FabSwingers.com forum: Introducing girlfriend to swinging

By *eff.. OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

Hi looking some advice!

Recently started seeing a girl and things are going really well our sex life is really good and she’s quite naughty in the bedroom too! We talk about things aswell and she has mentioned about getting a girl to join us but Is afraid she will get jealous if it happens.

What would you do in this situation? I’ve been on the site fir years but haven’t mentioned it too her for a few different reasons just looking for some advice or similar stories from you guys

What did you do ? What was the outcome etc I don’t want to ruin a good relationship either!

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hi looking some advice!

What would you do in this situation? I’ve been on the site fir years but haven’t mentioned it too her for a few different reasons just looking for some advice or similar stories from you guys

What did you do ? What was the outcome etc I don’t want to ruin a good relationship either!

Suggest adding another man then it evens it up, or a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d suggest telling her about your profile on here and see how she feels about what you’ve done in the past. You should be able to tell from her reaction if she’d be interested or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a bloke instead

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By *phialtesMan
over a year ago

Beyond the Wall

Any mention of jealousy would be a concern for me.

Fantasy is one thing, the reality is something entirely different.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think your best bet is to be honest with her and tell her you're on here ,see what she thinks.

You could also look at going to a club together,just watching others at first and see how that goes.

Miss

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By *eff.. OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

We have spoke about different scenarios and she said she’s not interested in another man joining us

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By *eff.. OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

That’s what I’m worried

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By *evon1Man
over a year ago

north devon

Why rush if only recently started seeing her ?

Enjoy your time together, maybe now and again drop hints and see her reaction.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Fantasy or real thing could be a relationship breaker

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally if you can't be open and honest then swinging isn't the way forward.

Otherwise I'd say you've had an account show her around and see what she thinks, only she'll know if there's any jealousy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have spoke about different scenarios and she said she’s not interested in another man joining us"

Get a couples profile on here so you can look for a woman to fuck.

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By *andydan69Man
over a year ago

south west nr you mmm

Fill her up a few time see how filthy she is enjoy each other slowly mention stuf u will slowly find out but have fun

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Hi looking some advice!

What would you do in this situation? I’ve been on the site fir years but haven’t mentioned it too her for a few different reasons just looking for some advice or similar stories from you guys

What did you do ? What was the outcome etc I don’t want to ruin a good relationship either!

We went to a nudist beach initially.

You need to take it out of the bedroom and chat about it when in the cold light of day.

We found being naked around others a real turn on and then visited a club to test the water.

Was a nervous wreck first few times in a club but eventually went into a large room full of other couples.

The rest, as they say, is history.

If you venture into a club don't forget to tell people its your first time.

Everyone has a first time.

Be a bit wary of 1 2 1 at first. Lots of fakers and dreamers on sites like this and you may get a bad experience at first that will put you off.

Clubs are full of people who have actually made an effort and you can just stand at the bar all night at first.

Whatever you decide, have fun. We do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google Mojo upgrade

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By *eff.. OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

That’s what I’m worried about! Because the relationship is going really well and don’t want to spoil anything

Although we have talked about it and she said she would love a girl to join for fun but she might get jealous so I’m stuck in between a rock and a hard place

Also been watching that programme on the tele aswell can’t remember the name but I’ve seen it on there where it sounds good in the couples head but in reality it ends up in disaster!

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By *eff.. OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

Just googled will maybe try and get her to answer a few questions tomorrow thank you

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Don't do it if you like her don't do it, it has to be her idea if its not then its a no go and if you tell her you've been on here for years she may think twice about your relationship, you've got someone you like and regular sex don't jeapordise it

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By *eff.. OP Man
over a year ago

belfast

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