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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all

I thought I'd check in and make sure everyone is doing okay, my inbox is open if you're having a tough time and would like to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Love this

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m fine but decided to give the site a break over the summer. Will occasionally pop on to the forums to spout out my wisdom and thoughts

But putting my profile into bed for now and be happy on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m fine but decided to give the site a break over the summer. Will occasionally pop on to the forums to spout out my wisdom and thoughts

But putting my profile into bed for now and be happy on my own. "

I'm glad to hear that you're happy, there's not many things more important than being happy yourself and it often gets overlooked by other things we deem more precious

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

that's nice, I'm better now I've removed myself from a messy toxic person tried to help her see the relationship she's in isn't just costing her mental health but its almost costing her own life never known such a horrid weird guy

After informing her mum she's wanted to cut ties on our short lived friendship which doesn't bother me I'm glad her mum is at least aware of the dangers her daughter is in so can keep close eye on her with that crazy guy

Life is short and should never be taken for granted neither the people who show genuine support and care its very rare to come by

We have all had our fair share in horrid humans some are worse than animals

I hope you're ok OP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good Ben and thanks hope you’re ok too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thread as always

For me mostly find with the odd emotional moment out of the blue

But the demons are always lurking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" that's nice, I'm better now I've removed myself from a messy toxic person tried to help her see the relationship she's in isn't just costing her mental health but its almost costing her own life never known such a horrid weird guy

After informing her mum she's wanted to cut ties on our short lived friendship which doesn't bother me I'm glad her mum is at least aware of the dangers her daughter is in so can keep close eye on her with that crazy guy

Life is short and should never be taken for granted neither the people who show genuine support and care its very rare to come by

We have all had our fair share in horrid humans some are worse than animals

I hope you're ok OP xx"

Doesn't sound great but I think you made the right call on this, it can be hard as you may feel you're "telling" on someone but it sounds to me as though it was needed.

I'm good thank you for asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All good Ben and thanks hope you’re ok too "

Very well thank you

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Not the best at the moment.

Lost the old 'me' and now need to take some time to decide whether the old 'me' is unrealistic and unobtainable any more.

Think its time to make changes in my expectations about what I want from my life.

And this site can be very toxic.

But aside from that, I'm fucking fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was. Not convinced I am lately though. Some life stuff I really need to address head on.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Good on ya OP

Decidedly 'meh' with a side order of 'alright I suppose ' and a dash of 'musn't grumble'.

So, normal.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Nice one Ben love it when others on Fab show consideration for other faber's Mental Health.

Remember every one when we have good days then have some bad one's they can feel even worse due to the good days we've had...like Ben says reach out for the good people in life that bring out the positive

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm just dandy right now thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All good Ben and thanks hope you’re ok too

Very well thank you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the best at the moment.

Lost the old 'me' and now need to take some time to decide whether the old 'me' is unrealistic and unobtainable any more.

Think its time to make changes in my expectations about what I want from my life.

And this site can be very toxic.

But aside from that, I'm fucking fabulous.

"

If you'd like to rant my inbox is open x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought I was. Not convinced I am lately though. Some life stuff I really need to address head on. "

Here if you'd like to chat x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good on ya OP

Decidedly 'meh' with a side order of 'alright I suppose ' and a dash of 'musn't grumble'.

So, normal."

Normal in this context is better than bad so that's positive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice one Ben love it when others on Fab show consideration for other faber's Mental Health.

Remember every one when we have good days then have some bad one's they can feel even worse due to the good days we've had...like Ben says reach out for the good people in life that bring out the positive "

Good people do (usually) bring the good vibes whilst toxic people drag you down, it's never too late to pull the cord on something you consider to be toxic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just dandy right now thanks"

Glad to hear it!

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I'm exhausted but that's nothing new at the moment. Otherwise I'm okay, thanks for asking OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Was. Not so much right now. It will pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good here thanks Ben! Sending love to all the forumites x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm exhausted but that's nothing new at the moment. Otherwise I'm okay, thanks for asking OP "

Perhaps a nap is just what you need haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will be."

Here if you'd like to chat it through

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was. Not so much right now. It will pass"

Here for you if you need it

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Good thanks pal! How are you Benjamin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All good here thanks Ben! Sending love to all the forumites x"

Glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good thanks pal! How are you Benjamin?"

Very well thanks Brucey

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes mother funkers

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head


"I'm exhausted but that's nothing new at the moment. Otherwise I'm okay, thanks for asking OP

Perhaps a nap is just what you need haha "

Tell that to the insomnia. I'd love a nap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm exhausted but that's nothing new at the moment. Otherwise I'm okay, thanks for asking OP

Perhaps a nap is just what you need haha

Tell that to the insomnia. I'd love a nap! "

Admittedly I've never jad insomnia but the fire crackling "show" on Netflix when you're cosy is fantastic

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