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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you feel nervous about seeing ex partners?

I love how in movies they always have to bring someone with them if they’re seeing an ex somewhere just to show they’re happy. Can’t you be happy without a partner?

Anyway the question is- have you ever felt nervous about seeing a recent ex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically sick and full of dread, yes. I guess that's a kind of nervous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Annoyed, yes

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Some of them yes. Some of them no. Some I look forward to seeing again. Some I never want to see again, some I can take or leave.

That makes it seem like I have lots of exs... I do.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

My most recent ex was from over 26 years ago! I doubt we would even recognise each other!!

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends.

One ex I would take someone with me so I know I wouldn't be tempted to let him back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into an ex in Asda last year. We didn’t even make eye contact which was weird because I stood and talked to her sister for 20 minutes

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Daily.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No because, I look for the Compersion in it Steve. Always be happy for them, if you want to spend time with them

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not really. I’m on good terms with most of my exes. In that I say hello and have a little chat if I see them out and about, not that we go shopping together and grab a latte afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No because, I look for the Compersion in it Steve. Always be happy for them, if you want to spend time with them "

I’m always happy for my ex partners. Although one recently told me she feels bad for me because of all the great stuff in her life that I’m missing which I was like… ok to. But I still get nervous seeing them. You know?

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng


"Do you feel nervous about seeing ex partners?

I love how in movies they always have to bring someone with them if they’re seeing an ex somewhere just to show they’re happy. Can’t you be happy without a partner?

Anyway the question is- have you ever felt nervous about seeing a recent ex? "

I have felt nervous sometimes but there is no-one now I would feel nervous about seeing. Some I would be excited to see actually. I hope all my ex's are happy and have everything they want in their lives.

I am seeing my most recent ex tomorrow and he is one of my favourite people.

I don't have any partners at the moment but I am happy with myself so a partner would be a bonus not a requirement right now and I wouldn't need to prove anything to an ex.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

One ex boyfriend is married to a friend of mine. I lost my virginity to that dude. I'd quite happily see him and chat, no problems. My son's father though? I'll be headed in the opposite direction, pronto.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"One ex boyfriend is married to a friend of mine. I lost my virginity to that dude. I'd quite happily see him and chat, no problems. My son's father though? I'll be headed in the opposite direction, pronto. "

Read that as behead and then stopped there!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"One ex boyfriend is married to a friend of mine. I lost my virginity to that dude. I'd quite happily see him and chat, no problems. My son's father though? I'll be headed in the opposite direction, pronto.

Read that as behead and then stopped there! "

I mean, if I'd done that 20yrs ago, it would have saved a lot of heartache

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just think how did I? when on rare occasions I'm in same room! To think I used to b so so terrified of him! Not anymore! X

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Nope, After time I just become so indifferent towards them. When the fire is out, it's out. Like the song, somebody that I used to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like"

You should be more worried if you bump into their new boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I get nervous but in a good way, like the butterflies in your stomach kinda feeling

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Only 1 ex I really dislike and avoid him at all costs thank god!!..1 has died, the rest I'd be ok with meeting and chat with 2 of them still x

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like"

I hear you.. I’m the same, it’s a weird feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I get nervous but in a good way, like the butterflies in your stomach kinda feeling "

Yeah! Like a - I hope things are ok between us. Not awkward.- kinda thing.

I hate awkward situations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like

You should be more worried if you bump into their new boyfriend."

Hahaha

No I’d just offer group sex to break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like

You should be more worried if you bump into their new boyfriend.

Hahaha

No I’d just offer group sex to break the ice"

Did someone say group sex

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

I'm on good terms with the majority of my ex's except my last, he thinks I'm a terrible person

It wouldn't bother me to bump into any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like

You should be more worried if you bump into their new boyfriend.

Hahaha

No I’d just offer group sex to break the ice"

Let me know how that works out for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like

You should be more worried if you bump into their new boyfriend.

Hahaha

No I’d just offer group sex to break the ice

Did someone say group sex "

You in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get nervous for any bad reasons. I should stress that. I don’t have any exes that I hate I don’t think. I get nervous because it’s like what’s the vibe going to be like

You should be more worried if you bump into their new boyfriend.

Hahaha

No I’d just offer group sex to break the ice

Did someone say group sex

You in "

Always for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our paths have extremely rarely crossed thank god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Hatred, anger and feeling unworthy - absolutely. I'm angry just thinking about him.

F

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