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By *azytrucker OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Why is it difficult for the larger guy to contect with people here

I’m open to any suggestions anyone

May have here on how I might get some people to even look

It’s even harder when you have no verified

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Think there's been many a thread similar and the general advice is to go to a social

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP, I can't offer profile advice, but consider your expectations and efforts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a problem for lots of fellas on here not just the larger gent, it’s a supply and demand thing!

Are there any group socials near by to get verified, make a few connections and let people get to know the real you?

Good luck my friend

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Your profile is OK but nothing really jumps out at me to say "wow" if you had some better more varied pics and worked on your profile, saying what you do or don't like rather than just saying ' up for anything ' you might get more interest. Also join in on the forums, I've found I get a lot more interest since I've been mucking about on the forums. Good luck x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

How are you trying to connect with people OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is OK but nothing really jumps out at me to say "wow" if you had some better more varied pics and worked on your profile, saying what you do or don't like rather than just saying ' up for anything ' you might get more interest. Also join in on the forums, I've found I get a lot more interest since I've been mucking about on the forums. Good luck x"

This ^^^

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

You got to network.

Many get pissed off expecting it to come to them but you need to put in some groundwork and start getting familiar with people.

Many forget about building trust they think they can just waltz into someone's relationship and have a sexual relationship without developing some sort of trust.

By this I mean getting to socials, attend clubs don't go with expectations of play as I said see it as networking.

Also sometimes it's just about being in the right place at the right time .

Appearances aside from what I've seen at many parties and clubs people tend to invite people to play with them if they feel comfortable with them it's not just about having a six pack and a huge cock,fabs aside most parties are attended by normal people.

Just be friendly but not pushy,polite and respectful.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Getting your face known in the scene people will feel more comfortable with you if they've seen you at other events talking to people.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Why is it difficult for the larger guy to contect with people here

I’m open to any suggestions anyone

May have here on how I might get some people to even look

It’s even harder when you have no verified "

People like what they like & if that's not you, they won't look at your profile

No different to anyone else

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