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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stop your insecurities from running in and f**king it up?

Please don't tell me that I shouldn't be on this site.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I look my insecurities in the face and then say “fuck it, life is too short” and go ahead anyway.

Do that for long enough and you will realise that your insecurities no longer have any power over you.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I look my insecurities in the face and then say “fuck it, life is too short” and go ahead anyway.

Do that for long enough and you will realise that your insecurities no longer have any power over you."

This. Be what you are. Fuck everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the negative comments off of your profile x

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I look my insecurities in the face and then say “fuck it, life is too short” and go ahead anyway.

Do that for long enough and you will realise that your insecurities no longer have any power over you."

Whilst sometimes might work it's still the best advice to try

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Feel the fear and do it anyway.

I nearly talked myself out of my last meet, very glad I didnt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sooner you realise EVERYONE has insecurities, this site not excluded, you'll feel more control over them. Everyone is dealing with an insecurity or two, which are invisible to the rest of us. It's all about this expectation and understanding, in order to comfortable with your own. I fine this thought helps me tremendously.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Self reflection works for me

I try figure out what I’m insecure about then it’s a case of addressing:

- where is this come from?

- what can I do to improve/ stop me feeling this way

- is it something within my control?

Hope this helps OP

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"The sooner you realise EVERYONE has insecurities, this site not excluded, you'll feel more control over them. Everyone is dealing with an insecurity or two, which are invisible to the rest of us. It's all about this expectation and understanding, in order to comfortable with your own. I fine this thought helps me tremendously."

The problem is, for some people with insecurities it's internal and only they themselves have that view of themselves.

Others are reminded and have it enforced from the outside, sometimes very often and nastily by others. That shit is extremely difficult to just pack away and get over no matter how hard you will it and remind yourself other people are insecure of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is why I said it does help. Not eradicates. It's all subjective on what the insecurity is, internal or external. If external, then maybe being on a site like this where people can get hostile very quickly, isn't the best place to be

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By * B SWoman
over a year ago

Bargoed

I’m a big fan of fake it until you make it - gets me past my insecurities almost every time. If not. Just take a deep breath and go ahead anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let them, hence why I never have the sex.

I recommend buying a wand.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Alcohol.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Everyone shits. Everyone. Even you reading this. Bet you're doing it right now aren't you? Disgusting.

Everyone has opinions, but everyone is wrong, except you. That's how you do it

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Everyone shits. Everyone. Even you reading this. Bet you're doing it right now aren't you? Disgusting.

Everyone has opinions, but everyone is wrong, except you. That's how you do it

"

Also my 2 first forum crushes posting above me

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Oh and sometimes, a chat to a mental health professional instead of some random shit talking dude on tinternet! ^^

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Unfortunately they often ruin things for me. I've learnt to just run with them and make the most of the times when I feel better about myself. Also not giving myself time to think to much to let the insecurities in usually helps too. It's not easy - you just have to find what makes you feel the best in yourself

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Start small. Maybe start with finding a friend. There are websites for that. You might find that easier initially. Your status makes me sad. Please be kinder to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice. Eventually the voice of insecurity won't be loudest

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