FabSwingers.com forum: Are there any gay/lesbian women here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate there are a lot of bi/bicurious women here looking for a third but I wanted to know if there are any women who are only interested in women without there being any men involved at all.

I was part of the scene all through my 30s and I was what you would call a unicorn, I certainly was a lot of women’s first. Had a lot of fun in the clubs and parties but they all always seem to include a man.

I took a step back from the scene 3 years ago, deleted my old account and came to the realisation that I’m not bi after all, I am just gay.

So I wanted to know, are there women on here who only meet women ? Are there lesbians/gay women/bisexual women who would like to meet women only with no involvement of men ?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am bisexual rather than gay but have been looking for a girl friend to spend time with and have amazing sexy times.

I just sounded like a bloke haha x

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Would love this but like you I find it always seems to involve a penis somewhere

I’ve been keeping an eye out for women only events but the ones I’ve seen are on the opposite side of the country so I never managed to attend unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I am bisexual rather than gay but have been looking for a girl friend to spend time with and have amazing sexy times.

I just sounded like a bloke haha x

Haha! I’m the same - a (extremely happily married) bisexual female looking for another girl for some fun

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm bi, but when I meet I'm just as open to meeting women one on one as I am any other scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am bisexual rather than gay but have been looking for a girl friend to spend time with and have amazing sexy times.

I just sounded like a bloke haha x

Bisexuals are always hot… I don’t make the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi but prefer ladies by far but barely any around it seems

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am bisexual rather than gay but have been looking for a girl friend to spend time with and have amazing sexy times.

I just sounded like a bloke haha x

Haha! I’m the same - a (extremely happily married) bisexual female looking for another girl for some fun

Now how does it work around here as when I was here before it would be a bombardment of men in dms along with couples but if if like myself I’m only looking for women does that then mean it’s time for me to slide into other women’s dms *a drop of sweat falls from my forehead*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bi but prefer ladies by far but barely any around it seems

That’s what I’ve noticed hence I thought I’d ask the question as I really don’t struggle getting women in the vanilla world but finding them there comes with complications I just don’t want or need. Hence I’m back here after 3 years hiatus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm bi, but when I meet I'm just as open to meeting women one on one as I am any other scenario."

So would you think if I started dms with women who are bi as I gather most women on here that are interested in women are bi as I haven’t noticed any lesbians they would mind getting a message

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm bi, but when I meet I'm just as open to meeting women one on one as I am any other scenario.

So would you think if I started dms with women who are bi as I gather most women on here that are interested in women are bi as I haven’t noticed any lesbians they would mind getting a message "

No, I can't imagine they'd mind. Some might want to involve men (they don't read profiles - I read yours), but for most it's pretty rare to get a first message from a woman.

(I think there's a Fab bi phenomenon to an extent, with women. People here talk about 'Fab straight' - that is, men who say they're straight on their profiles but are not. I get the impression that some women on Fab are 'Fab bi' - that is, they'll play with women but it's more bi-playful or for show. It's something to be wary of. Not that you need to take my word for it, but I consider myself bi bi, not Fab bi)

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Speaking as a the male half of a couple with a bi female.

I'm happy for her to meet women alone as I am for her to meet men alone.

I'm sure that there's other couples who are similar.

We are both of the opinion that as long as she's safe,has a great time and comes back with all the details the gender of her playmate is unimportant.

Just to add she chooses who and when I don't try to control that.

Im here for the great sex when she gets home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm bi, but when I meet I'm just as open to meeting women one on one as I am any other scenario.

So would you think if I started dms with women who are bi as I gather most women on here that are interested in women are bi as I haven’t noticed any lesbians they would mind getting a message

No, I can't imagine they'd mind. Some might want to involve men (they don't read profiles - I read yours), but for most it's pretty rare to get a first message from a woman.

Yeah I experienced a lot of this when I was on fab before, clubs parties and meets, a lot of women where prepared to play with other women so long as the men could watch or be involved. That was fine back then as I didn’t mind but since realising I’m only into women I know that’s not something I would want anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speaking as a the male half of a couple with a bi female.

I'm happy for her to meet women alone as I am for her to meet men alone.

I'm sure that there's other couples who are similar.

We are both of the opinion that as long as she's safe,has a great time and comes back with all the details the gender of her playmate is unimportant.

Just to add she chooses who and when I don't try to control that.

Im here for the great sex when she gets home."

See that I would be fine with, I don’t care if they are in relationships with men, just keep him at home lol

Guess only way for me to find out is to slide into their dms and see what happens.

I’m not new to the scene in the slightest but I am new to sliding into other peoples dms .. wish me luck lol

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm bi but looking for strictly FF with no male involvement. Finding it impossible to find a women with shared interests.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You sometimes see women in the forum who discuss their women-only interests but they aren't as prolific as those who are open to men also. I think it will be a matter of searching for users and then messaging.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Any lady would be welcome to chat up Hannah. I have no need to be involved. Luke

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Speaking as a the male half of a couple with a bi female.

I'm happy for her to meet women alone as I am for her to meet men alone.

I'm sure that there's other couples who are similar.

We are both of the opinion that as long as she's safe,has a great time and comes back with all the details the gender of her playmate is unimportant.

Just to add she chooses who and when I don't try to control that.

Im here for the great sex when she gets home.

See that I would be fine with, I don’t care if they are in relationships with men, just keep him at home lol

Guess only way for me to find out is to slide into their dms and see what happens.

I’m not new to the scene in the slightest but I am new to sliding into other peoples dms .. wish me luck lol

You’re welcome to slide my way any time you like…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speaking as a the male half of a couple with a bi female.

I'm happy for her to meet women alone as I am for her to meet men alone.

I'm sure that there's other couples who are similar.

We are both of the opinion that as long as she's safe,has a great time and comes back with all the details the gender of her playmate is unimportant.

Just to add she chooses who and when I don't try to control that.

Im here for the great sex when she gets home.

See that I would be fine with, I don’t care if they are in relationships with men, just keep him at home lol

Guess only way for me to find out is to slide into their dms and see what happens.

I’m not new to the scene in the slightest but I am new to sliding into other peoples dms .. wish me luck lol

You’re welcome to slide my way any time you like…

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Female and gay myself, but probably still a bit too male for you (for now anyways….)

But can totally agree with what you’re saying, finding WLW on here is hard work!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think there's quite a few miserable ones

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By *oxAndMoffatCouple
over a year ago

Bury

We're a couples profile but I (Roxy) am much more into women than men and would happily meet women alone without my other half (no he doesn't need to watch!) I'm actually going to an all female event at a swingers club later this month.

I've seen a few couple profiles with a similar viewpoint. Suppose it depends how you feel about playing with someone involved in a couple with a guy even if they're not involved in your meet

Speaking selfishly, maybe keep yourself open to the people down as bisexual

Some of us do want to meet females alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not gay but sometimes I am on a random sunny afternoon.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would say it can be difficult with the surprising still limited choices on here. I have had several experiences with women - with men around. That doesn't necessarily mean I would specifically want a man around all the time but because I haven't had 1-1 I don't feel I could mark myself as bisexual incase it was misleading that I had experience in it. If that ramble makes any sense in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're a couples profile but I (Roxy) am much more into women than men and would happily meet women alone without my other half (no he doesn't need to watch!) I'm actually going to an all female event at a swingers club later this month.

I've seen a few couple profiles with a similar viewpoint. Suppose it depends how you feel about playing with someone involved in a couple with a guy even if they're not involved in your meet

Speaking selfishly, maybe keep yourself open to the people down as bisexual

Some of us do want to meet females alone! "

I have no qualms about bisexual women in relationships on here with men so long as they are both happy that the boyfriend or husband stays at home while we have our fun.

I was openly bi throughout my 30s and was on here all throughout, had plenty of fun. This time though I only want to meet women, what their sexuality is I don’t mind so long as it includes a sexual attraction towards me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am not gay but sometimes I am on a random sunny afternoon."

*Opens up all Sundays for availability

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would say it can be difficult with the surprising still limited choices on here. I have had several experiences with women - with men around. That doesn't necessarily mean I would specifically want a man around all the time but because I haven't had 1-1 I don't feel I could mark myself as bisexual incase it was misleading that I had experience in it. If that ramble makes any sense in the slightest

Given that I’ve been so many women’s first in the past through the scene I don’t think that would be a problem. Just so long as the guy is happy for me to play alone 1:1 with their women and the guy stays at home.

I want to devote my attention to her without her worrying about wether it’s hot for the guy, his imagination can be the driving force for it when she comes home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there's quite a few miserable ones"

I’ll be sure to stay clear of the misserlable ones… unless giving them an orgasm changes that frown upside down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Female and gay myself, but probably still a bit too male for you (for now anyways….)

But can totally agree with what you’re saying, finding WLW on here is hard work!"

Looks like the bisexual women are the way to go for us here my lovely

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Female and gay myself, but probably still a bit too male for you (for now anyways….)

But can totally agree with what you’re saying, finding WLW on here is hard work!

Looks like the bisexual women are the way to go for us here my lovely "

Unfortunately most of the bisexual ladies are coupled, and won’t play without the men being involved too! Still, life goes on…..

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I am bisexual rather than gay but have been looking for a girl friend to spend time with and have amazing sexy times.

I just sounded like a bloke haha x

NSA sexy time ladies, who's in?! Waheyyy

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Very interested in women, really life single and bi. Have found for me the best way to meet other women is in clubs

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Nothing has really changed there are a few of us. It is a common theme.

Bluntly guys of couples still want their FFM fantasy, partners want to please them by doing FF for them.

Many women like the idea but, like guys will bail.

Nothing really changes unfortunately

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