FabSwingers.com forum: I really don't get you.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

I'm more than happy to talk you through my psychology PW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, it was only a cat

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Often. Most people.

But they don't get me so it's sort of mutual.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

But also no I don't. I get everyone is different and unique and appreciate them for it. Apart from the horny new guys asking why their profiles are shit. look around at others, you know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I am just me what you see is what you get at all times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people I really don't wanna get.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what I want people to feel

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Pinch of salt springs to mind...aint gonna like everyone everyone ain't gonna like me

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Jesus, it was only a cat"

"Only"

Reported!!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Who are all you people?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But also no I don't. I get everyone is different and unique and appreciate them for it. Apart from the horny new guys asking why their profiles are shit. look around at others, you know why."

Hi... This op.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Constantly, in all areas of life. One of my earliest memories is of feeling like an alien. I blame the 'tism, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and stay away from the serious threads, gets a bit too geeky.

You're always going to get clashes of personalities though, plus it's easy to misinterpret comments on the forums and get all mardy. Such is life.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

To be fair I don't even get myself so I'd be amazed if anyone else did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people who talk in such a convoluted manner I can't make out what they mean.

People who write an essay for every comment

People whose saccharine sweetness seems fake as hell

If they're getting on my wick, it's time to log out before I get my claws out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There are a handful of people I've disagreed with on here on particular topics but on other issues their opinions have aligned with mine so I've no issue with them at all.

Others however that I've never directly engaged with do get on my wick simply because of their cuntish behaviour.

Some of those give me that impression because of the way they pander and simp at every opportunity and don't seem to have an opinion they can call their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get a lot of people. But if I don’t understand something, don’t like them or disagree etc.. I read it and move on.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Yeah and it’s the thing people most often say to me when they meet me. It’s hard to know what to expect from someone just through online interactions.

There are lots of forumers I’d gladly never meet and who would no doubt say the same about me

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

There are some where I haven't got a clue what they are referring to and a few with agendas that I don't subscribe to so I just don't get involved.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Quite a lot of the time. Makes you wonder if they're really that dense in real life.

But you know... Strangers on the internet and all that, really doesn't impact me.

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By *iercedAndTattooedNE6Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Constantly, but I am probably part of the reason behind that, I sometimes just read people’s replies and think have you even read what I’ve wrote here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I definitely do and I'm finding myself more and more irritated by some of the people just falling into the Fab clichés both in terms of forum content and profile bios as well. When I'm in that mindset of irritation, I just ignore it all and lurk until I'm in a better headspace or if I really feel I can't get on with them, just ignore them altogether.

I used to get sucked in by obvious rage-bait opinions too but trying to not do that more and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look in the mirror before judging others.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I don’t think anyone gets me truthfully

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"But also no I don't. I get everyone is different and unique and appreciate them for it. Apart from the horny new guys asking why their profiles are shit. look around at others, you know why."

Yep, this. I mean sure, sometimes I'm not particularly fond of how someone posts. Sometimes I think 'this thread isn't for me' and I don't comment on it. We're all different and probably all a minor irritation to others on here.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"To be fair I don't even get myself so I'd be amazed if anyone else did!!"

Someone else feels this way yay

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Long sentences confuse me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Long sentences confuse me."

The ones with lots of clauses in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some on here that I don’t particularly like or I know I won’t get on with so I don’t interact with them. It’s to be expected when there’s so many different personalities in one place. If it got to the point I was getting angry at the sight of them I’d probably take a break.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words? "

^^ this

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

In general not many I don't get except the odd 1 or 2 who deliberately want to cause shit under the guise of I love everyone and I'm amazing..

But in my many years on here I've generally got along with most folk and I hope the feeling is mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the forums were full of people I liked it would be a boring place, we all need those we cringe a little at.

I appreciate you being here OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If the forums were full of people I liked it would be a boring place, we all need those we cringe a little at.

I appreciate you being here OP

Oh babe, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are threads I’ll avoid, others I’ll get involved in and that can be because if I’ve got nothing to say I’ll pass on by.

There are certain people who will say things to create attention or controversy and depending on my mood will depend if I interact.

Overall most people seem okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the forums were full of people I liked it would be a boring place, we all need those we cringe a little at.

I appreciate you being here OP

Oh babe, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we all need those we cringe a little at"

Debateable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If the forums were full of people I liked it would be a boring place, we all need those we cringe a little at.

I appreciate you being here OP

Oh babe, same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the forums were full of people I liked it would be a boring place, we all need those we cringe a little at.

I appreciate you being here OP

Oh babe, same here

You ruined it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh yes. I find myself rolling my eyes at some people and their comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had to explain two of my jokes today so I guess people don’t get me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

All the time , just leave them to it , they're obviously seeking attention or some kind of validation.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yeah lots and they just add to the great variety mix on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll normally find the more controversial posts or woe is me ones get more responses so most of us must like them or commenting on them

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep there are ,

I'm sure it's the same for some with us .

We can't be for everyone though or have the same mindset either.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we all need those we cringe a little at

Debateable."

The thing is everyone will make someone else cringe and eye roll and say for fucks sake under their breath.

There's a lot of people ( I mean a lot) that I don't particularly like on here, but I'm well aware they probably don't like me either. And I'd kinda miss their little egos if they left.

The people I like and those I dont are what make it slightly more interesting than browing pinterest.

You may eye roll now.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Yeah lots and they just add to the great variety mix on the forums

Rich tapestry of fab life hey Compy

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

I'm here to remind myself there's a whole wide world of moderately happy people interacting with each other, not just relentless complaints, deadlines and problems.

And cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones I don’t get on with take themselves way too seriously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few people actually. Most I just won't interact with, I find that easier than trying to understand them (especially if they're not what we're looking for anyway).

I'm not here to understand people's psychological needs by their writing styles

I also have enough to deal with without people being hit and miss. I don't like surprises.. So if you're going to surprise me down the road then there's no point trying with me

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we all need those we cringe a little at

Debateable.

The thing is everyone will make someone else cringe and eye roll and say for fucks sake under their breath.

There's a lot of people ( I mean a lot) that I don't particularly like on here, but I'm well aware they probably don't like me either. And I'd kinda miss their little egos if they left.

The people I like and those I dont are what make it slightly more interesting than browing pinterest.

You may eye roll now.

Yeah, I get that... I just wouldn't say I need them or they bring anything to my experience.

*shrugs*

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm here to remind myself there's a whole wide world of moderately happy people interacting with each other, not just relentless complaints, deadlines and problems.

And cake. "

And interacting with each other with complaints. :D

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ohh yes! Just try and avoid them x

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

There are loads that i dont get but it doesnt really bother me, im sure a good few think wtf is he going on about when i post.

Anyway, its 26 degrees here, the sun has gone down and i have beer, have a great night all

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't try to get people. Some are easier to understand than others. But we see only a glimpse of people here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't try to get people. Some are easier to understand than others. But we see only a glimpse of people here."

Agreed. Here people show you a version of them, whether that’s the real them or not is down for you to decide if you really want to

I was told yesterday that I am too honest to be on here. Weird when honesty was seen as a negative trait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there’s loads I don’t get in here.

I’m sure they go out of their way to wind people up. But I must be mistaken because people seem to think the sun shines from their ass.

I didn’t name names!!!!

Narrator - “Woody? That was said in humour right?

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Of course it was, because people like this type of posting don’t they? The subtext posts?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I can't stand people who think it's cool to dismiss a comment by saying they don't know what I'm on about, instead of maybe googling a specific term or thinking outside the box.

These are also the same people who chase me from thread to thread arguing the toss over....nothing!

Oh there was also a delightful chap who called me a gaslighter simply for defending my point, too.

Aside from that, I bear no ill to anyone here

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Yeah lots and they just add to the great variety mix on the forums

Rich tapestry of fab life hey Compy

Something in your eye Ghandi

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A few people actually. Most I just won't interact with, I find that easier than trying to understand them (especially if they're not what we're looking for anyway).

I'm not here to understand people's psychological needs by their writing styles

I also have enough to deal with without people being hit and miss. I don't like surprises.. So if you're going to surprise me down the road then there's no point trying with me

I could have written this myself.

A few years back I'd just automatically bite at obvious digs, barely hidden arrogance or unsubtle one-upmanship.

Now I just ignore and avoid.

Life's too short.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I dont get anyone people are aliens to me since covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few people actually. Most I just won't interact with, I find that easier than trying to understand them (especially if they're not what we're looking for anyway).

I'm not here to understand people's psychological needs by their writing styles

I also have enough to deal with without people being hit and miss. I don't like surprises.. So if you're going to surprise me down the road then there's no point trying with me

I could have written this myself.

A few years back I'd just automatically bite at obvious digs, barely hidden arrogance or unsubtle one-upmanship.

Now I just ignore and avoid.

Life's too short.

I feel like I need to put an initial here!

*w won’t work!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am enjoying the passive aggressive nature of the thread and the fact that everyone is probably trying to work out who is talking about whom.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Quite often really. Just different sense of humours I guess and different outlooks on life. Age is playing a big part now as I get older.

I just carry on doing my own thing and let them crack on doing their thing. No biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few people actually. Most I just won't interact with, I find that easier than trying to understand them (especially if they're not what we're looking for anyway).

I'm not here to understand people's psychological needs by their writing styles

I also have enough to deal with without people being hit and miss. I don't like surprises.. So if you're going to surprise me down the road then there's no point trying with me

Fuck sake I better cancel that surprise part... I mean party, I mean FUCK!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

There's a surprise party? Nobody told me. Man, you lot just don't like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am enjoying the passive aggressive nature of the thread and the fact that everyone is probably trying to work out who is talking about whom."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The subbing in this thread is so funny.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There’s definitely a few I know I’ll never get and understand.

But FAB is just like walking into a pub - there’ll be some you’ll chat to and some you’ll completely want to avoid and some you’ll have a laugh with and some you’ll want to take home.

But once I leave the pub I don’t worry or stress over the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"There’s definitely a few I know I’ll never get and understand.

But FAB is just like walking into a pub - there’ll be some you’ll chat to and some you’ll completely want to avoid and some you’ll have a laugh with and some you’ll want to take home.

But once I leave the pub I don’t worry or stress over the people.

That's basically my thinking right there.

On days when I'm less comfortable in the pub because of the conversations that are occurring, I'm more likely these days to walk out rather than get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s definitely a few I know I’ll never get and understand.

But FAB is just like walking into a pub - there’ll be some you’ll chat to and some you’ll completely want to avoid and some you’ll have a laugh with and some you’ll want to take home.

But once I leave the pub I don’t worry or stress over the people.

That's basically my thinking right there.

On days when I'm less comfortable in the pub because of the conversations that are occurring, I'm more likely these days to walk out rather than get involved."

But my local pub had people I liked. A did quizzes with them, and talked endlessly, and done became minor friends. I sure as hell had a whip round for flowers when some have passed or got married. Because I’m friendly.

If this is a pub, it’s certainly not a Manchester one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s definitely a few I know I’ll never get and understand.

But FAB is just like walking into a pub - there’ll be some you’ll chat to and some you’ll completely want to avoid and some you’ll have a laugh with and some you’ll want to take home.

But once I leave the pub I don’t worry or stress over the people.

That's basically my thinking right there.

On days when I'm less comfortable in the pub because of the conversations that are occurring, I'm more likely these days to walk out rather than get involved.

If this is a pub, it’s certainly not a Manchester one!

I knew there was a reason I've never been to Manchester.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

In"

Jury's out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I’d be 100% up for that

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Yeah. Some names get an eye roll before I even read what they have to say. Nothing against them, just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

It’s Called a profile……

*woody looks at the 0 MESSAGES and got the hint ages ago

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

There are some who I really don't get. I don't think that's necessarily a good or bad thing. I don't think you're supposed to get everyone. The only time it's an issue I suppose is when people clash because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

Lol "I'd shag you" "you're gorgeous" "who wouldn't like you"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m kind of in good company around freaks and weirdos, but fab does really test my boundaries.

What I have realised is the way a lot of people communicate here is different to real life, it’s very literal and child like I think it’s an ND thing where there’s no gap left to join the dots

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Pfffft.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I don't understand or get myself at time's so I really don't expect others to.

Always struggled my entire life to fit in socially being on here has made no difference.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd rather not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd rather not know"

Tough. I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

Oooooh this would be interesting...

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

I don't think liking someone on here, means you reply to them lots. I rarely interact with you on the forum, but I genuinely like how you post and often agree with what you say. Though I don't that comes across on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

I say it the way that sounds like dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd get 175 no's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep"

I don't know....some people constantly type how perfect they are and their sex life is and their life......that pisses people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd get 175 no's."

176.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd get 175 no's.

176."

Brutal

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

No, that usually is based around whether they have a vagina or not.

Popularity on here has absolutely no value, people seem to consider it such a prized asset but memories are short and it conveys no status

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep

I don't know....some people constantly type how perfect they are and their sex life is and their life......that pisses people off."

Haven’t you just described Instagram?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

No, that usually is based around whether they have a vagina or not.

Popularity on here has absolutely no value, people seem to consider it such a prized asset but memories are short and it conveys no status"

I have a vagina and I'm not popular Tea. Don't think it boils down to that alone. I'm sure it does help but there are far more popular males on here than I am.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I genuinely couldn't give a rat's arse how popular I am.

I'm only here to chew gum and kick ass and I'm all out of gum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

I reply to people's threads that I don't particularly like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

Jury's out."

Fair.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I've just spent a few days away from fab and the forums to get away from the shit I've seen on some posts. It's not a case of not getting some people, but of being able to see exactly who they are. There's genuine and normal people here who are great. There are people who put up an act that you can see right through but are kind of an ironic source of entertainment. Lastly, there's a small few who are just so repulsive and ruin what should be a fun place. Those are the ones who make me take time away before I end up lowering myself to their level.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

There's a few people that I feel utterly disconnected from and I don't generally want to directly engage with.

But that doesn't mean they're bad or wrong or anything. And I'm happy to have a variety of people around.

An echo chamber of similar souls is comforting and all, but learning and evolving tends to require exposure to other viewpoints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

Doesn't bother me in the least tbh , life way too short for anything like that, everyone is entitled to say or write whatever they want , if l see a post or thread or a reply that l don't agree with for whatever reason l just pass it by , sometimes l had a reply all written out and before l posted it l just deleted it ,now l just pass.. whatever a person writes here doesn't bother me in the least .

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

An echo chamber of similar souls is comforting and all, but learning and evolving tends to require exposure to other viewpoints

The echo chamber is what annoys me. The people who you can tell what their opinion will be because you read their favourite person say it three replies beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd get 175 no's.

176."

I want to say I don't like you either but you make me laugh too much for that.

But that made me cry. You meanie!

How could you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd get 175 no's.

176.

I want to say I don't like you either but you make me laugh too much for that.

But that made me cry. You meanie!

How could you!!!

Btw this weekend as a joke! Just have to point that out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

I'd get 175 no's.

176.

I want to say I don't like you either but you make me laugh too much for that.

But that made me cry. You meanie!

How could you!!!

Btw this weekend as a joke! Just have to point that out."

Noted

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I probably piss everyone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just realised I did I thread just befor-

Nvm

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I think I get most people, if we're talking literally, though there are some whose posts are fairly impenetrable at times. Some view points I can't reconcile with, even if I understand them.

I certainly don't like everybody, but that's to be expected, and sure the feeling is mutual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some on the forum who are not my cup of tea, but it's no biggie to just scroll past.

I probably do more facepalming from local updates. There are a few on there who I'm kinda fascinated by as their posts are just so ludicrous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good thing

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You don't need to ask people, it's easy to tell if someone is popular by the amount of replies to their thread's I'm not going to use the word that sounds like meek

No, that usually is based around whether they have a vagina or not.

Popularity on here has absolutely no value, people seem to consider it such a prized asset but memories are short and it conveys no status

I have a vagina and I'm not popular Tea. Don't think it boils down to that alone. I'm sure it does help but there are far more popular males on here than I am."

No it doesn’t boil down to that alone, as you say, that does help though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody gets me. A lot of the time I don’t get me…. I’m not sure there is any of me to be got?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Quite a few actually but don’t get draw in to the baiters any more as did once and forum police gave me detention……

Also I’ve done a thread which I thought was funny and it got deleted but looking back and thinking about its context I can see it could have got peoples backs up or come across as cringy…. (Still learning)

I would personally take people with a pinch of salt as at my place if work I’m very near the knuckle with my humour and if you couldn’t see my facial expressions or body language you’d probably report or thump me…..and that’s the problem in threads, words not conveying emotions properly….

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

There’s plenty of people on here I’d cross a bar to avoid. And plenty I’d cross a country to meet.

Comme ci, comme ça.

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

A few seem to have the hobby of deliberately misunderstanding/misinterpreting a post in order to create an argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

Yes often, I tend to just ignore them unless they say something that I very strongly disagree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few seem to have the hobby of deliberately misunderstanding/misinterpreting a post in order to create an argument"

Yes

And there are a few who will say bizzare comments/questions just to trigger a response

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

"A few seem to have the hobby of deliberately misunderstanding/misinterpreting a post in order to create an argument

Yes

And there are a few who will say bizzare comments/questions just to trigger a response "

Good at it from the safety of being behind a screen,less backbone than a bucket of piss in the real world I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similarly there are some amazing people on here, some names I see on certain threads and I know there is going to be at least 1 person talking sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few seem to have the hobby of deliberately misunderstanding/misinterpreting a post in order to create an argument

Yes

And there are a few who will say bizzare comments/questions just to trigger a response

Good at it from the safety of being behind a screen,less backbone than a bucket of piss in the real world I suspect."

Neeks. The internet is full of neeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol "

Oh I did it. It’s gone really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol

Oh I did it. It’s gone really well

Fair play for doing it but I can probably tell anyway without asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol

Oh I did it. It’s gone really well

Fair play for doing it but I can probably tell anyway without asking."

The ones that block me ofc. The ones that don’t, not always.

Besides, it’s funny. One thing about me, I’m going to try and make my time spent on here enjoyable for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol

Oh I did it. It’s gone really well

I just read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol

Oh I did it. It’s gone really well

Fair play for doing it but I can probably tell anyway without asking.

The ones that block me ofc. The ones that don’t, not always.

Besides, it’s funny. One thing about me, I’m going to try and make my time spent on here enjoyable for me"

I dunno... how people respond to things, the general vibe from them and a sprinkle of intuition.

But yeah man - crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We should all do a ‘do you like/ get me?’ Thread so people can answer honestly rather than subbing

You first lol

Oh I did it. It’s gone really well

Fair play for doing it but I can probably tell anyway without asking.

The ones that block me ofc. The ones that don’t, not always.

Besides, it’s funny. One thing about me, I’m going to try and make my time spent on here enjoyable for me

I dunno... how people respond to things, the general vibe from them and a sprinkle of intuition.

But yeah man - crack on."

Hmmm. There’s been people on here though I’m sure don’t like me much and then we message one day and they give completely different vibes. I’m bad at reading people and situations a lot of the time though I’m learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm. There’s been people on here though I’m sure don’t like me much and then we message one day and they give completely different vibes. I’m bad at reading people and situations a lot of the time though I’m learning

I just overthink everything tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just overthink everything tbh.

Like why did I use

instead of

Am I trying to tell you something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just overthink everything tbh.

Like why did I use

instead of

Am I trying to tell you something? "

Fuck knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many aren't genuine on here either as well - there's a lot of self interest going on for various reasons too.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

In general I read the words without judging the person. It's what is said that I respond to. I don't spend time analysing and categorising personalities that I will never meet. So it is possible that I would respond to writing by a person that I have nothing in common.

There are a handful of people that , over time, I have grown to 'know' and could attribute their writing to them even if their name wasn't on it and it's possible to feel warmth toward them whether I agree with their sentiment or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In general I read the words without judging the person. It's what is said that I respond to. I don't spend time analysing and categorising personalities that I will never meet. So it is possible that I would respond to writing by a person that I have nothing in common.

I feel your warmth.

Could be indigestion though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe but i have just farted in me leggins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just overthink everything tbh.

Like why did I use

instead of

Am I trying to tell you something?

Fuck knows? "

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Probably. I come ro the forum for the social feel of it. I don't need 'to get' people although a few have been raging nobbers.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes i find myself rolling my eyes at the comments from some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Specifically in the Forum, I’d say there is one that amuses me, cynically. I read their post because they are cringingly entertaining in their regular ‘casual’ references to their success and lifestyle but it’s when they belittle others with it that truly makes my skin crawl.

Miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely, just one so not too bad considering how many post.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

Just as when reading a new novel and the style of writing or language grates. We all have our preferences, although mine are obviously correct

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

As in life, yep.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Mostly it’s just posting style / difference in personality & with some interaction, we’re ok with each other. Never gonna be besties, but all is well.

That is the beauty of life, fab & forums. We’re all unique. Live & let live.

That said I’ve tried really really hard to be supportive & nice to some & had it literally thrown back in my face. I wouldn’t let it spill in the forums, but I won’t forgive it either.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m amazed at how people stroke the ego’s of complete strangers from the internet. It’s one of life’s many mysteries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m amazed at how people stroke the ego’s of complete strangers from the internet. It’s one of life’s many mysteries. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

I confuse myself regularly but apologies for any annoyance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly it’s just posting style / difference in personality & with some interaction, we’re ok with each other. Never gonna be besties, but all is well.

That is the beauty of life, fab & forums. We’re all unique. Live & let live.

That said I’ve tried really really hard to be supportive & nice to some & had it literally thrown back in my face. I wouldn’t let it spill in the forums, but I won’t forgive it either."
This

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over a year ago

"Mostly it’s just posting style / difference in personality & with some interaction, we’re ok with each other. Never gonna be besties, but all is well.

That is the beauty of life, fab & forums. We’re all unique. Live & let live.

That said I’ve tried really really hard to be supportive & nice to some & had it literally thrown back in my face. I wouldn’t let it spill in the forums, but I won’t forgive it either."

People love talking behind others backs.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

Che

Yes with just about most of the shit posted on here. I'm all over freedom of speech. But the egotistical approach some people use is toss

Anyway

Who want to rate my dick!

Would you wank suck fuck or throw up on me!

Oh my door is open just walk in and do what you want!

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

If there’s any really inflammatory threads on here that have been started or include people we don’t agree or gel with we just tend to avoid posting at all.

Life’s too short..

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I just pass the time on here. Not interested in egos, arrogance or the ocassional abuse that some seem to thrive on and they are definately ignored even if they post a personal responce. If I connect with someone, I do that privately. I don't like the herd mentality sometimes displayed and some people can be very btutal to others for their own personal gratification. Having said that I love interacting with some people, even of their opinions are different as they express them in an appropriate manner. I enjoy finding out stuff that are very useful day to day in some threads and all the food, drink and holiday ones

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Yes with just about most of the shit posted on here. I'm all over freedom of speech. But the egotistical approach some people use is toss

Anyway

Who want to rate my dick!

Would you wank suck fuck or throw up on me!

Oh my door is open just walk in and do what you want!

You’re gonna regret posting that last bit……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

I minute window and view, is only a mere glimpse on here and elsewhere,how can any repore engagement traction be found.

Face to face you get to see mostly the whole thing or a chance to,by asking questions,useing eye,ear skills.

Online is going nowhere,unless many love a picture of what they see,and Lust for it and need that for ego!

Its way too easy and flipant online,to be distracted and bombarded with visual pics,and info every sec. Oh what else is out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most people I really don't wanna get.

The real mind and deeper drives the shell and body!

We most are distracted by looks,and a little deeper the looks do not even equate to the mind and personality!

For me that is,worthless. And an empty shell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes with just about most of the shit posted on here. I'm all over freedom of speech. But the egotistical approach some people use is toss

Anyway

Who want to rate my dick!

Would you wank suck fuck or throw up on me!

Oh my door is open just walk in and do what you want!

You’re gonna regret posting that last bit……

Talk is cheap at best,think before and after saying and typing at large.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a few actually but don’t get draw in to the baiters any more as did once and forum police gave me detention……

A mere glimpse! But very,very far from it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep

I don't know....some people constantly type how perfect they are and their sex life is and their life......that pisses people off."

I'm a true believer in you getting what you focus on.

We're on this earth for a limited time, and I couldn't ever imagine getting pissed off with someone for finding happiness. I'd rather celebrate that than push it away.

I guess we each find our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep

I don't know....some people constantly type how perfect they are and their sex life is and their life......that pisses people off.

I'm a true believer in you getting what you focus on.

We're on this earth for a limited time, and I couldn't ever imagine getting pissed off with someone for finding happiness. I'd rather celebrate that than push it away.

I guess we each find our own.

Spot on. If we only could apply this daily!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Perhaps I’m a bit weird in that I try to see different things from other people’s perspectives and seek to understand before being understood. In that way I very rarely find myself in a situation where I don’t get or understand people.

Whether I like that viewpoint or agree is a completely different matter

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

It's the same anywhere in life. You're not gonna get along with everyone

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over a year ago

"I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep

I don't know....some people constantly type how perfect they are and their sex life is and their life......that pisses people off.

I'm a true believer in you getting what you focus on.

We're on this earth for a limited time, and I couldn't ever imagine getting pissed off with someone for finding happiness. I'd rather celebrate that than push it away.

I guess we each find our own.

I saw that comment more about people boasting of how well they're doing on threads that are about coping with not doing well. Seen multiple examples of that this week. I'm quite happy for people. Don't think they need to rub it in when some of those here are struggling.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

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"I get disliking someone for them saying things you find detestable but disliking someone for the way they type or how much they type or whatever? It’s not that deep

I don't know....some people constantly type how perfect they are and their sex life is and their life......that pisses people off.

I'm a true believer in you getting what you focus on.

We're on this earth for a limited time, and I couldn't ever imagine getting pissed off with someone for finding happiness. I'd rather celebrate that than push it away.

I guess we each find our own.

I haven't seen those threads, although I'm not on the forums a great deal these days.

I would like to think if I were struggling, and others were posting in this vein, I would see them as glimmers of hope that things can be different.

Perspective is all important.

It goes to show how we each bring different perspectives to conversation and how contextually words can be interpreted differently.

Sending love to anyone who needs it right now

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

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"How often do you feel this with people on fab?

In the forums?

Is there anyone at all where no matter what they do or write you just think I don't get you, you don't hit it off with them, you clash maybe?

Or their writing style just confuses you or sounds ridiculous or makes you cringe? Or you just think they are an utter twat and regularly face palm on sight of them and their words?

Do you try to get past it? Or try to talk to them?

No naming names!! "

There is a fair few yes.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not bothered if people do not get me. As long as they are respectful and polite. If not, I just block without engaging.

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