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By *ll ways smiling OP   Man
over a year ago

hull

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By *ll ways smiling OP   Man
over a year ago

hull

It’s just because no one opens the msgs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Many people look at profiles before deciding whether to read messages. Are you giving your best impression? There's also a message preview and I know I use it to decide if I'm going to open a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I open messages if I like the profile

Sorry but your message wouldn't be read

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

It happens to couples too! We just accept it, not everyone is going to like the look of us and that's okay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay

I love these ones!! First!

Right op, here’s the thing. I’ve not even looked at your profile so I’m gonna whop out some bland advice and hope it fits.

Your profile is your advertisement for yourself. What does it show? Are your pics good? Is there eleventy billion cock pics? Is your text eye catching? Have you sold yourself in a true and accurate representation of who you are and what you want? Have you avoided cliches?

Most people will look at the profile before the decide to open the message, if it doesn’t grab their attention they won’t open the message much less reply.

What does your message contain? Is it a one word waste of time? Is it a 5000 word essay detailing your darkest fantasy while also being littered with poor spelling and quite clearly a copy and paste job? Did you look at the profile you’re messaging and see what they’re looking for? Some want face pics, others don’t want dick pics.

Last of all, don’t lose faith! There’s someone out there for everyone and you’ll find them eventually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Putting some effort into a profile, always helps matters.

This is the long and short of it, your a single male floating in a sea of cock. If you have expectations and any entitlement those need to go..

Look at other males profiles, who do get somewhere on here, gauge what they have done with their profiles.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

1st we look at ur profile, well lack of it. Then we look at the message. If its still as empty as the person's profile it gets deleted.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I note your height. Women can be fussy about height (I have received messages just because of mine), so make sure you are messaging those that are shorter than you.

Your profile could be a lot more insightful. A lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just because no one opens the msgs "

Opens

Reads

Replies

This is a list of what I don't do.

But a lot of men do pretty good on here, apparently.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"It’s just because no one opens the msgs "

No need to open a message if the profile isn't for you.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Yay

I love these ones!! First!

Right op, here’s the thing. I’ve not even looked at your profile so I’m gonna whop out some bland advice and hope it fits.

Your profile is your advertisement for yourself. What does it show? Are your pics good? Is there eleventy billion cock pics? Is your text eye catching? Have you sold yourself in a true and accurate representation of who you are and what you want? Have you avoided cliches?

Most people will look at the profile before the decide to open the message, if it doesn’t grab their attention they won’t open the message much less reply.

What does your message contain? Is it a one word waste of time? Is it a 5000 word essay detailing your darkest fantasy while also being littered with poor spelling and quite clearly a copy and paste job? Did you look at the profile you’re messaging and see what they’re looking for? Some want face pics, others don’t want dick pics.

Last of all, don’t lose faith! There’s someone out there for everyone and you’ll find them eventually! "

Well said. You get “very sensible of Tunbridge Wells”!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Let me put my it this way…. If I am using more words in this post.. that you have put on your profile… that doesn’t really scream “effort”!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Do you not have it saved on your phone to copy and paste??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay

I love these ones!! First!

Right op, here’s the thing. I’ve not even looked at your profile so I’m gonna whop out some bland advice and hope it fits.

Your profile is your advertisement for yourself. What does it show? Are your pics good? Is there eleventy billion cock pics? Is your text eye catching? Have you sold yourself in a true and accurate representation of who you are and what you want? Have you avoided cliches?

Most people will look at the profile before the decide to open the message, if it doesn’t grab their attention they won’t open the message much less reply.

What does your message contain? Is it a one word waste of time? Is it a 5000 word essay detailing your darkest fantasy while also being littered with poor spelling and quite clearly a copy and paste job? Did you look at the profile you’re messaging and see what they’re looking for? Some want face pics, others don’t want dick pics.

Last of all, don’t lose faith! There’s someone out there for everyone and you’ll find them eventually!

Well said. You get “very sensible of Tunbridge Wells”!"

Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore

Do you not have it saved on your phone to copy and paste?? "

Now that is a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab!!

It really is difficult unfortunately, the single guy to woman and couples is just crazy

There's probably

80% single guys

10% couples

10% women

So you really do need to make some effort in your message,that being said it still doesn't mean they will open your message or even reply if they do read it

I send lots of very polite messages and still after a year or more find it incredibly hard to try and get a meet

Just keep trying OP

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR

OP, your profile screams “I’m married and/or attached and cheating”, coupled with spelling/grammar issues and randomness!

Doomed, in a sea of doom

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Catch the bus ?

The mr

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Lie!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Keep aiming high, you'll get that first comment one day

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"OP, your profile screams “I’m married and/or attached and cheating”, coupled with spelling/grammar issues and randomness!

Doomed, in a sea of doom "

Very upbeat, love the positivity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax OP take a step back and breathe. Spend time getting to know people maybe right here in the forums, let your personality come through although being negative and doing threads like this won’t help, obviously the right potential meet has surfaced yet but that doesn’t mean they won’t, would you even want a message from somebody who doesn’t want to get to know you … personally I’d rather get no messages than pointless ones.

My main advice would be put some real effort in reading profiles and finding others with a similar mind set and outlook then relate to that with a well constructed message that will stand out, imagine how much junk mail they’ve got through previously before reaching yours.

Good luck

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Patience

Effort

Conversational skills

Having low expectations of replies

Accepting that it won't be easy

Realising that it's not instashag

Good photos

Engaging on the forums

Going to clubs (optional)

Going to organised socials (optional)

Not thinking with your dick

Not lowering your standards

Talking to people as if they were humans and not a hole

Looking at Fab as just a means to make contact rather than some kind of service

A

*the above is a shopping list. Pick and choose what you will but all will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m single. How do I get anywhere?

By car.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

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By *ussy loverABCMan
over a year ago

Congleton

No !

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It’s just because no one opens the msgs "
maybe they read it but mark it unread if your profiles not suitable for them just to tease you

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered? "
help me please

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered? help me please "

Aren't you beyond help?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Love the second and last line of your profile "know business owner" smooth that should attract some business owners

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered? help me please

Aren't you beyond help? "
lol you've noticed

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

How do i get anywhere on here as a single male..

Generally through WiFi occasionally through mobile data.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered? "

No. No they don’t

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

How does a single male get any where on here..... with a map.....

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think it's also important to add that not everyone is looking for new people at that specific time (unless maybe they are exceptionally matched to the their desires). Many of us have busy life's and not much time for swinging and it's associated admin. So a lot of people won't reply. And an unsolicited message is not owed a reply. This happens for couples and single ladies too.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered?

No. No they don’t "

Why would we were men, like we listen

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By *ainsb1Man
over a year ago

North Lincs/S.Yorks

Don't show dick pics. Don't limit upper age because not all over 50s are old or not attractive anymore. Just be honest and polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for most single men to get a meet let alone a message OP, I been here for 8 months and met nobody. Hopefully you meet someone eventually, good luck

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered?

No. No they don’t "

Definitely copy your earlier message FC and can paste it out liberally when these threads rock up ...maybe one day, just one will take the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does a single male get any where on here..... with a map....."

But women can’t read maps and they do alright

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By *eardedwonder999Man
over a year ago

Worcester

Op enjoy it for what it is , I've been on here about a year now and chatted to a few people who are all mouth and nothing else , just accept it for the shits and giggles and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here’s my honest thoughts on all of these posts.

Be yourself

Why ask for profile advice of others as then it’s not your profile but someone else’s and doesn’t represent the real you but just what people think you should say

If you want dick pics on your profile. Have them. Have as many as you want. I have seen many women’s and couples profiles where there are multiple parts of the anatomy on display but they don’t get the same distain

Don’t have a scatter gun approach. Read a profile and see if something resonates to you

Remember everyone is showing you the perception they want you to see. Be that in their photos or their profile or how they interact on here. Perception can sometimes be very different to real life out of here

And lastly don’t let the place drag you in and question who or what you are. There truly is someone for everyone. You just have to find them

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

As others have said, first thing I do is check the profile. If someone is out of my preferences with nothing to catch my eye or I don’t like the content, I delete straight off.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Good things take time

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore

Do you not have it saved on your phone to copy and paste?? "

I have my little set of templates for messages on my phone.

One day no doubt I’ll copy and paste one to my solicitor or something

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Fella,

A few things to note being a single guy on here;

1 - the odds are stacked against you, greatly

2 - 90% of single blokes on here are chancers & grifters and they ruin things for the rest of us.

3 - a good & thorough profile goes a long way, recent pics too.

4 - just socialise and the rest will come in time.

5 - manage expectations accordingly, no one owes anything to anyone.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Social, social, social. Get out and about and join in the social side of things.

Oh, don't be a sleazy dick and just because gentleman

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Be a....autocorrect

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Don’t forget, you can sort of half read a message before you open it. Sometimes that could be enough to put people off.

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood

Op your profile tells me nothing

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Don't show dick pics. Don't limit upper age because not all over 50s are old or not attractive anymore. Just be honest and polite. "

we become unattractive when we hit 50!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off. "

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple stand out from the crowd.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered? "

Yes, some do, but most don't

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Don't be a dick and try not to show off your dick too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question. "

Hell.

No.

Hotel only, I don't want dodgy bed sheets thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance puts folk off it sucks op. It is what it is.

Hang in there... Perseverance, endurance, patience.

Best wishes op

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question. "

Depending on the rest of the profile it is often a clue that they're not actually single. So it puts people off.

But hotel or club all the way unless you get to know someone well enough.

J

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Don't show dick pics. Don't limit upper age because not all over 50s are old or not attractive anymore. Just be honest and polite.

we become unattractive when we hit 50!?? "
Really well youve a few years to go better make the most of them

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"I open messages if I like the profile

Sorry but your message wouldn't be read"

Would mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Copy it to notes and paste in on the next thread in a few hours.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Cut/paste it in to word or notepad and title the document "not again". That way you'll have it ready for the next time

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants


"Distance puts folk off it sucks op. It is what it is.

Hang in there... Perseverance, endurance, patience.

Best wishes op"

I agree the distance factor the ones i seem to be getting on with live miles away.Ive been on that journey drove quite a way then they got cold feet and left me drinking a coffee on me own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone who asks for help even take the help offered? "

I’ve never seen anyone take up a single shred of advice. Asking for help is step 3 in a constant cycle. Plan-do-check-act.

Guys seem to get to the check stage but there is no action on the feedback, no iteration of the plan, no change.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Don't show dick pics. Don't limit upper age because not all over 50s are old or not attractive anymore. Just be honest and polite. "

"Not all over 50s are old or not attractive".

Awesome Compliment!!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Don't show dick pics. Don't limit upper age because not all over 50s are old or not attractive anymore. Just be honest and polite.

"Not all over 50s are old or not attractive".

Awesome Compliment!! "

Fuck it, I'll take it if you don't want it. It's been a pretty thin week.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question.

Hell.

No.

Hotel only, I don't want dodgy bed sheets thanks. "

Crusty bed sheets not doing it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say work on you’re pe..the needing to be discreet bit would put us off.

Sorry but if you messged me I’d look at you’re pe first then not open your message with how it is.

Good luck

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You have to have a well written, kind of detailed profile, a good variety of photos, taking part in forum challenges does help out with this.

Your messages should be well written, personal to the profile you are sending, not just copy and paste. The message is like Goldilocks, it shouldn't be too long or too short.

And then even then, if you do all that, don't be expecting shit loads of replies!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'd want to see your face before I made any contact

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

I've met loads of people who are on here, only I didn't meet any of them on here. I met them by going out to clubs, events and socials, making friends and finding out they were on here too.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering


"I'd want to see your face before I made any contact "

Shit ! That would be my message deleted with no reply

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I’d say work on you’re pe..the needing to be discreet bit would put us off.

Sorry but if you messged me I’d look at you’re pe first then not open your message with how it is.

Good luck "

Can I just say it brings me so much joy that the little "" smiley pops up when you guys type profile

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I dunno I sold my soul to some guy on the street for it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

You need a crossroads demon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

It should be like an ass's gallop..short n sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any single guy should not get worked up over the fact that most ..if not all... Depends really..of his messages may go unopened or read and not replied to , there is something that the other person isn't interested in ...it's really that simple.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Treat fab as a social club to make new friends. Join in with forum and cam room chat. Be polite and respectful and have a good time. Good luck!

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Send dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress as a woman

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Hack into the mainframe and get the code for virtual chloroform from the Matrix

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Just cherish the meets you do get

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"It’s just because no one opens the msgs "

Absolutely no one I mean no one, owes you anything. If they don't open your message, then there is a really loud message in the silence..

I know what that would mean to me, repeatly message and send more dick pics

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Be what someone is looking for?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

By reaching out to the people they're actually compatible with

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

What makes you above average?

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

You have to lift your legs up really high so the stickiness stretches out while allows you to move a step nearer to salvation.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You have to jump up & down shouting 'pick me, pick me....'

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"You have to lift your legs up really high so the stickiness stretches out while allows you to move a step nearer to salvation. "

Eh?!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

If you have a dick pic public - have it next to a bar of chocolate … that way the women get conflicted seeing something they love … and Chocolate!!! #freeadvice

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Hack into the mainframe and get the code for virtual chloroform from the Matrix"

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By *ll ways smiling OP   Man
over a year ago

hull

What would make u read it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"What would make u read it "

Op, I'll put it to you this way, what would you like to see in a message if a lady messaged you first.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"What would make u read it

Op, I'll put it to you this way, what would you like to see in a message if a lady messaged you first."

Easy. Big tits

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"What would make u read it

Op, I'll put it to you this way, what would you like to see in a message if a lady messaged you first.

Easy. Big tits "

Not everyone is as blessed as you though Rex are they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By having a nice inviting profile, a good mix of pics. Chatting in the forums. A bit of luck and being respectful, friendly and hopefully fun

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By *ardinal FangMan
over a year ago

Sandy


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Save a copy for the next time someone asks this. Won’t be long before there’s another one.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Many people look at profiles before deciding whether to read messages. Are you giving your best impression? There's also a message preview and I know I use it to decide if I'm going to open a message "

Very clever.

On what’s app if you’re still unsure you can turn your phone sideways and see a few more words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we keep replies in the forum please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling been on here for a while I am sending messages and am not getting anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would make u read it

Op, I'll put it to you this way, what would you like to see in a message if a lady messaged you first.

Easy. Big tits "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"What would make u read it

Op, I'll put it to you this way, what would you like to see in a message if a lady messaged you first.

Easy. Big tits

"

Bless

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Can we keep replies in the forum please "

No I'm sliding in now, in fact I'm coming at you from all angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we keep replies in the forum please

No I'm sliding in now, in fact I'm coming at you from all angles "

Nigel we’ve talked about this. My ear is out of bounds.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Can we keep replies in the forum please

No I'm sliding in now, in fact I'm coming at you from all angles

Nigel we’ve talked about this. My ear is out of bounds. "

Flo we've spoken about boundaries, and there being none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we keep replies in the forum please "

That's just an invite tbh.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Not really much to your profile OP so not helping yourself much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we keep replies in the forum please

No I'm sliding in now, in fact I'm coming at you from all angles

Nigel we’ve talked about this. My ear is out of bounds.

Flo we've spoken about boundaries, and there being none "

Fine. Bed over then

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Can we keep replies in the forum please

No I'm sliding in now, in fact I'm coming at you from all angles

Nigel we’ve talked about this. My ear is out of bounds.

Flo we've spoken about boundaries, and there being none

Fine. Bed over then "

No lube this time, i wanna feel it ripping

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Stay respectful and be yourself and it will happen. I thought it would never happen for me but thankfully a lovely gorgeous lady had a coffee meet with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last online 12 minutes ago, all this fantastic advice yet strangely no change to the profile. Are you taking heed if you really want to meet OP?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"It’s just because no one opens the msgs "

Your profile is boring. You have two pics and not even a paragraph of written text. You have a lot of competitors and a half covered up bicep pic and a hooded 6" cock is not going to have the women of fab filling up your inbox. I hope my advise isn't harsh but I'd rather tell you the truth than BS.

Read the description on the person you are contacting and cater your response accordingly.

Add a few more photos not just of your cock. Add more to your bio, let the person who reads your profile want to know more. Add vids, make your profile entertaining.

Hope my advise helps if you want any help pm me

Cassius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm.

Weird. My profile is boring, I.have zero pics public, they're all shite anyway. Yet funnily enough I 'survive' just fine....crazy world I guess.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

OP don't rely on this site solely go to the events with 0 expectations except being able to meet friendly down to earth people have a laugh enjoy some music and if anything more happens it's just a bonus

That's the best way to gain a connection with others or you will be feeling deflated and miserable by trying on here.

People play all sorts behind a screen proof is in the pudding when your face to face with people . all the best happy fabbing xx

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By *ll ways smiling OP   Man
over a year ago

hull

[Removed by poster at 10/08/23 14:19:49]

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile is no different than 10,000 other guys - a standard cock pic and a t-shirt pic holding your phone, whilst in the mirror.

And what little you’ve put suggests you aren’t single.

It would be a delete from us.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we keep replies in the forum please "

Same with us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing about this thread is the OP complaining about messages not being read or replied to and he hasn’t replied to anyone on here.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Not looking for single men, so wouldn't open. Simple aa that really. Not that most single men bother to read anyway.

Just saying

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What makes you above average? "
he's on stilts

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Don't show dick pics. Don't limit upper age because not all over 50s are old or not attractive anymore. Just be honest and polite.

we become unattractive when we hit 50!?? Really well youve a few years to go better make the most of them "

Every minute counts then!

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By *ll ways smiling OP   Man
over a year ago

hull

I will try udate my profile thanks

For ya help

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR


"OP, your profile screams “I’m married and/or attached and cheating”, coupled with spelling/grammar issues and randomness!

Doomed, in a sea of doom

Very upbeat, love the positivity..."

Absolutely nothing positive about OP’s profile

Don’t blame the owl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question.

Hell.

No.

Hotel only, I don't want dodgy bed sheets thanks. "

I have lovely bedsheets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question.

Depending on the rest of the profile it is often a clue that they're not actually single. So it puts people off.

But hotel or club all the way unless you get to know someone well enough.

J"

Hotels ARE perfect. I can leave the room for someone else to put back together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question.

Hell.

No.

Hotel only, I don't want dodgy bed sheets thanks.

I have lovely bedsheets. "

Are they plain white cotton ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You cannot accommodate that would put a lot of women off.

How and why?

Do women imagine going to a guys house?

Serious question.

Hell.

No.

Hotel only, I don't want dodgy bed sheets thanks.

I have lovely bedsheets.

Are they plain white cotton ones? "

….. yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just because no one opens the msgs "

A lot of patience is required, try and make the message interesting and funny and not just crude. Don't send a dick pic unless asked. But patience is really the key, different people are attracted to different things...

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

If it happens it happens just enjoy the site

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"OP, your profile screams “I’m married and/or attached and cheating”, coupled with spelling/grammar issues and randomness!

Doomed, in a sea of doom

Very upbeat, love the positivity...

Absolutely nothing positive about OP’s profile

Don’t blame the owl "

He wasn't asking for advice on his profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree,,, hard to get noticed in the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, don't beg

2, don't expect a reply just cause this is a sex site, also don't just hand out dick pics like smarties

3, be genuine people can smell bs a mile away

Only been on for few weeks personally but I can see a pattern of people complaining, getting involved on the forums definitely helps have had quite a few decent chats on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually from profile to profile, like a sexy game of pacman. Trying to avoid being ghosted whilst collecting the tits.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

Nope... well women aren't interested in me.

I do get messages from guys, which I'm definitely not interested in whatsoever.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

The best way is to go to clubs and socials

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

It used to be by car, but now it's the bus

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Move on to tgirls they will probably turn you down as well but at least your open minded enough to give it a go

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Ffs took so long typing that I’m not first anymore "

Cut and paste from Notes - Profile advice never needs customisation

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