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"there is no right or wrong way and it affects us all differently. just take one day at a time. im sorry for your loss" That's the thing isn't it. Not really about death, it's about loss. | |||
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"there is no right or wrong way and it affects us all differently. just take one day at a time. im sorry for your loss That's the thing isn't it. Not really about death, it's about loss." Yes, it is. That's the thing, you have to remember that the person you have lost is out of the trials and tribulations of this world and to remember all the precious moments they shared with you. They always stay with you. So sorry for your loss though. Give it time. | |||
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"Just accept death for what it is final. Doesnt help anyone being down just get on with it." very helpful | |||
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"Just accept death for what it is final. Doesnt help anyone being down just get on with it." Wow....such kind words... Sorry for your loss and as said above only time heals ,we all grieve differently and I have to say to me death isn't final at all its just another path we take,your nan will live on in your thoughts ,memories and heart. | |||
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"It's already well said, Hang tough, the world probably feels like a different place and all of a sudden something important is missing. Then you try to reason it out and then you wake up from dreams in the night where you are with the loved one and you want the dream to be real... The feeling of anguish never goes away, you just learn to live with it but it makes you a stronger person eventually. I feel for you.." Extremely well put. In particular the last paragraph. I lost my parents quite young , I was 15 when mum died, and it is still heartbreaking to this day. I did the usual stuff upper lip thing, I never spoke to anyone about it. I was wrong. Speak to someone close and let it out. | |||
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"there is no right or wrong way and it affects us all differently. just take one day at a time. im sorry for your loss" ^^this Sorry for your loss | |||
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"Thanks people and im sorry to hear that about your parents " | |||
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"I feel a deep loss deep inside me " I lost my Dad 34 years ago this coming May, when I was 17 (nearly 18). Sure it was traumatic at the time and took me a long time to shape my life in a direction which did not have him as a living part of it. But I came to realise that I had not 'lost' him - he is still there, in my mind, my imagination and in what I learned from him. Your Gran is and always will be 'there' for you. The body is just a vessel. It's the person inside it and the effect they had upon, and what they meant to, others that lives on... Think your Gran knew what good grandson she had.... | |||
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"Never lost anyone so close to me my nan " I lost my mum 16 months ago.. and as everyone has said, you deal with it one day at a time... some of them are good days... some of them are bad ones.... having a strong unit around helps, and also consider counsiling... the people with mcmillan were fantastic in helping me get thru the toughest times and i can still give them a call on the really rough days...... | |||
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"Just accept death for what it is final. Doesnt help anyone being down just get on with it." A graduate from the 'shit happens get over it' school of bereavement counselling not helpful at all. OP I'm really sorry to hear about your nan. Big hugs x | |||
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"I find this poem uplifting in times of sorrow, I hope you do too. ~ Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away to the next room. I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, That, we still are. ~ Call me by my old familiar name. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. ~ Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect. Without the trace of a shadow on it. ~ Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same that it ever was. There is absolute unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? ~ I am but waiting for you. For an interval. Somewhere. Very near. Just around the corner. ~ All is well. ~ ~ Henry Scott Holland " This was read at my partners funeral. | |||
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"One phrase to remember ..... "The end of life is not the end of love"....... it gets ya through it " yes your right in saying that ... its true. I will love my dad until my dieing day. | |||
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