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2nd date - Same food - red flag ?

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Ladies (or others) if a sexy fabber invited you over for second date and made the exact same dish , and played out the sane routine , dinner conversation, wine , movie and snuggles, leading to great seed, would you come back a 3rd time.?

For those that cook, would you consider it rude if your date requested exactly what they wanted you to cook ?

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Great Sex not seed, no seed is being offered in above hypothetical scenario

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

If nothing was said about it being the only meal they can cook well or something similar, I’d find the evening a bit weird…like when someone copies and pastes the same message over and over…I’d get the impression it’s just a routine and it would feel flat and not very special.

And I have to explain some preferences when people offer to cook for me but I wouldn’t state a particular meal.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I did wonder about the seed .

I'm pretty flexible and if I like someone enough or am sufficiently enamoured I will be more than happy to take it as it comes and accommodate their requests and desires.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't want the same conversation but everything else is fine.

If someone asked me to cook a certain dish they'd probably be out of luck

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

If the experience is enjoyable... Why not.. Certainly food for the conversation too. Especially if they wear the same clothes and under garments... Same playlist.... Would have a groundhog day feel to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find someone cooking for me a bit odd anyway. Once would be enough, I wouldn't go back.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I'd find someone cooking for me a bit odd anyway. Once would be enough, I wouldn't go back."

More hash browns for me!

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By *m272Woman
over a year ago

London


"Ladies (or others) if a sexy fabber invited you over for second date and made the exact same dish , and played out the sane routine , dinner conversation, wine , movie and snuggles, leading to great seed, would you come back a 3rd time.?

For those that cook, would you consider it rude if your date requested exactly what they wanted you to cook ? "

Start as you mean to go on I say lol

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By *rHotNotts OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I wouldn't want the same conversation but everything else is fine. "

If she’s as old me me she might not even notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked the food the first time yes. I can be worried about food and if Im going to be able to eat it, so no surprises is good sod the film though get straight to the seed.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I'd probably cook after a few dates.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

If you find it boring maybe end it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd find someone cooking for me a bit odd anyway. Once would be enough, I wouldn't go back."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd find someone cooking for me a bit odd anyway. Once would be enough, I wouldn't go back.

"

- Not a view I share btw - I just find lilith’s droll humour very funny!

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By *iamondsandleatherWoman
over a year ago

slough

Im a chef so happy to take requests! But i would rather the request be for what underwear they want to see me in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she’s taking the trouble to cook for me, which means she made the effort to get the ingredients and so on, I wouldn’t mind it if it’s the same dish. The routine isn’t an issue at all as long as we’re enjoying ourselves.

As for asking, I wouldn’t consider it rude to be asked but I don’t think I’d ask on a second visit unless we already have a friendly and assuring connection.

Miles

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there


"Great Sex not seed, no seed is being offered in above hypothetical scenario "

I had visions of growing a fabulous triffid-like plant to end the night.

You could start a new trend, plant fun

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