FabSwingers.com forum: Do you care what others might think?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously this is a secret lifestyle for most . Do you ever think what the public would think or friends etc ? I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc . But we are the fun ones right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what other people think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still doing your research?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't care what people I don't know or care about think of me.

I'd rather be honest with my friends and family than have them think they like a person that I'm not.

I'm not quite as blatant at work, but I also don't hide anything if asked a direct question. But I'm not telling loud stories about my escapades in the open office on a Monday morning either.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"I don't care what people I don't know or care about think of me.

I'd rather be honest with my friends and family than have them think they like a person that I'm not.

I'm not quite as blatant at work, but I also don't hide anything if asked a direct question. But I'm not telling loud stories about my escapades in the open office on a Monday morning either."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't think the world cares what a single guy does.

I'm not really a swinger of anything, though.

Most of my friends know fish in a few corners of the internet and couldn't care less

I'm not even sure my employer would care- hence the face picture.

It's probably more controversial for others though.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Mrs actively recruits in her workplace where they may appear willing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still doing your research?"

No I've dived into it . Had a few socials in a club. Single now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard question to answer

As it’s both a yes and no and maybe

Yes I do in a away ie people locally and such not because I care what they think more because they all like to gossip and don’t want it getting back to

No to strangers and such who aren’t local or know family or such couldn’t care what they think

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

The day I start taking relationship advice from the comments on a Channel 4 program from the public you may as well replace by brain with a cabbage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still doing your research?

No I've dived into it . Had a few socials in a club. Single now

You need to dive in knob first.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

What other People think of me is none of my business. I like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the fun ones yes

Mrs C

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I only care what the people that matter think. And they know. No fun sponges here

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

you might not care ? other people care even less ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I would mind cos they wouldn't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind but being a couple there can be issues with the other half of the equation

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"Hard question to answer

As it’s both a yes and no and maybe

Yes I do in a away ie people locally and such not because I care what they think more because they all like to gossip and don’t want it getting back to

I'm very similar, I don't brag about what I do in my home town. When I'm away I don't care what anyone thinks about me. It's me that's enjoying myself and having fun.

No to strangers and such who aren’t local or know family or such couldn’t care what they think "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care what other people think about it.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I read a saying once that read:

“A Lion is not concerned with the opinions of Sheep”

Many people will have negative & mixed opinions on this lifestyle & it’s not my job or concern to educate them about it

I’m too busy fucking their neighbours, mums & aunties lol

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Nope, don't give a shit. My life, my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging has been going for centuries well before I was born. Wife swapping was the in thing.

Not a wife.. Would I have swapped my ex husband, you bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously this is a secret lifestyle for most . Do you ever think what the public would think or friends etc ? I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc . But we are the fun ones right?

Never liked nor done secrets Id be no good as a spy.

No. Swinging is a lifestyle and the public are aware.

Only secret if you are married and cheating and she or he has no clue.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not care but everyone is entitled to a choice whether a person likes it or not it's more about acceptance it's them and not for me but I still like you....

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I think you need a thick skin on here haha

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Channel 4 you say ? Well that's it. We'd all better stop.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I think you need a thick skin on here haha "

NA it's online so just not to take toooooooo much into it unless you're guiding it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard question to answer

As it’s both a yes and no and maybe

Yes I do in a away ie people locally and such not because I care what they think more because they all like to gossip and don’t want it getting back to

I'm very similar, I don't brag about what I do in my home town. When I'm away I don't care what anyone thinks about me. It's me that's enjoying myself and having fun.

No to strangers and such who aren’t local or know family or such couldn’t care what they think "

Same don’t want it carried back to family for them to here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an empath and don’t care what anyone thinks 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I definitely care what family and friends think. I know for a fact they would judge and wouldn't understand. One reason why I will never show my face on here. I value discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I definitely care what family and friends think. I know for a fact they would judge and wouldn't understand. One reason why I will never show my face on here. I value discretion."

That’s a choice cetris paribus you’ve stoked the fire but I’m referring too being able to justify my actions therefore I do not care what people think as I’m responsible for my actions

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

No not in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re wanting privacy then hindsight people would think of you a respectful even if they knew you and allow your privacy without intruding in the other hand if you’ve made something open to interpretation that’s completely different. Don’t care hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I only care what 1 person thinks but as shes no longer in my life its kind of irrelevent but even so my beezwax is my beezwax nobody elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.

But grown ups thinks it’s ok

that’s a spolier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.

But grown ups thinks it’s ok

that’s a spolier"

Many adults think swinging is disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.

But grown ups thinks it’s ok

that’s a spolier

Many adults think swinging is disgusting."

That’s a closed response and I won’t elaborate on why I think that’s a contradiction as it will offend some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We couldn't care less TBH

It's their lives they are living not ours.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

No I'm comfortable with me - if you worry what others might think, is this really the the right place to be.

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Couldn't care less what other people think.If they want to "tut tut" in some kind of moral superiority they aren't worth bothering with so they can go fuck themselves,because let's be honest,no one else will.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I suspect that most people we know might be a bit surprised but wouldn't be particularly fussed if they found out. We're quite open about this with some anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont advertise it, but if asked, we dont deny it.

As previously said in this post, those important to us know about it.

Our outlook is simple.... if you dont like it, you dont have to be a part of it, but dont judge others or us until you've tried it, and if what we do offends you... tough... we enjoy it.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Reminds me of the Mitchell and Webb sketch where it suddenly dawns on the Nazi SS officers: "are we the baddies..."

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Reminds me of the Mitchell and Webb sketch where it suddenly dawns on the Nazi SS officers: "are we the baddies...""

I've already thought about this and decided that I am not shouting about my love of cock (love of pussy is a given, of course) from the rooftops, neither am I hiding. If it is revealed in some way, then I just don't care. I refuse to be shamed.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't give a jot! My family and friends know I'm on here they don't think badly of me! They appreciate I have my own personal life! X

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Still doing your research?

No I've dived into it . Had a few socials in a club. Single now

You need to dive in knob first. "

I'm with her. You look delicious. I'll catch you!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm a Single Pringle so couldn't give less of a shit what people think ..

Yes I used to but no more , this lifestyle is for me so fuck em

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I dont give a shit what ppl may thing

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I suspect that a devil's advocate kind of thing. They are on this site, after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take everything to heart

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"I take everything to heart"

I can tell. You are a very sensitive soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take everything to heart

I can tell. You are a very sensitive soul. "

Don't tell anyone

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I take everything to heart

I can tell. You are a very sensitive soul. "

I've been saying this for so long!

The women folk pick on him

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

"I couldn't begin to imagine how our kids would react. They think it's disgusting their Dad and I have sex, so god knows what they'd think to us fucking others.

But grown ups thinks it’s ok

that’s a spolier

Many adults think swinging is disgusting."

Many adults think being gay, lesbian, trans etc is disgusting, however that opinion is now no longer considered acceptable, it's a shame swinging isn't held in the same regard, the world would probably be a better place if swinging and sharing were the norm.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

People should pay more attention on what they're doing rather than what others are. those that do pay attention to others have far more time on their hands and need to get out more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take everything to heart

I can tell. You are a very sensitive soul.

I've been saying this for so long!

The women folk pick on him"

I'm just trying to get my dick wet

and they give me grief

what gives!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

My family know I'm enm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our whole general life we couldn't give two shits what people think about us, if people are talking about us then its all good as they leaving someone else alone who might be more affected by their crap talk. Also we have even said we have a profile on this site loud and proud on that zuck owned website with the initials FB.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"In our whole general life we couldn't give two shits what people think about us, if people are talking about us then its all good as they leaving someone else alone who might be more affected by their crap talk. Also we have even said we have a profile on this site loud and proud on that zuck owned website with the initials FB."

FuckBuddys.Com ??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't when it comes to me, but I do when it comes to my kids, I would hate them to be outcast because of how we choose to spend some spare time.

People can be fickle and don't like what's out of the ordinary.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't when it comes to me, but I do when it comes to my kids, I would hate them to be outcast because of how we choose to spend some spare time.

People can be fickle and don't like what's out of the ordinary.

Mrs "

Yes when it comes to our kids if people shit talk they better have a good place to hide as I'm willing to kill.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"I don't when it comes to me, but I do when it comes to my kids, I would hate them to be outcast because of how we choose to spend some spare time.

People can be fickle and don't like what's out of the ordinary.

Mrs

Yes when it comes to our kids if people shit talk they better have a good place to hide as I'm willing to kill."

I'm with you on that. It would be war!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do care what others think of me,I mean, not to the extent that I'm afraid to do anything but my reputation is important, to me. No one knows I'm on this site, I'd not discuss the innermost details of my sexlife with friends or family, not because I'm ashamed but because it's really not their business.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Yes, sort of, but no.

I don't care what others think of me. They are going to do whatever they feel like and settle on whatever opinion they have of me.

I do care that I come across as I intend to however.

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

I care about hurting my friends and family, and due to how society looks upon alternative lifestyles choose to keep it a secret from many.

I’m not ashamed I just cant be bothered with the agrevation.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

For me it's more for work that I keep it private. I have a few friends/trusted work colleagues that know I'm on here. My family would probably be fine but in a way it's laziness trying to make my near 80yr old parents understand why I'm on here

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I care about hurting my friends and family, and due to how society looks upon alternative lifestyles choose to keep it a secret from many.

I’m not ashamed I just cant be bothered with the agrevation."

This

Similar predicament...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care one bit

my life and my rules

simples

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Can't say I disagree with this statement tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you care what other people think, you'll always be their prisoner. Never care about what others think, most people don't even know what they think of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you care what other people think, you'll always be their prisoner. Never care about what others think, most people don't even know what they think of themselves "

True!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Still doing your research?"

A quite dramatic body change too!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My lifestyle is known to those around me. People are generally fascinated if stuff comes up in conversation.

I also get that many people want to keep their private life private. Everyone is different.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Can't say I disagree with this statement tbf

You wouldn’t

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By *cott14Man
over a year ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Really doesn’t bother me . I think I actually quite like dispelling some of the preconceived perceptions x

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Can't say I disagree with this statement tbf

You wouldn’t

What are you trying to imply

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

Full frontal?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"I was just reading through comments on channel 4s programme open house people say how disgusting it is etc"

Where are these comments?

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

We don't actually care what people think. Our family, friends and work colleagues know about our lifestyle and sometimes enquire about it, but we've found being open and honest - when people ask - has meant we've never had any negativity from them. (even had some friends & workmates come clubbing with us)

We don't shout about what we do, but when asked, we simply tell it straight. It won't work for everyone, but out works for us.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

Full frontal? "

LB, don't you dare its Sunday!

Church day and all that

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

Full frontal? "

Full frontal and pics of arse the public has spoken

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

Coming from the man in jeans and a jumper

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

Full frontal?

LB, don't you dare its Sunday!

Church day and all that "

The baby Jesus is cool with me… all will be good

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I honestly couldn’t give a monkeys

But tbh I couldn’t care less what anyone thinks about me at all anyway. That’s really up to them

I think you're overdressed!! There I said it

Maybe I’ll have to take a couple of new pics then

More of the nudity

Are you all taking a vote on this?

Votes are in, landslide for more nudity

Full frontal?

Full frontal and pics of arse the public has spoken "

Not me I'm a gentleman

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Quite simply no I don’t give a …. !

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