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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to let off steam a bit. I'm very unwell and low and usually can cope but if you'll allow me this one thread to moan...(hypocritical, yes I know)

Fed up with threads being brought back months and months after they've last been posted on, that didn't get a lot of posts because they were waffle. I mean the ones that make no sense and the OPs change the story.

Fed up with boring posts, the complaints on how it's a bad site, how it's not the same or not exciting, and then A, when you green arrow'd, not one thread started by the complainers, or they've OP'd the same crap topic. And B, posts that come across as the old gang made it fun and newer people will never live up to that so let's keep reminiscing.

Fed up with ...

Fed up of ... I'm just low.

Sorry

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Maybe step back from the forums for a while ? Mail a few forumites and annoy them personally

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Thoughts and prayers

I am going to the dentist in 20 minutes and there is nothing I hate more on this planet. My anxiety levels are through the roof. I am shaking and want to cry but can’t because obviously my phobia is irrational and I have to snap out of it.

*puts kettle on*

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Sending you much love SuperShy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry you feel low, it’s crap.

As others have said maybe step out for a bit and engage, if you want, with those that feed you positive energy.

The forums will be the forums.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Agree with everything you said, tbh.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

There's so many moaners on here and I do think what is the point? Like, do anything else then. Get a hobby, watch tv, get some fresh air.

Don't just sit and go FAB I'M BORED NO ONE IS ENTERTAINING ME.

And I'm supposed to be the annoying one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs op it’s ok to vent a good vent can be good to get things off your chest I should know

I let something in my personal life build up and it spilled on to fab a little so feel free to vent

And my mail box is always open

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I need to let off steam a bit. I'm very unwell and low and usually can cope but if you'll allow me this one thread to moan...(hypocritical, yes I know)

Fed up with threads being brought back months and months after they've last been posted on, that didn't get a lot of posts because they were waffle. I mean the ones that make no sense and the OPs change the story.

Fed up with boring posts, the complaints on how it's a bad site, how it's not the same or not exciting, and then A, when you green arrow'd, not one thread started by the complainers, or they've OP'd the same crap topic. And B, posts that come across as the old gang made it fun and newer people will never live up to that so let's keep reminiscing.

Fed up with ...

Fed up of ... I'm just low.

Sorry

"

Chin up chick. Have a on me.

As you know I've not been in the best headspace of late but things have got better, I took a few days off from here and I'm now looking onwards and upwards.

And it's all down in part to people on here, whether it's just been a chat, some flirting, or potentially putting plans in place to start getting out there again.

We all have lows. It's inevitable and unavoidable.

Take a break and focus on something different. Put something in the diary for a day out or something to look forward to. It worked for me.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the posts. I never get that moany normally, or at least I hope i don't lol

I've had a 5 hour nap and some chicken soup, gonna have a bath and put the phone down for a few days..

See ya all in a few days

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

We are all here to support you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the posts. I never get that moany normally, or at least I hope i don't lol

I've had a 5 hour nap and some chicken soup, gonna have a bath and put the phone down for a few days..

See ya all in a few days "

Phone away... keep away from news channels (including radio news items) for a few days and enjoy the real world you live in. In my view only a few days makes a massive difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think a lot of us get jaded from time to time! It's cyclical, you get fed up, you stay off fab for awhile, then you miss it and come back! It's OK to do that!, x

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