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"I think you have more chance if winning the lottery, but if you don't ask, you don't know "Well exactly! In fact my last fuck buddy was found in exactly this way | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up." How nice it must be to be the fallback 
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up." A fallback? Christ, if that's what someone thought of me they can fuck right off  | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up." Not to mention reduced fees for a couple ticket entry, unlimited attendance on couples night when single men numbers are usually limited. What’s in for the “club buddy”, apart from being someone’s “fallback”? Good grief. There’s a reason I’ll always choose to go to the club alone or won’t go at all. | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up." Wow! Just wow  | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. Not to mention reduced fees for a couple ticket entry, unlimited attendance on couples night when single men numbers are usually limited. What’s in for the “club buddy”, apart from being someone’s “fallback”? Good grief. There’s a reason I’ll always choose to go to the club alone or won’t go at all." To be fair I used to have club buddies. It wasn't for reduced entry fees, so there was a 'fallback' or just to guarantee some 'action' if there was nobody there of interest on the night. It was because we had that friendship, mutual interest in the club scene and liked spending time together in a variety of situations. It was an addition to an existing FB/FWB relationship, not the reason for one. I guess that's the key difference. The motivation. A | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up." Many couples won't touch people with this dynamic in clubs. Couples will happily play with single men, single women and proper couples as all offer a different dynamic. We are all about honesty and when we play with other couples we enjoy that both couples are sharing the people they love most in the world which makes it far more erotic and intimate. Experienced couples can spot the fake ones a mile away although that's not to say some won't still play, it just may not be the fuckfest you imagine. | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. Not to mention reduced fees for a couple ticket entry, unlimited attendance on couples night when single men numbers are usually limited. What’s in for the “club buddy”, apart from being someone’s “fallback”? Good grief. There’s a reason I’ll always choose to go to the club alone or won’t go at all. To be fair I used to have club buddies. It wasn't for reduced entry fees, so there was a 'fallback' or just to guarantee some 'action' if there was nobody there of interest on the night. It was because we had that friendship, mutual interest in the club scene and liked spending time together in a variety of situations. It was an addition to an existing FB/FWB relationship, not the reason for one. I guess that's the key difference. The motivation. A" Very well put. | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. Not to mention reduced fees for a couple ticket entry, unlimited attendance on couples night when single men numbers are usually limited. What’s in for the “club buddy”, apart from being someone’s “fallback”? Good grief. There’s a reason I’ll always choose to go to the club alone or won’t go at all. To be fair I used to have club buddies. It wasn't for reduced entry fees, so there was a 'fallback' or just to guarantee some 'action' if there was nobody there of interest on the night. It was because we had that friendship, mutual interest in the club scene and liked spending time together in a variety of situations. It was an addition to an existing FB/FWB relationship, not the reason for one. I guess that's the key difference. The motivation. A" I think what you describe is an ultimate goal/dynamic to have in terms of FB or FWB and it’s awesome when it happens, takes time, a bit of commitment and I agree, the motivation as the most important and valuable aspect of it. | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. Many couples won't touch people with this dynamic in clubs. Couples will happily play with single men, single women and proper couples as all offer a different dynamic. We are all about honesty and when we play with other couples we enjoy that both couples are sharing the people they love most in the world which makes it far more erotic and intimate. Experienced couples can spot the fake ones a mile away although that's not to say some won't still play, it just may not be the fuckfest you imagine." When I've had club buddies/ fwbs I've gone to clubs with, it's about having a friend to share the experience with. I suppose if someone is looking mostly for couples your point might be well made, but personally, the fact that couples think I'm in a fake couple bothers me about as much as it raining in Brazil. | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. How nice it must be to be the fallback
"As there's a few responses to that but you're the first - it seems people didn't read fallback and hook up and separate them out. Having a fallback going to a club to me is having someone you know there. Having someone you can hook up with is, someone you fuck. Hope that clears all the Yikes up. | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. Not to mention reduced fees for a couple ticket entry, unlimited attendance on couples night when single men numbers are usually limited. What’s in for the “club buddy”, apart from being someone’s “fallback”? Good grief. There’s a reason I’ll always choose to go to the club alone or won’t go at all. To be fair I used to have club buddies. It wasn't for reduced entry fees, so there was a 'fallback' or just to guarantee some 'action' if there was nobody there of interest on the night. It was because we had that friendship, mutual interest in the club scene and liked spending time together in a variety of situations. It was an addition to an existing FB/FWB relationship, not the reason for one. I guess that's the key difference. The motivation. A" Totally agree with you. And it's what I would like | |||
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"Can b found ! Some Women do want same x" Chance would be a fine thing | |||
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"Just resurrecting this forum. Any ladies fancy going with me to a club?" Why can you not go alone? | |||
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"Just resurrecting this forum. Any ladies fancy going with me to a club? Why can you not go alone?" I'm always alone. It's fine | |||
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"Just resurrecting this forum. Any ladies fancy going with me to a club? Why can you not go alone? I'm always alone. It's fine "Me too! I prefer it because you're not obliged to stick with the person you went along with | |||
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"Just resurrecting this forum. Any ladies fancy going with me to a club? Why can you not go alone? I'm always alone. It's fine
Me too! I prefer it because you're not obliged to stick with the person you went along with "In and at it. Treat it like a pub | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up." Cos every woman wants to be a fallback  | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. How nice it must be to be the fallback
As there's a few responses to that but you're the first - it seems people didn't read fallback and hook up and separate them out.
Having a fallback going to a club to me is having someone you know there. Having someone you can hook up with is, someone you fuck.
Hope that clears all the Yikes up.
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"is this not better in the meets section of the forum??" I didn’t know there was one | |||
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"For me a fb/fwb/ club buddy has built out of regular meets. " I like it that way. Oddly enough I met one at a club and now we're regular fb | |||
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"A second wife that only puts out once a month when you take her to a club and pay for her expenses but you have to wait in line so she can get her full of all the other meat? That sounds like my first wife. I don't want that. "Pay HER expenses when SHE means you'll get into the club cheaper... dude | |||
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"A second wife that only puts out once a month when you take her to a club and pay for her expenses but you have to wait in line so she can get her full of all the other meat? That sounds like my first wife. I don't want that.
Pay HER expenses when SHE means you'll get into the club cheaper... dude "Well yeah, I would pay for everything | |||
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"I know I’ll get a ton of blokes saying ‘yeah don’t we all’, but I’m looking for a female fuck buddy and someone to go to clubs with and generally explore. Any takers?" Yeah don’t we all | |||
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"Just realised I have asked this again in newer forums. Ah well" And the question still remains….. is there any difference between going to a club where you won’t know people… and going to a club not knowing that person and then meeting people you don’t know! That person is not a crutch for you and is not some sort of golden ticket…… Or you can think of it like this… would you put your reputation on the line for someone you don’t know? At some point in the process whether you meet people in a private home or in a club, you are going to have to be sociable…. Concentrate on that and you will be fine, whether you go on your own or not! | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. A fallback? Christ, if that's what someone thought of me they can fuck right off "And then they can fuck off again  | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. Many couples won't touch people with this dynamic in clubs. Couples will happily play with single men, single women and proper couples as all offer a different dynamic. We are all about honesty and when we play with other couples we enjoy that both couples are sharing the people they love most in the world which makes it far more erotic and intimate. Experienced couples can spot the fake ones a mile away although that's not to say some won't still play, it just may not be the fuckfest you imagine. When I've had club buddies/ fwbs I've gone to clubs with, it's about having a friend to share the experience with. I suppose if someone is looking mostly for couples your point might be well made, but personally, the fact that couples think I'm in a fake couple bothers me about as much as it raining in Brazil." | |||
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"Dont look for a fuck buddy, look for a club buddy. A fb you'll be seeing outside of a club, a club buddy would be so as you and them have someone to go with so you have a fallback, but maybe hook up. A fallback? Christ, if that's what someone thought of me they can fuck right off
And then they can fuck off again "Simply as you go to a club with someone doesn't mean you're tied to their hip, it doesn't even mean you're going to fuck - you're club buddies. They can do their thing you can do yours. A fuck buddy is entirely different. | |||
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