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"those little things on a person's body. The things that might be considered flaws. Cellulite. Stretch marks. Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy. Squidge when you sit down. Body hair. Always happy to investigate yours and let you look at mine I've very interesting scar on my inner thigh That looks like the map of England The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them? Do you care about them? Have you ever been put off by someone because of it? How do you feel about them on yourself?" | |||
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"...Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy.... The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them?..." Now I am going to have to look for those! I may need some photos to understand what I am looking for | |||
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"... it's why I always do certain angles in pics and have my hand across my stomach. " That and hiding the profile of course The little triangle of moles (or are they freckles) is quite cute! | |||
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"...Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy.... The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them?... Now I am going to have to look for those! I may need some photos to understand what I am looking for " The dark inner thighs, I know what a wobbly tum is, mine is back since I stopped doing Midnight's new year plank and squats regime. | |||
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"I notice them on myself and hate them, but on others I hardly notice at all it's a little strange. Mrs " Same. I have squidge, stretch marks, scars, cellulite, plenty of flaws, and on me, I cannot stand them. In the mirror, I see a fat, unattractive person. On others, those things don't bother me at all, or I find them interesting. I find skin with vitiligo really beautiful, for example. I love chunky bodies too. Many of us are our own worst critics, for whatever reason. | |||
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"I hardly notice them on others, or if I do it's never in a negative way. I way more critical of myself though, it's why I always do certain angles in pics and have my hand across my stomach. " Yes, I think there's that tendency to judge ourselves more harshly than another person (that we like). Probably we're more aware of them because we know ourselves and see our body daily. Giving it greater importance than necessary. | |||
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"I absolutely hate my stomach area due to a very ugly scar and stretch marks. However, I have recently posted photos in here showing it and thankfully I haven't received any negative comments about my ugliness. I wouldn't have the confidence to walk around a club with it on show and I always try to wear lingerie that hides it all when I'm on a meet. I don't want people to cringe and be put off me. I have so many body faults that I absolutely hate, some from when I was a baby, you would think I'd be used to them after all these years but no. I hate them and can't get my head around learning to love them." Don't try to love them, people that tell you to do such things are talking shit. Focus on just acceptance of them before anything else. Don't run before you can even crawl, nevermind walk. We often can't accept things because we are so focused on trying to go beyond that, so when we fail to "love" we make no progress at all. | |||
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"Do I notice, yes, do I care, no. I've never been put off by what are considered flaws. As for me, it's my moobs, I went up to over 15stone earlier in the year and nearly needed a training bra. I've since lost close to a stone but the moobs are still there and I hate them. Very conscious of them, especially when they jiggle going downstairs...that's actual stairs, not a euphemism." My last partner was similar. He wouldn't be around me with his tip off, hated his moobs (don't like that word). Didn't like me touching his chest. I was so overwhelmed with lust for him I honestly didn't care. | |||
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"Do I notice, yes, do I care, no. I've never been put off by what are considered flaws. As for me, it's my moobs, I went up to over 15stone earlier in the year and nearly needed a training bra. I've since lost close to a stone but the moobs are still there and I hate them. Very conscious of them, especially when they jiggle going downstairs...that's actual stairs, not a euphemism. My last partner was similar. He wouldn't be around me with his tip off, hated his moobs (don't like that word). Didn't like me touching his chest. I was so overwhelmed with lust for him I honestly didn't care." I'm much more confident in my self when in a relationship, or at least dating somebody. Obviously not all, as some can be toxic and have the reverse effect of course. But having that person to fuel what you can and should feel secure about makes so much difference. | |||
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"Do I notice, yes, do I care, no. I've never been put off by what are considered flaws. As for me, it's my moobs, I went up to over 15stone earlier in the year and nearly needed a training bra. I've since lost close to a stone but the moobs are still there and I hate them. Very conscious of them, especially when they jiggle going downstairs...that's actual stairs, not a euphemism. My last partner was similar. He wouldn't be around me with his tip off, hated his moobs (don't like that word). Didn't like me touching his chest. I was so overwhelmed with lust for him I honestly didn't care. I'm much more confident in my self when in a relationship, or at least dating somebody. Obviously not all, as some can be toxic and have the reverse effect of course. But having that person to fuel what you can and should feel secure about makes so much difference. " Definitely. He did eventually feel confident enough to me fully naked around me. It didn't matter to me though, if he kept his top on or not, I just wanted to do all the fucking with him as often as possible. | |||
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"Do I notice, yes, do I care, no. I've never been put off by what are considered flaws. As for me, it's my moobs, I went up to over 15stone earlier in the year and nearly needed a training bra. I've since lost close to a stone but the moobs are still there and I hate them. Very conscious of them, especially when they jiggle going downstairs...that's actual stairs, not a euphemism. My last partner was similar. He wouldn't be around me with his tip off, hated his moobs (don't like that word). Didn't like me touching his chest. I was so overwhelmed with lust for him I honestly didn't care. I'm much more confident in my self when in a relationship, or at least dating somebody. Obviously not all, as some can be toxic and have the reverse effect of course. But having that person to fuel what you can and should feel secure about makes so much difference. Definitely. He did eventually feel confident enough to me fully naked around me. It didn't matter to me though, if he kept his top on or not, I just wanted to do all the fucking with him as often as possible. " Not fucking, making love, well sometimes it was fucking. | |||
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"those little things on a person's body. The things that might be considered flaws. Cellulite. Stretch marks. Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy. Squidge when you sit down. Body hair. The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them? Do you care about them? Have you ever been put off by someone because of it? How do you feel about them on yourself?" I would hate to meet the perfect body, firstly because mine isn't and secondly because blemishes show that someone has lived and experienced life. I read their body, face and body language like a short novel. | |||
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"those little things on a person's body. The things that might be considered flaws. Cellulite. Stretch marks. Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy. Squidge when you sit down. Body hair. The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them? Do you care about them? Have you ever been put off by someone because of it? How do you feel about them on yourself?" Hi op They make us who we are. Every body here is different every body is body beautiful. | |||
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"Does anyone remember a paper printing a picture of Princess Diana leaving the gym and zooming in on her cellulite? And calling the Duchess of York the Duchess of Pork?" That sounds very daily mail. But to answer the OP question, do I notice, like never. If I did would I judge or put me off someone? No. But I can understand why people not feel comfortable with others seeing body marks. | |||
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"Yes I notice,I don't care about them, put off is too strong a phrase for me but sexually there are types I find attractive and types I don't, socially the only thing that puts me off are personal traits. On myself I'd far rather my skin wasn't showing the signs of aging and my feet were gorgeous but I don't cover up because I don't want to and I'm sick and damn tired of the subliminal and overt message that being older is something to hide." Are products that helps provide the vitamins the skin needs which can be applied I'd go for natural resources then chemical. Even soaking your feet in a bucket of hot water with salt regularly helps. I'm sure you do have lovely feet x | |||
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"Does anyone remember a paper printing a picture of Princess Diana leaving the gym and zooming in on her cellulite? And calling the Duchess of York the Duchess of Pork?" I don't remember but I don't doubt it happened. | |||
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"I notice them on others, but does it bother me? No. Everything that makes up a person is going to include some kind of blemish or imperfection. I call it a feature. It might bother them, but it sure doesn’t bother me.m, I just see it. And the thing is, a persons personality .. Narrator - Woody, people at groaning at this now …will make those things unnoticeable after a time because their beauty just cover their entire person. Me - I’ve got a mark under my eye I don’t like. My wrinkles are starting to show, I’ve never had a big chest, so I am conscious of these things. Also, things that were said from parents when I was a child stay in my mind about my looks. So that’s a thing I still deal with. " I can completely relate to comments made by parents that still stick. | |||
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"Yes I notice,I don't care about them, put off is too strong a phrase for me but sexually there are types I find attractive and types I don't, socially the only thing that puts me off are personal traits. On myself I'd far rather my skin wasn't showing the signs of aging and my feet were gorgeous but I don't cover up because I don't want to and I'm sick and damn tired of the subliminal and overt message that being older is something to hide. Are products that helps provide the vitamins the skin needs which can be applied I'd go for natural resources then chemical. Even soaking your feet in a bucket of hot water with salt regularly helps. I'm sure you do have lovely feet x" I'm trying to project a sexy image here, don't put pictures of me with my feet in a bucket of salty water in people's minds | |||
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"I hardly notice them on others, or if I do it's never in a negative way. I way more critical of myself though, it's why I always do certain angles in pics and have my hand across my stomach. " I wish you'd stop doing that. You have an amazing body. So sweet of me this morning to say I know | |||
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" I'm trying to project a sexy image here, don't put pictures of me with my feet in a bucket of salty water in people's minds " Your next profile picture | |||
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"those little things on a person's body. The things that might be considered flaws. Cellulite. Stretch marks. Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy. Squidge when you sit down. Body hair. The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them? Do you care about them? Have you ever been put off by someone because of it? How do you feel about them on yourself?" Never put me off. And I have a fair few scars myself. They're part of someone, part of their life and if you have negative feelings about someone due to physical imperfections then they're not for you and you should step away. Everyone has flaws. Whether physical or emotional. Embrace your own and care not for those of others. A | |||
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"those little things on a person's body. The things that might be considered flaws. Cellulite. Stretch marks. Darker inner thighs. A wobbly tummy. Squidge when you sit down. Body hair. The things that might make a person cover up. Do you notice them? Do you care about them? Have you ever been put off by someone because of it? How do you feel about them on yourself? Never put me off. And I have a fair few scars myself. They're part of someone, part of their life and if you have negative feelings about someone due to physical imperfections then they're not for you and you should step away. Everyone has flaws. Whether physical or emotional. Embrace your own and care not for those of others. A" Obi long time no see my friend x | |||
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" I'm trying to project a sexy image here, don't put pictures of me with my feet in a bucket of salty water in people's minds Your next profile picture " I'll wager that someone would find it was a new kink | |||
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"... it's why I always do certain angles in pics and have my hand across my stomach. That and hiding the profile of course The little triangle of moles (or are they freckles) is quite cute!" I have a triangle of freckles somewhere on my body. | |||
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