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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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When it comes to saying yes or no to things, are you good at it?

If you were better at it, what would you find yourself saying yes or no to more often?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yes.

No.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes.

No."

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Positive

Negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at saying No, although most of the women on here have no such issue

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I’m getting at better at saying no. 1st time I felt awful but it gets easier

J x

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

yeah but no but yeah but no.....

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Positive

Negative "

Bravo Katie, bravo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

No.

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

"

Im going to wait around for the toss up.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Positive

Negative

Bravo Katie, bravo."

Well shit, back to that one now are we?

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I personally find it very difficult to say no. Saying yes is easy for me.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Yes.

No.

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

"

We like to beat each other regularly.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Yes.

No.

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

Im going to wait around for the toss up. "

So thirsty.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m a ‘yes’ man sadly; often to my own detriment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

No.

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

Im going to wait around for the toss up.

So thirsty."

Do we toss to see who goes first?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I find it hard to say yes to things outside my comfort zone. They require a lot of overthinking and processing time. Spontaneity scares me most of the time

I'm getting pretty good at saying no to things I don't want to do. Much better than I used to be. Sometimes I'll even say no rather than making an excuse.

J

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Yes.

No.

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

Im going to wait around for the toss up.

So thirsty.

Do we toss to see who goes first?"

I’ll go for head please

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By *rinity_crossTV/TS
over a year ago

uttlesford, Essex

I dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

No.

It was a toss up between you or Ricky replying with this first.

Im going to wait around for the toss up.

So thirsty.

Do we toss to see who goes first?

I’ll go for head please"

Tight call. Must have been hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck off

Fuck yeah

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Do one

Damn straight

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm terrible at saying No (surprising I know) if I feel like saying it will let the person down.

But then I'm possibly equally as bad at saying Yes to things I really want to when I feel the brain goblins get in the way.

The mind can be a terrible pain at times and not in the way I like

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

yes/no erm... I'm very much one of lifes procrastinators (my ex used to say, dont give him a choice, we will be here all night)...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm more likely to say no than yes.

I'm also more likely to quantify than give an absolute if anything is less than absolute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

No."

Maybe

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm terrible at saying No, although most of the women on here have no such issue "

Ha! I don't know. I think that's because they're asked more so there's a greater likelihood, not because they find it easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comes easier to.me.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I don’t struggle with either. If i say no, I mean it and nothing will change that.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Depends on the context, here I'm very good at saying no - unfortunately getting less polite about it.

When my friend says "do you want to pop out for a couple cocktails", I find it difficult to say no. When she says, do you want another and another gets even harder to say no.

When the guy comes across and says, "do you want to come back to mine", easy to say no, says He'll "do both me and my friend" it is even easier to say no - but more difficult to say it politely

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

For me it's saying no. But in way that panache to the other person.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I’m getting at better at saying no. 1st time I felt awful but it gets easier

J x"

It does, I mean there's still the "oh dear" moments but you get better at speaking honestly. And not going along with things.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I find it hard to say yes to things outside my comfort zone. They require a lot of overthinking and processing time. Spontaneity scares me most of the time

I'm getting pretty good at saying no to things I don't want to do. Much better than I used to be. Sometimes I'll even say no rather than making an excuse.

J"

Ah Julie

Spontaneity can be daunting but the more you say yes to things that you really want and will bring you joy, the happier you'll be. I hope one day the excuses aren't needed. Just the reason (if you want to!).

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

In and around Cork city in Ireland if someone says

" I will yeah Boy "

It's a definite NO

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm good at saying yes, I'm not good at saying no.

Too much of a people pleaser but slowly taking on the Mr's don't give a shit ways

Getting better.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"When it comes to saying yes or no to things, are you good at it?

If you were better at it, what would you find yourself saying yes or no to more often?"

Depends what it is and who's asking.

A few people I just can't say no to, because of who they are, regardless of whether it's in my interests to or not, whether it'll be a ballache or whether I think it's a bad idea.

Sounds crazy right?

But some people have that effect on you.

Others I can quite easily say 'fuck no' to in a heartbeat.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope the variants of me are good fun. I enjoy visiting your realities in my dreams. X

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