FabSwingers.com forum: A woman scorned

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The Chris Huhne story has me thinking about the complexiities of families.

The text messages between him and his son being published must make it harder for them to ever reconcile.

His ex-wife, Vicky Price, looks determined to ensure his downfall is as total as possible.

There have been threads on here about awful ex partners and people saying that they can't forgive their parents.

Is it down to women and mothers to take the concialiatory route to ensure that children maintain their relationships with their fathers? Does a scorned woman always cause damage?

What of men?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"The Chris Huhne story has me thinking about the complexiities of families.

The text messages between him and his son being published must make it harder for them to ever reconcile.

His ex-wife, Vicky Price, looks determined to ensure his downfall is as total as possible.

There have been threads on here about awful ex partners and people saying that they can't forgive their parents.

Is it down to women and mothers to take the concialiatory route to ensure that children maintain their relationships with their fathers? Does a scorned woman always cause damage?

What of men?"
Have a look at some of the past threads on revenge, im sure you may have your answer...

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The Chris Huhne story has me thinking about the complexiities of families.

The text messages between him and his son being published must make it harder for them to ever reconcile.

His ex-wife, Vicky Price, looks determined to ensure his downfall is as total as possible.

There have been threads on here about awful ex partners and people saying that they can't forgive their parents.

Is it down to women and mothers to take the concialiatory route to ensure that children maintain their relationships with their fathers? Does a scorned woman always cause damage?

What of men?Have a look at some of the past threads on revenge, im sure you may have your answer..."

The cold dish of revenge. Yes, there is that.

I was left wondering whether Chris Huhne changed his plea to guilty because of his son and whether his son sent such vehement messages because of his mother.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"The Chris Huhne story has me thinking about the complexiities of families.

The text messages between him and his son being published must make it harder for them to ever reconcile.

His ex-wife, Vicky Price, looks determined to ensure his downfall is as total as possible.

There have been threads on here about awful ex partners and people saying that they can't forgive their parents.

Is it down to women and mothers to take the concialiatory route to ensure that children maintain their relationships with their fathers? Does a scorned woman always cause damage?

What of men?Have a look at some of the past threads on revenge, im sure you may have your answer...

The cold dish of revenge. Yes, there is that.

I was left wondering whether Chris Huhne changed his plea to guilty because of his son and whether his son sent such vehement messages because of his mother."
Who knows...but i would say its a distinct possibility.

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

I find the defence of marital coercion by Vicky Price in her Peverting the Course of Justice trial to be an interesting one. Marital Coercion formed part of the Criminal Justice Act 1925 and the Law Lords recommended its abolition in 1977. Was Vicky Price capable of making her own decision when she accepted the penalty points of her then husband?

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

*Perverting

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do think it is scary the need for revenge... it is sad when he reaches this level and children are involved.

The bitterness is horrid to witness/read.

and you do read it on here.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

from both sides.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

When she decided to spill the beans I don't really think she thought through the implications for herself or her children she just wanted the truth to come out about her ex husband. It was likely revenge but no one in that family will come out of this unscathed and I doubt that was her initial intention. Might it have been better to keep quiet, in retrospect it seems so. She will likely be found guilty and her kids will have two lawbreaking parents as role models.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I found it rather sad the son's text to his dad. At 20 he's old enough to have an opinion about his dad, but one wonders how much influence the mother had...if any.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I do think it is scary the need for revenge... it is sad when he reaches this level and children are involved.

The bitterness is horrid to witness/read.

and you do read it on here."

been blessed to have not gone down the route of seperation and divorce etc however would like to think the kids benefit and their state of mind would come before the need for revenge and to use them as a tool in that..

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I found it rather sad the son's text to his dad. At 20 he's old enough to have an opinion about his dad, but one wonders how much influence the mother had...if any."

It was reading the texts that made me wonder how much influence Vicky Price had on their son.

I have seen parents of both sexes use their children after a split but, of those I have seen, it has been mothers using their sons that has caused me to want to intervene.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Difficult to write this without being accused of being judgemental but if I was Vicky Price and I'd been dumped for Carina Trimingham - I'd be a bit pissed off too.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Difficult to write this without being accused of being judgemental but if I was Vicky Price and I'd been dumped for Carina Trimingham - I'd be a bit pissed off too."

I know what that feels like and it took me a long time to understand why the woman who replaced me was the right person for my ex-partner and why I wasn't. It was a good lesson to learn.

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over a year ago

He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence."

Wiki says she's shagging Denis McShane. Is he in the jile too?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence."

This is my dalai lama - I feel that she may have dragged their children into this and I'm finding it difficult to reconcile with the possibility that in that marriage she was coerced.

The people I know who have met her describe her as a strong and determined woman but one never knows what happens behind closed doors.

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over a year ago

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

Wiki says she's shagging Denis McShane. Is he in the jile too?"

Jile? What's that?

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over a year ago

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

This is my dalai lama - I feel that she may have dragged their children into this and I'm finding it difficult to reconcile with the possibility that in that marriage she was coerced.

The people I know who have met her describe her as a strong and determined woman but one never knows what happens behind closed doors."

My personal feeling is that she felt scorned by him and lost all reason in her determination to get even. The son seems angry at his father for splitting the family up, not because he 'made mum take the rap' for him, but at just 20 years old he cannot have the maturity see what is really going on here, and his mother should have protected him from that. So should his father.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

Wiki says she's shagging Denis McShane. Is he in the jile too?

Jile? What's that?

Gaol. Pokey. The Big Hoose. The Clink. The Bridewell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Chris Huhne story has me thinking about the complexiities of families.

The text messages between him and his son being published must make it harder for them to ever reconcile.

His ex-wife, Vicky Price, looks determined to ensure his downfall is as total as possible.

There have been threads on here about awful ex partners and people saying that they can't forgive their parents.

Is it down to women and mothers to take the concialiatory route to ensure that children maintain their relationships with their fathers? Does a scorned woman always cause damage?

What of men?"

impossible to generalise on this one methinks.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

This is my dalai lama - I feel that she may have dragged their children into this and I'm finding it difficult to reconcile with the possibility that in that marriage she was coerced.

The people I know who have met her describe her as a strong and determined woman but one never knows what happens behind closed doors.

Kind of my impression, too. I wonder whether she would have gone through with it all had she thought about the potential consequences at that time. Does not excuse it...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

My personal feeling is that she felt scorned by him and lost all reason in her determination to get even. "

she was certainly that..

begs the phrase 'be careful what you wish for..'

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over a year ago

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

Wiki says she's shagging Denis McShane. Is he in the jile too?

Jile? What's that?

Gaol. Pokey. The Big Hoose. The Clink. The Bridewell."

ah, must be a Scottish thing. Never heard it called that before.

Why would Denis whatshisname be in jail then?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"He was a twat for cheating on his wife knowing she'd taken a rap for him.

She's a stupid bitch for using it to plot his downfall, which has led to her own downfall, and lumped her son smack bang in the middle of it.

Some mother. I'm not excusing him in any way at all but if she truly loved her children she would have suffered in silence.

Wiki says she's shagging Denis McShane. Is he in the jile too?

Jile? What's that?

Gaol. Pokey. The Big Hoose. The Clink. The Bridewell.

ah, must be a Scottish thing. Never heard it called that before.

Why would Denis whatshisname be in jail then?"

Wasn't he implicated in an expenses scandal?

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