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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for sex once every 2 years.

Twice a year is too much energy.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I go for sex once every 2 years.

Twice a year is too much energy.

"

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Active sex life? Sex every month at least would be my theorem.

Woody, you just kiss and lick and pump. You've got this!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Varies a lot for me. Sometimes I go 24 hours without and feel neglected and like my sex life is dead forever. Sometimes I go months without and it doesn't bother me in the slightest, I'll get to it when I want to and someone worth doing it with is available

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go for sex once every 2 years.

Twice a year is too much energy.

"

My 2024 has some dates open…. I’m just throwing that out there …

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Come now Woody. You must have had sex at least twice this year?

I don't know what an active sex life is... for me personally it would be several times a month. I don't know, I'm like Prey. There are times when I need to have sex daily or I feel sex starved. Other times? I actively don't want sex. So, no clue.

I guess if you're thinking you're going to lose your skills, maybe it's not very active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days a week

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Twice a year! Are you really Hue Hefner.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh you don't need strawberries either! If you had sex that recently you can consider yourself active for now!

Unless you just ate strawberries... not sure what that is

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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I find that the more sex I have the more I want. The better the sex, the bigger my appetite grows. If something is that good, why not want *more*

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Weekly

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Mine has fallen of a cliff right now.

Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome...

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Come now Woody. You must have had sex at least twice this year?

I don't know what an active sex life is... for me personally it would be several times a month. I don't know, I'm like Prey. There are times when I need to have sex daily or I feel sex starved. Other times? I actively don't want sex. So, no clue.

I guess if you're thinking you're going to lose your skills, maybe it's not very active. "

*Come to think of it, I did do it more than once one night. so it’s possibly 3.

Right now, I want sex daily!!! *cries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh you don't need strawberries either! If you had sex that recently you can consider yourself active for now!

Unless you just ate strawberries... not sure what that is "

A strawberry? It’s a sweet tasting fruit., and wild ones taste very intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

Are we only counting when it involves other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, the longer I go without, the less it bothers me. Conversely, the more I'm having, the more I want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life?

Are we only counting when it involves other people? "

Yes.

So am I to think of masterbation as a sex life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends, the longer I go without, the less it bothers me. Conversely, the more I'm having, the more I want "

Oh, I hear you. And I know that feeling.

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up.

We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning.

I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

How often do I *need* sex?

Never, really.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It honestly doesn't rule my life.

The horn hits yeah of course but

it's nothing a wank won't fix, I'm able to then manage with what is left over until the next horn emergency.

If the sex presents itself in between then great.

But I could manage without easy enough. I've done it at times a varied points in my life already. It's not as much of a challenge as most make it out to be.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

it varies, but atm we are at it most days , literally can't get enough of each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

At 64 about 3/6 times a week. Multiple times a day at weekends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends, the longer I go without, the less it bothers me. Conversely, the more I'm having, the more I want

Oh, I hear you. And I know that feeling. "

It's not a bad thing

I dont stress if I'm not getting any but once I start, it's hard to stop wanting more...like pringles

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Varies for me depends on where I'm at headspace wise.

Right now I feel like I can go a month or 2 without it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

3/4 times a week I think is perfect, although I'm currently on a lucky streak & hoping it continues

Mrs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Every day or until friction burns wear out

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How often do I *need* sex?

Never, really."

The question was more about how much do you need it to call it a sex life.

I don’t NEED it. ( I want it because I’m a sexy guy).

But never having sex makes it sound like you wouldn’t have a sex life at all.

I want a sex life *cries some more.

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By *adyHWoman
over a year ago

South Glos


"Varies a lot for me. Sometimes I go 24 hours without and feel neglected and like my sex life is dead forever. Sometimes I go months without and it doesn't bother me in the slightest, I'll get to it when I want to and someone worth doing it with is available "

Same! Crazy how sometimes just hours can make you feel like that yet months doesn’t bother me sometimes!

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By *ussy loverABCMan
over a year ago

Congleton

What about Leap years ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on and off anti depressants so can go for long long amounts of time without craving or wanting it

Sometimes I don't even want it, but my meds make me so numb so I go along with it just to feel something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*PW wonders if she should go do a maths sum to work out the average*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Is twice a year a sex life? "

That's enough grounds for considering to have a divorce

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By *ussy loverABCMan
over a year ago

Congleton

I know where you are coming from. My meds have a similar effect. So then I take viagra just to bring it to life. Being on a swingers site may not be my wisest decision. Knowing my luck if I did get a nibble, I'll end up bjust embarrassing myself. Good look and happy fabbing x

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"

Is twice a year a sex life? "

“It’s life Jim. But not as we know it.”

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Does having sex with your hand count?

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

a couple of times a week is ok , a couple of times a day is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up.

We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning.

I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!"

Who's to say you'd be having the sex you're having now if you joined here in your 20's ?? .. don't be wishing back .. enjoy the sex you're getting now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up.

We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning.

I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!"

Men....want a woman that wants sex all the time, until they get ones that does.

Don't be ashamed, we are just greedy. Trust me you're not the only one that struggles to keep up with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're with the right person you never count..it's just naturally..if you're a physical wreck you must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up.

We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning.

I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!

Men....want a woman that wants sex all the time, until they get ones that does.

Don't be ashamed, we are just greedy. Trust me you're not the only one that struggles to keep up with a woman."

A woman can ..and does ..teach a guy a lot about himself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have sex only when the other person agrees. It's frowned upon otherwise.

Sometimes I could go months without other times no longer than a few hours without. It's very hit and miss.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to have it most days of the week but I don't need it to get on with life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I need sex now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been seeing a woman for about 2 months now and I’m ashamed to say I am struggling to keep up.

We normally meet about twice a week and those meets are normally lots of hard sex all night and all morning.

I am loving it but feel like my horniness is totally drained the rest of the week... fitness isn’t the problem, think I have just found my sexual limit mentally - Nice problem to have I guess but it also kinda sucks! Wish I had discovered fab in my early 20’s!

Who's to say you'd be having the sex you're having now if you joined here in your 20's ?? .. don't be wishing back .. enjoy the sex you're getting now "

This is true.

Just because it could have been different, it doesnt mean it would have been better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine has fallen of a cliff right now.

Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome...

A"

Please do not jump off a cliff. Rocky terrain it all be back again. Just give it time

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

Holy shit! Twice a year may as well be a statistical anomaly, or a rounding error.

For God sake get your ass to Chams on 20th and we'll sort you a couple of years of sex, ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally we are at it at least twice a day

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I suppose it depends on your sex drive. There's a difference between enjoying sex daily and feeling a 'need' for it.

I'm in a relationship and we don't need to have sex daily. I think that would start to feel like a chore, especially on a day where I've worked for 14hrs I wouldn't find it easy to get in the mood. Hard to feel sexy then.

On the other side of the coin the longest I've gone without sex is 7yrs and it didn't bother me.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

All depends .. desire is different to need..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All depends .. desire is different to need.. "

That wasn’t the question.

How much sex do you need/have to get to say you have a sex life?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would say once a week is active

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More hassle than it’s worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say once a week is active

D."

You see. That’s what I said. As I feel any less than that and it just doing it every now and then.

1 a week is 52 times a year. …. That doesn’t sound much when I write it like that.

Half of that ?…..

Narrator - Woody, breathe into a bag!!!!….

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

Twice you stud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say once a week is active

D.

You see. That’s what I said. As I feel any less than that and it just doing it every now and then.

1 a week is 52 times a year. …. That doesn’t sound much when I write it like that.

Half of that ?…..

Narrator - Woody, breathe into a bag!!!!…."

Woody, do you need your sex topped up? Come here, I'll do it for you

F

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

At least twice a week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say once a week is active

D.

You see. That’s what I said. As I feel any less than that and it just doing it every now and then.

1 a week is 52 times a year. …. That doesn’t sound much when I write it like that.

Half of that ?…..

Narrator - Woody, breathe into a bag!!!!….

Woody, do you need your sex topped up? Come here, I'll do it for you

F"

This sounds like pity……

……

I’ll call you!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I would say once a week is active

D.

You see. That’s what I said. As I feel any less than that and it just doing it every now and then.

1 a week is 52 times a year. …. That doesn’t sound much when I write it like that.

Half of that ?…..

Narrator - Woody, breathe into a bag!!!!…."

Once a fortnight is ‘getting by’ still! Once a month is a push though

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day

Every morning love morning sex. Not with just anyone.

Sex is a mutual understanding and connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need sex really, I just would quite like it.

Sometimes I feel very deprived of touch more than actual sex.

Its the closeness, kissing, sensations of skin against skin, being held. Some days I'd actually give anything for that feeling of being wrapped in someone's arms.

There are other times I'm just really horny and my wand doesn't cut it. Those are the times I really crave the feeling of a gorgeous man inside me.

There are also times though where I'm really not that fussed.

Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I …..

Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it. "

I was just talking last night about this.

I miss spontaneity.

And all the other stuff you wrote, I can relate to. Touching someone (I’m a touchy feely person).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I …..

Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it.

I was just talking last night about this.

I miss spontaneity.

And all the other stuff you wrote, I can relate to. Touching someone (I’m a touchy feely person).

"

Touching is the downside of sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I …..

Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it.

I was just talking last night about this.

I miss spontaneity.

And all the other stuff you wrote, I can relate to. Touching someone (I’m a touchy feely person).

Touching is the downside of sex. "

…. *activates lie detector ….

Hmmmmm

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I would say with me it’s out of sight out of mind

I can go months with no physical sex

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

If we go more than two days we think we’re having a drought

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

As much as I can handle

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

As often as I can or morning wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I …..

Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it.

I was just talking last night about this.

I miss spontaneity.

And all the other stuff you wrote, I can relate to. Touching someone (I’m a touchy feely person).

Touching is the downside of sex.

…. *activates lie detector ….

Hmmmmm "

Oh you really don't know me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot when I've just had it, not as much when I don't

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

To be honest it’s not all about full on sex for me - I enjoy intimacy with my partner that feeling of being close to someone, skin on skin contact,

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

If you need to have sex with someone else to qualify as having a sex life, then mine is gathering dust in a crypt (fitting, really). It's literally been over half a decade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cobwebs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I …..

Being single, I'm always going to want more than I get. It all takes planning and there's sadly no spontaneity about it.

I was just talking last night about this.

I miss spontaneity.

And all the other stuff you wrote, I can relate to. Touching someone (I’m a touchy feely person).

Touching is the downside of sex.

…. *activates lie detector ….

Hmmmmm

Oh you really don't know me ."

Does a guy stick it in from a distance?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Right now? In all honesty, I could do without it for the rest of my life and not miss it.

Ask me next month though. Life might be less crap then and I might have perked up lol

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"To be honest it’s not all about full on sex for me - I enjoy intimacy with my partner that feeling of being close to someone, skin on skin contact,

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx"

awwww you love him i guess thats what i miss more than sex too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it’s not all about full on sex for me - I enjoy intimacy with my partner that feeling of being close to someone, skin on skin contact,

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx"

I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"…

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx

I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find."

I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx

I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find.

I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris? "

Not quite, I'd say more on the paths of spirituality (souls connecting)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

I've had sex just once in 8 months (or thereabouts)

An active sex life for me would be about 3 times a week ... i wish

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"…

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx

I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find.

I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris?

Not quite, I'd say more on the paths of spirituality (souls connecting)..."

Absolutely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much sex satisfies me depends on how I am feeling. I'm struggling a lot lately with my mental health so sex isn't really interesting me at the moment. When I'm a bit happier I'm happy with two or three times a week and one or two oral sessions.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Since joining Fab, I average once a month... But I just went for nearly 4 months without, so got some catching up to do.

Once a week would be great, 3 weeks of the month. I doubt I'll find that though

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I cannot cope without, a week and I'm going mad. Obviously the easiest situation is living with someone you want to fuck but i only lived with someone I didn't want to fuck for most of the time and now I cannot think of anything worse than Co habiting, maybe when my kids have grown up and moved out ,?

So now I like to have FWB and fuck an often as schedules allows. I have got to a place where I've built amazing connections so it's not meaningless. I honestly get super sad without sex my preference would ge several times a day which sometimes happens but a minimum few times a week.

Nympho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"…

long drawn out kisses, a hot bath with my head resting on his chest, a massage…the list goes on!

It’s the intimacy I crave more than the physical act of sex and the intimacy I need every time I am with him if that wasn’t there the sex wouldn’t be as wonderful as it is, so I’d take the little things more often which sometimes lead to sex and sometimes give me a glow for different reasons xx

I get this, it makes perfect sense. Gems are hard to find.

I guess they’re like looking for a clitoris?

Not quite, I'd say more on the paths of spirituality (souls connecting)..."

It was a Jo….. oh never mind!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We both have high sex drives, so it's unusual for us to go more than a day or two without, and it's usually a lot more frequently than that.

We also never have just one round.

I'm more concerned about general dehydration and fatigue, than healing over.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as I can get it and the more often I get it the more I want it. I think it’s a addiction with me

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

What’s sex it’s been that long now since I last had it

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Need or get?

Need (ideally) : daily.

Get: every few days.

Life gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week would be good with me but last time I had any was in Apeil but dont think about too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as me it’s like once I pop I can’t stop

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"To classify for having an active sex life , how often do I have to get jiggly with it?

Because I’ve got all these moves I want to practice, and feel like my form might be dropping.

Is twice a year a sex life? "

For marriages I think most of the clinical definitions settle around the ‘less than 10 times per year = sexless’ mark. Not sure if that changes for unmarried / singletons, though (I imagine it would).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine has fallen of a cliff right now.

Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome...

A"

Aww give it time! I thought the same, then it came back like a thunder bolt!

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Slowly backing out of this thread and quietly closing the door hoping no one notices me….

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I need it a lot more than I get it

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Don't get any at home for near 15 years, climb the wall at times so have to resort to other outlets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine has fallen of a cliff right now.

Doubtful it'll get back to the levels of the last decade, but right now any improvement would be welcome...

A

Aww give it time! I thought the same, then it came back like a thunder bolt! "

*woody goes out into the rain holding a metal rod to the sky…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2-3 days

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By *aul888Man
over a year ago

Hull

I need it a lot more than I am getting it. Very lucky if I get it twice a year from the OH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure i NEED it, i like it and enjoy it. Actually I think I could live without it. Holy shit what am I even doing here

Mrs C

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Can't say I've ever needed sex at any age and I certainly don't now.

I like it and enjoy it but it's not something I think about much when I'm not having it.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I dont need it so often, maybe 2 times every 5 year. I. Would say that an acrtive sex life would 4 times a week

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Once a week thank you

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Every day, but haven’t had any this year

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By *ilybethWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Most days will do

It’s just impossible to find!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Preferably every day but what I need and what I get are two completely different things.

At this rate I might as well join the local nuns.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don’t know if I need it as I’ve never gone without it.

We’re used to probably on average four times a week with at least one of those being a proper session type shag and the others just me lying there like a lazy bastard while h gets her cowgirl on.

In fact, I could probably go without it for a lot longer than Henriette but I don’t really want to find out so please nobody tell her about this

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By *c12Man
over a year ago

South East

Need and get… sadly two different realities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minimum 3/4 times per week. Has been like that since a young man.

My wife goes off it some times but can always find someone to replace her in that department when she does.

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By *eFCUKaLotCouple
over a year ago

somewhere close

As often as fucking possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel slightly jellie of all the folk seemingly getting action every day or 5times a week and then there's me. Barely getting a message or 2. Or then nothing

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