FabSwingers.com forum: Explicit pics

By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

What do you deem as explicit?

I told a friend last night about my new swingy life and was explaining Fab.

I was describing my profile and said I didn't really post anything explicit in it. Which I meant as there are no close up pics of my vulva on here. She took that as I am fully clothed and just a little more cleavage than perhaps I would normally show on a normal dating app.

What does explicit mean to you?

Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me explicit would be sexual acts be it sex oral or self pleasring with a wank or dildo or something

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

From a Fab perspective – and from my personal point of view - I would interpret explicit as bodily fluids juxtaposed with the cervical innards and so forth.

Anything else would be relatively tame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.

FFS

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

For me explicit is sex acts or graphic close ups. My photo yesterday felt quite a lot ruder than what I normally post. It's nothing by fab standards but I don't usually show that much.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"For me explicit is sex acts or graphic close ups. My photo yesterday felt quite a lot ruder than what I normally post. It's nothing by fab standards but I don't usually show that much.

Oh you know I went straight to look.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.

FFS

Describe what you would send and I will decide if I want it. Preferably describe it in a voice note please I find it easier to visualise when listening over reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.

FFS

Describe what you would send and I will decide if I want it. Preferably describe it in a voice note please I find it easier to visualise when listening over reading.

As soon as I’m done with my shower

I will do just that.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I don’t really find the human body or the act of coitus explicit. It’s a construct of laws made back in the day for reasons I’ve never quite fathomed. David Attenborough can show a 10 minute sequence of elephants or Pygmy shrews going at it and we all marvel, but show two human beings in the same act and the world implodes, what a magnificently strange world we live in

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By *ixenitedWoman
over a year ago

Here or There abouts

Explicit to me would be full on sex act pics, cocks in holes and creampies. I like a good old perv at those type of pics but in my public & freinds only gallery my pussy/ass is concealed with an emojii, some things are better left to the imagination

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Dick erect, pussy exposed, acts with others

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

My view on what’s explicit is full on sex pics, bodily fluids etc.

Some are done tastefully, but there’s some I look at and think “maybe that needs a category higher than explicit”

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"From a Fab perspective – and from my personal point of view - I would interpret explicit as bodily fluids juxtaposed with the cervical innards and so forth.

Anything else would be relatively tame."

I am fab tame then

But I like to say 'Ta da' when I display my innards to someone for the first time and it doesn't work if they have already seen them.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"To me explicit would be sexual acts be it sex oral or self pleasring with a wank or dildo or something "

My poor neighbours.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I don’t really find the human body or the act of coitus explicit. It’s a construct of laws made back in the day for reasons I’ve never quite fathomed. David Attenborough can show a 10 minute sequence of elephants or Pygmy shrews going at it and we all marvel, but show two human beings in the same act and the world implodes, what a magnificently strange world we live in "

It is strange. I suppose I am a little more detached from the pygmy shrew though. If the pygmy shrew was going at it on you would that be explicit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open leg, graphic.

Open lips, explicit.

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By *il.E.lickurclioteMan
over a year ago

Derby

It is strange. I suppose I am a little more detached from the pygmy shrew though. If the pygmy shrew was going at it on you would that be explicit?

Illegal, regardless of explicit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explicit to me is getting my foof out or action photos. Though some of them can be really quite artistic.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Explicit to me would be full on sex act pics, cocks in holes and creampies. I like a good old perv at those type of pics but in my public & freinds only gallery my pussy/ass is concealed with an emojii, some things are better left to the imagination

I suspect your photos elicit some explicit thoughts in the viewers though.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Explicit has probably changed from when I joined FAB to now.

Action shots, gaping pics, hard cocks, pussy pics, cum pics I’d say are all explicit, to me.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Explicit for me, is more hardcore, fucking, sucking, full nudity everything on show, cum.covered bodies.

Anything less is just mild soft porn

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Dick erect, pussy exposed, acts with others

Is that your image description for one of your friends only photos?

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"From a Fab perspective – and from my personal point of view - I would interpret explicit as bodily fluids juxtaposed with the cervical innards and so forth.

Anything else would be relatively tame.

I am fab tame then

But I like to say 'Ta da' when I display my innards to someone for the first time and it doesn't work if they have already seen them.

I'll have to try the ta da when I get my cock out for a lady next time

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"My view on what’s explicit is full on sex pics, bodily fluids etc.

Some are done tastefully, but there’s some I look at and think “maybe that needs a category higher than explicit”

Yes! And sometimes I want message just to see if someone has saught medical advice.

Maybe as well as hot pics there should also be a way to vote on encouraging someone to see a GP?

Hot pics and Sick pics? Hmmm maybe not.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Open leg, graphic.

Open lips, explicit.

Which lips?

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

It is strange. I suppose I am a little more detached from the pygmy shrew though. If the pygmy shrew was going at it on you would that be explicit?

Illegal, regardless of explicit lol"

Buuuuuuut if you are consenting...? No. No I refuse to take this thread that way.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Back to the OPS question though. There's a fine line between erotic acts and explicit! Which some don't seem to think of. The one that I don't like is open pussy shots with cum dripping from it. Yuk

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Explicit has probably changed from when I joined FAB to now.

Action shots, gaping pics, hard cocks, pussy pics, cum pics I’d say are all explicit, to me.

I have to agree with BeyondPurity. Genitals and fluids!

Mrs xx

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

To be fair, based on our content the only way it could get more explicit is if I showed you my kidneys

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Explicit to me is getting my foof out or action photos. Though some of them can be really quite artistic.

Based on your profile picture then I suspect that your foof shots would be very artistic.

I got an A in Higher Level art if you ever need some one to appraise future shots...

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Explicit to me is getting my foof out or action photos. Though some of them can be really quite artistic.

Yours are definitely in the arty erotic category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me Explicit is something You won't see in the Newspaper .. Erection,Oral,Play,Penetration,End Result

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Anything involving genitals is explicit, and any kind of action shot.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "

I am finding it like that too..

People are free to post whatever photos they like as long as they don’t break any of Fab’s rules and they are legal.

I don’t have explicit photos but have explicit videos. I love them and think they are hot.

happily many people agree with me lol.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "

Oh that was certainly not my intention. And I am sorry if it comes across like that.

I certainly don't judge people who have different photo preferences to me and wouldn't want people to feel shamed. I like many images that I deem as explicit. I suppose the word explicit might come across as judgemental because of how society often uses it. I certainly don't view it that way personally.

We all choose what we want to show. My friend and I found it interesting that we had such different views on it and we wondered how much it varied on somewhere like fab where we are all clearly more used to seeing bodies.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "

I don’t think the OP meant it that way but threads often run out of control. But I agree with your comment and always find the judgements of the “liberated” bewildering

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I think that my definition of explicit has probably changed as I have got used to posting nude pics of myself over the years, so that a regular nude I don’t consider explicit, but anything more overtly sexual would now fall into that category, so pics with an erection, or vids of wanking/cumming for a guy, or masturbation vids and open pussy shots from a woman and with couples, anything sexual they are doing to each other. I keep my explicit pics just for private consumption when asked for as I know many people here get sick of dick pics on profiles.

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads.

I am finding it like that too..

People are free to post whatever photos they like as long as they don’t break any of Fab’s rules and they are legal.

I don’t have explicit photos but have explicit videos. I love them and think they are hot.

happily many people agree with me lol. "

That was certainly not my intention. I was more interested in what different people view as explicit than passing judgement on people's pictures or videos.

My definition of explicit certainly does not = bad.

Also there are plenty of explicit pics I find hot. And plenty of pics that I don't think are explicit that I personally really don't find hot.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Dick erect, pussy exposed, acts with others

Is that your image description for one of your friends only photos? "
Are you guessing i guess you are , I'm not at all shy so explicit to me has no bearing but to the Op she was asking our interpretation of explicit and i gave mine

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

So... definition of explicit (with regards to sex)... "describing or representing sexual activity in a graphic fashion".

That's what I'd call explicit. And I'm kinda happy I agree with the dictionary.

I don't object to explicit pictures, people should rock on with what they want to show. And some explicit photos can be kinda sexy

For me, I like to keep my fanangulator for in person. The surprise on their face when they see the tattoo is rather fun

I also don't think "action shots" of me could ever be sexy... and wouldn't have added anything to my profile for when I was looking to meet anyone.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "

Apologies if my comment came across that way. I have explicit photos and videos. I just wouldn't post them on here for a couple of reasons. I'm still accepting/exploring this side of me as a sexual being. Also, I like to keep them between me and the people they were taken with and select trusted others (always with consent to share).

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Explicit has probably changed from when I joined FAB to now.

Yeah I was trying to decide if my definition of explicit had changed in my 4 months being active on fab. I don't think it has too much but I certainly am more used to it.

I take a LOT more explicit photos and videos but I rarely share them. Give me another 4 months and who knows.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

"What do you deem as explicit?

I told a friend last night about my new swingy life and was explaining Fab.

What does explicit mean to you?

Ps. My dms are off and I do not require specific visual examples. Because you know... Fab.

I’d class yours as tasteful and highly sexy rather than explicit. Wouldn’t be averse to seeing the latter though! Lol

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By *mber81 OP Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"To be fair, based on our content the only way it could get more explicit is if I showed you my kidneys "

I will show you my excised lump if you show me your kidney?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me explicit would be sexual acts be it sex oral or self pleasring with a wank or dildo or something

My poor neighbours. "

Ha ha

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"So... definition of explicit (with regards to sex)... "describing or representing sexual activity in a graphic fashion".

That's what I'd call explicit. And I'm kinda happy I agree with the dictionary.

I don't object to explicit pictures, people should rock on with what they want to show. And some explicit photos can be kinda sexy

For me, I like to keep my fanangulator for in person. The surprise on their face when they see the tattoo is rather fun

I also don't think "action shots" of me could ever be sexy... and wouldn't have added anything to my profile for when I was looking to meet anyone."

That could be another ta da moment!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads. "

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Totally disagree!

No one on this thread has been vehement in body shaming, ridiculing or stigmatising anyone or their beliefs. The topic is all about the visual appeal, aesthetics and general interest in 'erotic' profile photographs. It would be no different to a thread about people's selfies: smiles, resting bitch-face, deadpan looks, sullen etc etc.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"To be fair, based on our content the only way it could get more explicit is if I showed you my kidneys

I will show you my excised lump if you show me your kidney?"

Deal, next club meet we can compare internal organs x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I find threads like these in almost the same vein as body shaming threads.

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Totally disagree!

I think the shaming is quite subtle...cervical innards, artistic, erotic, tasteful, yuk at cum dripping, suggesting some need medical advice based on pics.

Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy.

Not some carefully staged sepia toned act

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy...."

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#SexShaming.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....

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#SexShaming.

Or sex reality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....

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#SexShaming.

Or sex reality?

It might well be all those things sometimes but I don't want to show all those things.

I want the sepia fantasy. I don't want to think about my the clumsy and messy parts.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....

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#SexShaming.

Or sex reality?

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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....

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#SexShaming.

Or sex reality?

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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated."

With the merest hint of cinnamon...

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Very nice pics OP and I’d agree not explicit. To me explicit is sexual acts, hard penis, open close up vagina etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close ups of genitals and anything where I can see their insides. I think other things like sexual acts are ok when done tastefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a big difference between revealing and explicit.

From what you say, OP, I'm wondering if your friend was thinking revealing, rather than explicit.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....

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#SexShaming.

Or sex reality?

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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated.

With the merest hint of cinnamon..."

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Lashings of cinnamon actually and not a single molecule resembling a foul Pumpkin Spice Latte.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...Sex is messy, smelly, clumsy....

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#SexShaming.

Or sex reality?

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For some perhaps. For me however my sex is pristine, fragrant from the amalgamation of coital pheromones and blended cologne, and studiously orchestrated.

With the merest hint of cinnamon...

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Lashings of cinnamon actually and not a single molecule resembling a foul Pumpkin Spice Latte."

I'd not dream of suggesting a Pumpkin Spice Latte, dear Nero!

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