FabSwingers.com forum: Ever caught feelings for someone one here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Yes, but we are now still great friends to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t personally but a guy I was regularly seeing from on here started to get feelings and I took the decision to stop seeing him.

My husband is my priority so nothing would make me jeopardise that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’ve never caught feelings for anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda but we still talk and I’m visiting her next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not those kind of feelings.

Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Was chatting to a single girl on here, got a bad feeling she wasn't a female

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not those kind of feelings.

Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.

This made me smile.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

Yes. First guy I met on here. Still my favourite human.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes ,and we've been together almost 8 years .

Miss

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. It progressed a bit further but then they (the feelings) went away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately yes

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Nope!

I admire people but have never caught ‘feelings’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not those kind of feelings.

Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.

This made me smile. "

I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. And she's wonderful. But also a dickhead

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Yes.

I like having feelings for the people I choose to spend time with

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not those kind of feelings.

Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.

This made me smile.

I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!"

Oh send my love!! Say I asked after Ember and Panda. (Is it weird I remember the name of her dogs? Probably)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not those kind of feelings.

Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.

This made me smile.

I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!

Oh send my love!! Say I asked after Ember and Panda. (Is it weird I remember the name of her dogs? Probably)"

Just did.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No. That might not be true. Anyway, I'm mainly commenting because of the whole Lib seeing Courtney thing. So lovely! Hope you have a brilliant time, x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Yep. And she's wonderful. But also a dickhead

I don't think I'm capable of liking people at all if they're not at least a little bit of a dickhead

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. I don't think of feelings as something you catch like 'flu. I have liked almost everyone we've met and I find I like a lot of forum people but I don't think of that as a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, her Husband caught her before it really got serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings are fine. Deep deep feelings, done that and wouldn’t recommend. 2/10

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

No never caught feelings for someone on fab, although it's always a rare rare possibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be some sort of feelings or nothing happens. I can’t just “fuck” as I need a bit or a start of a mental connection.

I understand that can limit my options but it’s what I need.

One night things just don’t work for me

Major feelings. Yes once. We dated for a long while and it was good. Do I look for that again? I’d say no.

Feelings can be both amazing and equally destroying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.

Me and Mr started as fwb. We caught feelings and the rest is history lol.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings no never……. Connection and chemistry yes

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Feelings no never……. Connection and chemistry yes "

And not even bought me a coffee yet

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes and it was mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feelings no never……. Connection and chemistry yes

And not even bought me a coffee yet

Shush Stan

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

No, not in the truest sense. But I've definitely had my small-f feelings hurt.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No just like.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Nope

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I caught feelings once but she's now long gone.

Now I just do the opposite and throw feelings like confetti, hoping that a fab maiden (or two) will catch them.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not those kind of feelings.

Courtney is one of my favourite people in the world though.

This made me smile.

I'm going to visit her next year. Can't wait!

Oh send my love!! Say I asked after Ember and Panda. (Is it weird I remember the name of her dogs? Probably)

Just did.

Awww thank you!

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Just a good friendship

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Feelings no never……. Connection and chemistry yes "

The same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Friendship yes. Love no.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Affection, yes. Feelings are not an option.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Ermmmmm....

Tinder

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

No I only have feelings for mr s x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No. I wouldn't develop deep feelings for anyone who just wants sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Yes. So we got married

J x

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By *_elie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yep. We had an on- off relationship for three years (then I discovered how deceitful he was, sadly).

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

Yes.

I married her.

Sure, it's ended now. But I don't regret a thing. We've had some amazing years together, are still good friends and both moving on separately.

You can never predict when/if you catch the feels for someone on here and certainly can't predict if or how long they'll last.

Just like in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

Yes.

I married her.

Sure, it's ended now. But I don't regret a thing. We've had some amazing years together, are still good friends and both moving on separately.

You can never predict when/if you catch the feels for someone on here and certainly can't predict if or how long they'll last.

Just like in the real world.

It's good you're still friends. That's one thing I've never been able to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’d struggle to catch a cold on here let alone feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it was fun while it lasted and I’ve no regrets. Would definitely take a friendship past FWBs if it felt it was going somewhere.

But I’m more happy going with the flow and enjoying time with someone rather than faking in love

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Yes

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and we are still together 2 and half years later and engaged

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

Yes.

I married her.

Sure, it's ended now. But I don't regret a thing. We've had some amazing years together, are still good friends and both moving on separately.

You can never predict when/if you catch the feels for someone on here and certainly can't predict if or how long they'll last.

Just like in the real world.

I love this story.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Yes it was the happiest days of my life but in the end i lost and went insane for a long time tried to blow up the world at least 3 times but was stopped by a teddy bear and a spotty man now i try not to feel much of anything its safer for the universe

Your welcome

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nope! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

In over a decade no.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Kinda .. he was on here for a while... but I don't intend to catch feelings again... too much heartache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it was fun while it lasted and I’ve no regrets. Would definitely take a friendship past FWBs if it felt it was going somewhere.

But I’m more happy going with the flow and enjoying time with someone rather than faking in love "

Hi op this is me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, though I do think there’s been a few times where people have developed feelings for me. It’s why I prefer to keep things as one offs.

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By *raveller_87Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

I've met a couple people quite often and I think it's gone beyond FBs but it's not dating/relationship etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow i never expected to get such a response.. thank you folks.. i have feelings for you all lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Feelings no never……. Connection and chemistry yes "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me?

Never.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

no your day dreaming or lying ? which is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"Yes it was the happiest days of my life but in the end i lost and went insane for a long time tried to blow up the world at least 3 times but was stopped by a teddy bear and a spotty man now i try not to feel much of anything its safer for the universe

Your welcome"
would i change it tho not a chance in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, probably several times over really. But I enjoy a connection/friendship with folk I meet... Does it mean I want to have a full blown relationship with them? Nope, because it's not want I'm seeking. But I'm definitely not scared of saying if I like someone, and if I'd like them to play some part in my life, whatever that role may be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply. Yes

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Loving, caring, happy, nuturing feelings for special friends, yes many times

I fell into a bucket of Infatuation once. Totally blindsided me and took me a while to crawl out of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human nature innit? We bow to our animal instincts at times, yet run from it at others

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Every person that I get to know. I get feelings easily. Sometimes it's feelings that they are someone very special.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Can't find anyone to have a decent conversation with let alone anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get to like people. Love a good flirt and normal non sexual chat. After all I know what it is no need for Venn Diagrams.

Liking is not licking either but I need to feel positive vibes so we might move from liking to licking. Lips of kisses

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

Yes, a couple of times. Sadly they disappear after a few meets!!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've had someone tell me they love me, and I'm very fond of him, but it's not real, as we haven't spent enough time together. I think he just likes the idea of it and having someone to chat to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not romantic feelings

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Every person that I get to know. I get feelings easily. Sometimes it's feelings that they are someone very special."

Sometimes it's feelings that they are someone to avoid. Sometimes it's just-north-of-neutral feelings, liking but not licking (thank you for this expression Sexbecs12!). And sometimes it's very special feelings.

However I'm not crazy (at least not in that way), I'm not going to be trying to move in, and I'm certainly not going to be upsetting anyone's existing relationships.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've had someone tell me they love me, and I'm very fond of him, but it's not real, as we haven't spent enough time together. I think he just likes the idea of it and having someone to chat to."

To be fair it's not for you to say what is and is not real for him. I'm not saying it is or isn't real, but some people do manage to fall in to what they feel/believe/think/do is love easily. With very little time spent together. To him it is real.

That aside whatever it is to him, doesn't invalidate what it is for you, and you need to do what's right for you.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Heres a question, has anyone ever developed feelings for folks on here weather it be after chatting for a long while and getting to know the person or after meeting a few times?

I honestly love the social side of the lifestyle and meeting up more than once.

Being Poly found out both my wife & girlfriend have accounts...after we started dating LOL

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

Yes but I think they're something between non romantic feelings and romantic feelings.

My last FwB ended things after developing feelings for someone else which was fine, I completely understand. They're not in a relationship yet but he messaged the other day and we ended up flirting and um... reminiscing and I got a bit upset about it but I think it was just because it was such a good thing rather than actually having romantic feelings. Who knows...

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yep. Can't seem to shake him off

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off

Are you Taylor Swift

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off

Are you Taylor Swift

I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I've had someone tell me they love me, and I'm very fond of him, but it's not real, as we haven't spent enough time together. I think he just likes the idea of it and having someone to chat to.

That aside whatever it is to him, doesn't invalidate what it is for you, and you need to do what's right for you. "

It's also not fair for you to comment when you don't know the situation or finer details.

I don't think so... It's just words on a screen. He's not shown me with any actions - like making the effort to see me. Love isn't a bunch of what's app messages and a handful of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, of course.

I think it's only natural when you are being intimate with someone regularly.

Does it mean I'd want to take it further? No!

I think the feelings make it better. I'm not a robot.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off

Are you Taylor Swift

I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!

Ah I see haha cool .. It's your go btw

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off

Are you Taylor Swift

I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!

Ah I see haha cool .. It's your go btw

Are you poking me in the forums?!

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No, the bond we have is with each other and maintaining that is always our priority.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Feelings as in close friends yes but love no not at all

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Yep. Can't seem to shake him off

Are you Taylor Swift

I wish! But nope. He's a hardcore swift fan and would have got that reference faster than me though!

Ah I see haha cool .. It's your go btw

Are you poking me in the forums?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, thankfully he did as well and we ended up being together although it didn't last very long as he constantly thought I was on here behind his back and cheating

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, we ended up having a 2 year relationship x

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

Not yet …..

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