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"Essential." ^^^^ Sadly it appears this is true, damn my ugly mush | |||
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"FACES when it comes to meets? But most importantly - do you think you have double standards when it comes to them? Do you think you expect them to look like they belong in a catalogue when you're nowhere near that level yourself? Not a thread to offend - just curious as to people's thoughts all thing FACES " As long as they have one I’m over the moon, not having one isn’t a deal breaker I just don’t know how one would lose their face but it’s not for me to judge | |||
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"Facial attraction is something I always look for is definitely more important to me than body shape for example. If I find you facially attractive, I'll probably want to have sex with you. It does make it tough to hope people feel the same though as I hate taking selfies and don't think I photograph well so probably won't do well if others feel how I feel about facial attraction." Phone cameras, especially front facing for selfies have very unflattering lenses when it comes to the majority of people. 9/10 people will look far better when having a pic taken with an actual professional camera than a selfie from a phone. | |||
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"Facial attraction is something I always look for is definitely more important to me than body shape for example. If I find you facially attractive, I'll probably want to have sex with you. It does make it tough to hope people feel the same though as I hate taking selfies and don't think I photograph well so probably won't do well if others feel how I feel about facial attraction. Phone cameras, especially front facing for selfies have very unflattering lenses when it comes to the majority of people. 9/10 people will look far better when having a pic taken with an actual professional camera than a selfie from a phone. " And then there's that 1/10... | |||
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"I forgot a key question! Have you found that you're not attracted to a face in a picture but have been in reality if meeting at a social etc? Do you judge pictures people send harshly?" I think it's bound to. You'll notice more of someone's facial expressions in real life compared to a snapshot that makes them more attractive. Whether it's a slight frown or a smile or a laugh or a look of concentration or even the way their eyes move. It all contributes to finding someone facially attractive | |||
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"I forgot a key question! Have you found that you're not attracted to a face in a picture but have been in reality if meeting at a social etc? Do you judge pictures people send harshly? I think it's bound to. You'll notice more of someone's facial expressions in real life compared to a snapshot that makes them more attractive. Whether it's a slight frown or a smile or a laugh or a look of concentration or even the way their eyes move. It all contributes to finding someone facially attractive " Exactly that | |||
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"I forgot a key question! Have you found that you're not attracted to a face in a picture but have been in reality if meeting at a social etc? Do you judge pictures people send harshly?" Yes this! So much so I’m now reverting to pre-internet ways of meeting - the dreaded ‘blind’ date way- people look loads better irl I’ve found. The little quirks that make someone attractive aren’t really shown in flat images. An animated person is everything | |||
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"Facial attraction is something I always look for is definitely more important to me than body shape for example. If I find you facially attractive, I'll probably want to have sex with you. It does make it tough to hope people feel the same though as I hate taking selfies and don't think I photograph well so probably won't do well if others feel how I feel about facial attraction. Phone cameras, especially front facing for selfies have very unflattering lenses when it comes to the majority of people. 9/10 people will look far better when having a pic taken with an actual professional camera than a selfie from a phone. And then there's that 1/10... " The 1/10 are those that are just "perfect" ya know, like Barney. | |||
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"I forgot a key question! Have you found that you're not attracted to a face in a picture but have been in reality if meeting at a social etc? Do you judge pictures people send harshly? I think it's bound to. You'll notice more of someone's facial expressions in real life compared to a snapshot that makes them more attractive. Whether it's a slight frown or a smile or a laugh or a look of concentration or even the way their eyes move. It all contributes to finding someone facially attractive Exactly that" What she said about what he said! | |||
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"Not important at all. I only care about the body - that's enough for me to decide if I'm down to fuck or not." Bullshit! I call bullshit! We all know for you, Meli, it's all about the cock, maybe the balls too. | |||
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"I’d be shocked to turn up and find they didn’t have a face " Well I'm often told I'm a prawn. Better without a head! | |||
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"Not important at all. I only care about the body - that's enough for me to decide if I'm down to fuck or not. Bullshit! I call bullshit! We all know for you, Meli, it's all about the cock, maybe the balls too. " Well you've got me there. It's not all about the cock though. Joy of being pansexual. | |||
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"I’d be shocked to turn up and find they didn’t have a face Well I'm often told I'm a prawn. Better without a head! " Definitely a prawn and not a shrimp? | |||
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"I have rarely rejected because I don't particularly like the face if the chat is good. I think I have had one guy ghost me after sending a face pic. Since I've had a public face picture up I have had double the amount of messages so I trust this means I don't look terrible. Attraction comes down to so many factors but yes if they are very handsome I might worry that they don't like me but are chasing any hole is a goal. Though I find that the really handsome guys have had enough of that as they can find it easily so are looking for a deeper connection." Ooh...fabbed | |||
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"No. I don’t expect them to look a certain way at all. I just need to be attracted to them. " This. Everyone's perception of attractive will vary. It's a very personal thing. A | |||
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"I have rarely rejected because I don't particularly like the face if the chat is good. I think I have had one guy ghost me after sending a face pic. Since I've had a public face picture up I have had double the amount of messages so I trust this means I don't look terrible. Attraction comes down to so many factors but yes if they are very handsome I might worry that they don't like me but are chasing any hole is a goal. Though I find that the really handsome guys have had enough of that as they can find it easily so are looking for a deeper connection. Ooh...fabbed " Aww ty | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle" How is that fickle? They weren't attracted to you, and declined to meet you. | |||
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"Not important at all. I only care about the body - that's enough for me to decide if I'm down to fuck or not. Bullshit! I call bullshit! We all know for you, Meli, it's all about the cock, maybe the balls too. Well you've got me there. It's not all about the cock though. Joy of being pansexual. " Preach | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle" Why does wanting facial attraction make someone fickle in your view? | |||
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"FACES when it comes to meets? But most importantly - do you think you have double standards when it comes to them? Do you think you expect them to look like they belong in a catalogue when you're nowhere near that level yourself? Not a thread to offend - just curious as to people's thoughts all thing FACES " Faces are very handy when eating, I find | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle" Not being attracted to someone doesn't make them fickle at all. Would you meet and shag someone you had zero attraction too? | |||
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"Faces can be important to a certain degree, but there is much more to it than that. Would definitely not be interested in "catalogue " perfect stunning people though as that's just not the type I go for anyway. Never been one to fancy a pretty boy! " Talking of catalogues, l loved the Freeman's lingerie section as a teenager | |||
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"FACES when it comes to meets? But most importantly - do you think you have double standards when it comes to them? Do you think you expect them to look like they belong in a catalogue when you're nowhere near that level yourself? " Yes. | |||
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"Faces can be important to a certain degree, but there is much more to it than that. Would definitely not be interested in "catalogue " perfect stunning people though as that's just not the type I go for anyway. Never been one to fancy a pretty boy! Talking of catalogues, l loved the Freeman's lingerie section as a teenager " Littlewoods for me | |||
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"FACES when it comes to meets? But most importantly - do you think you have double standards when it comes to them? Do you think you expect them to look like they belong in a catalogue when you're nowhere near that level yourself? Not a thread to offend - just curious as to people's thoughts all thing FACES Faces are very handy when eating, I find" You eat faces? | |||
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"Faces can be important to a certain degree, but there is much more to it than that. Would definitely not be interested in "catalogue " perfect stunning people though as that's just not the type I go for anyway. Never been one to fancy a pretty boy! Talking of catalogues, l loved the Freeman's lingerie section as a teenager " I bet you've upgraded catalogues now to Rival Clothing | |||
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"I forgot a key question! Have you found that you're not attracted to a face in a picture but have been in reality if meeting at a social etc? Do you judge pictures people send harshly?" I don't like face pics I like real people. I find many don't look the same as their pics anyway. I still judge harshly on pics and if it's a no from the pic we won't be meeting. | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle" So you fuck everyone who asks, no matter what they look like? | |||
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"I really do prefer a person to have a face. That way I can talk to their face and not to their tits or ass " I talked to your hair first T | |||
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"I really do prefer a person to have a face. That way I can talk to their face and not to their tits or ass I talked to your hair first T" That happens with us dwarves. Sowwy | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle How is that fickle? They weren't attracted to you, and declined to meet you. " I was thinking the same. I don't consider thay fickle at all. I'd be mortified if someone only fucked me because they were horny or no one else was available (not saying that's never happened to me, I just know I wouldn't like it if that was the reason). Would feel so empty and meaningless. | |||
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"I need a broody/sexy/fuck me now face. Which is complete double standards as I don't fit any of those criteria. But I have a vagina so I get away with it. " This explains so much! | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle" So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers " Obviously, it's a sex site you know. | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers Obviously, it's a sex site you know. " Drop your knickers then | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers Obviously, it's a sex site you know. Drop your knickers then " Are you really that desperate? | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers Obviously, it's a sex site you know. Drop your knickers then Are you really that desperate?" It's a sex site you know | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers Obviously, it's a sex site you know. Drop your knickers then Are you really that desperate? It's a sex site you know " Dam it | |||
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"Seems like alot of ppl are only interested on faces, we have been turned down after sharing face pics. In some ways glad we didnt meet them if they are so fickle So attraction means nothing, they should drop their knickers and boxers Obviously, it's a sex site you know. Drop your knickers then Are you really that desperate? It's a sex site you know Dam it" Backed yourself into bit of a corner there Lilith | |||
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"I need a broody/sexy/fuck me now face. Which is complete double standards as I don't fit any of those criteria. But I have a vagina so I get away with it." • Ah, but is it a designer-vagina or an off-the-peg ready-to-wear/fuck type? | |||
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"I need a broody/sexy/fuck me now face. Which is complete double standards as I don't fit any of those criteria. But I have a vagina so I get away with it. • Ah, but is it a designer-vagina or an off-the-peg ready-to-wear/fuck type?" It's a poundland vagina. | |||
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"Faces are for sitting on not admiring. Even the most good looking faces get a bit twisted up whilst having sex. I do get pushed face first into the pillow a lot.... " I do adore your writing Maren. Funny and innocently sexy | |||
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"No. I don’t expect them to look a certain way at all. I just need to be attracted to them. " this ... all i need is sexual attraction its not like im looking for a life partner as that spot is taken but a face is the first thing we see so yes it matters ... one persons hot is another;s yuk nothing in life is ever that str8 forward or that black n white | |||
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"Faces are for sitting on not admiring. Even the most good looking faces get a bit twisted up whilst having sex. I do get pushed face first into the pillow a lot.... I do adore your writing Maren. Funny and innocently sexy " | |||
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"I need a broody/sexy/fuck me now face. Which is complete double standards as I don't fit any of those criteria. But I have a vagina so I get away with it. • Ah, but is it a designer-vagina or an off-the-peg ready-to-wear/fuck type? It's a poundland vagina." • Quids in then! | |||
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"I need a broody/sexy/fuck me now face. Which is complete double standards as I don't fit any of those criteria. But I have a vagina so I get away with it. • Ah, but is it a designer-vagina or an off-the-peg ready-to-wear/fuck type? It's a poundland vagina. • Quids in then!" Like a slot machine? | |||
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"Faces can be important to a certain degree, but there is much more to it than that. Would definitely not be interested in "catalogue " perfect stunning people though as that's just not the type I go for anyway. Never been one to fancy a pretty boy! Talking of catalogues, l loved the Freeman's lingerie section as a teenager I bet you've upgraded catalogues now to Rival Clothing " Next directory | |||
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"FACES when it comes to meets? But most importantly - do you think you have double standards when it comes to them? Do you think you expect them to look like they belong in a catalogue when you're nowhere near that level yourself? Not a thread to offend - just curious as to people's thoughts all thing FACES " I'm far more interested in a nice face than I am a particular body type. A cute, cheeky smile is far more appealing to me than a six pack. I don't think I have double/unreasonable standards. I'm not looking for a model, just someone with a glint in their eye that makes me think "you look like a cheeky little minx I could have some fun with". Hopefully a few fabbers will think the same thing when they see my face | |||
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"I'm all about a pretty face. I can't help it. It's not even a 'model' look... that doesn't interest me. Just aesthetically pleasing to me personally. Who doesn't want to look a beautiful woman in the eyes as you fuck/make love/whatever. I would have had sex a lot more if I hadn't punched above my weight so many times. It is what it is. And I'm comfortable with that." I think it's important to remember (as someone who makes a living out of aesthetics, that everything in that arena is subject. | |||
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"FACES when it comes to meets? But most importantly - do you think you have double standards when it comes to them? Do you think you expect them to look like they belong in a catalogue when you're nowhere near that level yourself? Not a thread to offend - just curious as to people's thoughts all thing FACES I'm far more interested in a nice face than I am a particular body type. A cute, cheeky smile is far more appealing to me than a six pack. I don't think I have double/unreasonable standards. I'm not looking for a model, just someone with a glint in their eye that makes me think "you look like a cheeky little minx I could have some fun with". Hopefully a few fabbers will think the same thing when they see my face " Yep. You have | |||
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"Faces are so important, not just for their beauty. But for the amount they speak to others without a word. " Absolutely that unspoken communication | |||
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"Faces are so important, not just for their beauty. But for the amount they speak to others without a word. Absolutely that unspoken communication " No one can do "don't fucking come near me" better than me. And not a word spoke . | |||
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"Faces are so important, not just for their beauty. But for the amount they speak to others without a word. Absolutely that unspoken communication No one can do "don't fucking come near me" better than me. And not a word spoke . " That's an important life skill that is | |||
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"Faces are so important, not just for their beauty. But for the amount they speak to others without a word. Absolutely that unspoken communication No one can do "don't fucking come near me" better than me. And not a word spoke . " I do not doubt it | |||
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