FabSwingers.com forum: How many times have you voiced a fantasy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

This happens a lot, I mean don’t bother if you aren’t going to do what you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots gangbang was a nightmare got let down 3 times trying to set my own up

Then spoke to bambi she’s lovely awwsome person she was willing to set one up for me private without the camera if i travelled down witch wasn’t a problem time lines for the year didn’t run well so asked if I could contact her before next summer and get it set up she sed yes unfortunately she left site before the summer came around

End up in a sanua open play room in lingerie and just let anyone take a go just to tick it off the box

Not the way I would have liked it but never the less got done

Really do want to do a proper private one though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This happens a lot, I mean don’t bother if you aren’t going to do what you say"

This!!!!!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

God yes. So many timewasters here.

Apparently reticulated pythons are 'dangerous'.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

A few.

I've been lucky though and most have been ticked off at some stage, even if just the once.

But yep.

It's frustrating when that happens as you start building pictures in your head about how it will pan out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

13 times

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By *cott14Man
over a year ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???

People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat."

Very true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will say anything to get in my boxers

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"13 times

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its unlucky for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat."

Really?

Some of us are far better than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times have you voiced a fantasy...

Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

Don't think that I have ever voiced a fantasy - so never had that disappointment. BUt do have a friend who opens me up to new experiences, and now I want repeats.

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

Yep… a fair few times. Maybe one will stick and actually happen. Such is life though.. “crack on” as they say.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Only once.

I'm kind of glad I didn't tick it off with him because he definitely isn't the right sort of person for it. Hindsight is a wonderful thing.

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

I have done so recently for the first time, just to have that person drifting away for whatever reason, so....still unfulfilled and will stay that way I'm afraid

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

A lot. It’s happened a lot of times.

There are quite a few things on my fucket list that I’d love to tick off and romantic partners have stated that they would but never did.

It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't tend to have those kind of conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. Do all fantasies have to come true? I've certainly voiced them to men and they haven't happened for one reason or another. But conversely - ditto for them probably. If we did other exciting stuff, and we got our needs met - is it such an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I voiced my fantasies. … and in a nutshell, I’m single.

I think some will just tell you what you want to hear, others might listen and understand enough to want to experience than with you, others just have a negative view on them.

I have fantasies. I should list them in my profile one day, or whisper them into someone’s ear.

Just one, A Balcony overlooking a beach, listening to the waves as I’m stood behind her. Yes, we are both naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never there is no point

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Can’t think of a time I’ve actually voiced a serious fantasy.

They just seem to happen to us first and then they become our fantasy until we can get another chance to do them again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???

People will agree to anything for a fuck/ wank chat."

So true.

Even in a relationship though they can say they will help you tick them off and they don't.

Not everyone is like that though. But most!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

I've never shit on a cat or anything like that but anything that's come up has usually been done or anything that's been done has meant others felt comfortable enough to try whatever they wanted (for the most), anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them"

This is exactly what I mean about giving up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tell anyone mine. I did once upon a time and he used it negatively against me when it suited him so no...my fantasy will remain just that

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them

This is exactly what I mean about giving up.

Is it possible that they just don't think the reality will live up to the fantasy or aren't really into it themselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them

This is exactly what I mean about giving up.

Is it possible that they just don't think the reality will live up to the fantasy or aren't really into it themselves?"

That is quite possibly a reason but why say you will if you feel that way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont tell anyone mine. I did once upon a time and he used it negatively against me when it suited him so no...my fantasy will remain just that

That's horrible.

I hope you get somewhere where you feel comfortable with someone again to do that and have a better experience.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

luckily I've been able to express a fantasy to someone and them help bring it to reality.. outdoor nudity, photograph 2 women playing sex games, pov, sex with another mans wife while he watches, witness watersports.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It gets to a point where I just stop asking and realise that my interests and pleasure isn’t as much of a priority to them

This is exactly what I mean about giving up.

Is it possible that they just don't think the reality will live up to the fantasy or aren't really into it themselves?

That is quite possibly a reason but why say you will if you feel that way?"

You'd have to ask them I guess

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We got together on the basis of helping each other with our fantasises and we’ve carried out so many of them.

This is a fantasy life for us so we choose our play friends to increase the opportunities for completing fantasies for everyone.

If it’s a constant thing where people let anyone down or just talk a good game then people perhaps maybe need to revise their selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont tell anyone mine. I did once upon a time and he used it negatively against me when it suited him so no...my fantasy will remain just that

That's horrible.

I hope you get somewhere where you feel comfortable with someone again to do that and have a better experience."

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought of being stripped by male strippers.

I would love hiring a plane and having a high sex drive.

Waking up to early morning sex is now a fantasy

Going to wembley and stripping singing anthem...

Then hitting Rugby showers..

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

So many times... I chat to/meet a lot of military guys, and not one has ever turned up in his uniform. I mean it's not the most difficult thing to do is it?!

*sobs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me op. Its always those with hidden secret agendas.

Dishonesty sucks.. Saying fantasies will be played out but it is like not turning up and ghosting.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I don't think I have ever gone out to tell or fulfill one of my own fantasies, they've usually just happened for me, luckily. I don't think I have any more to fulfill. I have helped on occasion fulfill others though.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Can't say I've ever really voiced any of my own.

I seem to be a bit more of a facilitator to help tick others people's lists off but if everyone is having fun then that's the main thing

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

I tend to be the one helping satisfy people’s fantasies, only for them to bottle it at the last minute.

I’m lucky in that there is very little left I want to do.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"Only to have someone (or more than one person) say they'll definitely help you tick it off but it never happens???"

Honestly?

I have yet to have that happen.

Any fantasies or wants I’ve had I’ve been lucky enough to tick off with the friends I’ve made on here.

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

I've been trying to remember any fantasies I might have once had, before they were eclipsed by the second hand dreams of other people. I don't think I achieved any of them, and I doubt I shared any of them.

But to use them against someone is vile.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Pffffft….

Dozens of times.

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