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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Do you automatically assume a new message from a fabber is a creep and look out for red flags immediately? Or do you approach every message neutral and just see how it goes?

How quick are you to decide whether to reply or not?

Are we conditioned now to immediately go on defense mode?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can usually tell by the few words that I can see before opening it. Our profile is pretty clear that we aren’t meeting so unless it’s a question about clubs or someone from the forums I assume they’re a creep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to most things. Even if I think they are a creep.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I had the strangest message yesterday. So kinda scared to open them today.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It depends on my mood.

Some get ignored for a while, others I reply to see where it goes and some I just take the piss out of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's from a non forum person it's 99% of the time a man wanking about one of my forum posts, who can't understand words on a profile.

Forum people are 99% of the time the decent messages.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

All the women that message me are creeps!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't assume anything about messages until I've seen the preview bit in the inbox... and I rarely look at my inbox (I think it's been almost 2 weeks now).

So I decide not to reply kinda by default.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"All the women that message me are creeps! "

You're welcome

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm generally open minded I reply to most, just not the one words or people who clearly haven't taken notice of anything in our profile.

Mrs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yep I'm a red flag hunter, which is 7 times out of ten accompanied by a hidden wedding ring atm, its weird how I attract them when I'm not looking to meet, maybe it's my number of veris and they assume I'll fuck anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can generally tell what the content of the message

will be without even opening it. The first few words you see can tell a lot.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I only open them if they start with FAF

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