FabSwingers.com forum: Fab burn out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else suffer from Fab burn out or fatigue.

How do you deal with if?

Take a break

Leave

Find your responses getting more and more feisty

Nothing to do with meeting people at all but more for me to do with attitudes.

How many people would say what they say here to someone’s face?

Anyway time out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlos.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I have stamina

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Take a break

I’d say anything I say here to peoples faces, but I’d ready to duck on a few

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah often, I just don't look for a while.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that burns me out on here is the rank hypocrisy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unlos.

Same. I feel it coming again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unlos.

Same. I feel it coming again soon"

Oi I'm going first!

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Unlos.

Same. I feel it coming again soon

Oi I'm going first! "

Hey your one of my entertainers…..

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I'm getting close. Family stuff has been hard and I've come here and found myself unable to be my usual self. So I'm considering stepping back a bit.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm getting close. Family stuff has been hard and I've come here and found myself unable to be my usual self. So I'm considering stepping back a bit.

I hope family stuff improves for you soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about fab burnout necessarily, but too much time on social media or spent looking at my phone and I crave fresh air and real life company

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I take a step back. Sometimes Fab can be a bit all consuming and you need to take a step back into reality as it were. The last time I did that I was away for a year. Remembering who you are as a person without Fab can be interesting at times

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I hide my profile when it's no fun or when I have too much to do.

Usually takes about a month, then I feel more-- sigh, what ridiculous descriptive can I pull outta my ass today, let's go wiiiiith... chipper, good, I usually feel more chipper after a month away.

Had two months away already this year. Kind of a bullshit year, enn-gee-ell.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I take 2 weeks off

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Hide profile and take a break

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

When life circumstances are challenging, I find it difficult to enjoy Fab to its full extent.

I still like to read forum posts but not necessarily commenting so I reduce my profile to bare minimum and although I’m still there, I participate from the distance.

I do chat frequently with friends on other platforms away from fab though.

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By *dventus_1Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Take a break

I think , in time, this site can jade you.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t take deliberate breaks. But life outside of here gets full sometimes and I naturally find myself spending less time/energy on the place. That feels like taking a break. It’s enough of one for me, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'll take a deliberate break, especially if I can sense I'm being grumpy.

If you do hang around, take a break from focusing on "getting a meet" and chat to us on the forums, connect with people with no pressure.

Otherwise, enjoy doing something different for a bit, fab will still be here when you get back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else suffer from Fab burn out or fatigue.

…. "

Why. What is that?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I stay away for a day or three.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Does anyone else suffer from Fab burn out or fatigue.

How do you deal with if?

Take a break

Leave

Find your responses getting more and more feisty

Nothing to do with meeting people at all but more for me to do with attitudes.

How many people would say what they say here to someone’s face?

Anyway time out "
take a break my friend come back refreshed

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

A deep breath, a day off and a change of thread combined

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I have stamina

How does that help the OP?

OP yep I get it and take a break the best option as others have said and see you have hidden profile. Many of course just leave and then come back have lost veris in the process.

This place is a real shit-show at times and you need to be in the right frame of mind. Forum has it's good points but I think amplifies frustrations and negative feelings. Forum has is clique, in jokes and people who hijack threads to talk about themselves rather too often. When it good spirits it washes over but at times as you say comments can more feisty

and time for a break. Hope you feel better with the whole thing soon.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yeah I do. I hide my profile and take a break.

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By *rodie568Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Best thing to do is take a break. A few days or even a week does it pretty well for us. It definitely helps to have breaks from this site from time to time

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Yes this can be very addictive. I am lucky as been swinging for years so lots of contacts and can take a break from being on here too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has never generated much heat for me, never mind anything near combustion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually now I’m getting abuse i my inbox Il prob just call it quits tbh.

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

Unlos for me.

I may have run out of fingers for the times I've had a break.

It's good for me though, I let it take over my time if I'm not careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll had for a bit and take a break.

If I come back and still feel the same I'll UNLOS.

I've lost count of how many profiles I've had.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Actually now I’m getting abuse i my inbox Il prob just call it quits tbh. "

It would be greyer around here if you did.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Actually now I’m getting abuse i my inbox Il prob just call it quits tbh. "

that's just shit

Tinder

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

He's taking an extended hiatus from here for that reason, it's only me that looks on here atm and even then I've been stepping back.

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually now I’m getting abuse i my inbox Il prob just call it quits tbh. "

Sorry to hear that. Could you hide for a bit and lock your messages?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Actually now I’m getting abuse i my inbox Il prob just call it quits tbh. "

Can’t you just block?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I don't think I've had Fab burnout, but if I am getting bored/irritated I just log on and/or post less.

I don't leave, but mainly as I couldn't be arsed to set up a new profile so I just hide it (which is not strictly necessary as it's not as if I'd return to loads of messages to deal with!).

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