FabSwingers.com forum: Does age matter??

By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no

Ie yes on hear in real life no

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes and no

Ie yes on hear in real life no

Why only on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

You tell us

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?"

Good point that but I mean as more would you ever be interested in someone younger/older than you by years. I don't mean literally all ages

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

This is true

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"You tell us "

Personally I don't think it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and no

Ie yes on hear in real life no

Why only on here?"

Because I can see they age on here

In real life in a club or sanua I am not going to ask someone they age

So it’s completely unknown in real life

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes and no

Ie yes on hear in real life no

Why only on here?

Because I can see they age on here

In real life in a club or sanua I am not going to ask someone they age

So it’s completely unknown in real life

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

This is true"

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

This is true

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I do agree there as on mine im open minded to ages but yeah 99 year old isn't exactly realistic

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"You tell us

Personally I don't think it does "

Within legal limits it's down to personal choice isn't it .. hopefully you got your information needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?

Good point that but I mean as more would you ever be interested in someone younger/older than you by years. I don't mean literally all ages "

Well no, I wouldn’t shag an 18 year old or a 99 year old

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"You tell us

Personally I don't think it does

Within legal limits it's down to personal choice isn't it .. hopefully you got your information needed "

Very true indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes it does."

Respect that

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

Your age range is very very narrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age matters on here since turning 50 not a sausage on here . But never give up they say

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes it matters to me. Both on here and in life outside of here as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

Your age range is very very narrow

Correct.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes it matters to me. Both on here and in life outside of here as well. "

Understandable

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think it does to some people. Me personally? Not as much any more. Before I thought I was exclusively attracted to men who are considerably older than me. The past few months I've realised that's not true.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"I think it does to some people. Me personally? Not as much any more. Before I thought I was exclusively attracted to men who are considerably older than me. The past few months I've realised that's not true.

Opinion on younger guys?

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By *JizzyRascal-Man
over a year ago

stevenston

It matters to a lot of people. Could do with some context but sure, yeah, age matters.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Opinion on younger guys?"

Erm... never been with a man younger than me. So my opinions are... I don't know. :D

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Opinion on younger guys?

Erm... never been with a man younger than me. So my opinions are... I don't know. :D"

I respect that one haha maybe a test is needed? Haha

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it. "

To be fair bro I think your basically asking if older women would be attracted to younger men your age

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Yes definitely.

In the fab world I'm looking for people who fit in with my current kinks and interests. Is an 80 year old going to do that? No. Is a 18 year old going to do that? No.

In reality it matters too. As someone who's in a marriage with a significant age difference I think I have good insight. When we first met neither of us thought it was a thing, but as we've got older it definitely is. We work round it and it's fine but to say it's not 'a thing' wouldn't be true.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes definitely.

In the fab world I'm looking for people who fit in with my current kinks and interests. Is an 80 year old going to do that? No. Is a 18 year old going to do that? No.

Well thats nice to hear! Glad you both have developed together.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

I am aiming for the 99 club, only 16 more years to go

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

To me? Not much. Depends on what for? I'll gladly chat to anyone that isn't in the age bracket I'd get jiggy with but I'm sure everyone actually has limits on who they'd meet for sex.

To others? It can be cast in stone and unwavering.

Age can be a barrier at times but less relevant at others. Never been asked once my age in a club, where social skills, conversation and looks always seem more important.

Also helps most are relatively dark of course.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say so

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"If course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.

Mrs "

Understandable

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"To me? Not much. Depends on what for? I'll gladly chat to anyone that isn't in the age bracket I'd get jiggy with but I'm sure everyone actually has limits on who they'd meet for sex.

To others? It can be cast in stone and unwavering.

Age can be a barrier at times but less relevant at others. Never been asked once my age in a club, where social skills, conversation and looks always seem more important.

Also helps most are relatively dark of course.......

Haha definitely get that one

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

This.

At least we know that the ones who take it seriously aren't for us

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

No depends on the person.. some older people are incredibly fit and some younger decrepit lol..

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Yes age does matter, but also it can be quite frustrating, especially when you come across someone you like and you are just outside the age range. For example theres not much difference between someone who's 49 to someone who's 50, but I understand that, otherwise where would you set your limit. Frustrating but hey that's Life

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"No depends on the person.. some older people are incredibly fit and some younger decrepit lol..

Lol definitely seen that around

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

"No depends on the person.. some older people are incredibly fit and some younger decrepit lol..

Lol definitely seen that around"

I'm the decrepit one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to me so much no

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"No depends on the person.. some older people are incredibly fit and some younger decrepit lol..

Lol definitely seen that around

I'm the decrepit one

Tell me about it! I'm one too lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's the first thing I look for on any profile.

I don't subscribe to the "age is just a number" mantra because it's not. It's a fact of life.

I exclude everyone below the age of 41 regardless of how hot or mature they or others may think they are because I don't meet anyone within 10 years of my kids age.

It's not negotiable and if that is classed as ageism I'm good with that.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It's the first thing I look for on any profile.

I don't subscribe to the "age is just a number" mantra because it's not. It's a fact of life.

I exclude everyone below the age of 41 regardless of how hot or mature they or others may think they are because I don't meet anyone within 10 years of my kids age.

It's not negotiable and if that is classed as ageism I'm good with that."

Respect that one

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it. "

Depends on the subject and friends how you physically and mentally age

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"If course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.

Mrs "

Exactly this. In a club setting we are less likely to ask age so it would come down to looks a bit more but if someone reminds me of my parents or seems really immature it's a no from me.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"If course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.

Mrs

Exactly this. In a club setting we are less likely to ask age so it would come down to looks a bit more but if someone reminds me of my parents or seems really immature it's a no from me. "

Can definitely agree with that. Makes sense

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it.

Depends on the subject and friends how you physically and mentally age"

Indeed

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Of course it does, I don't want to fuck anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parents.

Mrs "

This

Mrs J

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes for us..wife has an old man kink. Lol

Stag

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?"

Do you get a flake with it?

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes for us..wife has an old man kink. Lol

Stag"

Fair haha

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?

Do you get a flake with it? "

Ooooo good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a strong dislike of those who lie about there age on fab. I understand why.

I think we all judge once we know someone's age. I do, I find it difficult when 18-25 yr olds message as I wonder if they had enough normal/natural life/sex experience.

Since being on fab I have very much enjoyed playing with older men & I may even have a bit of a kink towards older guys - 65+.

Ultimately I've learnt for me it's all about the person and how you get on with each other.

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By *apriciousMinxWoman
over a year ago

Not near you

Yes it matters to some, me included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are often say to others "we are outside your age limits" and they reply, "yes but it does not matter".

Why put it if it does not matter?

When you meet someone there is either an attraction or not. Age does not come into that.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Well I don't want to feel like someone's mum, or someone's daughter ...so it kinda matters sorry, not sorry

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yes. I'm getting on a bit and my body isn't what it was, so many people won't want to have crap sex with me.

I prefer younger men because one of us has to be strong and flexible.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Well I don't want to feel like someone's mum, or someone's daughter ...so it kinda matters sorry, not sorry

I've never felt like anyone's mum.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"I have a strong dislike of those who lie about there age on fab. I understand why.

I think we all judge once we know someone's age. I do, I find it difficult when 18-25 yr olds message as I wonder if they had enough normal/natural life/sex experience.

Since being on fab I have very much enjoyed playing with older men & I may even have a bit of a kink towards older guys - 65+.

Ultimately I've learnt for me it's all about the person and how you get on with each other.

Glad you have found what you like

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

To some extend it does

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Yes. I'm getting on a bit and my body isn't what it was, so many people won't want to have crap sex with me.

I prefer younger men because one of us has to be strong and flexible."

Do you have a lower limit?

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

As a look Yes. As a number No.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It's a level of maturity for me rather than an age in numbers, I've spoken to 25 year old with their heads screwed on and 55 year old who can't hold a decent conversation. Very much about the individual and connection for me."

Agree completely need that connection too

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"As a look Yes. As a number No."

Whats your opinion for looks? Any age limits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve spoken to plenty of older people that can’t string a sentence together or behave like a responsible adult and it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely matters to me yes

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I thought it mattered but I no longer feel this way somewhat. On Fab I've found more maturity, sensibilities and wisdom in some people who are much younger than me than those who are much older.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I found it quite amusing when a woman was asking for a Jason statham look alike. Her age range was 18-40 while he’s in his 50s.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

It matters to me for my own reasons.

noticed quite a few profiles whose age range is significantly younger than their own.

I don't understand the drama personally, if people's age range excludes you on here, it's a clear sign you are not what they are seeking. Plenty of profiles that would interact with you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes age matters in some situations.

Socially it doesn't matter at all but I want a GP who has enough years under their belt to have completed medical school and the appropriate further training. Nobody would be able to suspend their disbelief long enough to see Helen Mirren play Juliet and I want a firefighter who has the physical strength and agility to rescue me from a burning building.

Sexually some people find personality and attitude is what they seek so age is irrelevant others look for different things which might include a certain age group so it matters very much to them.

If you're concerned that your age is preventing you getting meets or you want to meet older people and their age range excluded you, you have one advantage...you will eventually be older

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes it can do. I tend to have more in common with men my age but then you face various age related meducal issues. I find age much more relevant than any other single statistic eg height. I can understand people turned off by the idea of fucking someone young enough to be their child or old enough to be their parent.

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"It matters to me for my own reasons.

noticed quite a few profiles whose age range is significantly younger than their own.

I don't understand the drama personally, if people's age range excludes you on here, it's a clear sign you are not what they are seeking. Plenty of profiles that would interact with you. "

Definitely agree there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can touch their toes, age is irrelevant

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Well the ranges on here is between 18 and 99, so unless people here are telling me they are willing to have sex with 99 year olds then age does matter

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I’ve spoken to plenty of older people that can’t string a sentence together or behave like a responsible adult and it is

fr"

I'm doing my best here! I just don't have much to work with ok.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I thought it mattered but I no longer feel this way somewhat. On Fab I've found more maturity, sensibilities and wisdom in some people who are much younger than me than those who are much older."

It's because I haven't been to the Churchill Suite isn't it

PS my phone's predictive text now shows 'Churchill Suite'

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Well the ranges on here is between 18 and 99, so unless people here are telling me they are willing to have sex with 99 year olds then age does matter"

Yeah that always makes me smile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Yes and no

Ie yes on hear in real life no

Why only on here?"
because youre required to put a number in life they just accept you for who you are

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It matters to me a lot that’s why I set my age preference’s realistically rather than 18-99. But Its a guide of what I generally prefer not a hard limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You go to a club they fancy you or they don't simple as they don't come up to you and say hi how old are you and when you say 51, oh you're one year over my age limit sorry nice cock though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If age really doesn't matter why do people refer to older men and women as 'still' being active or looking and behaving younger than they are. I think to most age matters very much and many people actually want the wisdom and experience of age in a body that appears younger. "

If that’s what they wanted then I’d be in high demand

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Of course it does. Obviously in person that can be cent a little because you're less likely to outright ask a person's age, but online it's plastered for all to see

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really since dependent on individuals as I've learned to have some wonderful experiences from age group ranging from 21 - 74.

Although have to admit it would worry me if I had sex with any older than 74 for the fear of having to call an ambulance.

Have learned to never judge a book by its cover since some elderly guys have big dicks and can fuck much better than some youngsters.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If that’s what they wanted then I’d be in high demand

But you *are* younger. From what I see you're very much in demand too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that’s what they wanted then I’d be in high demand

But you *are* younger. From what I see you're very much in demand too"

Yeah I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends. For sex and a bit of chat, I love meeting with women older than myself but I don't think I'd consider a serious long term relationship as we're too far apart on life experiences and might different expectations.

One of the things clicked for me was older women not meeting with younger men because they have kids my age. I always though that separation could be made between sex and their personal life but it's something that surprised me when I first heard it but made a lot of sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?"

I have seen women in there 70s I would to have and women in their late 40's who look more haggard. Age is not the benchmark for me I look about 10 years younger than my age.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?

I have seen women in there 70s I would to have and women in their late 40's who look more haggard. Age is not the benchmark for me I look about 10 years younger than my age.

So is it the age people are or the age you think they look that's important?

I ask because I notice that older people are often described in terms of them looking and acting younger

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Yes definitely.

In the fab world I'm looking for people who fit in with my current kinks and interests. Is an 80 year old going to do that? No. Is a 18 year old going to do that? No.

Yep, a big age gap definitely matters the older you get.

Anyway, I've only posted this reply to say your profile pic is the best pic I've seen on Fab. Absolutely love it.

Frank

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By *ama bamaMan
over a year ago

dalkeith

age does not matter will fuck anyone from legal age to just about dead with a pulse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Age is a number for me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hello, does age matter? That endless question that seems to always come around. Some have their limits and some see it as a number. Interesting to see people's opinions on it. "

Yes. Unless you want to get arrested or enjoy a gummy blowjob.

Does age matter in what context?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Yes, when it comes to having sex with someone

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

It should not matter in this lifestyle as long as legal. Folk of all ages are on here and enjoy the same things we are on here for. You don't ask age in a club, so why should it matter outside of a club. Why not enjoy mutual interests regardless. There are some fantastically sexy people on here young and old sharing experience.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I have a strong dislike of those who lie about there age on fab. I understand why.

I think we all judge once we know someone's age. I do, I find it difficult when 18-25 yr olds message as I wonder if they had enough normal/natural life/sex experience.

Since being on fab I have very much enjoyed playing with older men & I may even have a bit of a kink towards older guys - 65+.

Ultimately I've learnt for me it's all about the person and how you get on with each other.

That's an interesting debate about experience in general. And learning vicariously though others.

It's not hiw much you done something it matters what you learnt from doing it or what you can learn from others doing that activatey.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age"

Did you report?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 53. I don't want to have sex with men half my age.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age

Did you report? "
No I didnt, I should of reported her but I stopped talking to her and blocked her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53. I don't want to have sex with men half my age. "

We don’t want to have sex with you either so

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

It's always mattered to me, never liked men much older than myself in my experience they just seemed to always talk like a dad to me and the respect was not there

The lies that was told like I'm stupid was enough to put me off.

For me I get along best with my own age group men or younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53. I don't want to have sex with men half my age.

We don’t want to have sex with you either so

Rude

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"It should not matter in this lifestyle as long as legal. Folk of all ages are on here and enjoy the same things we are on here for. You don't ask age in a club, so why should it matter outside of a club. Why not enjoy mutual interests regardless. There are some fantastically sexy people on here young and old sharing experience. "

I don't go to clubs so that argument is irrelevant.

As I said above I don't really care if I have shared interests with anyone below my age filter because I'm not even slightly attracted to them simple because of their age.

I don't even look at pics on profiles that fall below my preferred age choice.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Only to a point, I have an older child (21) so I wouldn't meet anyone that age. But one of the best meets I've had was with the youngest guy I've met so far (just 25) incredibly mature in his attitude.

I definitely wouldn't go that much older though, they'd have to be exceptional for that to happen.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Absolute rubbish. I would still ask people for old they are wherever I met them. Not everyone is here for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It matters to me.

I would think there are very few people who would literally be interested in 18 - 99.

I am aiming for the 99 club, only 16 more years to go

You can do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the context.

Most of my close friends are around my age within a few years. It often means more things in common and more things to talk about.

Within kink I have been curious about exploring with different ages especially younger.

For one offs don't think she would matter as much, as long as they knew what they were doing.

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By *ilyandronCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lily gets plenty of offers ! 63 and still very sexy.

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By *ummorefunMan
over a year ago

kent/sussex border

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. If nothing else gets you, it will kill you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? "

They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me. I am not and never have been attracted to people the same age as me either romantically or in friendship. I've no idea why. I'd not go too young either though it's hard to set an exact cut off. I have been in a relationship with a man younger than my oldest daughter but I dont see the correlation between my kids and the people I am intimate with tbh. The last thing I'm thinking about is my family when I'm getting jiggy. Sometimes you meet someone and it just clicks. I want a social aspect so the age is a consideration there, I'd want someone of an age where we both feel comfortable with that side of things.

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By *tmostakiss1Man
over a year ago

It matters if they’re younger for me. I’d much prefer older and no limit there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?

They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie."

No! Surely not?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the same has been said on the numerous other age threads

It's matters to some and not to others

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Absolute rubbish. I would still ask people for old they are wherever I met them. Not everyone is here for the same thing."

it's a sex site everyone is here for some sort of sexual pleasure

How everyone enjoys it is the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? "

Yes having the option there would be good, for those who don't have an age preference.

For those who do I doubt they're really concerned about whether they'd have the time of their life with someone outside of their preference

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It does to me which is why I have one set. I don't want to be fucking someone young enough to be my child or someone old enough to be my grandfather x

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By *eter2.5Man
over a year ago

London

I love a 99 at the seaside

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Experience has taught us not so much. What's interesting about the club/party scene is you take people as you find them in the flesh without knowledge of the stats. It doesn't really matter and we have been genuinely surprised at the age of some people when it's been revealed. Obviously it matters to some extent. For example we don't seeks those below their late 20s as our eldest in early 20s, generally 30+. Sometimes we have seen profiles and said they sound/look amazing but when we've seen the age thought oh no too young for us. However were we to meet them in a club not knowing their age, the chemistry was right and they didn't come across as overly young that would be different. Similar could be said about people much older than us. As a general principle if it works, it works and age is just a number. So this is why we don't set a specific age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?

They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.

No! Surely not?!

Genuine Swingers are all honest.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age

Did you report? No I didnt, I should of reported her but I stopped talking to her and blocked her"

Why ? For Gods sake.... ???

Is this what it's come to ? I'm reporting you for not being 45 ? Jesus , Mary , Mother of God and the little baby donkey ..... so puritan of you.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’d love to bend granny crumpet over and count her rings

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I tried to message a lovely lady today but found out I was 17 years over her limit. I had to have a vigorous wank to console myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stamina over heart attacks

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By *allHandsomeJay OP Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

"Stamina over heart attacks"

Love this haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thats so true.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I tried to message a lovely lady today but found out I was 17 years over her limit. I had to have a vigorous wank to console myself

Not too vigourous i hope Rex

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?

They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.

No! Surely not?!

Genuine Swingers are all honest.

Sounds like one of those paradox questions... If there are 3 swingers in a room. One is genuine and always tells the truth, one always lies and the other will lie or tell the truth... How many questions do you have to ask to get a bj?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?

They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.

No! Surely not?!

Genuine Swingers are all honest.

Just throw the question out to all 3, one of them will blow you.

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By *unthum62Man
over a year ago

Benidorm

Age does matter especially on here as many people use it as a defining factor in their searches or in who they will accept messages from.

I am at the older end of the range on here at 61 and yes it does heavily limit those who are still interested which is just somethng you have to accept and work with. It is by no means Game Over.

I suppose at the lower, legal, end of the age range the determining factor would be are those people mentally and emotionally mature enough to make informed decisions and consider outcomes and consequences fully.

Without knowing the individuals thats very hard to judge.

Like many things in an adult world it is a matter of personal choice and conscience.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old? "

By that logic we can keep adding/removing years either side continuously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences matter. Age is just a number however your age may not be what others want.

You can be an old 21yo or a young 65yo it is how you go about your living that determines that.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

For me no. Just if they're fun, respectable, happy go lucky people. You can be like that with a zimmer frame. I wouldn't shag them but they're a delight to be around.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"There's a woman on here who has her profile age as 45 but she's actually 61 so I have to be careful on who I speak to when it comes to age

Did you report? "

Why would he report them? If it's the person in the photos they aren't using fake pics.

What if someone were fatter or hairier, or using filters to look more attractive? Should we report those people?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes it does to me .

I wouldn't have as much in common with someone way younger than me ,same if someone is a lot older.

I generally prefer round my age give or take a few years.

Miss

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By *r P1957Man
over a year ago

Shoeburyness

I don't think age is an issue if you have both chatted and want to meet each other

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lying about it is a flag to me too.

There's a man on my updates ,on my single profile .He admitted he'd changed his age by 6 years to get past filters ,he also later admitted not being single.

So I think there's some truth in if you're willing to lie about age ,what else will you hide/change.

We are the ages stated ,no point in lying about it.

Miss

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Age doesn’t matter at all. As long as they’re not illegal age. No upper limit at all. The older fhe better.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"It

I see that age range on profiles as meaning very open minded regarding age.

Would be better if people could just tick a box that said 'no preference'.

I couldn’t agree more. I’m also of the mind that if you set your limit at say 25 -50 what’s to say you’re not missing out on the time of your life with a 24 or 51 year old?

They probably actually want 30 to 45 but they know people lie.

No! Surely not?!

Genuine Swingers are all honest.

Just throw the question out to all 3, one of them will blow you.

Didnt meat loaf write a song about that?

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We don't have a set range and depends on attraction. Having said that those we have played with have fallen between mid 20's to mid 50's so guess that's our preference.

As mentioned close to parents age or children age would be a firm no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s it matters, 15 years in either direction to my own age 43 is fine but any woman outside of that I don’t think I would consider

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Attraction and a good personality are key for me over age, of course age can play a part in them but there are plenty of exceptions

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

If someone your age could have come out of my vagina, or if I could have come out of the vagina of someone your age, I'm not interested in having you in mine.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

For meeting yes chatting no x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Yes, no, maybe, sort of, it's complicated!

Does it matter? Technically no.

Attraction is attraction regardless of how, what, or why.

However! The further from my own age the less likely I have found myself to be attracted.

Can I find much younger/older people than myself good looking? Yes of course but it's not really an attraction. I've never found myself to be drawn to by attraction to anyone like that.

Also generally the further from the same age, the less likely I am to have the same level of things in common or relate to in the same way.

15 years younger and 20 years older I guess is the closest I have to a hard limit cut off point. I find it hard to just shut myself off from a potential connection, sexual or otherwise but realistically it's unlikely to be a huge age gap.

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently to many 'no' or why else would they have 18-99.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?"

Anyone that has will meet 18-99 year olds on their profile are , in my eyes ,just too lazy to put in the proper age range that they would meet.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?

Anyone that has will meet 18-99 year olds on their profile are , in my eyes ,just too lazy to put in the proper age range that they would meet. "

Or dont consider it significant enough to be worth the effort for all reasons mentioned above already.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"You tell us op. Would you really shag a 99 year old?

Anyone that has will meet 18-99 year olds on their profile are , in my eyes ,just too lazy to put in the proper age range that they would meet. "

Don't think I'm a lazy kinda person? Shrugs shoulders? I will chat with all ages but won't b shagging all ages! X

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Waves that would be me I've the age and experience and the younger body all I ask ladies when we meet you don't wear your glasses .

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By *tlwMan
over a year ago

Bermondsey

I deeply enjoyed playing with a former fabber 30 years older than me. Sensational experience and very very hot.

Every age has a different “taste”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, Yes it matters.

If for example we're arranging to meet someone through here, we have our age preferences for our personal reasons, and they suit us.

Realise, there are many within those restrictions that we have no reason to venture beyond.

However, in the correct scenario, say at a party for an example, it may be different in the moment, at that moment.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes i would never consider an 18 year old or a 99 year old sorry preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no

Too young is a no go they could be close to my kids ages .

Too old is also a no go as its potentially my parents ages and that seems wrong to me..

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Yes age matters in some situations.

Sexually some people find personality and attitude is what they seek so age is irrelevant others look for different things which might include a certain age group so it matters very much to them.

If you're concerned that your age is preventing you getting meets or you want to meet older people and their age range excluded you, you have one advantage...you will eventually be older

What light from yonder window breaks

Nah not to bothered see Helen play Juliet's

But to see you on balcony is different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us... yes

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