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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!!

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

Your profile doesn't exactly sell you so to speak the Sydney warning has more text than your profile. Nice pics tho. But your a single male so there are 1000s to choose from you need to stand out from crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Is everyone for real ? " well , i'm not , but my imajinary friend is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love you beach pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love you beach pic "

In fact, I'd lose all the others and just have that one - less is more, matey....

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I can't speak for everyone else but I am completely fabricated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forgive me i'll just drop my undies and fuck anything with a pulse.. how dare i have preference and standards?

bend me over for a spanking. i shall now become easy just to please the men on here and take one or a million for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am real. I am not a number...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!! "

Hello and welcome to the forums.

This is a swinging site and not a sex site, so you won't be getting guaranteed shags unfortunately, you have only been on here six months and you have a little green tick, so you must be doing something right!! Get yourself along to socials, or maybe even try a club!

Take a look at your profile, what have you got that the 100s of single men on here haven't? You need to sell yourself!!

Good luck

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


".........

This is a swinging site and not a sex site, ......"

You may have to explain that one a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love you beach pic "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!!

Hello and welcome to the forums.

This is a swinging site and not a sex site, so you won't be getting guaranteed shags unfortunately, you have only been on here six months and you have a little green tick, so you must be doing something right!! Get yourself along to socials, or maybe even try a club!

Take a look at your profile, what have you got that the 100s of single men on here haven't? You need to sell yourself!!

Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and hello and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am real "

I am Spartacus!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!! "

To be fair there are lots of single guys on here and it means some will get meets and others not and I wouldn't say its all to do with looks although its a factor. Confidence, making the best with photos and an interesting profile can go a log way.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Welcome to the forums!

Yes most of us are real, parts of some of us aren't lol.

Your pics are nice. Kudos for no cock shots from every angle in public _iew BUT your profile text is one sentence then the pointless Sydney UNI bit. Lose that and say more about yourself, what you can offer, likes/dislikes, what you are looking for, regular or one off etc. make yourself stand out x

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!! "

now you only wink cos you're tired of sending messages......that attitude really wont get you any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am real

I am Spartacus!!!"

I thought of the lee evans Spartacus when I read that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am real

I am Spartacus!!!"

No I'm Spartacus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thanks to all of you I am reading and I respect all your comment's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am real

I am Spartacus!!!"

No I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're not real. we can only be _iewed from inside a k-hole

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Can I plant my sunflowers here?

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That can be fun to

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"we're not real. we can only be _iewed from inside a k-hole"

I don't know what one of those is ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And sorry for the attitude

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!! "

I think I see the problem, and its one you can't fix..... its your attitude!

"...if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex..."

Whilst I doubt that you spout this at potential meets, people have a "sixth sense" and they pick up on a certain "something", in this case your lack of understanding about what swinging is all about.

I'm guessing after this thread you will disappear, only to crop up again with a new profile. Give up. Sixth senses will catch you out every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man who dresses as a woman??

Now if that's not a figment of someone's deranged imagination I don't know what is?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I plant my sunflowers here?

- Amy. x"

You can plant it where ever you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because one is unsuccessful does not imply the rest are fakes.

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By *uncouple981Couple
over a year ago

ayrshire

It's hard to believe we are real but it's true we are!

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!!

I think I see the problem, and its one you can't fix..... its your attitude!

"...if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex..."

Whilst I doubt that you spout this at potential meets, people have a "sixth sense" and they pick up on a certain "something", in this case your lack of understanding about what swinging is all about.

I'm guessing after this thread you will disappear, only to crop up again with a new profile. Give up. Sixth senses will catch you out every time. "

Sorry you think that, I did meet a nice couple for the first time mf and am glad I did tough I was nerves, didn't go the way I would of liked it, at the time I wasn't ready, but I will try again, but thanks for the comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've had one meet?

what's the problem then? by some standards that's a runaway success...

as I think you now realise the 'problem' is that there are thousands of blokes on here for the lovely lucky ladies to choose from, so they're not going to be rushing to form a queue for you or me, unfortunately... stick with it though, follow the advice above and just try to get yourself known.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you've had one meet?

what's the problem then? by some standards that's a runaway success...

as I think you now realise the 'problem' is that there are thousands of blokes on here for the lovely lucky ladies to choose from, so they're not going to be rushing to form a queue for you or me, unfortunately... stick with it though, follow the advice above and just try to get yourself known."

Thanks and I am, and will do

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!!

I think I see the problem, and its one you can't fix..... its your attitude!

"...if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex..."

Whilst I doubt that you spout this at potential meets, people have a "sixth sense" and they pick up on a certain "something", in this case your lack of understanding about what swinging is all about.

I'm guessing after this thread you will disappear, only to crop up again with a new profile. Give up. Sixth senses will catch you out every time.

Sorry you think that, I did meet a nice couple for the first time mf and am glad I did tough I was nerves, didn't go the way I would of liked it, at the time I wasn't ready, but I will try again, but thanks for the comment "

I hope you tucked your trakkie bottoms into your socks, furiously back-peddling as you are you could catch them in the chain and fall off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been in here almost a year, only had one meet , or shall I say one offer, if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex, I must be ugly or something lol or maybe most are here to chat an play!!!!

I think I see the problem, and its one you can't fix..... its your attitude!

"...if its a sex site, I would of thought everyone is after sex..."

Whilst I doubt that you spout this at potential meets, people have a "sixth sense" and they pick up on a certain "something", in this case your lack of understanding about what swinging is all about.

I'm guessing after this thread you will disappear, only to crop up again with a new profile. Give up. Sixth senses will catch you out every time.

Sorry you think that, I did meet a nice couple for the first time mf and am glad I did tough I was nerves, didn't go the way I would of liked it, at the time I wasn't ready, but I will try again, but thanks for the comment

I hope you tucked your trakkie bottoms into your socks, furiously back-peddling as you are you could catch them in the chain and fall off! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm real I live and breath walk and talk so yes I'm sure that qualifies me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love you beach pic

In fact, I'd lose all the others and just have that one - less is more, matey.... "

At least he's not just got a pic of him with his wanger out!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

onwards and upwards.....

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"onwards and upwards..... "

Where did your lovely smiling face go?

But it is a learning curve. Lots of people have preconceptions about what a swingers site will be like.

Kudos to the OP for taking criticism with good grace.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"onwards and upwards.....

Where did your lovely smiling face go?

But it is a learning curve. Lots of people have preconceptions about what a swingers site will be like.

Kudos to the OP for taking criticism with good grace. "

on another moany day, it may pop back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am real. I am not a number..........."

I am not a number

I am a free man

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I can't speak for everyone else but I am completely fabricated."

I agree. I'm fairly sure he's just a by product of a temporal distortion that occured back in 1977.... or is that me?

I get so confused

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"A man who dresses as a woman??

Now if that's not a figment of someone's deranged imagination I don't know what is?! "

Thank feck for that. I was beginning to worry you were real

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"onwards and upwards.....

Where did your lovely smiling face go?

But it is a learning curve. Lots of people have preconceptions about what a swingers site will be like.

Kudos to the OP for taking criticism with good grace.

on another moany day, it may pop back "

What about a happy pleady day?

Please please please please please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok and thanks your all for real I heard you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only say OP get off ur arse and try clubs or socials..

Ive been pretty proactive since i joined the site in 2008...I really cant complain and if I was...I'd know i was doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where you're coming from as sending a lot of messages and not get many responses can get very tedious..although many seasoned swingers will say it's all abowt you're profile,picture chooses etc..ultimately i think it comes strongly down to how you speak to people and what you say.

Profiles aren't the b and end for me as talking to someone or meeting them would tell me a lot more than whether they can describe or sell their themselves through words on a profile etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see where you're coming from as sending a lot of messages and not get many responses can get very tedious..although many seasoned swingers will say it's all abowt you're profile,picture chooses etc..ultimately i think it comes strongly down to how you speak to people and what you say.

Profiles aren't the b and end for me as talking to someone or meeting them would tell me a lot more than whether they can describe or sell their themselves through words on a profile etc... "

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, I see a problem here already having just read your profile: See if you can spot it.

... "If you like what you see send me a little message or wink x x".

I will reply to every message I get, not to winks, if you lucky you get a wink back!!!

(Clue: ask people to send you winks, then say in next breath they'll be 'lucky to get a wink back'

www.confused.com/pay_attention_to your_profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"onwards and upwards.....

Where did your lovely smiling face go?

But it is a learning curve. Lots of people have preconceptions about what a swingers site will be like.

Kudos to the OP for taking criticism with good grace. "

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I plant my sunflowers here?

- Amy. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""

Phwoaaaarrrrr

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Really good pics, lose the Sydney bit - after all, how will you know if your profile is used in research? After all, I've used it and you haven't sued me....

It's sounds a bit arrogant "if you're lucky"....really? That bit at least hasn't worked, so lose what isn't working....more about yourself, what do you like? What can you do that makes you different? Turn to the dark side, after all, if a lady said to you 'wanna have sex with me but as I'm nervous my bi hubby might join in', would you say 'yuk, no thanks'? Be more open and imaginative. You have a good body and a happy smiley face so have got a huge advantage over a lot of guys on here. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theyre not all real some of the single ladies on here are prostitutes!, adult work web site see how many pictures you recognise!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"

Hello and welcome to the forums.

This is a swinging site and not a sex site, so you won't be getting guaranteed shags unfortunately, you have only been on here six months and you have a little green tick, so you must be doing something right!! Get yourself along to socials, or maybe even try a club! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theyre not all real some of the single ladies on here are prostitutes!, adult work web site see how many pictures you recognise! "

What's your problem??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is unfortunate that there are a lot of fake profiles,but its also unfotunate that some of you guys see it simply as a sex site.

I know the nature of the site but its also nice for us ladies to get a spark with a guy,and for them to have a bit more to them then,hi lets fuck!

And there being so many single guys without sounding harsh we can take our pic of the best ones.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Theyre not all real some of the single ladies on here are prostitutes!, adult work web site see how many pictures you recognise! "

Oh no, not prostitites!!!! The horror!!!!

By the way, its not against the rules for escorts etc to join this site, as long as they don't ask to charge. If they do, report them.

Of course, it still begs the question that, if all the women on here are getting paid for sex, how come some men still can't get meetings......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theyre not all real some of the single ladies on here are prostitutes!, adult work web site see how many pictures you recognise!

Oh no, not prostitites!!!! The horror!!!!

By the way, its not against the rules for escorts etc to join this site, as long as they don't ask to charge. If they do, report them.

Of course, it still begs the question that, if all the women on here are getting paid for sex, how come some men still can't get meetings...... "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What do I get for £4.28?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 finger and half a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theyre not all real some of the single ladies on here are prostitutes!, adult work web site see how many pictures you recognise! "
bloody loads of them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A big thanks to all of you and all the good tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theyre not all real some of the single ladies on here are prostitutes!, adult work web site see how many pictures you recognise!

Oh no, not prostitites!!!! The horror!!!!

By the way, its not against the rules for escorts etc to join this site, as long as they don't ask to charge. If they do, report them.

Of course, it still begs the question that, if all the women on here are getting paid for sex, how come some men still can't get meetings...... "

That brings into getting paid or pleasure. When getting paid for sex the money talk. When having sex for pleasure that's down to individual choice of who to sleep with or not

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