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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this is described as something that's neither a red or green flag, but something that makes you pause and consider things before you continue your dating journey with someone.

That being said, what are your beige flags? One of mine is that they button up the duvet cover so the buttons are pointing outwards

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

The buttons go in Joe we all know that

When they don't put back down the toilet seat or leave the toilet roll empty

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they're just quirks you either find endearing or they aren't for you?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

What about duvet covers with pøppers?

(Not the sniffy kind, but the fastening kind )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The buttons go in Joe we all know that

When they don't put back down the toilet seat or leave the toilet roll empty

Em x"

But some heretics don't know that Em!

That's also a good one!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Dirty windows and a messy car. It’s like woah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they call me princess etc.

(Shakes head sadly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty windows and a messy car. It’s like woah."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely they're just quirks you either find endearing or they aren't for you?"

They are just quirks but the question still applies...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Beige is such a boring colour (for a relationship), aren’t these Amber flags?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imperfections.. Learning to get used to is hard.

Saying babe.. After first fab message

Or darling every time he messages

Forgets to brush his teeth and garlic breath on arriving.

Food stains all down him and his mouth.. At door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imperfections.. Learning to get used to is hard.

Saying babe.. After first fab message

Or darling every time he messages

Forgets to brush his teeth and garlic breath on arriving.

Food stains all down him and his mouth.. At door

"

Um. Moving in red flag territory perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is described as something that's neither a red or green flag, but something that makes you pause and consider things before you continue your dating journey with someone.

That being said, what are your beige flags? One of mine is that they button up the duvet cover so the buttons are pointing outwards "

If you snore op.. I give you breathe easy strips. Snoring keeps me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about duvet covers with pøppers?

(Not the sniffy kind, but the fastening kind )"

Moot point as it doesn't relate I the duvet cover itself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dirty windows and a messy car. It’s like woah."

This is awkward

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Everyone has small things you put up with if the big things that matter are all good. You just often don’t notice them for a couple months.

Things that are in the middle that would make me re-think , her English is too bad, she works 6 or 7 days, she likes very different food to me, like Cajun seafood boil or chicken heart & livers, or KFC. As much as liked someone , if the food is too different it won’t work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they call me princess etc.

(Shakes head sadly)"

Interesting, just that pet name or all others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it."

Ouch. Targeted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beige is such a boring colour (for a relationship), aren’t these Amber flags? "

Does it matter what the colour of the hypothetical quirks are?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Imperfections.. Learning to get used to is hard.

Saying babe.. After first fab message

Or darling every time he messages

Forgets to brush his teeth and garlic breath on arriving.

Food stains all down him and his mouth.. At door

"

Yeah, that last one is definitely a red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they call me princess etc.

(Shakes head sadly)

Interesting, just that pet name or all others?"

All in that vein. Princess, hun, lamby/lamb chops, my love...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So this is described as something that's neither a red or green flag, but something that makes you pause and consider things before you continue your dating journey with someone.

That being said, what are your beige flags? One of mine is that they button up the duvet cover so the buttons are pointing outwards

If you snore op.. I give you breathe easy strips. Snoring keeps me up"

Nah, I don't snore so you'd be ok

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it.

Ouch. Targeted. "

No idea what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it."

I understand it Meli... Understand that it's not very good and doesn't belong in coffee!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Beige is such a boring colour (for a relationship), aren’t these Amber flags?

Does it matter what the colour of the hypothetical quirks are?"

Any color but beige is fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has small things you put up with if the big things that matter are all good. You just often don’t notice them for a couple months.

Things that are in the middle that would make me re-think , her English is too bad, she works 6 or 7 days, she likes very different food to me, like Cajun seafood boil or chicken heart & livers, or KFC. As much as liked someone , if the food is too different it won’t work

"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

If he drinks Huel

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Imperfections.. Learning to get used to is hard.

Saying babe.. After first fab message

Or darling every time he messages

Forgets to brush his teeth and garlic breath on arriving.

Food stains all down him and his mouth.. At door

"

Corr......he sounds a catch

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"If he drinks Huel "

I thought it was hurl. Looks like wallpaper paste

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it.

I understand it Meli... Understand that it's not very good and doesn't belong in coffee! "

We'll bring you one in September and change your mind.

Being sensible, there are little things. Like if they have really bad taste in other women/men.

Hates all musicals.

Has a slightly irritating laugh.

Doesn't wash their hands after handling raw meat. Doesn't use separate chopping boards.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Drinks straight out of the milk bottle.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can’t eat a meal without staring at their phone.

Sleeps with one pillow. You can’t convince me that you’re comfy laying there with your neck all bend like that

Doesn’t kiss in three’s weirdooo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they call me princess etc.

(Shakes head sadly)

Interesting, just that pet name or all others?

All in that vein. Princess, hun, lamby/lamb chops, my love..."

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he drinks Huel "

*Stands and applauds* that is a red flag for me though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it.

I understand it Meli... Understand that it's not very good and doesn't belong in coffee!

We'll bring you one in September and change your mind.

Being sensible, there are little things. Like if they have really bad taste in other women/men.

Hates all musicals.

Has a slightly irritating laugh.

Doesn't wash their hands after handling raw meat. Doesn't use separate chopping boards.

"

I've already tried and was whelmed by the flavour also, people don't wash their hands after handling raw meat and don't use separate chopping boards for the veg and meat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Drinks straight out of the milk bottle.

A"

That is a solid beige flag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe too loud.

Chew too loud.

Sneeze a lot. I'm sure my ex was allergic to me.

Fidget.

Sigh loudly.

Look past you when you're talking to them.

Walk slowly.

Indecisive.

Makes shit coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can’t eat a meal without staring at their phone.

Sleeps with one pillow. You can’t convince me that you’re comfy laying there with your neck all bend like that

Doesn’t kiss in three’s weirdooo! "

When you say kiss in threes, do you mean three people or peck, peck, final kiss goodbye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drinks straight out of the milk bottle.

A"

What's wrong with that?

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

If a perspective partner doesn't like waltz music, then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can’t eat a meal without staring at their phone.

Sleeps with one pillow. You can’t convince me that you’re comfy laying there with your neck all bend like that

Doesn’t kiss in three’s weirdooo!

When you say kiss in threes, do you mean three people or peck, peck, final kiss goodbye? "

Yes! It’s supposed to be peck, peck, then the final kiss or I’m going to be standing there like an idiot waiting on the other 2

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Drinks straight out of the milk bottle.

A

What's wrong with that? "

I don't want spit in my morning coffee.

There's a time and a place for that shit.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Breathe too loud.

Chew too loud.

Sneeze a lot. I'm sure my ex was allergic to me.

Fidget.

Sigh loudly.

Look past you when you're talking to them.

Walk slowly.

Indecisive.

Makes shit coffee."

I think not doing the last one makes up for the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a perspective partner doesn't like waltz music, then... "

Ooooh that's very niche!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can’t eat a meal without staring at their phone.

Sleeps with one pillow. You can’t convince me that you’re comfy laying there with your neck all bend like that

Doesn’t kiss in three’s weirdooo!

When you say kiss in threes, do you mean three people or peck, peck, final kiss goodbye?

Yes! It’s supposed to be peck, peck, then the final kiss or I’m going to be standing there like an idiot waiting on the other 2 "

I'd be afraid I'd be too tempted by the other two and want to drag ou back to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who don't understand pumpkin spice and mock people who can appreciate it.

I understand it Meli... Understand that it's not very good and doesn't belong in coffee!

We'll bring you one in September and change your mind.

Being sensible, there are little things. Like if they have really bad taste in other women/men.

Hates all musicals.

Has a slightly irritating laugh.

Doesn't wash their hands after handling raw meat. Doesn't use separate chopping boards.

I've already tried and was whelmed by the flavour also, people don't wash their hands after handling raw meat and don't use separate chopping boards for the veg and meat? "

People don't wash their hands after handling their DICK! Definitely not gonna bother with raw meat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nods at me in the hallway. FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drinks straight out of the milk bottle.

A

What's wrong with that?

I don't want spit in my morning coffee.

There's a time and a place for that shit.

A"

After coffee?

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"If a perspective partner doesn't like waltz music, then...

Ooooh that's very niche!"

I would go further OP. After dating wgat I thought was a lovely lady for some years, said lady actually *scoffed* at The Blue Danube! We separated not long after that.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Not sure I could cope with anyone religiously watching Love Island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My list is too long. Does that make me an intolerant twat?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Leaves all the Washing Up until after dinner instead of cleaning as you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can’t eat a meal without staring at their phone.

Sleeps with one pillow. You can’t convince me that you’re comfy laying there with your neck all bend like that

Doesn’t kiss in three’s weirdooo!

When you say kiss in threes, do you mean three people or peck, peck, final kiss goodbye?

Yes! It’s supposed to be peck, peck, then the final kiss or I’m going to be standing there like an idiot waiting on the other 2

I'd be afraid I'd be too tempted by the other two and want to drag ou back to bed "

You say that like it’s a bad thing

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Anyone who doesn't like cats and can't understand why they're called fur babies

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone who doesn't like cats and can't understand why they're called fur babies "

Hard agree

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Flakey people.

I am flakey enough for both of us!

Also anyone who doesnt like cats, or dogs, well, animals really.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Snores.

Doesn't sleep like the dead and therefore notices me fidgetting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snores.

Doesn't sleep like the dead and therefore notices me fidgetting"

I HATE sleeping next to someone, I am never doing this again. Bloody fidget arses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone who doesn't like cats and can't understand why they're called fur babies "

Sounds like a green flag if anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can’t eat a meal without staring at their phone.

Sleeps with one pillow. You can’t convince me that you’re comfy laying there with your neck all bend like that

Doesn’t kiss in three’s weirdooo!

When you say kiss in threes, do you mean three people or peck, peck, final kiss goodbye?

Yes! It’s supposed to be peck, peck, then the final kiss or I’m going to be standing there like an idiot waiting on the other 2

I'd be afraid I'd be too tempted by the other two and want to drag ou back to bed

You say that like it’s a bad thing "

Good point, well made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Leaves all the Washing Up until after dinner instead of cleaning as you go "

But the food will get cold once you've made it otherwise

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