FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every day there are threads on why it’s so hard here for men. I have had some meets and socials and trust me am no oil painting or a perfect body. So here’s my thoughts.

Be yourself

Why ask for profile advice of others as then it’s not your profile but someone else’s and doesn’t represent the real you but just what people think you should say

If you want dick pics on your profile. Have them. Have as many as you want. It’s your profile. I have seen many women’s and couples profiles where there are multiple parts of the anatomy on display but they don’t get the same distain

Don’t have a scatter gun approach. Read a profile and see if something resonates to you

Delete a message after you’ve sent it the first time

Don’t be afraid to block. I have woman and couples on my block list, purely because if we have talked and it’s clear we don’t get along for whatever reason I block them so I don’t message again.

Remember everyone is showing you the perception they want you to see. Be that in their photos or their profile or how they interact on here. Perception can sometimes be very different to real life out of here

Being on forums can be positive and negative. Don’t think using forums will get you meets. Actually it can work in reverse and an opinion you may give maybe a red flag to many others

Enjoy being here, if nothing else you’re getting to see naked or semi naked people and interacting with some

And lastly don’t let the place drag you in and question who or what you are. There truly is someone for everyone. You just have to find them