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"I go for sex once every 2 years. Twice a year is too much energy. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I go for sex once every 2 years. Twice a year is too much energy. " My 2024 has some dates open…. I’m just throwing that out there … ![]() | |||
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"Come now Woody. You must have had sex at least twice this year? I don't know what an active sex life is... for me personally it would be several times a month. I don't know, I'm like Prey. There are times when I need to have sex daily or I feel sex starved. Other times? I actively don't want sex. So, no clue. I guess if you're thinking you're going to lose your skills, maybe it's not very active. ![]() *Come to think of it, I did do it more than once one night. ![]() | |||
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"Oh you don't need strawberries either! If you had sex that recently you can consider yourself active for now! Unless you just ate strawberries... not sure what that is " A strawberry? It’s a sweet tasting fruit., and wild ones taste very intense. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " Are we only counting when it involves other people? | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? Are we only counting when it involves other people? " Yes. ![]() | |||
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"Depends, the longer I go without, the less it bothers me. Conversely, the more I'm having, the more I want ![]() Oh, I hear you. And I know that feeling. | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " At 64 about 3/6 times a week. Multiple times a day at weekends. ![]() | |||
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"Depends, the longer I go without, the less it bothers me. Conversely, the more I'm having, the more I want ![]() It's not a bad thing ![]() ![]() | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " ![]() | |||
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"How often do I *need* sex? Never, really." The question was more about how much do you need it to call it a sex life. I don’t NEED it. ( I want it because I’m a sexy guy). But never having sex makes it sound like you wouldn’t have a sex life at all. I want a sex life *cries some more. | |||
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"Varies a lot for me. Sometimes I go 24 hours without and feel neglected and like my sex life is dead forever. Sometimes I go months without and it doesn't bother me in the slightest, I'll get to it when I want to and someone worth doing it with is available ![]() Same! Crazy how sometimes just hours can make you feel like that yet months doesn’t bother me sometimes! | |||
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" Is twice a year a sex life? " That's enough grounds for considering to have a divorce ![]() | |||
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" Is twice a year a sex life? " “It’s life Jim. But not as we know it.” | |||
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"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up. We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning. I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!" Who's to say you'd be having the sex you're having now if you joined here in your 20's ?? .. don't be wishing back .. enjoy the sex you're getting now ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up. We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning. I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!" Men....want a woman that wants sex all the time, until they get ones that does. ![]() | |||
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"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up. We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning. I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s! Men....want a woman that wants sex all the time, until they get ones that does. ![]() A woman can ..and does ..teach a guy a lot about himself.. | |||
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"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up. We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning. I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s! Who's to say you'd be having the sex you're having now if you joined here in your 20's ?? .. don't be wishing back .. enjoy the sex you're getting now ![]() ![]() This is true. Just because it could have been different, it doesnt mean it would have been better! ![]() | |||
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"Mine has fallen of a cliff right now. Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome... ![]() ![]() Please do not jump off a cliff. Rocky terrain it all be back again. Just give it time | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " Holy shit! Twice a year may as well be a statistical anomaly, or a rounding error. For God sake get your ass to Chams on 20th and we'll sort you a couple of years of sex, ok? | |||
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"All depends .. desire is different to need.. " That wasn’t the question. How much sex do you need/have to get to say you have a sex life? | |||
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"I would say once a week is active ![]() You see. That’s what I said. As I feel any less than that and it just doing it every now and then. 1 a week is 52 times a year. …. That doesn’t sound much when I write it like that. Half of that ?….. Narrator - Woody, breathe into a bag!!!!…. | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " Twice ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I would say once a week is active ![]() Woody, do you need your sex topped up? Come here, I'll do it for you F | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " At least twice a week | |||
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"I would say once a week is active ![]() This sounds like pity…… …… I’ll call you! ![]() | |||
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"I would say once a week is active ![]() Once a fortnight is ‘getting by’ still! Once a month is a push though ![]() | |||
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"I ….. Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it. " I was just talking last night about this. I miss spontaneity. ![]() | |||
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"I ….. Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it. I was just talking last night about this. I miss spontaneity. ![]() Touching is the downside of sex. | |||
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"I ….. Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it. I was just talking last night about this. I miss spontaneity. ![]() …. *activates lie detector …. Hmmmmm ![]() | |||
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"I ….. Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it. I was just talking last night about this. I miss spontaneity. ![]() ![]() Oh you really don't know me . | |||
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"I ….. Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it. I was just talking last night about this. I miss spontaneity. ![]() ![]() Does a guy stick it in from a distance? | |||
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"To be honest it’s not all about full on sex for me - I enjoy intimacy with my partner that feeling of being close to someone, skin on skin contact, long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on! It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx" awwww you love him i guess thats what i miss more than sex too ![]() | |||
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"To be honest it’s not all about full on sex for me - I enjoy intimacy with my partner that feeling of being close to someone, skin on skin contact, long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on! It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx" I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find. | |||
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"… long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on! It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find." I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris? ![]() | |||
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"… long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on! It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find. I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris? ![]() Not quite, I'd say more on the paths of spirituality (souls connecting)... | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " I've had sex just once in 8 months (or thereabouts) ![]() ![]() | |||
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"… long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on! It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find. I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris? ![]() Absolutely xx | |||
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"… long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on! It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find. I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris? ![]() It was a Jo….. oh never mind! | |||
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"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it? Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping. Is twice a year a sex life? " For marriages I think most of the clinical definitions settle around the ‘less than 10 times per year = sexless’ mark. Not sure if that changes for unmarried / singletons, though (I imagine it would). | |||
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"Mine has fallen of a cliff right now. Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome... ![]() ![]() Aww give it time! I thought the same, then it came back like a thunder bolt! ![]() | |||
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"Mine has fallen of a cliff right now. Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome... ![]() ![]() ![]() *woody goes out into the rain holding a metal rod to the sky….. | |||
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