FabSwingers.com forum: What does kinky mean?

By *ueerKinkyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Our profile says we’re looking for kinky people and a huge number of people have been in touch (which is very nice).

But when I ask them what kinky stuff they’re into, loads of them say things like “My kink is oral sex” or “My kink is threesomes”.

So I’m interested in what “kinky” means to you?

Is it just a word for the things you like doing? “My kink is kissing”

Or does it mean anything a bit wilder than missionary position with your spouse with the lights off? “My kink is being ridden”

Or does it mean things which aren’t intrinsically sexual but which give sexual pleasure? “My kink is rubber”

Or does it mean things which are deviant transgressions? “My kink is fucking someone in the ear with a cucumber while singing Bohemian Rhapsody“?!

(And obviously, if you want to share your kinks here, please do!)

By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

Kinky is when you use a feather, perverted is when you use the whole chicken, seriously we all are a little bent, up to individual to say how 'bent'

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Kinky means something outside of the usual or the norm .......

It must be getting more and more difficult to engage in kinky sex in these almost anything goes days.....