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Fingering... What a word.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

How do you define it?

Is it just the penetration of fingers, or is it penetration with the addition of clitoral stimulation by use of fingers.

Or is the Clit Stim it's own thing not included under the label of the act of fingering.

I know there is a global definition, but I want to know where you sit on this. Are you different from the global definition?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Where I sit on this?

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Where I sit on this?

"

That's right I said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where I sit on this?

"

Here is some sitting support ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you define it?

Is it just the penetration of fingers, or is it penetration with the addition of clitoral stimulation by use of fingers.

Or is the Clit Stim it's own thing not included under the label of the act of fingering.

I know there is a global definition, but I want to know where you sit on this. Are you different from the global definition? "

Non penetrative = massage

Fully penetrative = fingerblasting

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't like sitting to be fingered

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Where I sit on this?

That's right I said it. "

I don't want to get in to it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

I don't think you need to be digitally penetrated to be fingers. Clit stimulation can come in to it but like most things, some women love it, others don't enjoy direct stimulation... it varies a lot. I don't think there's a one size fits all definition.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

I don't think you need to be digitally penetrated to be fingers. Clit stimulation can come in to it but like most things, some women love it, others don't enjoy direct stimulation... it varies a lot. I don't think there's a one size fits all definition."

I think the global definition is penetration is needed to be classed as fingering. That doesn't mean it's accurate, but if somebody says fingering sexually (again what a word ) what do you think of?

Urban dictionary never fails to amuse though.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

I don't think you need to be digitally penetrated to be fingers. Clit stimulation can come in to it but like most things, some women love it, others don't enjoy direct stimulation... it varies a lot. I don't think there's a one size fits all definition.

I think the global definition is penetration is needed to be classed as fingering. That doesn't mean it's accurate, but if somebody says fingering sexually (again what a word ) what do you think of?

Urban dictionary never fails to amuse though. "

Ah, well there you go! Learnt something new today.

I don't know. I think of a person's fingers exploring the quim. With or without penetration. I've been fingered a few times before where a lover has slipped their hand inside my knickers whilst we're out and just kind of... I don't want to be graphic. No penetration was involved though.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

I don't think you need to be digitally penetrated to be fingers. Clit stimulation can come in to it but like most things, some women love it, others don't enjoy direct stimulation... it varies a lot. I don't think there's a one size fits all definition.

I think the global definition is penetration is needed to be classed as fingering. That doesn't mean it's accurate, but if somebody says fingering sexually (again what a word ) what do you think of?

Urban dictionary never fails to amuse though.

Ah, well there you go! Learnt something new today.

I don't know. I think of a person's fingers exploring the quim. With or without penetration. I've been fingered a few times before where a lover has slipped their hand inside my knickers whilst we're out and just kind of... I don't want to be graphic. No penetration was involved though. "

I admit I used to think of it as the global definition, penetration. But as I got older, wiser(ish), more experienced(ish) I realised that it's the whole act of fingers in that area.

The teasing before, continuing to stimulate out just as much as in.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I don't know. I think of a person's fingers exploring the quim. With or without penetration. I've been fingered a few times before where a lover has slipped their hand inside my knickers whilst we're out and just kind of... I don't want to be graphic. No penetration was involved though. "

Meli's description matches my personal definition.

J

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"How do you define it?

Is it just the penetration of fingers, or is it penetration with the addition of clitoral stimulation by use of fingers.

Or is the Clit Stim it's own thing not included under the label of the act of fingering.

I know there is a global definition, but I want to know where you sit on this. Are you different from the global definition? "

If you are unsure what it is , there are many straight guys on here will show you if you pull your pants down

Not me though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't know. I think of a person's fingers exploring the quim. With or without penetration. I've been fingered a few times before where a lover has slipped their hand inside my knickers whilst we're out and just kind of... I don't want to be graphic. No penetration was involved though.

Meli's description matches my personal definition.

J"

Yes that's my preference as well! As much as I love penetration and can really enjoy the orgasms from it, when it comes to skilled fingers, I'd rather enjoy that sensation of them exploring, those little wicked grins when they find a particularly good spot/motion.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

The finger's need to be in for it to be fingering IMO, but fingering can include and I'm usually hopeful for clit stim

Em x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I don't know. I think of a person's fingers exploring the quim. With or without penetration. I've been fingered a few times before where a lover has slipped their hand inside my knickers whilst we're out and just kind of... I don't want to be graphic. No penetration was involved though.

Meli's description matches my personal definition.

J

Yes that's my preference as well! As much as I love penetration and can really enjoy the orgasms from it, when it comes to skilled fingers, I'd rather enjoy that sensation of them exploring, those little wicked grins when they find a particularly good spot/motion."

The exploration is so much more of a turn on than penetration. This is potentially going to be overly graphic but basically I only want them going in if they need additional lubrication.

J

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Well, the verb can be used in many ways to mean explored with their hands.

I remember reading "She fingered my lapels" (in what must have been a truly awful book) when young and finding it amusing.

So just a exploration of a ladies soft folds would fit that definition.

No delving required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it."

Desperanto.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't know. I think of a person's fingers exploring the quim. With or without penetration. I've been fingered a few times before where a lover has slipped their hand inside my knickers whilst we're out and just kind of... I don't want to be graphic. No penetration was involved though.

Meli's description matches my personal definition.

J

Yes that's my preference as well! As much as I love penetration and can really enjoy the orgasms from it, when it comes to skilled fingers, I'd rather enjoy that sensation of them exploring, those little wicked grins when they find a particularly good spot/motion.

The exploration is so much more of a turn on than penetration. This is potentially going to be overly graphic but basically I only want them going in if they need additional lubrication.

J"

Yes! Let's say fuck it to worries about being overly graphic.

That lubrication doesn't naturally go everywhere (lies, it definitely can. Not all the time is my point). It doesn't form everywhere. I like those moments when someone slowly coaxes a finger in and they realise how aroused I am. It's the sort of "foreplay" I relish.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

Desperanto."

This is good.

I never thought I'd see the day when you'd post in a thread about fingering.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes, all of those things. Until you get the reaction you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

Desperanto.

This is good.

I never thought I'd see the day when you'd post in a thread about fingering."

Thought I'd slide in and have a rummage around.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"What's the global definition? Genuinely don't know it.

Desperanto.

This is good.

I never thought I'd see the day when you'd post in a thread about fingering.

Thought I'd slide in and have a rummage around."

Feel free to rummage around any time.

(Easy goal there. I'm not sorry)

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I pride myself on my ‘stinger’ technique.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Fingering oh wow now we are talking. Fingering describes use of the fingers to create and emotion. Musicians pretty much finger all the time in some form.

^^Going off at a tangent, penetration is like playing single notes, play them hard or soft they are still just single notes. Get a couple of dicks and you may be able to play chopsticks.

But fingers you can play single notes, two notes or even chords. Chords can be happy or sad, wild or tame. chord make up entire symphonies - ooops getting carried away there

So to answer the question yes fingering is an amazing words because either musically of physically can generate a whole host of emotions and sensations.

Sadly most of the blokes I have met over the years, only know how to play the same note over and over again

Sorry I'll get back in my box now

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I combine the magic triangle with the clit rub using the thumb, it's like the 5 star of fingering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I combine the magic triangle with the clit rub using the thumb, it's like the 5 star of fingering "

^System addict.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS.

Call it want you want, men are shit at it anyway.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"[Finger removed by poster at 07/08/23 15:47:34]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[orgasm through fingering removed by male poster at 07/08/23 15:47:34]"

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"FFS.

Call it want you want, men are shit at it anyway.

"

Not their fault you're never happy with anything

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"FFS.

Call it want you want, men are shit at it anyway.

"

Clearly in need of a fingering but too much effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you play piano, fingering gets a whole new meaning.....

Made me like it even less. Why use fingers when you can get a nice juicy cock?

x Jess

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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago

Caister

Fingers are good for warming up the oven

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