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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can I change that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah pickles nobody is.

People come, people go, people generally don't give a shit.

I value that.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Shine your light on me!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes we all one big family! X

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I do. Even the haters have that soft spot for me when they really just let go

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm just an anonymous pair of tits posting nonsense to the ether

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

No...whatever that means. I don't actually care though.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

No, I do not feel that my member is sufficiently valued on the forums.

Serious answer: Also no, I don't feel like a valued member of the forums. I'm not sure there's anything you can do to change that, but thank you for asking.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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What's a valued member? I think we all contribute to varying degrees and sometimes people aren't acknowledged or understood which can be a shame.

I don't think I'm a particularly valued member - there are many women who post like me, think like me. Well not many but you get the idea.

I'm valued on here by those I value and that's good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nahh ……..Sydney Carton got it right…

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"What's a valued member? I think we all contribute to varying degrees and sometimes people aren't acknowledged or understood which can be a shame.

I don't think I'm a particularly valued member - there are many women who post like me, think like me. Well not many but you get the idea.

I'm valued on here by those I value and that's good enough for me."

Walk talk and act like me, dress like me, they might be the next best thing but they're not quite Meli!

Cause I am Meli the real slim Meli all you other _elis are just imitating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just me and that is all

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"What's a valued member? I think we all contribute to varying degrees and sometimes people aren't acknowledged or understood which can be a shame.

I don't think I'm a particularly valued member - there are many women who post like me, think like me. Well not many but you get the idea.

I'm valued on here by those I value and that's good enough for me.

Walk talk and act like me, dress like me, they might be the next best thing but they're not quite Meli!

Cause I am Meli the real slim Meli all you other _elis are just imitating"

Slim. Slim.

I like it though, thanks Brucey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes depends on the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like when someone leaves work - the next day is just another day. The world keeps spinning.

It is what it is.

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over a year ago

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"How can I change that? "

Why do you think it's your job to change it, OP? And how would you go about it?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think you are...you're probably not

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure, much as everyone else whom keeps the people and forums active in our only little way....

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Shine your light on me!"

There’s no way I’m typing that into YouPorn, I’ve got visions of a powerful torch being used to illuminate a foof like a Halloween pumpkin

Back at the question, no I’m not to most people, but I’m ok with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all,but why would I be. I'm not good at pretending to be something I'm not.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Ah pickles nobody is.

People come, people go, people generally don't give a shit.

I value that."

She's not wrong.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"Ah pickles nobody is.

People come, people go, people generally don't give a shit.

I value that."

What she said.

Some people may have something insightful to say at any given moment but it's all based on subject. Everyone fills a small niche but they are still just filler and fodder that comes and goes.

Maybe a fond memory here and there but nothing special.

As I've said before, one person's hero is another person's villain.

I expect somebody may value me, and others won't.

I care little for that value either way. It's nice to see members contribution but that's sort of it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't be part of a forum that valued me. Eww.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I get a badge if I say yes. A proper metal one with a pin.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Feeling valued is something that generally comes from a relationship and develops over time. I imagine most of the folk on here have one or two relationships IRL and come here for sex without the weight of expectations and the risk of rupture that comes from revealing your desires sometimes, or at least the anxiety about the risk. I feel freerer to talk on here than I have in any relationship off-site. It is liberating in lots of ways. Or something like that

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"How can I change that? "

I do me and that gives me value...if I was looking to feel valued by mostly ppl I won't meet or know, then I need to.look at why I feel that need, external value from others....

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"How can I change that? "

Well you could suport the thread s I've posted that

Have died a death .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really seek validation from the forums anymore like I used to so I'm not really fussed if I'm valued in the forums or not. If I am, then that's great but I'm not losing sleep if I'm not as it's all just people behind a keyboard at the end of the day.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

People I have met at OP4F , Rios and London socials have said they find my comments helpful and not negative so I would like to think some like me but not the end of the world if they don’t

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By *carlett 44Woman
over a year ago

bootle

I think it's lovely how you all seem to know each other so well even if it just from on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I change that? "
You can't different cultures

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

100%

Last time we went unlos everyone wore black armbands on their forum posts for 7 days and someone started a just fund me page to pay for our ultimate supporter badge when we came back.

It’s nice to feel appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100%

Last time we went unlos everyone wore black armbands on their forum posts for 7 days and someone started a just fund me page to pay for our ultimate supporter badge when we came back.

It’s nice to feel appreciated

"

So there is a badge! Right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel welcome.

I feel supported.

Valued?

Well, I don't feel devalued!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on Wednesdays

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not really I post my comments, most get ignored but by then I have moved on to the next thread or doing something else

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

It's a minefield right now.

Coming back after a year or so away.

Valued - no.

Although all posts are read which could mean valued to some.

If you mean valued to others, definitely not.

You get that with friendships made on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too early to tell

But in previous visits then yes

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I have no value on the forums

Do I care? Yes

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I don't seek validation from others and most of the time I don't get a long with women. I'm outspoken and stick by my views which not many can allow others to their own views that doesn't match theirs.

I had a fall out with a certain woman that uses the forums sometimes as well and I also don't use the forums often enough to assume I should be recognised.

I'm simply here to give my input create the odd thread and go about my business

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Do you Pickle? How would you like to change that if not?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've just had revelation why post so many threads

Its because my magic finger are not getting used elsewhere. Any ladies help with this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really I post my comments, most get ignored but by then I have moved on to the next thread or doing something else"

This ^^^

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Fuck no. But I don't need to, and does your vegan picnic contribution consist of a lettuce...

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Not really I post my comments, most get ignored but by then I have moved on to the next thread or doing something else"

Yes this is pretty much how I use the forums. I don't think anyone has more value on the forums over anyone else, not for me anyway.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Not really I post my comments, most get ignored but by then I have moved on to the next thread or doing something else

Yes this is pretty much how I use the forums. I don't think anyone has more value on the forums over anyone else, not for me anyway."

No one does hun

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I left tomorrow no one would even notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice. "

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice. "

I used to think that as well but think there's a few who would notice, esp in the noc.

But many other threads they wouldn't notice

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I shine under my own light.

Admittedly, it's a bloody big bulb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a forum??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a forum?? "

Move along.

Nothing to see here!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"How can I change that? "

I’m in the top 1%. You can’t

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I just like chuntering away. It’s nice if someone sparks off my ramblings but not mandatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice. "

Report and block.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice.

I would"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice. "

@....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice. "

No. I'd notice. I like your rational postings. I think a lot more people would be noticed than they think - you, a general you, might not feel you're noticed, you might not always get a reply to what you post.

It doesn't mean you're not part of the forums now, the rich tapestry it is. It doesn't mean people don't notice you, agree with your posts. Everyone contributes something, whether that's the inane, the thought provoking, the horny ramblings, the ridiculous puns. You're all noticed far more than replies suggest.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There’s only one way to cure the loneliness I feel in these forums.

And that to let me be sick down your sleeve.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone leaves at some point. Some return. Some don’t.

Saying that….

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Nope im not me im someone new instead who nobody will know

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I just throw shit on and see what sticks I don’t need to be valued I’m ok with that

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a forum??

Move along.

Nothing to see here! "

If only there was a place on here where I could ask others where to move along to, that would be good.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

I try

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nah. We wouldn't be missed if we vanished.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Don't really think of it like that tbh .. I just do me and I'm no more or less important than anyone else ...

And nobody should aspire to be above anybody else either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s true none of you would be missed.

Oh well, charge it to the game

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"It’s true none of you would be missed.

Oh well, charge it to the game "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

Oh well, charge it to the game "

Does that even mean anything?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What does a valued member of the forum feel like ?

How does the forum show it values members ?

Is it all of the forum or can we feel valued by some of them ?

If the forum doesn't value me but I feel valued anyway does that count ?

And what if i'm not only delusional but visionary and what I delude about comes about ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

Oh well, charge it to the game

Does that even mean anything?"

No .......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I feel welcome.

I feel supported.

Valued?

Well, I don't feel devalued! "

Jennie..... that's sweet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Oh well, charge it to the game

Does that even mean anything?

No ....... "

Yes it does.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

Oh well, charge it to the game

Does that even mean anything?

No .......

Yes it does. "

What does it mean Pickle. Tell me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Oh well, charge it to the game

Does that even mean anything?

No .......

Yes it does.

What does it mean Pickle. Tell me."

Lovely Granny, I’m not anyone’s translator unfortunately so people either get it or they don’t.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"

Oh well, charge it to the game

Does that even mean anything?

No .......

Yes it does.

What does it mean Pickle. Tell me."

Urban Dictionary says:

"When something doesn't go the way you want it to or you do something wrong, and there is nothing you can do to change it. Don't worry about it. Just put it in the past or. . ."charge it to the game"."

Granny,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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it is what it is. Charge it to the game.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"[Removed by poster at 06/08/23 20:34:58] it is what it is. Charge it to the game. "

I got my fingers and thumbs all in a Pickle

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

I don't think anyone even notices when I post

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yes we all one big family! X"

Unhappy dysfunctional one if we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you determine what a valued member is?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"How do you determine what a valued member is?"

I think you weigh their value on a giant set of scales.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"How do you determine what a valued member is?"

By how many of there threads go to 175

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we all one big family! X

Unhappy dysfunctional one if we are "

I'm adopted

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Yes we all one big family! X

Unhappy dysfunctional one if we are

I'm adopted"

Black sheep here the one we don't talk about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we all one big family! X

Unhappy dysfunctional one if we are

I'm adopted"

You’re the emo cousin who only turns up at Christmas.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm here for the laughs.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice.

I used to think that as well but think there's a few who would notice, esp in the noc.

But many other threads they wouldn't notice "

I'd miss your questions. Not the cricket ones so much

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"Yes we all one big family! X

Unhappy dysfunctional one if we are

I'm adopted

You’re the emo cousin who only turns up at Christmas."

Causes shit, then leaves happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to be but some people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come on and chat to the people I like and engage with the threads that interest me. I’m not all that bothered about being a valued member. If I left tomorrow I’d soon be forgotten about like a lot of others.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I come on and chat to the people I like and engage with the threads that interest me. I’m not all that bothered about being a valued member. If I left tomorrow I’d soon be forgotten about like a lot of others. "

While this is pretty much what I said above. I will add, there are some individuals that would miss other individuals. But as a larger group/community we won't be missed as an individual. The group moves on and forgets.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Never given it a second thought. I just try to be courteous to everone, avoid conflict and just interact on threads that catch my eye to contribute to. I try to avoid those that seek conflict and that goes for certain forumites too and I never comment on their threads. Life on here should be easy and interactions lighthearted

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"How can I change that? "

you have to get kicked off the forums

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

No. When I have logged out for a few days, weeks, months, years, I don't believe anyone even noticed.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We stick to the sidelines on the forums dipping toes in now and again.

I’ve been around FAB to know that people who think they are important or integral to the forums or they’ll be missed are replaced soon enough once they leave…

Look at some of the forum members who have gone - they’ll get a mention now and again but life and the forums move on.

It’s nice to see/read friendly faces but everyone is replaceable and why we don’t invest so much time on here.

I quite like the sidelines anyway…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest and harshest answer. I, don't, give, a a, fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I come on and chat to the people I like and engage with the threads that interest me. I’m not all that bothered about being a valued member. If I left tomorrow I’d soon be forgotten about like a lot of others.

While this is pretty much what I said above. I will add, there are some individuals that would miss other individuals. But as a larger group/community we won't be missed as an individual. The group moves on and forgets. "

I know there’s people on here I’d miss if they just disappeared, but yeah on a whole you’d be forgotten about after a few days so does it really matter? I don’t think so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/08/23 20:34:58] it is what it is. Charge it to the game.

I got my fingers and thumbs all in a Pickle "

No fingers are allowed in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that there's always a smart arse ready to tear you down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I'm am arse (decent if you actually get to know me tho... Possibly)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"[Removed by poster at 06/08/23 20:34:58] it is what it is. Charge it to the game.

I got my fingers and thumbs all in a Pickle

No fingers are allowed in me "

My thumb is still in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I heck as like.

I spend a lot more time reading the forums these days than commenting. I just post every now and again and don't expect anything from my forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/08/23 20:34:58] it is what it is. Charge it to the game.

I got my fingers and thumbs all in a Pickle

No fingers are allowed in me "

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Yes I do. I like to do lots of threads and to engage with the forumiters, the forum is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm probably a familiar name because I post and reply to lots and I've been around a long time.

As for valued, I've no idea. I'm pretty sure if I deleted my profile tomorrow I wouldn't be missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , but l do love reading them and giving my tuppence worth but a valued member of the forums ..nawww.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"If I left tomorrow no one would even notice. "

Ditto

Tinder

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Nope. I'm a thread killer, and me giving my personal view is irresistible to the female half of couples, who subsequently ride my green arrow like a pony to slaughter every individual thought I own. Generally. - Xeno

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Validation from a bunch of strangers....pointless. I post and use the forums because I want to..not because I want validation or need it x

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Yeah I feel valued the forums would crumble if i left.......

Truth is I'd be forgotten in heartbeat of a thread, and replaced by the next man or women who stumbles in here.......sooner your realise your not as important as you think you are, and learn to validate yourself, you'll not seek it externally through others, as that's hollow and shallow and falsely propped up.

Learn to give yourself all the affirmation that you require, as you only really need to hear it from yourself...

Now who FAF to validate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, it's the interwebs!... Few actually 'know' me, and for those that do it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah pickles nobody is.

People come, people go, ……."

Yes. But also no.

I value people’s opinions to a point, and I do give a bit of a shit when people leave, because it definitely changes my experience on here. Sometimes better, sometimes worse.

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