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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very sorry that has happened.

There’s nothing as weird as folk sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope

A special someone is out there waiting for you

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I am very sorry that has happened.

There’s nothing as weird as folk sometimes. "

thank you I don’t even why I’m crying

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope

A special someone is out there waiting for you "

thank you

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

Don't be...we all get played 'like a banjo' some times...some people know exactly what buttons to press to get their own way..age doesn't always make you aware of when it's happening either Just have to hold your head up n move on

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By *rigbyMan
over a year ago

Skelmersdale


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

So sorry you got hurt, there will be someone who loves you just for who you are out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope

A special someone is out there waiting for you thank you "

Your welcome anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very sorry that has happened.

There’s nothing as weird as folk sometimes. thank you I don’t even why I’m crying "

You’re crying because you care and that person meant something to you or had the potential to

Do you know tears produce endorphins and that’s why people can feel better after a good cry

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Happens to all of us. Vulnerability is a gift that's sometimes abused.

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

Hugs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Hopefully you'll be better equipped to protect yourself going forward

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I am very sorry that has happened.

There’s nothing as weird as folk sometimes. thank you I don’t even why I’m crying

You’re crying because you care and that person meant something to you or had the potential to

Do you know tears produce endorphins and that’s why people can feel better after a good cry "

I'm just so tired of giving people chances you know my think my picker is broken

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Hopefully you'll be better equipped to protect yourself going forward "
that’s the plan

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

Hugs"

thank you I feel like a idiot for crying

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By *abyblues2023Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OP

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Happens to all of us. Vulnerability is a gift that's sometimes abused."
you have no idea

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OP"
it sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Hugs op sorry that you been hurt also probably not worth must but remember your special your beautiful and wonderful never give up hope

A special someone is out there waiting for you thank you

Your welcome anytime "

Honestly I don’t even wanna try any more I quite happy on my own

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

So sorry you got hurt, there will be someone who loves you just for who you are out there "

honestly think I’m done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

Some people are just animals well actually worse than animals. No one should take advantage of anyone else. Hugs to you.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

I have a really good friend that's constantly taking back her guy who is a complete narcissist breaking serious laws from harassing her, stalking her and going into her phone.

He has some serious issues to sort for himself which is clearly tormenting him and so he is tormenting her.

I would say OP know your worth and don't settle for less, you know what your good qualities and traits are and is for you to get acquainted with someone that has near to all or more of the same qualities you have as a person

Life is about what we choose to have in our lives we are never forced to be stuck with a person who doesn't uplift us.

We are also never forced to be stuck in jobs that serves no purpose or value in our lives its never too late to take steps towards changes as long as we have breath in our bodies it is always possible xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OPit sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more "

It takes time. There is an immediate reaction in us all. Take some real time for you.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

Some people are just animals well actually worse than animals. No one should take advantage of anyone else. Hugs to you. "

thank you I think I’m just be by myself now

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OPit sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more

It takes time. There is an immediate reaction in us all. Take some real time for you. "

Definitely gonna do that

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

I have a really good friend that's constantly taking back her guy who is a complete narcissist breaking serious laws from harassing her, stalking her and going into her phone.thank you very much for that definitely gonna put all that to good use x

He has some serious issues to sort for himself which is clearly tormenting him and so he is tormenting her.

I would say OP know your worth and don't settle for less, you know what your good qualities and traits are and is for you to get acquainted with someone that has near to all or more of the same qualities you have as a person

Life is about what we choose to have in our lives we are never forced to be stuck with a person who doesn't uplift us.

We are also never forced to be stuck in jobs that serves no purpose or value in our lives its never too late to take steps towards changes as long as we have breath in our bodies it is always possible xxx

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I don't think you were a fool. You obviously had a connection with this person. And for whatever reason its not worked out. We would all become cold and emotionless if we didn't connect with people.

Experiences help us see the red flags, so that's all this was, an experience! It doesn't reflect who you are as a person!

I can tell you this as a 51yr old who has been through many similar experiences like you. It hurts, but you will dust yourself off, and importantly be okay! Sending love x

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "
not nice.. chin up

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Doesn't make you a fool, just because you take a chance on someone. Keep looking, you'll find the person that suits you

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By *abyblues2023Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OPit sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more "

Very true x

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By *entleman_of_pleasureMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

You're not a fool, just human.

And better days are coming x

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time "

It happens a lot. People just use you to get what they want and then move onto something new. I know this all too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on them, not you.

And there's no shame in shedding a tear when someone doesn't treat you well. Sometimes stepping away is needed until you feel ready again.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Doesn't make you a fool, just because you take a chance on someone. Keep looking, you'll find the person that suits you "
honestly I’m happy on my own

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I too was played at the weekend. Big hugs to you OPit sucks because you don’t want to even give any one a chance any more

Very true x"

Yup it just make you bitter

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"It's on them, not you.

And there's no shame in shedding a tear when someone doesn't treat you well. Sometimes stepping away is needed until you feel ready again. "

most definitely I don’t know why I entertained it

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

It happens a lot. People just use you to get what they want and then move onto something new. I know this all too well "

most definitely I don’t think he would have told me if I didn’t ask which my stupid fault

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

You're not a fool, just human.

And better days are coming x"

yeah gonna keep my heart to my self now

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time not nice.. chin up"
thank you

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"OP, I don't think you were a fool. You obviously had a connection with this person. And for whatever reason its not worked out. We would all become cold and emotionless if we didn't connect with people.

Experiences help us see the red flags, so that's all this was, an experience! It doesn't reflect who you are as a person!

I can tell you this as a 51yr old who has been through many similar experiences like you. It hurts, but you will dust yourself off, and importantly be okay! Sending love x"

yeah this why I don’t put my self out there much because I know this gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hapens to me more often than I'd like to admit

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"It hapens to me more often than I'd like to admit"
it’s crap and I hate it just make me a bit more bitter

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'm so sorry op

It doesn't make you a fool,it makes you human .Big hugs to you x

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this OP, its their loss not yours,like you've said, take your time. Surround yourself with your friends. Also their not a bad bunch on these forums if you ever need to vent or bend an ear.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"It hapens to me more often than I'd like to admitit’s crap and I hate it just make me a bit more bitter "

Take that bitterness and use it to empower yourself, believe that you will find a good one and trust in your gut red flags, ask those questions early on to sieve through the soil and your diamond will shine through x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there too OP

Sending hugs

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I feel like a right fool I let some one in just to get hurt all the time

I have a really good friend that's constantly taking back her guy who is a complete narcissist breaking serious laws from harassing her, stalking her and going into her phone.thank you very much for that definitely gonna put all that to good use x

He has some serious issues to sort for himself which is clearly tormenting him and so he is tormenting her.

I would say OP know your worth and don't settle for less, you know what your good qualities and traits are and is for you to get acquainted with someone that has near to all or more of the same qualities you have as a person

Life is about what we choose to have in our lives we are never forced to be stuck with a person who doesn't uplift us.

We are also never forced to be stuck in jobs that serves no purpose or value in our lives its never too late to take steps towards changes as long as we have breath in our bodies it is always possible xxx

"

I don't understand your reply OP

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