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"I'm definitely lucky to have made and meet some friends on here.. having so much things in common and similar sense of humour definitely helps lol" Same, there are normal friends for chat about normal things then there are fab friends you can in a way be more open with | |||
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"I found a friend on her, we used to play but she's in a relationship now however we still chat often and catch up often over coffee about family, friends, work and life in general" Would she do the same? If you had met someone. | |||
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"I’ve found two amazing friends on here who I talk to on the daily definitely didn’t come here for friendship but some people are just so fucking delightful you can’t help adding them to your collection " Oh that's adorable! I think you can find your people anywhere - even on a "sex site". Those you add to your collection are the best. | |||
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"I’ve found two amazing friends on here who I talk to on the daily definitely didn’t come here for friendship but some people are just so fucking delightful you can’t help adding them to your collection " We have this too. The first time thing they saiid, we knew they were our kind of people and that we’d be friends regardless of whether we played…and apart from a kiss or three, we still haven’t played. But we have a friendship far more important to us than we’d ever expected to find in the lifestyle | |||
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"Yes I have met some lovely people on here. Some are friends and my life has been greatly enhanced as a result. I like the quotation " to have a friend you have to be a friend " and try to live by that. " Oh that's a lovely quote! Thank you for sharing it. | |||
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"I’ve made great friendships on here. I value people that love me for me, that make me feel valid, that love me for talking on the things that are important and that most of all are patient with me. " I think this sums up friendships on fab. I think the neediness of so many makes it unrealistic that ‘real’ friendships form , it’s just people needing stuff - sex , attention, validation etc. I prefer friendships that challenge and hold me to account and force he to sacrifice something of myself & I deep down know they will be there forever , not just while it suits. 1 or 2 in 10 years here | |||
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"Yes I have met some lovely people on here. Some are friends and my life has been greatly enhanced as a result. I like the quotation " to have a friend you have to be a friend " and try to live by that. Oh that's a lovely quote! Thank you for sharing it. " Do friends squish their boobs in other friends faces?? Because Meli - I definitely want to be your friend!! | |||
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"Yesterday I was thinking about friendship, specifically on/from here. Have you found friends on here? What's important to you in a friendship? Is it something you avoid or embrace on here? " Friendship is always a good thing no matter where you find it | |||
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"Yes. Fair few. Some from years back and some more recent. They've been great support of late even though I've never physically met a couple of them, but the fact I can pick up the phone to someone I've only really interacted with on here or Facey with much over the last few years and talk as if it was only last week that we had a beer is awesome. Not everyone you encounter on here is just someone you want to get naked with. There are some really good people on Fab. A *some twunts too of course, but....." Yeah, let's gloss over the twunts part. :D I don't think you have to have met someone to make their friendship more valid or real - it can exist without physical contact. Or daily. People really can be wonderful in terms of support can't they? I've struggled in the past with opening up to people fully, in part because I dislike the vulnerability that comes with it, in part because you don't know if they're open to it. Lately though? I don't know. It's really nice to be seen for all of me. I have a close friend who I sort of brushed off when he asked how I was really doing. And then a few minutes later I could speak honestly with him. So I did. It meant a lot to me. People aren't bad, not really. And when you let them in? You find your little village. | |||
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"Yesterday I was thinking about friendship, specifically on/from here. Have you found friends on here? What's important to you in a friendship? Is it something you avoid or embrace on here? " Yes definitely and also no. Let me explain! I have met many people who became close friends, some who were my freinds and some who wanted only to be aquantences. I used to be part of a KIK group where we did loads of vanilla things as well and fab things. Organise birthday meals, go to the theatre. Professional photos etc. Some were even content enough to befriend each other on a certain blue and white social networking site and had each other private numbers. Alas the group no longer really talk to each other anymore over 1/2 group have left the scene. And 1 member who's still on fab has made it subtly clear she no longer wants to associate with the group. So as not to give too much away. I not against freinships from fab, and it's not something I would avoid. You have a mutal interest (or two). But there are people who are sceptical and want only the sex to spice up their marriage etc. friendships need working on like any relationship and some are better at it than other ls just like vannila life. | |||
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"You’ve got a friend in me" | |||
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"That depends! Every person sort of defines "friend" different. What somebody values as a friend may be considered as insulting and offensive to somebody else. I don't really have many friends away from fab anymore. Again not in the same way others have friends. On top of thst I am extremely picky and selective in whom I let close to me. When it comes to fab, there are people I value their interaction. I chat to away from here. I enjoy chatting with them, they make me laugh, I talk to them about stuff I would not talk about to just anyone on fab. They are in the area of being friends under the circumstances." Yes, that's true. It's very much an individual term. I sometimes try and differentiate by using the term hibye friends - you know the sort you'd say 'oh yes, let's definitely do coffee soon' to when you see them randomly? Yep. I think good friendships transcend Fab. The sort of people you can see leaving an imprint on you, even long after conversation has stopped. Ideally it wouldn't but life happens. Those people you can talk to about a myriad of topics are to be treasured. Not put on a pedestal though.:D | |||
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"There are people I'm friendly with, but don't really consider them friends. I'm not here for that " Ah that's fair enough! It's good to get different viewpoints. I know a few people who keep things very much like that - friendly but on Fab for sex. | |||
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"There are people I'm friendly with, but don't really consider them friends. I'm not here for that " I’d lean towards this. There are people I look forward to seeing but not necessarily people I would call in a time if need or destress. There are also people I look out for if I spot or feel like they’re having a rough time but like Nanna said, more than acquaintances, less than friends….. so maybe ‘mates’ | |||
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"Yesterday I was thinking about friendship, specifically on/from here. Have you found friends on here? What's important to you in a friendship? Is it something you avoid or embrace on here? " I didn't mind it but on the whole I'd avoid it as I'm fairly cautious about my personal life. I've definitely reached out less though, largely due to health. | |||
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"There are people I'm friendly with, but don't really consider them friends. I'm not here for that Ah that's fair enough! It's good to get different viewpoints. I know a few people who keep things very much like that - friendly but on Fab for sex." I've always thought of swinging as making friends with sexually like minded people and if sex occurs then even better but i know thats likely not how others see swinging and more as NSA sex a bit like tinder. | |||
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"Have met a couple on here that I know I could mail if I needed a chat The only real life friends on here are those I knew before the site Scary to say but I would not be alive if it wasn't for friends" It's good to know that you made friends on here that were there to help you through tough times | |||
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