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By *aretobare OP   Couple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

We live in a beautiful remote part of Portugal and have 4 guest rooms, a pool and 55 acres of stunning land with no neighbours. We want to test the idea of opening a swinging getaway where people can enjoy a relaxed and very naughty atmosphere that is both more intimate and naughty than a resort or a club. We would welcome peoples thoughts and any volunteers that would like to help us explore the idea.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How far from shops, restaurants and the airport please ?

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By *aretobare OP   Couple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

10 minutes for the first two and about 2 hours for the latter!

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By *unseeker100Man
over a year ago

batley

That's a cracking idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a fantastic idea. Any options to expand the accommodations? Initially the 4 rooms would / should bring in a substantial income throughout the year, that should be put into a capital building account, with a view to perhaps building accommodations away from the main property, just to let attendees do their own thing as they wish, without crowding others.

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By *aretobare OP   Couple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

The idea is to keep it small and intimate - a lot of play areas for a more intimate swapping experience. To be honest it is not about generating income as we would always prioritise our happiness over money and the cost of living here is very reasonable.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Its a great idea in principle...Good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great idea Op, good luck with it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"We live in a beautiful remote part of Portugal and have 4 guest rooms, a pool and 55 acres of stunning land with no neighbours. We want to test the idea of opening a swinging getaway where people can enjoy a relaxed and very naughty atmosphere that is both more intimate and naughty than a resort or a club. We would welcome peoples thoughts and any volunteers that would like to help us explore the idea."

I'll offer my services to come and help you road test this idea. Purely to help a new venture out of course..

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Sounds like a great idea.

I've thought about doing the same, I have a 3 bed villa with a separate apartment, a large pool and private garden in southern France, about 35 mins from Cannes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds idyllic - I guess the only potential drawback of a small intimate getaway and a ‘holiday’ (as opposed to one night party etc) is what happens if there’s a lack of chemistry or if you don’t fancy the very limited selection of fellow swingers who also happen to be vacationing at the same time?

Maybe if people holiday with those they already know you can overcome this, nevertheless it’s something that only you know you would be happy with having “strangers” in your house / home 24/7?

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I like the idea, I think it would work best for people booking it as a group though as the likelihood of turning up as a couple and finding people there you want to play with is probably quite slim as there are only going to be six other people staying there.

I wouldn’t want to be there and feel obliged to play or feel like we were the only ones not playing, not that I’d be made to feel that way by other people but that would be how I’d feel myself.

The thought of being somewhere remote and private is appealing though. Where we could be relaxed and naked on our holiday that had like minded hosts.

I’m sure it could be very popular as there is a lack of swinger friendly holiday options around, especially if you don’t want a resort based holiday. I wish you lots of luck with it.

Kx

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Sounds idyllic - I guess the only potential drawback of a small intimate getaway and a ‘holiday’ (as opposed to one night party etc) is what happens if there’s a lack of chemistry or if you don’t fancy the very limited selection of fellow swingers who also happen to be vacationing at the same time?

Maybe if people holiday with those they already know you can overcome this, nevertheless it’s something that only you know you would be happy with having “strangers” in your house / home 24/7?"

That’s what I was thinking too, otherwise it’s a great idea and I would be definitely interested.

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By *aretobare OP   Couple
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I like the idea, I think it would work best for people booking it as a group though as the likelihood of turning up as a couple and finding people there you want to play with is probably quite slim as there are only going to be six other people staying there.

I wouldn’t want to be there and feel obliged to play or feel like we were the only ones not playing, not that I’d be made to feel that way by other people but that would be how I’d feel myself.

The thought of being somewhere remote and private is appealing though. Where we could be relaxed and naked on our holiday that had like minded hosts.

I’m sure it could be very popular as there is a lack of swinger friendly holiday options around, especially if you don’t want a resort based holiday. I wish you lots of luck with it.

Thanks so much for your support and we do completely understand - we may buy another house that is close but we don't want to turn the farm into a campsite and disturb the huge number of wild animals that make the place so magical to us. There hasn't been any obligation to play at any of the resorts we have been to and there is more than enough to enjoy without having to play, not least the peace and tranquility and never having to worry about getting dressed ??

Kx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sounds like a fantastic idea OP!

D.

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By *aretobare OP   Couple
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Sounds idyllic - I guess the only potential drawback of a small intimate getaway and a ‘holiday’ (as opposed to one night party etc) is what happens if there’s a lack of chemistry or if you don’t fancy the very limited selection of fellow swingers who also happen to be vacationing at the same time?

Maybe if people holiday with those they already know you can overcome this, nevertheless it’s something that only you know you would be happy with having “strangers” in your house / home 24/7?

That’s what I was thinking too, otherwise it’s a great idea and I would be definitely interested."

We regularly have a lot of visitors who really enjoy staying here and we love hosting but also love our alone time and we do have to maintain the farm so having a little trial would be great before we commit to anything. Thank you so much for all of your constructive and informative comments

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Like the idea for a swinger holiday. Sounds like a good plan.

However the limited number of rooms maybe be off putting to us, especially if the location is remote or far from a wider swinging scene. The reason being with 4 rooms there would only be 3 more couples or maybe less couples and a single or two (depending if its open to singles). What if we didn't take a fancy to any of them or worse didn't enjoy their company at all. Granted nothing is ever guaranteed but it's a very close nit intimate site, so there may not be an escape. Obviously in larger swinger accommodation (like say Venus Star) there is more space and more people, thus more opportunities for what you want or to keep a distance from certain people if needed. Having said that there is very limited swinger accommodation out there and it's always nice to have places where we can just do our thing in the open without being told off.

However as a site to make an exclusive group booking for the whole site it would be great. We could see us there with our freinds. But then you have to ask is there enough demand to keep it as a group booking site.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Secluded location where you can be naked in the sun is perfect...swinging as an add on is a bonus. When we go to a club we enjoy ourselves whether we play with others or not.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm in i love being naked and in the sun

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

We love this idea. Was thinking of something in Britain, but the sun would seal it for us.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Are you offering a free stay to hot swinging couples to test things out ? im in, love Portugal, can bring a friend.

Where about’s roughly ? How far from the coast and how far from Lisbon

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Like the idea for a swinger holiday. Sounds like a good plan.

However the limited number of rooms maybe be off putting to us, especially if the location is remote or far from a wider swinging scene. The reason being with 4 rooms there would only be 3 more couples or maybe less couples and a single or two (depending if its open to singles). What if we didn't take a fancy to any of them or worse didn't enjoy their company at all. Granted nothing is ever guaranteed but it's a very close nit intimate site, so there may not be an escape. Obviously in larger swinger accommodation (like say Venus Star) there is more space and more people, thus more opportunities for what you want or to keep a distance from certain people if needed. Having said that there is very limited swinger accommodation out there and it's always nice to have places where we can just do our thing in the open without being told off.

However as a site to make an exclusive group booking for the whole site it would be great. We could see us there with our freinds. But then you have to ask is there enough demand to keep it as a group booking site. "
If he gets enough interest he's building self catering pods to accomodate on the 50 acres but obviously a charge, it'll be a business venture but with pleasure attached

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I certainly like the sound of this. Are you willing to share some photos of the place?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

That’s a big transfer to the airport. I think I’d prefer something nearer the coast and airport.

What about making it naturist. I stayed in a gorgeous boutique naturist hotel in Majorca.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am liking the idea OP!

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