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What does ‘discreet’ really mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/08/23 13:26:49]

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Don't let the wife know

Don't let the hubby know

Don't let anyone know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

They don't want to meet someone who will talk loudly enough for the whole of costa to hear them

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

i wont tell if you dont.

if we play then see each other in the supermarket then i wont say hello.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both "

Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

Discreet for us means we keep our Fab lives separate from our daily ones.

If we see you out and about we might exchange a smile but won’t say hi.

We’re not looking for new daily friends here, just naughty evenings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case I ask for discretion purely because I’m seeking locals to meet (Nottingham’s a relatively tiny place!) & I like to compartmentalise my life so don’t want ‘Fred’ bumping into me at any local outlet & declaring our shenanigans for all and sundry

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan
over a year ago

J11 M5 Cheltenham

Discreet= Di(rty)screet rearranged is secret.

Keep yer mouth shut and

Just walk on by if ever you should again meet.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

It means that we are happy to play on the condition that you don’t go broadcasting our personal lives to every Tom dick or Harry. Swinging used to be very discreet. I don’t care how mainstream it is, it’s discretion or nothing.

Sadly it seems in short supply these days.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

To me it means they want me to be a dirty little secret, so hard pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means that we are happy to play on the condition that you don’t go broadcasting our personal lives to every Tom dick or Harry. Swinging used to be very discreet. I don’t care how mainstream it is, it’s discretion or nothing.

Sadly it seems in short supply these days. "
This

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


" not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both

Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad. "

You can always make a ask thread lovely, many people ask questions that have been asked previously, hopefully the ones who dislike it will scroll on past next time. Keep on posting those thoughts

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


" not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both "

Or a lot of the time neither

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By *inkykittypleaserMan
over a year ago

London

Yea I’m all fairness doesn’t always mean they’re cheating , many people that use this sites wouldn’t like family and friends knowing what they get up to or work ..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means trustworthy.

Confidentiality.

Quietly without broadcasting the fact.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

adjective:

careful and prudent in one's speech or actions, especially in order to keep something confidential or to avoid embarrassment.

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Slagging off one of the Greek islands

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I don't think it always means they're cheating,but sometimes they are & there would be other red flags.

Mainly they don't share that they are in this lifestyle ,so wouldn't want others to discuss them if they'd met or don't want their work to know that they're on here.

Miss

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It means it really is nobody’s business what you get up to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Discreet to me in a swinging context means that you don't broadcast your activities publicly, you don't post about other people in off site platforms and you don't gossip to other people about those you've met.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"[Discretion guaranteed by poster at 06/08/23 13:26:49]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means it really is nobody’s business what you get up to. "

What he said.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


" not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both

Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad. "

Now your grounded for back chat LOOOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nsa on the quiet.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


" not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both

Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad.

You can always make a ask thread lovely, many people ask questions that have been asked previously, hopefully the ones who dislike it will scroll on past next time. Keep on posting those thoughts "

Everyone posts their likes and dislikes to threads for what ever reason lovely

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

It just means you don't want the whole world knowing your business.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" not this again

Some weeks ago this thread was made.

Discreet means they can't be so open to posting their face because of the job they do or because they have a partner who doesn't know about fab and sometimes its both

Sorry Mom. I didnt know the topic had been discussed already. I’ll ask admin to remove this. My bad. "

You can ask whatever you want within forum rules

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Don't let the wife know

Don't let the hubby know

Don't let anyone know "

I'm glad I don't have to hide from anyone at home - the cat doesn't know how to access the laptop or smart phone

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Whether it's written or a profile or not half the meet excitement is having a personal life. If that personal life is broadcast in a week, month, year or 10, then it's no longer personal - you may as well be the guy in the pub bragging about how they fucked a holiday rep.

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"adjective:

careful and prudent in one's speech or actions, especially in order to keep something confidential or to avoid embarrassment.

"

This is how i would hope people to behave on fab. In this way being discreet should come as standard really. Shouldn’t even need to be said.

Which is why when it is plastered all over a profile i read it as cheater red flag. I’m not always right, but i reckon its served me well about 90% of the time.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

What happens on fab, stays on Fab

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