FabSwingers.com forum: We all go through peaks and troughs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.

So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you

Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dug a trough in the trough and I'm not coming out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am content at the moment let some pent up frustration out couple off weeks ago

Emmm 5 guys in 2 hours pritty fun spa day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are certain people in my life who I'd happily have sex with right now.

Shaving my legs for them would actually be enjoyable!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Totally not interested x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've dug a trough in the trough and I'm not coming out. "

Wouldn't that be considered entering the trolls community areas? Or are you one of them now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've dug a trough in the trough and I'm not coming out.

Wouldn't that be considered entering the trolls community areas? Or are you one of them now?

I've always been one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.

So where abouts are you right now? ……

Manchester …. Call me…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.

So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you

Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different

Mostly I’m uninterested right now. The only person that interested me is hundreds of miles away.

I think im practically a virgin again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a trough of around 6yrs, I can definitely say I'm aiming for a peak right now!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

Full. Not fill.

Ducking autocarrot......

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

Full. Not fill.

Ducking autocarrot......

I mean it still works

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm not sure what I'm in to be honest. I'm very happy with my current sex life but also more than happy to add some more variety into the mix in whatever way that may be

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

TT!

Faf?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Right this minute, I'd rather have a good night's sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I'm too interested.

*shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A huge trough right now, one that I can't see a way out of any time soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Not interested in anything other than a nice cup of tea and a good book. Maybe next week i'll want sex.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship

Thanks Joe.

Never easy but things are working out fine and the future beckons for us both.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Approaching a peak I reckon

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship

Thanks Joe.

Never easy but things are working out fine and the future beckons for us both.

Oh shit I didn't realize you were one of Obi Fox! Really sorry to hear that but checked your profile and good to hear you're still friends. Breakups are never easy, but you're still a sexy bastard and will be back in the swing in no time!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Definitely in a deep trough… it’s over 18months since I’ve had sex of any kind. My sex drive used to be through the roof but just not bothered these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bugger has filled the trough in on top of me….

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Peak. Definitely.

I need to get back in the swing (pun intended) of things given I haven't actually had fill sex with anyone other than the ex in over 8 years.....

Hope everything's goes well, can't be easy getting out of a long term relationship

Thanks Joe.

Never easy but things are working out fine and the future beckons for us both.

Keep up Brucey!

Maybe I should have got Tom to start a thread about it so it was 'all over the news'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a trough. I am like one of the drowned worms you find on the bottom of water troughs. Limp and Lifeless

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Meh my sex drive has been pretty weak lately

Must be something in the air

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Self imposed trough

In cyborg mode at minute with work and gym and other pursuits so weeks are flying by and not the time or energy to even think about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A deep trough. I thought I was ready to start getting back out there and meeting people again but clearly not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say we’re probably somewhere in the middle on the way up. We had a bit of a trough recently but we’re feeling it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A deep trough. I thought I was ready to start getting back out there and meeting people again but clearly not. "

*Googles next train to Fife*

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham/midlands

Does the trough ever end? I know sometimes we are in the gutter but some are looking at the stars, but some of us are just stuck there, hoping that someone drags us out for a bit of fun.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm at a gentle peak. The base of a peak. Not troughing it, more getting ready slowly to start exploring the landscape ahead of me.

Fuck that's so poetic. Where do I come up with this bollocks?

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By *im to please 73Couple
over a year ago

hucknall

I’ve definitely hit a peak !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely at a peak of wanting to meet people, but have yet to find anyone that has caught my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A deep trough. I thought I was ready to start getting back out there and meeting people again but clearly not.

*Googles next train to Fife*"

Well, would you look at that. It’s just peaked again

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Perhaps you might say something of a trough right now, but that's through personal choice. I've kinda put swinging on the back burner for the moment because, I have opted to be my mum's carer who has vascular dementia and athrites in both knees leaving her virtually wheelchair bound, and there's no way I'm going to be having her hived off into a care home to vegetate, nor am I contributing to the funding of some care home owners next BMW or Mer_edes Benz, I will buy a care home before that day dawns. So for now distance romances are a non starter.

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I don't know if it's just the temporarily imbalanced hormones, the stress of the kids being home 24/7 and literally doing and being responsible for EVERYTHING because Hubby rudely decided to have an accident which has put him out of commission, but I am well and truly fucking set up in the trough, am building a roof and have made it comfy down here.

Sex is literally just another chore right now.

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk

"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.

So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you

Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different

Well I’ve been going through a barren spell since the break up with the ex last November lol, not had sex since February, not hugely missing it but it niggles lol

Any volunteers to help end the drought are welcome btw hahaha

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham/midlands

"Perhaps you might say something of a trough right now, but that's through personal choice. I've kinda put swinging on the back burner for the moment because, I have opted to be my mum's carer who has vascular dementia and athrites in both knees leaving her virtually wheelchair bound, and there's no way I'm going to be having her hived off into a care home to vegetate, nor am I contributing to the funding of some care home owners next BMW or Mer_edes Benz, I will buy a care home before that day dawns. So for now distance romances are a non starter."

You sir, are a legend. Well done. Sometimes life just takes over and you do the right thing. Take care

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham/midlands

"I don't know if it's just the temporarily imbalanced hormones, the stress of the kids being home 24/7 and literally doing and being responsible for EVERYTHING because Hubby rudely decided to have an accident which has put him out of commission, but I am well and truly fucking set up in the trough, am building a roof and have made it comfy down here.

Sex is literally just another chore right now."

Likewise, you are a legend as well. Life takes over, and you just crack on. Well done.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.

So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you

Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different

F"
I like the water in a trough on a hot day

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am going through peak peak at the moment and fully riding the wave

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Right now I’m definitely going into a peak. I’ve had a hell of a year with very little time to meet anyone sadly but things are settling very nicely, my sex drive is as high as ever and I finally have a bit of free time to explore

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I'm in a trough about as deep as the Mariana Trench.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A deep trough. I thought I was ready to start getting back out there and meeting people again but clearly not.

*Googles next train to Fife*

Well, would you look at that. It’s just peaked again

For both of us

but seriously, I hope it does pick up for you soon and you're able to get out more

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Uhhm. Neither. I'm definitely not in a trough, but I've also been up multiple peaks at a time, which I can't claim right now

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

It's all relative.

Right now no but get a woman in lingerie bent over in front of me and he shall rise x

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world

In the troughiest of troughs.

Sexual & mental.

Trough's are tough.

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

"Of wanting to actually meet others for sex.

So where abouts are you right now? I'm completely in the trough. Don't get me wrong, I really want sex with Mr but as for anyone else right now.. No thank you

Ask me again tomorrow and it will probably be different

On the cusp of mothballing Fab and swinging, been on a break since April and now just about in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well and truly in a trough right now, but if I keep on digging won't I pop out the other side?

I'm actively working on getting myself out of it, and throwing myself into fab a little more than I have been is certainly helping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can meet for sex?

Since when?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Currently in a hot air balloon

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I would say it’s more of a constant, steady state for me. Reckon regular attendance to club and party nights along with regular high intensity exercise too have something to do with that

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I think I'm at the peak of my libidinous summit. There are some smelting irons in the fire of opportunities...but I am required to continuously stoke that fire to keep the flames of desire burning.

Failing that I may just bonk Brucey.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've come off a 6 month trough but getting back into it now. That's the great thing(well one of many) of not being in a relationship. I only fuck when I want to.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I think I'm at the peak of my libidinous summit. There are some smelting irons in the fire of opportunities...but I am required to continuously stoke that fire to keep the flames of desire burning.

Failing that I may just bonk Brucey."

You’ve been after him for ages…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re in a bit of a weird place. We’re not feeling one offs but don’t want a regular. Love clubs but 99% of club goers aren’t really our target audience. We’ll probably stick with clubs because it’s a good night out but the sex just isn’t happening right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im peeking my head out of the trough. I think about sex constantly but keep ignoring that side. I never just seek sex, it has to be more.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

ive dug more than a trough

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I dug a cave and went to sleep in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely in a trough.

To the point where I've even ended things with others.

I can't stand the way some people are on here ATM. The disrespect, the messing about and game playing and the two faced men that are all nice until the moment you don't do what they want how they want it. Yet call you a time waster when you say no. I mean what the fuck, it's such a turn off. They can fuck right off.

And I want sex....very much so....but I'm not that desperate!!

Oh that felt cathartic

I'm also not feeling fab and the forums much either. Same shit, different day, drama upon drama.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I'm on a peak...probably because work is shit so I'm self medicating with sex

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Definitely in a trough.

To the point where I've even ended things with others.

And I want sex....very much so....but I'm not that desperate!!

Oh that felt cathartic

I'm also not feeling fab and the forums much either. Same shit, different day, drama upon drama.

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in a funny place where I actually don't care either way. Happens sometimes. I need a partner to be honest. Cuddles and movie nights with a Poly friend would be bliss!

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By *anDare70Man
over a year ago

kirkby

Perhaps we expect it to be sunny all the time and instead should appreciate the Ray of sunshine when it lights upon us

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By *m NormalMan
over a year ago

Telford

Oooo wooow. I've read a lot of posts on this thread, there are so many not getting or not wanting sex. I fit in perfectly, not want and not getting, it's been going on for over 2 years.

As hard as I try to climb out of the trough I never succeed. I must be sending messages to all the other members not want or getting sex.

Maybe Fabswingers should be renamed sadwingers.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Please just give me a willing victim……

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We can meet for sex?

Since when? "

Since today at 06:47.

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