FabSwingers.com forum: Are you happy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well are you?

All things considered.. yeah I’m happy can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup no complaints

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

90%

A few things make me puzzled.

But on the whole I’m ok!

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By *ilfbonaMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Oh yeah! ...horny hour is upon us!

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Sometimes

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

To be honest no.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Usually yes.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Dunno why, but I read that in a Clint Eastwood voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup...l never ..ever ..compare my life with others in anyway, find what you love to do and do it and make absolutely no apologies to anyone for doing what you love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno why, but I read that in a Clint Eastwood voice

Brilliant..love it

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

For now yes and no but I always hold on to what keeps me happy have to count blessings more than burdens

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes overall x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I've been better. Today pretty bad, for reasons. And got anniversaries of bad events coming up at least one a month for next few months.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes always happy

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

No.

But happiness is fleeting anyway.

I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well are you?

I couldn’t be happier

Well companionship now and again wouldn’t go a miss

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

No an have not been for longer than I'd care to remember unfortunately

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

No I'm not the Dr says I'm my days are numbered .I've got a lot of shit needs sorting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No an have not been for longer than I'd care to remember unfortunately

That’s unfortunate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I'm not the Dr says I'm my days are numbered .I've got a lot of shit needs sorting ."

Shit that’s not good at all, I hope the shit gets sorted swiftly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

But happiness is fleeting anyway.

I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time."

It comes and goes but I'm happy pretty much most of the time. Life is good.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"No.

But happiness is fleeting anyway.

I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time."

Definitely not unnatural to be always happy. If a person can manage with where their life is then they will get through the days better

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Not at the minute Cervical Radiculopathy is a bitch and I don’t even have a cervix .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes for the most part of life, there's a few things I'd like to change and improve but overall life is good.

Mrs

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

"No an have not been for longer than I'd care to remember unfortunately

That’s unfortunate

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thanks very much pal

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I am sure most people oscilate berween euphoria and depression. Things happen that push you towards one or the other. People manage those events and the effect they have differently. Love and strength to anyone who struggles and please don't suffer alone. Talk to people and get professional help too

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Hmm, well I wouldn’t say I’m unhappy, but actively happy would be a stretch, but that’s the best it’s been for a few years so I’m ok with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fleeting moments yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy one life and living it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well are you?

Are you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a glass half full kinda guy.

But things could be better.

Hbu OP?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Mostly, yes. I’m working on the things that are holding me back, too.

This is very different to just a few years ago when I had been unhappy for decades.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Right now? Yes, very much so. In fact I'd say I'm beaming.

Day to day, for the most part I am. I'm realising more and more I'm very much a high energy/low energy person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm about 75%. A couple of things need to change and a couple of things I need to accept I can't change but overall mostly happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really no …

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 20MG of depressants I take twice a day suggests not!

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By *aughty miss whiplashWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm happy

Enjoying each day

Feeling great about myself

Looking forward to the next couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good and bad days make the most of the good ones

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm pretty content with life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going through a divorce, crap but happy!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes I am running around the room singing "oh what a beautiful morning". Might do a streak down the road to celebrate.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Relatively. Could do with more sex though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea generally speaking I'm happy, I'm not over the moon deliriously happy all daybut every day I'm happy.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

The sun is kinda back so I’m happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

But happiness is fleeting anyway.

I think its is unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be miserable all the time."
Agreed. What goes up has to come down as with all in this youniverse. Who’d want to be happy all the time anyhow, I actually enjoy melancholic moments - they spur me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am as happy as I could be I suppose.

There is the usual daily challenges to face but I can say,on the whole, that I am staying happy and positive.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Yes very much.

But sometimes I slip and it creeps in around the edges. I have to then remind myself I have nothing to be unhappy about.

I have had a bit of a journey to get here and have suffered quite a bit of a loss so I guess that’s where the doubt comes in.

But yes happy

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Nope. Lost my job a few months ago. Also, live somewhere where the Fab pool is more of a muddy puddle!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Eh. I'm sure I'll get over it eventually though.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Financial pressures, chronic pain and some very negative experiences with men mean I'm struggling to see the bright side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things could be a lot worse.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Mustn’t grumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but know others are worse off

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

Happiest we have ever been

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Happy might be a bit of a push, but doing ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am lucky because I have people and little moments that bring me so much happiness and they are the reason I am here. But without them no, I'm not really happy and it feels like there's a big part of me that will always feel way. I've lost so many parts of myself and I don't think they will ever heal. But I'm grateful for what I do have, and I try to focus on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well are you?

Can’t complain, are you happy? X

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I am lucky because I have people and little moments that bring me so much happiness and they are the reason I am here. But without them no, I'm not really happy and it feels like there's a big part of me that will always feel way. I've lost so many parts of myself and I don't think they will ever heal. But I'm grateful for what I do have, and I try to focus on that."

Lemon you may be terrible at dming horny men on fab (me) but I can tell you are genuinely such a good little egg and I know many people here think you're fucking awesome.

Hope you become as happy as you can be (blowjob not required)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy might be a bit of a push, but doing ok

^this

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm pretty happy right now.

Had some bad times and some health niggles over the years, but I'm in a great place right now.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Ah, Lemon

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yeh im happy at the moment but we all have are ups and downs,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Super happy

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By *un and kinky.Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Yes but would be even happier with more of a sexlife.Thats why I've joined this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’m happy xx

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Absolutely!! Got a great work/social/family/play balance.. recently became entirely debt free too which is brilliant

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Very much so

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I make her ^ happy.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No …..I’m sneezy

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"No …..I’m sneezy"

that must make me grumpy then.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Extremely

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Not really no. This horrible weather does not help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly with the way my life is going no. I'm not. But I keep a mini diary of all the crap going on. Of which I'm not affrade to admit. And hopefully one day some of this sensual tension of mine can be worked off too

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

For the most part, thanks for asking OP

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I'm OK thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm fulfilled. Happy comes and goes. Fulfilled matters a lot more.

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By *ilverjayMan
over a year ago

Meath

No.

I am usually a happy person.

But not happy in situation.

I thought I was.

But experiences in the past have made me realise I'm not.

I'm just goin thru the motions.

Dunno if I'll ever be truly happy again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am neither happy nor sad. Just here.

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Some days yes, some days so-so, some days no.

C’est la vie…

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Content. Mostly.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

On the whole. Not such a great day today but it's self inflicted so can't complain too much

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I am today, I had a full 8 hours sleep last night. After over a week of no sleep, I'm pretty damn ecstatic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overall, no

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Overall, no

Do you have an idea as to what would make you happier?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm happy yes even though the guy I've been working for owes me £2000 and no sign of receiving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, but life goes on

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over a year ago

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Not particularly. There are things that make me happy for a time, and sometimes life is better as there are more of them... but sometimes the opposite.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Yes mostly.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Not particularly im not a misserable as i may seem or as nuts as i once was im simply duller than dandruff

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

No. But it's not life, it's just me.

I'm a faulty toy. x

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I'm tired... But that aside, yes, I'm happy thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy right now

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No i wont allow it

Its far too potant a drug to control over use will lead to insanity

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

As a clam.

A bearded one, even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I just hide it well and use a miserable bastard persona to keep people away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have happy moments, but I'm not happy at the moment. It's kinda hard to say to yourself.

I'm definitely a person who is seen as happy and relied upon to give other people happiness.

My bucket is pretty empty at the moment.. I'm working on filling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually am. I've been really unhappy for a few years but I see light at the end of the tunnel

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Almost there.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Sort of, but never quite content. I think that's why people "find God"

Fuck that though, I'll try a jigsaw first.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'd like a pair of legs that worked and a mind thats not fucked then I'd be happy

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By *OYFBWoman
over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Not happy.

Not sad either.

Just getting through life one day at a time.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Well are you?

Im deliriously happy I've met the woman of my dreams here .we connect on every level .

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Enormously.

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By *he ass man 666Man
over a year ago

paradise city

"Not happy.

Not sad either.

Just getting through life one day at a time. "

This

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

Yep

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm always happy

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

No. Melancholy at best.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

God no,never been this unhappy in my 51 years of life

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By *mpishMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nah, just getting by. Wouldn't be on here at 1 in the morning if I was happy ??

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Nah, just getting by. Wouldn't be on here at 1 in the morning if I was happy ??"

Guess Nao.. Pity

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London

Haven’t felt that emotion since 2006

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You only get one life make the most of it it goes quicker than you imagine

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

"Haven’t felt that emotion since 2006

For what reason? That a long time to not feeling happy

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

If anybody asks me i always say yes but truthfully i'm not and haven't been for a long while now

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Well from a while back when I said all was good, just had probably the worst 10 days of my life, not doing well at all right now

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By *ix69Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

No, not at all. If it wasn’t for the fact that I have a child, I’d have left this world a long time ago!

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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

"No, not at all. If it wasn’t for the fact that I have a child, I’d have left this world a long time ago!"

Ahhh the kids have us digging deep and doing our best. My aim is not to pass to much of my fragility onto them.

I wish you well friend and hope you find a body to talk to

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By *ix69Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"No, not at all. If it wasn’t for the fact that I have a child, I’d have left this world a long time ago!

Ahhh the kids have us digging deep and doing our best. My aim is not to pass to much of my fragility onto them.

I wish you well friend and hope you find a body to talk to

Thank you, I appreciate that!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Struggling massively at the moment to find my happy, and no point in pretending otherwise.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Struggling massively at the moment to find my happy, and no point in pretending otherwise."

Sorry to hear that. Message if you want to chat

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

No not at all haha

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Just as the teachers said on my school report. Could do better.

But I hide it well. No point in dragging others down is there.

But....

I'm not unhappy....

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yeah, I'm good

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

I could be happier,but I'm certainly not unhappy.Small blessings

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By *inkygentkentMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

No, I don't think I've been truly happy for a long time. Just keep plodding on and make the most of the good days

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Thinking back haven’t been truly happy since 2013, family was never the same after the ex cheated and ran off with someone else before coming back, we remained together till 2021 but was never the same but at least got more time living as a family with the kids, met a great lass after we split was perfect for a few months then had a heart attack that ruined everything she stuck around but my personality changed for a long while was only able to feel sadness and eventually she left I don’t blame her I was no good to her anymore how I was. Sorry for going off deep for a morning van broke down can’t work and feeling it bad this week just keep asking my dead dad is this it is this how life was meant to end up?

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By *eesside50Man
over a year ago

Stockton-On-Tees

Honestly, i pretend I'm happy alot so I don't get down,but do find it hard at times.

I guess there are others in a worse position than me and that keeps me going xx

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

I'm loving my life at the moment... been dark times but currently basking in the light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just as the teachers said on my school report. Could do better.

But I hide it well. No point in dragging others down is there.

But....

I'm not unhappy...."

They said that too to me. 'could do better but with xxxx'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi op

I enjoy my job it is so enjoyable to still be learning. That keeps me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm loving my life at the moment... been dark times but currently basking in the light"

Happiness, the greatest thing I possess?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

There are things I’d change. But there are good things, and good people, in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking back haven’t been truly happy since 2013, family was never the same after the ex cheated and ran off with someone else before coming back, we remained together till 2021 but was never the same but at least got more time living as a family with the kids, met a great lass after we split was perfect for a few months then had a heart attack that ruined everything she stuck around but my personality changed for a long while was only able to feel sadness and eventually she left I don’t blame her I was no good to her anymore how I was. Sorry for going off deep for a morning van broke down can’t work and feeling it bad this week just keep asking my dead dad is this it is this how life was meant to end up?"

You still have plenty of good days to come. Sounds like you've had it tough but keep going. You've got your beautiful kids and I'm sure happier times will come for you again.

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

This is something I've been asking myself for a while now, Sadly I've come to the conclusion that I'm not and haven't been for some time.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Struggling massively at the moment to find my happy, and no point in pretending otherwise.

Sorry to hear that. Message if you want to chat

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By *wesomeAloneMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

No, not really. I have good times but underneath something is missing.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

You know what’d make me happier.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Currently not really..m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of.... could be happier though....

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Take your thoughts to court is my suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in being happy. I think there are things in life that bring you happiness I being in a constant happy state is impossible and doesn't exist

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"No, not really. I have good times but underneath something is missing."

Start accumulating imperishable treasures ??

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Happy? God no. I don’t even know what that means. Content? Yes. Healthy? Yes. Better off than nearly everyone else? Yes.

I’ve never really got over the feeling that there should be a little bit more to life. Despite having a brilliantly supportive family, amazing friends, loads of hobbies, plenty of cash and no reason that I can’t do whatever I like whenever I like, I wake up every morning and rather than spring out of bed ready to face a new exciting day, think, urgh, is this it?

This has been the case for pretty much my entire life. I’m not depressed, I just feel like there should be something more out there, that the occasional bit of spectacular doesn’t outweigh the drudgery.

Some days I can really enjoy my adventures, sometimes I’m distracted by a performance or art, often I can laugh out load at things that happen to me. But it’s all temporary. The overriding sensation is, meh. Is that good enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On most fronts yes

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

My only sadness has been reading the accounts on this post.

Had no idea so many lovely people are in pain.

If I can help in any way message me.

Rod

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By *wesomeAloneMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Start accumulating imperishable treasures ??"

I don't mind accumulating experiences and good memories but I really don't want to accumulate any more "stuff".

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By *wesomeAloneMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"You know what’d make me happier."

No I don't. Please tell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life currently there is nothing to be happy about..m not to sound like the grinch or anything but no I'm not happy

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Nope, can't quite remember what happy feels like. I'm so weary of this hateful world, on the days I can function I mostly just try to keep my head above water. Shite state of affairs, but at least there's chocolate. Big virtual hugs to everyone else who is struggling too.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

You still have plenty of good days to come. Sounds like you've had it tough but keep going. You've got your beautiful kids and I'm sure happier times will come for you again.

Thank you for such nice words, I hope so, thank you

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over a year ago

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