FabSwingers.com forum: Actual talking

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Before a meet, do you have any requirements for needing to chat to them - be in a phone call or at the very least voicenotes?

Do you find your opinion has changed shitloads on someone before based on their chat or voice?

Go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely need a voice and a video call. Been catfished before

How they sound doesn’t bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal phone call so I can give the hotel or use to be house address but stopped meeting at house

Don’t tend to write my address in messages on here or anything

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

When I did private meets, I did need a video call beforehand. Now I only meet new people in clubs I don't worry so much

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No, I don’t have a requirement for this

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Birth certificate. DNA test.

Voice recognition. Iris recognition. Finger prints.

And a signature.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I met for a social after a handful of messages and had a great time.

Expected a Scots lady and got an Eastern European. It was a nice surprise and it went well but it was a bit of a curve ball.

TBH I probably understood her better than most Scottish women I've spoken too

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"I met for a social after a handful of messages and had a great time.

Expected a Scots lady and got an Eastern European. It was a nice surprise and it went well but it was a bit of a curve ball.

TBH I probably understood her better than most Scottish women I've spoken too

#to. (Before the grammar police arrive)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. We don't need to know their voice. I just need to know they aren't a murderer.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Before a meet, do you have any requirements for needing to chat to them - be in a phone call or at the very least voicenotes?

Do you find your opinion has changed shitloads on someone before based on their chat or voice?

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I like a chat.

Had a lovely one today.

Especially when there's an accent I like and a sexy voice on the other end of the line.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before a meet, do you have any requirements for needing to chat to them - be in a phone call or at the very least voicenotes?

Do you find your opinion has changed shitloads on someone before based on their chat or voice?

Go!"

Credit card number, expiry date, CVC code, name on the card, also ideally if they can provide Bank Account name, sort code, account number, mother's maiden name, name of first pet, town where they were born, and finally their age and date of birth.

That usually is enough, but sometimes I want their passport and deeds to the house too.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No. We don't need to know their voice. I just need to know they aren't a murderer.

I've definitely got a fly or 2 in my time...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We don't tend to phone or video call, however after our 1st meet it would have saved being catfished so I see why people do.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No, leave it for the imagination to wonder since everything else has been great within the chats

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes. Well, I like talking and it naturally progresses to one or both. Sometimes I've been a bit... less dripping with lust after hearing their voice. That sounds awful, I'll clarify it's only happened twice. And I've met a few people in almost a decade on here.

Most of the time I'm even more keen to meet them because I've heard how they respond to me. They feel more real. If the conversation flows easily on the phone/voice notes I like to think it will translate well to meeting in person.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Do you remember the water park hunk from grownups who said in a high pitched voice. "What's up ladies... I'm from Sascatchatoon"...

Yeah that one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er yes I do need to hear the voice first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t but I can totally lose interest in someone based on their accent or if they’ve got a funny voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Well, I like talking and it naturally progresses to one or both. Sometimes I've been a bit... less dripping with lust after hearing their voice. That sounds awful, I'll clarify it's only happened twice. And I've met a few people in almost a decade on here.

Agree with this entirely apart from decades.. 2014 to 2024 will be one but not yet.

Calls should be not rushed.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course, at the very least a phone call, or even moving on to voice notes.

But most importantly, someone that is easy-going and has a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, phone call beforehand.

I chatted to a guy a while back and the chemistry was great. He left me a voice note on whatever chat app I was using.

Every hair stood up. I felt terrified.

I backed out sooo fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

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By *asper1987Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Before a meet, do you have any requirements for needing to chat to them - be in a phone call or at the very least voicenotes?

Do you find your opinion has changed shitloads on someone before based on their chat or voice?

Go!"

Not necessarily a voice, but you can tell many things by someone’s voice. It does at times turn you on. However I’d at least like a few on and off chats to know the “what are we doing” and if compatible. Can’t be arsed with the fuck and go nonesense. To many dirty people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t but I can totally lose interest in someone based on their accent or if they’ve got a funny voice."

I'm just funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

Oh god no, it's all in the voice!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

Oh god no, it's all in the voice! "

How's mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

Oh god no, it's all in the voice!

How's mine

It's alright

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

Oh god no, it's all in the voice!

How's mine

It's alright "

Better than yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

Oh god no, it's all in the voice!

How's mine

It's alright

Better than yours"

Everyone's voice is better than mine.

Even the scousers.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Only ask for a phone chat if I'm doubting how "real" they are or going to actually turn up to a meet. Otherwise I quite like the excitement of not knowing.

Oh god no, it's all in the voice!

How's mine

It's alright

Better than yours

Everyone's voice is better than mine.

Even the scousers. "

Standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt meet without talking first.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Don’t think I’ve ever had a need to physically talk to someone before meeting them. I always meet in a public space and feel able to walk away.

But I have spoken to someone I never met and they sounded like one of the chuckle brothers. That really dried me up

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd have to hear Lilith speak first because I'm thinking the voice would make my cock disappear completely inside of me quicker than the sea in winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have to hear Lilith speak first because I'm thinking the voice would make my cock disappear completely inside of me quicker than the sea in winter "

You wouldn't be the first

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'd have to hear Lilith speak first because I'm thinking the voice would make my cock disappear completely inside of me quicker than the sea in winter

You wouldn't be the first"

I'm going to light a little candle for every lost cock you've been responsible for

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By *herubchubWoman
over a year ago

Nr the sea

Absolutely love to hear a voice before meeting.

If there is no social…rare going straight to a meat meet! Then I need a phone chat first! Even if it’s just when they’re driving to meet me!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'd have to hear Lilith speak first because I'm thinking the voice would make my cock disappear completely inside of me quicker than the sea in winter

You wouldn't be the first

I'm going to light a little candle for every lost cock you've been responsible for "

Does the include the ones she has dismembered?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Don’t think I’ve ever had a need to physically talk to someone before meeting them. I always meet in a public space and feel able to walk away.

But I have spoken to someone I never met and they sounded like one of the chuckle brothers. That really dried me up"

I'll definitely now pretend I sound like this diamond duo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a little self conscious about speaking on the phone.

It's like a cold call. I will do it if the guy insists, and I'm into him.

I like the written word better. Seduce me with text! Much more horny and less nerve wracking! X

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'd have to hear Lilith speak first because I'm thinking the voice would make my cock disappear completely inside of me quicker than the sea in winter

You wouldn't be the first

I'm going to light a little candle for every lost cock you've been responsible for

Does the include the ones she has dismembered? "

I'll break some cinnamon sticks and scatter them around the candles

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"Don’t think I’ve ever had a need to physically talk to someone before meeting them. I always meet in a public space and feel able to walk away.

But I have spoken to someone I never met and they sounded like one of the chuckle brothers. That really dried me up

I'll definitely now pretend I sound like this diamond duo

Would put me in the mood for something you mightn’t like

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm a little self conscious about speaking on the phone.

It's like a cold call. I will do it if the guy insists, and I'm into him.

I like the written word better. Seduce me with text! Much more horny and less nerve wracking! X"

Written word can be very powerful

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, I actually quite like the surprise as to how I've imagined they might sound.... Unless they sound like David Beckham, then there might be an issue.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I usually like talking rather than typing.

You get more out of hearing someone speak the words after all.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Don’t think I’ve ever had a need to physically talk to someone before meeting them. I always meet in a public space and feel able to walk away.

But I have spoken to someone I never met and they sounded like one of the chuckle brothers. That really dried me up

I'll definitely now pretend I sound like this diamond duo

Would put me in the mood for something you mightn’t like

You wanna hear the chuckle brothers with something up their butts?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm a little self conscious about speaking on the phone.

It's like a cold call. I will do it if the guy insists, and I'm into him.

I like the written word better. Seduce me with text! Much more horny and less nerve wracking! X"

Voice notes work great for this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a voice note but not everyone is into those so it's not a deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll want to meet them based on their messages and whether they're good conversation and it helps break the ice for when we actually meet. I'm not too fussed about chatting over the phone or voice notes as I've never really put too much of a stock into how someone sounds. If I judged someoone on their voice, it would very much be a pot kettle black situation.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I love a voice note but not everyone is into those so it's not a deal breaker "

Long ass voice notes as part of a convo are awkward as fuck.

A snippet of detail not so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before a meet, do you have any requirements for needing to chat to them - be in a phone call or at the very least voicenotes?

Do you find your opinion has changed shitloads on someone before based on their chat or voice?

Go!"

It's why I generally go for a social as I need to connect with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a voice note but not everyone is into those so it's not a deal breaker

Long ass voice notes as part of a convo are awkward as fuck.

A snippet of detail not so bad."

I hate voice notes!!

Just talk on the dam phone already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before a meet, do you have any requirements for needing to chat to them - be in a phone call or at the very least voicenotes?

Do you find your opinion has changed shitloads on someone before based on their chat or voice?

Go!"

Important to chat,voice's how and what people say,carrys weight. Its a glimpse,a screening.

Many dont want to chat,they rather type away. So what will happen if they ever meet in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met for a social after a handful of messages and had a great time.

Expected a Scots lady and got an Eastern European. It was a nice surprise and it went well but it was a bit of a curve ball.

TBH I probably understood her better than most Scottish women I've spoken too

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