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Happily monogamous but need kink help

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By *zanagi OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester city centre

Hey,

I recently got into a relationship and I'm really happy.

However, we both want to do more kinky things.

So far we have used:

Tens machine

Massive gun

Acupuncture matts

Cuffed

Please can you suggest anything else, we like exploring and I'd love to hear your ideas.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

Try visiting a club on a kink night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put her in a figure 4 leg lock and don’t let go when she taps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good quality leather flogger is a really nice tool and you can really vary the sensations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinks are hugely personal and one persons kink is not someone else’s and therefore none of us are qualified to answer.

Read and research. Go to a munch. A club if you’re brave enough.

Mist importantly talk and communicate with each other about likes.

Create a list

Like to try

May consider

Definite no

Then see what similarities you have or are willing to try

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Try visiting a club on a kink night? "

This

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

If you get yourselves to kink workshops and events, then you can experience lots of things and chat with experienced people in those fields.

There’s no rush though, part of the fun with exploring is finding boundaries and pushing through to find what you’re both looking for. Reviewing and communicating is important and part of the joy.

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By *zanagi OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester city centre


"Try visiting a club on a kink night?

This "

Is there like a more vanilla type one? She's a bit precious and well I'm full blown autism so the middle ground is a bit rocky

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Make her watch leeds united last season

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By *zanagi OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester city centre


"Make her watch leeds united last season "

She'd throw a toaster in my bath if I made her watch football

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in a major city with a lot of kink events and kinky people - doesn't need to be a club. Munches are very relaxed. The other site is more aimed towards kink and fetish lovers than Fab with lots of online groups.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Hey,

I recently got into a relationship and I'm really happy.

However, we both want to do more kinky things.

So far we have used:

Tens machine

Massive gun

Acupuncture matts

Cuffed

Please can you suggest anything else, we like exploring and I'd love to hear your ideas. "
a bungy rope brings a whole new meaning to swinging oh and boing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinks are hugely personal and one persons kink is not someone else’s and therefore none of us are qualified to answer.

Read and research. Go to a munch. A club if you’re brave enough.

Mist importantly talk and communicate with each other about likes.

Create a list

Like to try

May consider

Definite no

Then see what similarities you have or are willing to try "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're in a major city with a lot of kink events and kinky people - doesn't need to be a club. Munches are very relaxed. The other site is more aimed towards kink and fetish lovers than Fab with lots of online groups. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've removed posts. Please don't discuss anything concerning restricted breathing regardless of how qualified you are.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Hey,

I recently got into a relationship and I'm really happy.

However, we both want to do more kinky things.

So far we have used:

Tens machine

Massive gun

Acupuncture matts

Cuffed

Please can you suggest anything else, we like exploring and I'd love to hear your ideas. "

If you want to send me private message happy to help you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try visiting a club on a kink night?

This

Is there like a more vanilla type one? She's a bit precious and well I'm full blown autism so the middle ground is a bit rocky"

What does precious mean?

Do you find large groups difficult?

Perhaps look for kink websites and get ideas from there? If it's easier to chat online rather than in person.

Google mojo upgrade. Might not be the kind of kinky stuff you're after but it may give you both something to discuss or give you ideas.

Good luck.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Ice and wax are old favourites

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