FabSwingers.com forum: Love etc

By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I’ve been sick this week. So it’s been non-stop life analysis and endless movies about love from within my duvet as I ruminate.

Are you good with your own company when it’s enforced?

Do you think love will find everyone and conquer all?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm fine with my own company, no I don't think love will find everyone and it certainly won't conquer all , humans are to selfish and stupid.... but that's just my jaded opinion lol... hope you feel better soon

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

I always like to think that love can conquer all ... but It must come from both sides ...

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Sorry to hear you’ve been ill

As a general rule, ruminating on things isn’t a great idea. Hope you can get past it soon.

I’m ok with my own company, but perhaps it means I value good company when it’s there.

As for love, it takes opportunity, some luck and some work from both sides. That’s quite a lot of things to happen so no wonder it’s rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww hugs beautiful let me put a smile back on your face you have wonderful eyes I could get lost in them over a nice dinner telling you your beautiful and special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my own company, I'm the only person that doesn't annoy me.

Does everyone find love? No. Some never will. And most will just settle.

And i don't believe it conquers all , that's what Macdonald's breakfasts are for.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Love is beautiful and wonderful, but it doesn't change the world. It isn't enough to love and be loved and just expect things to work out somehow

I adore my own company. I also adore the company of select other people sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi op

Whilst I agree the world needs loving. Finding love here be like finding needle in haystack. It is not match.. But chick flicks either love loathe or despise.

Get better soon op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you've been ill. I hope the worst is over and you are on the mend.

I love, love and I long for it but I've long since accepted that the happy ever after kind of love probably won't find me.

I'm OK with my own company but too much of it and I start to dwell and that's not a good thing for me.

I need interaction.

I like to think love could conquer all but really there needs to be kindness, compassion, understanding and respect too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty good in my own company I think.

Not sure about the love finding us all. Im seeing being in love as just compromising on various things that you may not, in a rational mind want to compromise on, but loves blinds.

I think the love that will or should find us is the love for ourself. We should all seek and find that.

(Cynical old bag mode activated)

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I don’t mind it took a lot of getting used to after living with someone for 15 years. Still struggle at times mainly after daughter goes home after she been staying a well as she takes up a lot of my time and attention and it feels so miserable and empty when she’s gone but most nights I love being alone

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I love being on my own, as long as it is my decision. I had a spell of being ill and bedbound and that certainly was no fun whatsoever.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Get well soon my friend

Love conkers.

The secret is to part bake after you drill the hole.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I love being on my own when that happens. I have no end of things that I like to do. Luke

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I’ve been sick this week. So it’s been non-stop life analysis and endless movies about love from within my duvet as I ruminate.

Are you good with your own company when it’s enforced?

Do you think love will find everyone and conquer all?"

I used to. Recent events have slightly changed that for me.

As for enforced isolation? Never been food with that but it's something I'll soon be facing do hoping it's going to be easier than anticipated.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've got much better at being on my own over the last year. Before that I wouldn't stop still, stop home, stay alone. A day home alone doesn't leave me feeling great though.

As for love. I'm not a fan. I liked me more before I knew what love was.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

I'm ok on my own. But invariably eventually I do want some human contact lol

Love is amazing...not everyone gets it. But on its own, it certainly aint enough.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I’ve been sick this week. So it’s been non-stop life analysis and endless movies about love from within my duvet as I ruminate.

Are you good with your own company when it’s enforced?

Do you think love will find everyone and conquer all?"

I'm good with my own company though it's partly enforced and partly my own decision.

I had love a long time ago and that was my shot. Now I'm in a place of aftermath and coping best I can. It has highs and lows as does everyone after a messy separation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my own company but I’ve never had to go for long periods of being alone before. I think I’d get quite lonely.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I'm not a massive fan of people. Very selective in whom I give my company and attention to.

I'm used to "lonely" and being on my own. Sometimes I do miss having somebody there.

Having dogs helps, bit not quite the same.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Im of the mind that iv had it but as i wont have it the way i had it im good to leave that stuff well alone

Im good in my as is theres plenty of things to do that dont involve that level of emotion or physical contact i prefer to hold back in the end iv learned to live is to be alone regardless how many people are in your life eventually thru either choice or simple mortality people abandon you either way thats what the last few years have taught me anyway and so be it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I love my own company. love can fuck right off.

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