FabSwingers.com forum: Is there any point in life where sex because harder to do due to age

By *igyin81 OP Man
over a year ago

bathgate

I’m just curious on this is there any time in life it because harder due to age I get fitness and stuff would come in to it but I’m just curious in what older people have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only 35 and my knees can’t handle half the positions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Certain conditions and physical limitations can make some aspects of sex more difficult it's true. However given moderate fitness age makes little or no difference as long as you realise that there's more to it than just banging away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I just lay there now. Fuck off if you think I'm doing doggy, that's just pain on my knees and back.

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By *igyin81 OP Man
over a year ago

bathgate

"I’m only 35 and my knees can’t handle half the positions."

I’m only 27 and I’m like that myself sometimes haha

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By *igyin81 OP Man
over a year ago

bathgate

"This is why I just lay there now. Fuck off if you think I'm doing doggy, that's just pain on my knees and back."
could pop a pillow down for your knees

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By *igyin81 OP Man
over a year ago

bathgate

"Certain conditions and physical limitations can make some aspects of sex more difficult it's true. However given moderate fitness age makes little or no difference as long as you realise that there's more to it than just banging away. "

Of course

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think most people remain sexual until they die.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can’t open my legs wide without it hurting like a bitch in the groin.

And there is no hope of me riding someone on a hard surface without me needing knee pads!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Harder? Yes. By not being as hard. Or more likely to creak and groan in certain positions. Fall asleep/need to tap out after a couple of rounds.

It's probably a good idea to make sure they're taking cod liver oil and all the vitamins a week or so before you meet, check their real age and if it's above forty five, get on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything in life is age related no matter what it is, work , sport, social life , walking , climbing or trekking mountains etc and yes even sex.. people don't stay 25 & healthy for ever...like it says " gracefully surrender the things of youth "..yes of course continue to do the things you love ..you'll just find out you can't do those things as often & as frequently as before ..but that doesn't mean the enjoyment is taken out of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More to life than sex. Sex is everywhere. Relationships and chemistry isnt.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It gets harder when you have young children and you're tired.

Then it's good for a while!

It then gets harder again when your teenagers stay up too late in the evening!

Then they leave home and it's all good again!

Keeping fit keeps your pecker up as you get older.

After 50 a bit of Viagra now and then does the job when needed!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Requires a bit too much effort these days

As my number of days go up. The amount of effort goes down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More to life than sex. Sex is everywhere. Relationships and chemistry isnt. "

And lasagne.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Dunno about 'harder' but imo it certainly changes it. We can't go as hard or as for long these days, can't do certain things because of back/knees/cramp etc.

A few adjustments have to be made

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By *igyin81 OP Man
over a year ago

bathgate

"More to life than sex. Sex is everywhere. Relationships and chemistry isnt. "

I’m a strong believer that chemistry comes first there is no point of haveing sex with someone you can’t connect with

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Due to my age I no longer feel like I need sex.

Win win.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N has no need of viagra quite the opposite. We have had to adjust for changes I've experienced due to menopause.

Older people and sex has always been a bit of a joke though

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

There's a point at which it all becomes impossible, which is a bloody good reason for ravenous enjoyment in the years given to us.

And actual specifics vary throughout life, not just dependent on creaky knees. Confidence and experience tend to increase, I think, for most of us, and it gets easier to pursue pleasure, to give pleasure, and to be frank about what we want.

I've no wish to turn the clock back and have relished it ticking by. (But I did wince in recognition at the line in the last Bond film, with his successor threatening to shoot him in the knee - "the one," she added, "that still works").

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Don't know if being in my 40's counts as old, but I'm definitely older. I've found that consistency is the key. And it would be the same for any exercise based activity. The more you do the easier it becomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno about 'harder' but imo it certainly changes it. We can't go as hard or as for long these days, can't do certain things because of back/knees/cramp etc.

A few adjustments have to be made

Hells bells man, you're only 41

if you're feeling like that already you best start pacing yourself now as you've a long way to go yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My knees and other joints actually crackle now not just crunch, is that better or worse

I do need limbering up somewhat, I dont know if I would bend in the required places for wild sex now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only 35 and my knees can’t handle half the positions."
35 is old tbf

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Dunno about 'harder' but imo it certainly changes it. We can't go as hard or as for long these days, can't do certain things because of back/knees/cramp etc.

A few adjustments have to be made

Hells bells man, you're only 41

if you're feeling like that already you best start pacing yourself now as you've a long way to go yet

Yeah, few minor health conditions and Mrs C has had a complication but we muddle through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only 35 and my knees can’t handle half the positions."

I'm the same

I don't go on top any more cause my knees generally stop working after about 30 seconds

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

It's all about finding new ways to do things.We have a swing & it has totally changed our fun for the better.Having the best times for our age.It is really fun trying new things.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Click crunch cramp keel over sideways like an asthmatic in a coal mine

Nope, everything’s fine.

Not on the little blue pills quite yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing not, given that the age selection category when we sign up gives us a choice to select from: 18-99.

Admit, I've not had a session with anyone over 74 but have learnt to never judge a book by its cover, since at club I had a shock of my lifetime with an old fella who had a magnificent specimen of a big dick and he fucked me better than most youngsters ever have...

Hoping I never tire of sex in my old age...!

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By *aura987Couple
over a year ago

Brampton

We’re both in our 50’s and we enjoyed each other 30 years ago, so now some positions aren’t as easy but the sex is so much better…we understand what each other’s wants and needs are and much more relaxed with each other. We’re more likely to try something different now which we probably wouldn’t do in our younger years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my 50's, positions aren't an issue, I'm lucky to be healthy and flexible. The menopause is a bitch though. Internally I'm not as robust now, so I reckon being pounded is now out of the question. Therefore gangbangs, mfm is no longer possible. But I'm still loving sex with a gentle, kind partner. And still feel horny.

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By *rown-JewelsCouple
over a year ago

Mendip

It depends. Some ladies go off sex after the big M. Some get more randy! Some guys loose their mojo and give up, some discover Cialis and keep going! Fortunately we, for example, have been introduced to each other later in life after our life partners 'went on ahead'. The most important thing IMHO is intimacy. The confident expectation of pleasure and joy without any requirement to 'Perform' is good for both partners. Also the joy of giving orgasms is just as good as satisfying as a penetrative self orgasm. We learn when older that good sex is not about a man getting hard, sticking it in the lady, thrusting about, shooting his load and then falling over and going to sleep. Sex is a long journey where pleasure and engagement abounds. I like to see my lady raise from level to level as her orgasms grow in strength, knowing she is out of this world and her mind is blown with sensuality and joy. We use tongue, fingers, cock, positions and maybe toys, whatever works on the day. I also like to see her 'fired up' with anticipation when we meet and play with friends. I love to wear her squirts! Importantly guys must realise that some ladies are hard wired for anal. Not all mind you but many are. Women have a far greater capacity for sexual pleasure than men. Believe me. When you get old you learn about this fact. An old learned sexually competant bloke is a very good deal for a receptive woman. Not blowing any trumpets but ask my partner.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

The key is to stay fit and healthy will make everything in life easier not just sex or less hard.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m only 35 and my knees can’t handle half the positions. 35 is old tbf

I must be nearing death then

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