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"Nothing wrong in wanting to find that someone special " I hope I do soon lol I get very lonely very quickly. I am a people person. I also like my own space now and then. | |||
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"Been on my own for last 3 yrs so heres hoping there is someone out there for us all ....x" I'm sure there is its just finding that person xxx | |||
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"Think the key is not to go looking for it.. i was actually in a pretty bad place when i was shot between the eyes so to speak by the lurve bug. Joys of it are that you can find the person anywhere. Even if its not eternal love with that person just live for the moment and enjoy whatever it is, with whoever its with for however long it lasts good luck " I was pretty down with life when love came and found me and I am very happy indeed | |||
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"Plenty of people have found love on here. And truth be told plenty are looking for it. I have never understood why being open and honest on that subject is seen as a taboo. Good luck op and I hope you do find it." I think some think its a swingers site where its NSA that no one should be looking for love as its the wrong place... However love strikes anywhere... | |||
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"Plenty of people have found love on here. And truth be told plenty are looking for it. I have never understood why being open and honest on that subject is seen as a taboo. Good luck op and I hope you do find it. I think some think its a swingers site where its NSA that no one should be looking for love as its the wrong place... However love strikes anywhere... " Very true | |||
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"I personally think we're made to have someone to share all the good and bad times. Fab can be fun for lots but I think its mostly for couples. For the singles it can be fun and a stop gap but I think its stopping most of you finding true love. Most people have admitted to leading a double life me included. You meet someone special do you tell em about your swinging life............ 99% of people the answer would be NO Sex isn't the be all and end all and that's what most are on here for. There's a few that find a fwb on here and things seem good for a while but reading the forums these people still play behind the others back. If you haven't got trust what have you got? Most of you are living in denial........... fun & sex DO NOT EQUAL LOVE!!!!" No but the 2 equate into a reationship the other bits get added on as time goes by... you can learn alot about someone from having sex and fun with them... | |||
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"I personally think we're made to have someone to share all the good and bad times. Fab can be fun for lots but I think its mostly for couples. For the singles it can be fun and a stop gap but I think its stopping most of you finding true love. Most people have admitted to leading a double life me included. You meet someone special do you tell em about your swinging life............ 99% of people the answer would be NO Sex isn't the be all and end all and that's what most are on here for. There's a few that find a fwb on here and things seem good for a while but reading the forums these people still play behind the others back. If you haven't got trust what have you got? Most of you are living in denial........... fun & sex DO NOT EQUAL LOVE!!!!" No but if you do happen to meet someone on here and it becomes love when you least expect it ...you don't have to lead a double life you can share it together | |||
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"And be loved is that so wrong. But I am wanting to find someone very special to me. Yes I know this is a swingers site. There is someone out there with the same way of thinking as me. I'm sure there is. I hope there is lol " Have you not thought of joining any special interest groups or societies in your local area where you can meet people in a relaxed social environment….!. | |||
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"And be loved is that so wrong. But I am wanting to find someone very special to me. Yes I know this is a swingers site. There is someone out there with the same way of thinking as me. I'm sure there is. I hope there is lol Have you not thought of joining any special interest groups or societies in your local area where you can meet people in a relaxed social environment….!. " A level of self confidence helps and not looking too hard if Cupid is out there the arrow will find you there is plenty of time | |||
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"t is nice to see when people find it and are happy & I wish them both all the luck in the world.. I do think people share too much of themselves on here, their vulnerabilities, their hurt and their need for love. This on occasion will attract people who are out to exploit that and that is sad to see. People will string others along for their own gain on a NSA sex site. to everyone happy to everyone looking " I totally agree!! | |||
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"I see so many people hurt by love. I remember the hurt myself but I have a big heart. I would love to meet someone who has an open mind and can understand the swingers scene. I am 46 on sat and feel lost if that makes any sense. " Do you really feel if you found a new love of your life you could still swing ???? alot don't as thay cant stand to see love of there life touched as feel its new and should be cherised the intimacy ? I know not everyone's the same . | |||
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"You will find it when you least expect it.. I am 33 and wanting kids etc.. I just tell myself it will happen if its meant to happen... " x | |||
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"You will find it when you least expect it.. I am 33 and wanting kids etc.. I just tell myself it will happen if its meant to happen... x " Yeah but if you never buy a lottery ticket your not going to win no matter how long you wait for it to happen…… Sometimes if you really want something, you’ve got to put yourself in the best position for fate to lend a hand…… | |||
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"I see so many people hurt by love. I remember the hurt myself but I have a big heart. I would love to meet someone who has an open mind and can understand the swingers scene. I am 46 on sat and feel lost if that makes any sense. Do you really feel if you found a new love of your life you could still swing ???? alot don't as thay cant stand to see love of there life touched as feel its new and should be cherised the intimacy ? I know not everyone's the same . " I think people "in love" tend to be so lost in the passion that they also have a need to OWN their partner ....this is something that despite loving the person and connecting with their mind would never expect to own their body but own the right to share in their experiences of life ....hence this site was the perfect place for me as I think I now have found the person for me but still taking it a stage at a time with one foot on the ground.....and one in the bed | |||
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"I see so many people hurt by love. I remember the hurt myself but I have a big heart. I would love to meet someone who has an open mind and can understand the swingers scene. I am 46 on sat and feel lost if that makes any sense. Do you really feel if you found a new love of your life you could still swing ???? alot don't as thay cant stand to see love of there life touched as feel its new and should be cherised the intimacy ? I know not everyone's the same . " Good question but its not all about sex with others it's the friends I've made and the forums are something I would miss. As a vanilla relationship might not understand why I would want to still be on a swingers site. | |||
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" Love don't come easy its something you've got to work at....... " This Being in love with another person will also maintain longevity of the relationship and be the basis of true love. People can fall in and out of love easily, but true love you will always be in love with that person. Good luck in your search, I personally don't think swinging and trying to build a new relationship would work, so my suggestion would be to take a break if you find someone and build on the roots of your relationship taking time to get to know each other, sexually and mentally before swinging comes into play. | |||
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" true love is a real fairytale" Yes and the connection is unbreakable | |||
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"I want someone to come and look fter me.. I am sick ... I need hugs.. I hate being sick... " big hugs to you I would love to look after you xx | |||
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"I think I was on a bit of a downer today son turning 18 watching everyone saying they are in love. And me thinking will I ever find love. Well Ive read the posts and decided if it happens it happens. Not going to go looking just enjoy what I have. There are people a lot worse off than me. I am just pleased that people are finding happiness big hugs to all " Van, that is the attitude which will find you love...I have been single 14 months through choice, needing time to heal and even accept love as a concept..But I am there and if i am meant to give my all to someone again, then it will happen....As I am sure it will for you too... | |||
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"I think I was on a bit of a downer today son turning 18 watching everyone saying they are in love. And me thinking will I ever find love. Well Ive read the posts and decided if it happens it happens. Not going to go looking just enjoy what I have. There are people a lot worse off than me. I am just pleased that people are finding happiness big hugs to all Van, that is the attitude which will find you love...I have been single 14 months through choice, needing time to heal and even accept love as a concept..But I am there and if i am meant to give my all to someone again, then it will happen....As I am sure it will for you too... " Life is too short to worry about looking for love and thank you xxx | |||
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"t is nice to see when people find it and are happy & I wish them both all the luck in the world.. I do think people share too much of themselves on here, their vulnerabilities, their hurt and their need for love. This on occasion will attract people who are out to exploit that and that is sad to see. People will string others along for their own gain on a NSA sex site. to everyone happy to everyone looking " | |||
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"I'm the tit that says "I love u" during a gangbang " That made me laugh lol | |||
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"I'm the tit that says "I love u" during a gangbang That made me laugh lol " and its not even to the female! | |||
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"I'm not even sure I know what love is if I'm being honest, but I too would love to meet someone special, to share my life with, is it likely on here? maybe not, but like others have said, love happens when you least expect it, who knows what or who is around the corner....Good luck OP I hope you find what you're looking for." | |||
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"No its not wrong . It is something I miss hugely. Im sure its not too late tho " I have worked out finding love is ageless so there is hope for me yet lol xx | |||
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"I'm the tit that says "I love u" during a gangbang " ROFL!!!!! | |||
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"You never know whats round the corner...unless your me. I tend to check and if i happen to see some little fat geezer with a bow and arrow flying in my direction....i shoot the sod first. Its a "no way jose" for me on the lurve front. " Snap I am 35 and single for 5 years now . Love is not for me . Why bother I have thort I was in love 2x in my life and both have ended VERY badly so not doing that again lol how ever I am on a well known dating site , I am not looking for love I just love flirting and going on dates . Every one at work jokes that I go on lots of 1st dates but never a 2nd lol | |||
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"I personally think we're made to have someone to share all the good and bad times. Fab can be fun for lots but I think its mostly for couples. For the singles it can be fun and a stop gap but I think its stopping most of you finding true love. Most people have admitted to leading a double life me included. You meet someone special do you tell em about your swinging life............ 99% of people the answer would be NO Sex isn't the be all and end all and that's what most are on here for. There's a few that find a fwb on here and things seem good for a while but reading the forums these people still play behind the others back. If you haven't got trust what have you got? Most of you are living in denial........... fun & sex DO NOT EQUAL LOVE!!!!" | |||
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"Get me, i was happy as a pig in shit, loved being on my own had mapped my life out, id never said i wouldnt fall for someone it was just nothing i thought about. I never have been someone that wants or needs to be in a relationship, i was 41 callum was growing up and i was shagging the world and then along came jay. We where just friends for a year although i didnt know but hes told me since that he was woeing me, i wasnt attracted to him, he had never been with a big woman and look what happened lol" love the way you narrate diamond, I find it really engaging you never though of writing? | |||
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"And be loved is that so wrong. But I am wanting to find someone very special to me. Yes I know this is a swingers site. There is someone out there with the same way of thinking as me. I'm sure there is. I hope there is lol " There is. Hang in there. | |||
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"A thought that love can be like a star .....if it is so bright and blinding it blinds you to everything else around ...but can burn so bright that it burns itself out quickly or explodes like a supanova. .....A star that just draws your attention and twinkles in a night sky of thousands of others & keeps drawing the eye like the Pole star constantly there and lasts a lifetime" Wow that is so true and a lovely way of putting it | |||
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"A thought that love can be like a star .....if it is so bright and blinding it blinds you to everything else around ...but can burn so bright that it burns itself out quickly or explodes like a supanova. .....A star that just draws your attention and twinkles in a night sky of thousands of others & keeps drawing the eye like the Pole star constantly there and lasts a lifetime" Blooming heck sir knight hit the nail on thr head. Xxxxx | |||
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"A thought that love can be like a star .....if it is so bright and blinding it blinds you to everything else around ...but can burn so bright that it burns itself out quickly or explodes like a supanova. .....A star that just draws your attention and twinkles in a night sky of thousands of others & keeps drawing the eye like the Pole star constantly there and lasts a lifetime Blooming heck sir knight hit the nail on thr head. Xxxxx" Thank you for the thumbs up ....that's how I see lots of relationships that go on around me ....& last night My little bit of Welsh Gold says she wants to Twinkle Well I think that's what she said | |||
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"And be loved is that so wrong. But I am wanting to find someone very special to me. Yes I know this is a swingers site. There is someone out there with the same way of thinking as me. I'm sure there is. I hope there is lol " Hope so, you seem a nice bloke. | |||
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"And be loved is that so wrong. But I am wanting to find someone very special to me. Yes I know this is a swingers site. There is someone out there with the same way of thinking as me. I'm sure there is. I hope there is lol " We got contacted a few days ago by a couple that met on here and are now engaged | |||
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"A thought that love can be like a star .....if it is so bright and blinding it blinds you to everything else around ...but can burn so bright that it burns itself out quickly or explodes like a supanova. .....A star that just draws your attention and twinkles in a night sky of thousands of others & keeps drawing the eye like the Pole star constantly there and lasts a lifetime Blooming heck sir knight hit the nail on thr head. Xxxxx Thank you for the thumbs up ....that's how I see lots of relationships that go on around me ....& last night My little bit of Welsh Gold says she wants to Twinkle Well I think that's what she said " twinkle twinkle little star | |||
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"Plenty of people have found love on here. And truth be told plenty are looking for it. I have never understood why being open and honest on that subject is seen as a taboo. Good luck op and I hope you do find it." I'm not sure talking about looking for love has ever been taboo??? They talk about it all the time on e harm and POF | |||
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