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"It's a wonderful dynamic for me but a spectre for some/most people on here (I suspect). I'm not the typical swinger. I'm here for the passion, the sensuality, the emotional investment with feelings which do not necessarily transcend into a full blown relationship with 'spousal' obligations. I think I'm old fashioned. I'm all for romance." What a fabulous description. Make that two of us, if you don't mind old chap | |||
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"It's not dead, but not many women like to share it, when they find it, so life can get a little turbulent when seeking them, keep plugging away lovely " I view fab a bit like a library. There are some fantastic books that I want to read over and over again. Every time finding something new in the pages, but they aren't mine to keep. And even if someone else has the book when I wish to read it, I know I can still enjoy the story from memory and be glad someone else also gets to read it. | |||
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"It's not dead, but not many women like to share it, when they find it, so life can get a little turbulent when seeking them, keep plugging away lovely I view fab a bit like a library. There are some fantastic books that I want to read over and over again. Every time finding something new in the pages, but they aren't mine to keep. And even if someone else has the book when I wish to read it, I know I can still enjoy the story from memory and be glad someone else also gets to read it. " That's a lovely way to put it. Thank you . | |||
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"It's not dead, but not many women like to share it, when they find it, so life can get a little turbulent when seeking them, keep plugging away lovely I view fab a bit like a library. There are some fantastic books that I want to read over and over again. Every time finding something new in the pages, but they aren't mine to keep. And even if someone else has the book when I wish to read it, I know I can still enjoy the story from memory and be glad someone else also gets to read it. " | |||
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"It's not dead, but not many women like to share it, when they find it, so life can get a little turbulent when seeking them, keep plugging away lovely I view fab a bit like a library. There are some fantastic books that I want to read over and over again. Every time finding something new in the pages, but they aren't mine to keep. And even if someone else has the book when I wish to read it, I know I can still enjoy the story from memory and be glad someone else also gets to read it. " I think I love you | |||
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"Or has it just been forgotten or lost in translation? I know that for many people using this site (maybe even the majority) the idea of romance isn't something that enters their mind. They might already have that with a partner or they may just absolutely want to avoid it. However I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture and I refuse to let go of that. I want seduction, sensuality and dare I say it, feeling. I understand that's not for everyone, and I appreciate for some that it just might not pair well with the whole NSA vibes of sexual liberation. But why not? Why can't you have it all? People are not robots. Not a commodity to be used (although I do know that's exactly what some seek) I want indulgent sensual pleasures and lots of them. I don't want the conveyor belt of meaningless encounters. I want a revolving door of amazing experiences with wonderful people and beautiful memories. And I do love a bit of old fashioned romance and seduction. We talk about kink shaming but sometimes I think the way people mock those of us who seek these things are just as bad. So is it dead? Is it all about the casual hook up or is there still some hope that the two things can go hand in hand. " it certainly isn't here | |||
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"It's a wonderful dynamic for me but a spectre for some/most people on here (I suspect). I'm not the typical swinger. I'm here for the passion, the sensuality, the emotional investment with feelings which do not necessarily transcend into a full blown relationship with 'spousal' obligations. I think I'm old fashioned. I'm all for romance. What a fabulous description. Make that two of us, if you don't mind old chap " • With tonic water. | |||
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"Or has it just been forgotten or lost in translation? I know that for many people using this site (maybe even the majority) the idea of romance isn't something that enters their mind. They might already have that with a partner or they may just absolutely want to avoid it. However I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture and I refuse to let go of that. I want seduction, sensuality and dare I say it, feeling. I understand that's not for everyone, and I appreciate for some that it just might not pair well with the whole NSA vibes of sexual liberation. But why not? Why can't you have it all? People are not robots. Not a commodity to be used (although I do know that's exactly what some seek) I want indulgent sensual pleasures and lots of them. I don't want the conveyor belt of meaningless encounters. I want a revolving door of amazing experiences with wonderful people and beautiful memories. And I do love a bit of old fashioned romance and seduction. We talk about kink shaming but sometimes I think the way people mock those of us who seek these things are just as bad. So is it dead? Is it all about the casual hook up or is there still some hope that the two things can go hand in hand. " let us be lover we marry our fortune together . | |||
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"Thanks everyone for not judging! I expected a few why are you here comments. Glad to see I'm not alone in my thoughts x" Why judge anyone? We are each here for whatever we seek. I hope you find that which you desire | |||
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"It's a wonderful dynamic for me but a spectre for some/most people on here (I suspect). I'm not the typical swinger. I'm here for the passion, the sensuality, the emotional investment with feelings which do not necessarily transcend into a full blown relationship with 'spousal' obligations. I think I'm old fashioned. I'm all for romance." Is that the same as lovebombing | |||
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"No. It’s not dead. " .. simple this | |||
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"It's a wonderful dynamic for me but a spectre for some/most people on here (I suspect). I'm not the typical swinger. I'm here for the passion, the sensuality, the emotional investment with feelings which do not necessarily transcend into a full blown relationship with 'spousal' obligations. I think I'm old fashioned. I'm all for romance. · Is that the same as lovebombing " • I'm not familiar with that term. What does it mean? | |||
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"Or has it just been forgotten or lost in translation? I know that for many people using this site (maybe even the majority) the idea of romance isn't something that enters their mind. They might already have that with a partner or they may just absolutely want to avoid it. However I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture and I refuse to let go of that. I want seduction, sensuality and dare I say it, feeling. I understand that's not for everyone, and I appreciate for some that it just might not pair well with the whole NSA vibes of sexual liberation. But why not? Why can't you have it all? People are not robots. Not a commodity to be used (although I do know that's exactly what some seek) I want indulgent sensual pleasures and lots of them. I don't want the conveyor belt of meaningless encounters. I want a revolving door of amazing experiences with wonderful people and beautiful memories. And I do love a bit of old fashioned romance and seduction. We talk about kink shaming but sometimes I think the way people mock those of us who seek these things are just as bad. So is it dead? Is it all about the casual hook up or is there still some hope that the two things can go hand in hand. " | |||
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"Or has it just been forgotten or lost in translation? I know that for many people using this site (maybe even the majority) the idea of romance isn't something that enters their mind. They might already have that with a partner or they may just absolutely want to avoid it. However I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture and I refuse to let go of that. I want seduction, sensuality and dare I say it, feeling. I understand that's not for everyone, and I appreciate for some that it just might not pair well with the whole NSA vibes of sexual liberation. But why not? Why can't you have it all? People are not robots. Not a commodity to be used (although I do know that's exactly what some seek) I want indulgent sensual pleasures and lots of them. I don't want the conveyor belt of meaningless encounters. I want a revolving door of amazing experiences with wonderful people and beautiful memories. And I do love a bit of old fashioned romance and seduction. We talk about kink shaming but sometimes I think the way people mock those of us who seek these things are just as bad. So is it dead? Is it all about the casual hook up or is there still some hope that the two things can go hand in hand. " I have pondered this very subject for over 20 yrs,from clubbing,rave scene,house parties,chatlines now apps. The human need and greed has grown. The very Art form is dyeing fast. Because the nurturer's of it are gone. : its a culture and mindset " and a numbers game like in sales NEXT!! I think you full well know,where you are and where its going. It cannot go hand in hand. The answer is out there,for sure. | |||
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"It's not dead, but not many women like to share it, when they find it, so life can get a little turbulent when seeking them, keep plugging away lovely I view fab a bit like a library. There are some fantastic books that I want to read over and over again. Every time finding something new in the pages, but they aren't mine to keep. And even if someone else has the book when I wish to read it, I know I can still enjoy the story from memory and be glad someone else also gets to read it. " A perfect way to look at it and I wish more had that outlook, unfortunately women emotionally sharing men, with other women, doesn't happen often | |||
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"It's a wonderful dynamic for me but a spectre for some/most people on here (I suspect). I'm not the typical swinger. I'm here for the passion, the sensuality, the emotional investment with feelings which do not necessarily transcend into a full blown relationship with 'spousal' obligations. I think I'm old fashioned. I'm all for romance. What a fabulous description. Make that two of us, if you don't mind old chap " know oneself first. To know another. Feelings and emotions change in all of us. And get confused with lust,desire.infacuation. | |||
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" I want indulgent sensual pleasures and lots of them. I don't want the conveyor belt of meaningless encounters. I want a revolving door of amazing experiences with wonderful people and beautiful memories. And I do love a bit of old fashioned romance and seduction. " I’m very much into this idea with meets, I know it’s not what everyone wants but if they do then it works for me | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal" Old wise head in young shoulders. | |||
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"OP I think it is clearly dead because no one is seducing me " Ditto lol | |||
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"It's not dead by it I think it depends on your definition of romance as for me it's the little things. The unexpected bunch of flowers means so much more than an overpriced rose at Valentine's. Something that says 'I was thinking of you while you weren't with me' things " Most overthink,everybody needs to show ways of expression. But its like oh iam here,many can mind and brain read me! How far behind are we really. ( Humans ) | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal" True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect. | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect." Damn those British women not making men wait! | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect." You can still be a third date girl on fab. I often have been | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect. You can still be a third date girl on fab. I often have been " But it’s not in our culture to wait months and months , not normally once dating I mean. I dine it once or twice and you do feel differently, you kind of treasure them a little and happy to wait | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect. You can still be a third date girl on fab. I often have been " People make allowances how and where they see fit, | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect. You can still be a third date girl on fab. I often have been But it’s not in our culture to wait months and months , not normally once dating I mean. I dine it once or twice and you do feel differently, you kind of treasure them a little and happy to wait " I think with logistics it sometimes can be a while and I think it's resulted in better experiences too. | |||
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"Romance is definitely not dead, but it's likely to be harder to discover in an environment where NSA is a primary element. I think that romance involves a period of "getting to know" someone, a deeper emotional level of attraction rather than just sexual desire. When someone's goal is your company rather than your body, then they're more inclined towards romance. Cal True. On here if you have sex on 2nd or 3rd date , you both feel really good for waiting. This is very British, Asian or Arabic women like to make men wait and build that respect." I want the security of knowing we are sexually compatible, at the beginning. I'd be devastated if I grew a serious, romantic attachment to someone first, to then find out that we are incompatible | |||
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"It's a wonderful dynamic for me but a spectre for some/most people on here (I suspect). I'm not the typical swinger. I'm here for the passion, the sensuality, the emotional investment with feelings which do not necessarily transcend into a full blown relationship with 'spousal' obligations. I think I'm old fashioned. I'm all for romance. · Is that the same as lovebombing • I'm not familiar with that term. What does it mean?" Sometimes known as The Dennis System | |||
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"Feels like it sometimes... 4 dates in 4.5 years and that's with effort... " Oh my lady with cups o G if only I were your cup of tea I'd stimulate your mind and drive you wild in passionate Embrace to look in your eyes to see you smile . Sadly I've run out of rhyme. | |||
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"Or has it just been forgotten or lost in translation? I know that for many people using this site (maybe even the majority) the idea of romance isn't something that enters their mind. They might already have that with a partner or they may just absolutely want to avoid it. However I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture and I refuse to let go of that. I want seduction, sensuality and dare I say it, feeling. I understand that's not for everyone, and I appreciate for some that it just might not pair well with the whole NSA vibes of sexual liberation. But why not? Why can't you have it all? People are not robots. Not a commodity to be used (although I do know that's exactly what some seek) I want indulgent sensual pleasures and lots of them. I don't want the conveyor belt of meaningless encounters. I want a revolving door of amazing experiences with wonderful people and beautiful memories. And I do love a bit of old fashioned romance and seduction. We talk about kink shaming but sometimes I think the way people mock those of us who seek these things are just as bad. So is it dead? Is it all about the casual hook up or is there still some hope that the two things can go hand in hand. " I hear you! I'm old fashioned and love romance. | |||
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