL

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant will never be over OP.

People far better and of greater intelligence than us have been battling with this systemic disease.

Racism, etc. will continue to exist until we learn to accept each others as equals "human beings".

Looking beyond the colour of skin, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You were you made to feel that by?

Do you feel inferior to white people now? I'd be appalled if anyone felt inferior to me.

From the friends I have who are POC... It's as much about systemic racism.

Medically (for example) while womens pain is dismissed by doctors at a far higher rate than mens... Women of colour are dismissed at a much higher rate than caucasian women.

You can just say black its better than saying woman of colour.please "

She can but what's she talking about effects other ethnic minorities too. Not just black people.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first.

Are you 12?"

Clearly not, but you are picking a fight over an issue that has nothing to do with you or me.

They will use that term for themselves and if you don't like it, good luck calling a black guy a racist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rant will never be over OP.

People far better and of greater intelligence than us have been battling with this systemic disease.

Racism, etc. will continue to exist until we learn to accept each others as equals "human beings".

Looking beyond the colour of skin, etc."

I agree with you. I will keep ranting. Humans deserve to be treat like humans not objects.

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Rant will never be over OP.

People far better and of greater intelligence than us have been battling with this systemic disease.

Racism, etc. will continue to exist until we learn to accept each others as equals "human beings".

Looking beyond the colour of skin, etc.

I agree with you. I will keep ranting. Humans deserve to be treat like humans not objects.

I got called a god earlier, that’s good right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first.

Are you 12?

Clearly not, but you are picking a fight over an issue that has nothing to do with you or me.

They will use that term for themselves and if you don't like it, good luck calling a black guy a racist. "

Calling a black guy racist about himself. No but self loathing and desperate. I have many, many times. They use it because of how it gets them pussy. It irks me to see black men degrade themselves to get this. To say it has nothing to do with white people demonstrates your ignorance. Go an look at black history and how black ensl-ed (not allowed to type the actual word) men were treated by white women in plantations. Go and look at the history and foundations of this phrase. Do the research, then come and tell me it has nothing to do with white people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty of using BBC, BWC, etc. sometimes when I chat with folks, I cannot deny that. As they use it with me when in conversation.

If I've ever offended anyone then for that I sincerely apologise. You should all know I'm anything but racist and do not consider myself any different from anyone else na matter the colour of skin, sex, religion, etc.

I'm a human being trying to be a better person, which in truth isn't at all easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual."

Read further up. I explained. And yes, this issue needs to moaned about and attention given to it. And having some distant relative with a bit of ethnicity in them doesn't absolve someone from being racist.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual."

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

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By *c12Man
over a year ago

South East

Amen and hallelujah to boot

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual."

Claiming you have black ancestry yet you don't know your history

LOL

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo"

Yes, this minding kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"But many profiles on here advertise themselves as 'BBC available for your pleasure ' etc.

They'll even degrade themselves by calling themselves BBC. Another issue, linked to low self esteem and ego issues in black men.

Also consider, many black people will call each other the racist "n" word. White people cannot do it or throw it around. It's rude and it's racist. "

What's wrong with people labeling themselves what they want.

What give you the right to tell people they should stop doing what suits them?????

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Claiming you have black ancestry yet you don't know your history

LOL"

I clearly know more than you.... please see above post

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

Yes, this Mandingo kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

*Correction*

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

Yes, this minding kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

BBC is a modern abbreviation that stems from the Mandingo-type stereotype. Obviously, three letter abbreviations of that nature were not used in the 18/19th centuries. The OP points out that the origin of the "BBC" stereotype is s-l-a-v-e-r-y, which she is correct to say.

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

Yes, this minding kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

Nope it's an abreaviatton of the description....

Mandingo is not an abreaviatton but a given term to a black man with a large penis... Google it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

Yes, this minding kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

Nope it's an abreaviatton of the description....

Mandingo is not an abreaviatton but a given term to a black man with a large penis... Google it "

I'll leave you to research the origins of the stereotype of black men with big cocks (BBCs). It originates in the Mandingo stereotype, which further has it's origins in the word beginning with 's' that we can't type properly.

It's a racist trope.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I'll take your word on the etymology, what I'm saying is I don't use the phrase, if you are trying to "educate" people to stop using it, try directing this post at the people that use it the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The irony is that not all guys no matter what colour are all big. Some of them are simply delusional when they have said to me, "do u like BBC?".

I like all big "clean" fat juicy meaty throbbing cocks with plenty of stamina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism should offend everyone, surely?

You've switched to another argument. Haven't replied to the comments about saying the OP can't control her emotions. And you're white and deciding what racism is. Huh.

No, the hundreds of other black guys that use the term BBC kind of did that already.

If people are offended by something that other people aren't, we can't help that.

Want to stop people using the term BBC? Tell all the black guys to stop using it first.

Are you 12?

Clearly not, but you are picking a fight over an issue that has nothing to do with you or me.

They will use that term for themselves and if you don't like it, good luck calling a black guy a racist. "

I'm disagreeing with you. Your argument seemed quite childish, thus my comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll take your word on the etymology, what I'm saying is I don't use the phrase, if you are trying to "educate" people to stop using it, try directing this post at the people that use it the most."

It's on this platform that it's being used. Now if they don't happen to see it I have control over that. Same way I have no control over some of the ignorant things people come out with when it comes to racism. What I am not going to do is DM everyone with BBC in their profile. That would be insane. I have other things I could be doing lol.

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By *WC-SWMan
over a year ago

swindon

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

Yes, this minding kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

Nope it's an abreaviatton of the description....

Mandingo is not an abreaviatton but a given term to a black man with a large penis... Google it

It's a racist trope. "

So you agree, it's Mandingo that's associated with the triangle.

And your reference to BBC is the new slang for Mandingo right ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The irony is that not all guys no matter what colour are all big. Some of them are simply delusional when they have said to me, "do u like BBC?".

I like all big "clean" fat juicy meaty throbbing cocks with plenty of stamina.

Preach!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Rant will never be over OP.

People far better and of greater intelligence than us have been battling with this systemic disease.

Racism, etc. will continue to exist until we learn to accept each others as equals "human beings".

Looking beyond the colour of skin, etc."

Or when we accept that is a political and arbitrary divide.

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Race play/fetishism is very real & it's not something I'd partake in - the thought alone gives me the ick, however there are others who are super keen to do so...

Sometimes I think people use terms like BBC as they're not sure what other terminology to use. I think it's not only offensive, but also lazy & dehumanising to reduce a person to a label...

I try not to reduce anyone to a single label or attribute, but if I say "you're a dick" - it's not a compliment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rant will never be over OP.

People far better and of greater intelligence than us have been battling with this systemic disease.

Racism, etc. will continue to exist until we learn to accept each others as equals "human beings".

Looking beyond the colour of skin, etc.

Or when we accept that is a political and arbitrary divide."

It's just madness that we cannot simply ALL seem to get along. We're incapable, that much I understand (& we have the audacity to call ourselves an intelligent species in the animal kingdom).

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Look up the "Mandingo" stereotype.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_African_Americans#Mandingo

Yes, this minding kindly mentioned above is connected to the unfortunate triangle. However, not BBC!

Nope it's an abreaviatton of the description....

Mandingo is not an abreaviatton but a given term to a black man with a large penis... Google it

It's a racist trope.

So you agree, it's Mandingo that's associated with the triangle.

And your reference to BBC is the new slang for Mandingo right ?"

I've had men say to me "Well, I'm not Mandingo".

The name rang a bell but I had to ask what that meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a swinging site for sex. If you think the biggest fight against racism and all discrimination is stopping black guys calling themselves or being called BBC. You clearly have your priorities wrong.

Also shouting and telling people what to do and think only gets their backs up.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over! "

If someone men want to label themselves that way and accept other using it too then I do not see the issue here.

I'm not big on labels myself and wish people would just do their thing and enjoy but I'd say it's bound to happen that people want to describe something they like or want etc.

It's not a term I'd use but I rouldnt call snyone out got it if they were a reasonable and respectful person otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the more friendy interaction between different races can only be good in decreasing racism.

Even if they only want black guys for sex, I consider it better than say white only profiles, for breaking down race barriers.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm disagreeing with you. Your argument seemed quite childish, thus my comment. "

It's fine if we disagree, that's called "diversity" and having an "opinion".

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Also the more friendy interaction between different races can only be good in decreasing racism.

Even if they only want black guys for sex, I consider it better than say white only profiles, for breaking down race barriers. "

I think the point "some" people above are pointing out is the term is somehow derogatory and the race element is discriminatory.

Well, deliberately seeking someone out so you can have sex with them based on colour isn't discriminatory, it's objectification. That's a whole extra argument.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself!

Do you believe that man are declining meetings because a woman , man, ts , tv, etc ,have used the term you have mentioned?

I have.

Frank

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I rarely see this kinda thing from black men... Weird

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I didn't know about the connections to the trade triangle, but I do now thanks to the op. The amount of pushback on this thread only highlights the need to have things like this put out there so we can all learn and grow to be better human beings. No one can fully understand discrimination unless it happens to them, whether that be through race, sex, sexuality, religion, disability, etc., we can however be passionate about equality and listen and be educated by those who are do experience it. I would prefer for things like this to be pointed out to me instead of living in blissful ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also the more friendy interaction between different races can only be good in decreasing racism.

Even if they only want black guys for sex, I consider it better than say white only profiles, for breaking down race barriers.

I think the point "some" people above are pointing out is the term is somehow derogatory and the race element is discriminatory.

Well, deliberately seeking someone out so you can have sex with them based on colour isn't discriminatory, it's objectification. That's a whole extra argument."

I agree with that point. As a person of mixed race, I have had letters from guys who seem objectify my colour.

I block these people because I want to meet someone who is attracted to me for more than that.

But if both parties find it acceptable, I think overall it is better to have non confrontational interaction between groups of different people than none attracted all. Only then can we start seeing the other attractive characteristics of people different from us only by skin colour.

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By *liver ThomasMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Yet you continue to perpetuate it with this post. Why specify color, creed or race. Open ones eyes and see the greater picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is this connected to the trade triangle, I am actually intrigued where you have got this information from ?

Is it the abbreviation element, of the description of a colour and a large cock that offends you?

For example:

BWC = Big white cock

BBC = Big Black Cock

I don't see how this is being racist when it's basically an abrevitaion of a descriptive !

OP, before you call me a racist, My great grandfather was from Jamaica now deceased. I think it's another thing to moan about or some sort of attention seeking.

I am happy for you to educate me on why this is directly from the trade triangle, of course it has to be factual.

Claiming you have black ancestry yet you don't know your history

LOL

I clearly know more than you.... please see above post"

Sure Jan

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself!

Do you believe that man are declining meetings because a woman , man, ts , tv, etc ,have used the term you have mentioned?

I have.

Frank"

Hopefully others they will follow your as an exemple and soon this all comes to an end with a happy outcome to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

Rant over!

Why so much drama ? All lifes matter no matter what. Op are you clean hands when comes to accept everyone without being judgemental?

What has accepting everyone got to do with my original post? Has the issue of race got you so uncomfortable you need to change the subject? I don't need to "accept" everyone nor does anyone else.

It comes down to keeping racist and discriminatory language and behaviour to oneself!

Is 'scum' acceptable language?

I can't see the word "scum" in the OP or thread above. Did I miss it?

People just like to go from one extreme to another really

Ffs

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Do many of you realise that the term BBC has roots in the trade triangle.

The racism in the scene really does need to stop. Black men are not your objects. They are not just black cocks.

Have a preference for whoever you like. It's called preference for a reason. Find whoever you want attractive, but LEAVE THE RACISM OUT OF IT!!!!

STOP!

BLACK PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!

WE ARE NOT YOUR OBJECTS! YOUR WHITE FOREFATHERS LIED TO YOU. WE DO NOT BELONG TO WHITE PEOPLE!

FFS, get a chip on the other shoulder luv, you’ll become well balanced

Rant over! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that went well!

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"It must be very disheartening for black guys who don’t have a big cock, with all these stereotypical expectations?"

LBC

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"It must be very disheartening for black guys who don’t have a big cock, with all these stereotypical expectations?"

LBC

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Well that went well! "

Hahaha was thinking the same thing. Lady comes on. Shouts. Loads of people get irate at each other. Lady gets out of dodge. Folk still fall out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"You were you made to feel that by?

Do you feel inferior to white people now? I'd be appalled if anyone felt inferior to me.

From the friends I have who are POC... It's as much about systemic racism.

Medically (for example) while womens pain is dismissed by doctors at a far higher rate than mens... Women of colour are dismissed at a much higher rate than caucasian women.

You can just say black its better than saying woman of colour.please

She can but what's she talking about effects other ethnic minorities too. Not just black people."

Thank you UNLOS OP...

I was referring to people of varying ethnicities... Given where I live I have more friends who are of South Asian heritage, so women/people of colour is more appropriate when I'm talking about friends as I have a much smaller number of friends from other ethnic minority groups...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm disagreeing with you. Your argument seemed quite childish, thus my comment.

It's fine if we disagree, that's called "diversity" and having an "opinion".

Oh? You said I was picking a fight.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice

My two experiences is just as bad as someone's one experience or another's plenty of it.

It shouldn't happen to anyone full stop

So why were you so dismissive of it in your original comment?"

Please read my original comment well and you would see what I have dismissed.

I wouldn't applaud my race for racist remarks in their attempts to stop other races being racist towards black people

It's hideous to say black people don't belong to white forefathers, I've never heard a white person say we do.

I also don't agree with punishing all white people or any other race, if a person or group of people are or have been racist the whole of that race is not responsible.

It is the offending individuals

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"I rarely see this kinda thing from black men... Weird"

Women are commonly known to speak more, we were called the gossipers to begin with after all

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Only a few more comments and we can fill up this topic. Never to return.

Until the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely see this kinda thing from black men... Weird"

Lots of black men have commented on the numerous threads, including this one, around the term BBC and explaining that they don't like the term and they don't like being referred to by it

But they usually get ignored, just as you have ignored them, so they don't bother after a while

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"It must be very disheartening for black guys who don’t have a big cock, with all these stereotypical expectations?

LBC

I've had black men tell me they don't have a huge cock. Probably because they feel they are expected to be big.

That sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely see this kinda thing from black men... Weird

Lots of black men have commented on the numerous threads, including this one, around the term BBC and explaining that they don't like the term and they don't like being referred to by it

But they usually get ignored, just as you have ignored them, so they don't bother after a while "

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Blimey, this went as well as one could have expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice

My two experiences is just as bad as someone's one experience or another's plenty of it.

It shouldn't happen to anyone full stop

So why were you so dismissive of it in your original comment?

Please read my original comment well and you would see what I have dismissed.

I wouldn't applaud my race for racist remarks in their attempts to stop other races being racist towards black people

It's hideous to say black people don't belong to white forefathers, I've never heard a white person say we do.

I also don't agree with punishing all white people or any other race, if a person or group of people are or have been racist the whole of that race is not responsible.

It is the offending individuals "

The irony of this whole thread is that the most racist statement on here was made by the OP in their very first post.

Bess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that went well!

Hahaha was thinking the same thing. Lady comes on. Shouts. Loads of people get irate at each other. Lady gets out of dodge. Folk still fall out."

They usually leave before they get banned for behaviour/wording used.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Well that went well!

Hahaha was thinking the same thing. Lady comes on. Shouts. Loads of people get irate at each other. Lady gets out of dodge. Folk still fall out.

They usually leave before they get banned for behaviour/wording used. "

Ah the FAB police. Whoop whoop. Surprised they actually let race issues fly on forums to begin with tbh.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Nooooooo the opinionated hottie went UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nooooooo the opinionated hottie went UNLOS

You'll only have to wait 2 weeks

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Nooooooo the opinionated hottie went UNLOS

You'll only have to wait 2 weeks"

Woo!!!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice

My two experiences is just as bad as someone's one experience or another's plenty of it.

It shouldn't happen to anyone full stop

So why were you so dismissive of it in your original comment?

Please read my original comment well and you would see what I have dismissed.

I wouldn't applaud my race for racist remarks in their attempts to stop other races being racist towards black people

It's hideous to say black people don't belong to white forefathers, I've never heard a white person say we do.

I also don't agree with punishing all white people or any other race, if a person or group of people are or have been racist the whole of that race is not responsible.

It is the offending individuals

The irony of this whole thread is that the most racist statement on here was made by the OP in their very first post.

Bess x"

I found ironic is that racism to many is only about one color when in reality is not the case , in this precise moment there's people from one color to another experiencing racism of some sort, but the OP still living in the past bringing it to the present what is just for itself an act of not moving forwards. I won't be surprised if one of these days someone will remember to sue BBC (British Broadcasting Corporation) because the terminology may remember something completely different

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I was with you up until the white forefathers sentence OP

That's not nice to dish out and tell our black brother's stop labelling themselves as a BBC

I see it everyday

It is not direct lie told by parents to children. Many white people have learned that they are superior because of how they were raised.

And yes black men. If you call yourself BBC you are helping this along. Stop!

My parents never told me this in fact my mum use to tell me, I don't want to hear you say "I didn't get the job because I am black. Your name walks through the door first then you being black"

You’ve experienced racism twice? Where do you live?

I’ve experienced it hundreds of times, more than I could count. And in some very extreme ways too (to the extent to having police involvement).

So I wouldn’t be so quick to dismiss a problem just because it hasn’t happened to you.

Agreed

I've experienced racism ALOT

I wish I could post that I've only experienced it twice

My two experiences is just as bad as someone's one experience or another's plenty of it.

It shouldn't happen to anyone full stop

So why were you so dismissive of it in your original comment?

Please read my original comment well and you would see what I have dismissed.

I wouldn't applaud my race for racist remarks in their attempts to stop other races being racist towards black people

It's hideous to say black people don't belong to white forefathers, I've never heard a white person say we do.

I also don't agree with punishing all white people or any other race, if a person or group of people are or have been racist the whole of that race is not responsible.

It is the offending individuals

The irony of this whole thread is that the most racist statement on here was made by the OP in their very first post.

Bess x"

Exactly

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Only a few more comments and we can fill up this topic. Never to return.

Until the next time."

it needs to close up

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Only a few more comments and we can fill up this topic. Never to return.

Until the next time.

it needs to close up"

OP lobs a grenade in the forum, starts a race war, then fucks off.

Sounds about right.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Only a few more comments and we can fill up this topic. Never to return.

Until the next time.

it needs to close up"

I can do that

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Soon doors will be closed

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Last call

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Well that went well!

Hahaha was thinking the same thing. Lady comes on. Shouts. Loads of people get irate at each other. Lady gets out of dodge. Folk still fall out.

They usually leave before they get banned for behaviour/wording used.

Ah the FAB police. Whoop whoop. Surprised they actually let race issues fly on forums to begin with tbh."

If they censure race issues, what other issues should Fab be censuring? I wouldn't say the forums allow total freedom of speech, because they don't, but don't we hit dangerous territory when certain topics are prohibited completely?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good night

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