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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dude you have opened a pandoras box of judgment. Run now before it's too late lol

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By *afa19Man
over a year ago

london

The last hero man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh,yeah I know it already and I know what kind of people are around here!

Some of them don't realise they worst that the one they're judging!

Anyway this is the only fun they have on their life so you can't ask for more!

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody! "

Oh dear

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody!

Oh dear"

Oh dear oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody! "

Doesn't the person who is being cheated on get hurt?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Is this....a bragging post? Because there's no discernible question I can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is adultery something to brag about?

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I don’t really understand the purpose of your post to be honest.

You mention “we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody!” does this include your wife? You also mention that basically anyone daring to have an opinion is somehow worse than the person they’re judging. You can’t post openly on a forum that you’re basically shagging about behind your wife’s back, then get arsey when someone gives their opinion about it. Double standards and all that.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody! "

Your on a swingers site but don't understand the concept of swinging,Where all involved are open and honest with spouses or partners.

Myself and other people on this site have been cheated on in the past and we are fully aware how much hurt it can cause.

Some of us don't want to be a party to possibly causing that hurt you talk about to another person.

Some have grown up in single parent families because one parent cheated and it ended in divorce.

Others have been there to help family members or friends that have had lives turned upside down when they caught a spouse or partner cheating.

Its not just the person being cheated on its affects but also those closest to them.

Others don't want to risk being caught up in a load of drama if a married cheat gets caught.

And also if your prepared to cheat on and lie to your wife you certainly won't have any problems lying to a stranger you meet on the internet to get want you want.

You don't want judging yet post a thread thats passing judgement on people that won't meet cheats without knowing our reasons why.

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

LHR

I’m always a little bemused by those who want to call out and judge those in the community who are married and existing ‘outside’ of their marriage.

No matter what you say to said people, they are doing it anyways, and comfortable in the knowledge how much hurt their actions can obviously cause!

If they’ve oblivious to this hurt then without a shadow of a doubt any words to the contrary are pointless!

This particular OP is almost certainly fantasising out loud and very unlikely to act upon his fantasy given his silhouette profile and boring patter!

Ultimately each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody! "

Congrats! Did you meet your lover on here? Have you met in person yet or are you just messaging each other with all your sexy thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody! "

No dude!!! You should be thinking of your wife. And doing it behind her back!

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Surely the “right person “ should be your wife??!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I see married men with their spouses complete enthusiastic consent.

I don't see married men sneaking around behind their wives backs.

Otherwise, someone is getting hurt, whether it's convenient for you or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is on here lol If she wasn't open to this I wouldn't be.

You talk about hurt, what you mean is getting away with it.

You could argue that about anything. What you are looking for is permission from this community to say its ok. But the vast majority of us on the scene are playing with the consent of our partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your wife "comfortable"? Or is she not classed as everybody?

Would never cheat on K, I have too much respect for her to do so. If you're that unhappy with your wife maybe it's time to put her out if her misery as I'm sure she'd prefer that to finding out you're cheating with someone else.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Swinging in my understanding was consensual, too many married men use this site to cheat on their spouse which is never ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the bloody site are attached and most lie saying they're single.

What's new? ....and here goes a thread damning then all where the ones doing that damning are...you guessed it normally the attached ones.

Same shit different day.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Swinging in my understanding was consensual, too many married men use this site to cheat on their spouse which is never ok "

I think some swinging couples cheat too

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Swinging in my understanding was consensual, too many married men use this site to cheat on their spouse which is never ok

I think some swinging couples cheat too"

The number of men in couples who after meeting once as a couple ask to meet alone… is a big number.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"99% of the bloody site are attached and most lie saying they're single.

What's new? ....and here goes a thread damning then all where the ones doing that damning are...you guessed it normally the attached ones.

Same shit different day.

"

Yep, a perennial hot button issue.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's not the married man I don't want to deal with, it's his wife. Why do I want an angry woman chasing ME, on any platform she can and potentially in person, because she blames ME for her husband cheating on her. I'm not prepared to have that intrusion into my life. Even playing with hothusbands has its risks, I've been stung by a few confessions before. But that's the chance you take when playing with others on here.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone always gets hurt. But Fab likes to ignore the collateral damage in favour of a "bit of fun".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that."

Life is complicated and unpredictable, and sometimes throws people a curveball.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that.

Life is complicated and unpredictable, and sometimes throws people a curveball. "

Ah well that's alright then. I mean I've had multiple curveballs thrown at me - I shall go and fuck lots of married men to make up for it. Make my kids proud.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Well most of you on here don't want to have to deal with a married man but also are a couple of you ladies on here been married but to shy/not confident to make the next step!

Well I would say as long as you find the right person, having the discretion and no one gets "hurt" just go ahead!

I've been looking for ages for the right one for me and it worth it and now we just meeting when is convenient and comfortable for everybody!

Oh dear

Oh dear oh dear "
oh dear oh dear oh dear

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that."

I think because some people are just greedy and wired that way.

Some would cheat no matter how good they have it,both men and women.ive seen profiles on here saying they get sex at home ,just want more.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn’t approach a married man if we know he is. However, if he approaches us, it isn’t going to bother us.

Others can judge. We aren’t going to be involved in his life. He’s an adult and he makes his own choices. We aren’t responsible for the choices someone else makes for themselves and their partner.

Miles

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Someone will get hurt eventually... And it's always the other woman that gets the blame. So no thanks.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

At least he won't want to come back to yours every night

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that.

Life is complicated and unpredictable, and sometimes throws people a curveball. "

When my life gets complicated and believe me, I’ve got many curveballs thrown at me at different points of my life, the last thing I do is try and complicate things even more.

Dealing with life is a valuable skill of a decent human being.

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

My X wife and I used to be swingers. Used to visit clubs regular and had regular 3 sums with a few friends. After we split up she confessed to having cheated on me multiple times. She got a real buzz from cheating

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

That's a very one sided view.

There are plenty of women on here playing behind husbands back they just don't get lambasted for it, it's even seen to be acceptable as their husbands are not giving them what they need.

Men are seen as bad people, but no one here knows their situation, what goes on behind closed doors as they say.

Also I would guess that the accepted single guys on here in some or even most cases are not actually single at all so not only are they cheating on partner or wife they are also deceiving the swingers they meet.

Yes the swinging community is a consentual community with trust within that community. How many people taking the he's a cheat stand point do not tell, their children, their parents, their friends, their work colleagues????

Draw your line where you want to but do not feel so entitled as to be able to draw the line for others or to judge them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that.

Life is complicated and unpredictable, and sometimes throws people a curveball.

Ah well that's alright then. I mean I've had multiple curveballs thrown at me - I shall go and fuck lots of married men to make up for it. Make my kids proud. "

Would I condone someone cheating just to ‘get off’? Yes.

Would I condone them if they were falling/had fallen in love with the person? Maybe, but it’s more understandable. Life is weird sometimes.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Yes the swinging community is a consentual community with trust within that community. How many people taking the he's a cheat stand point do not tell, their children, their parents, their friends, their work colleagues????

Draw your line where you want to but do not feel so entitled as to be able to draw the line for others or to judge them. "

Not telling people who don't want details is one thing. My boss and my family have some idea of my lifestyle, but don't want to know the ins and outs.

Not telling someone you supposedly care about about new risk profiles for infections that they are now susceptible to is not.

Women cheating on their husbands is just as bad as men cheating on their wives. The only time I ever hear otherwise is when it's part of the claim that women aren't judged for it. As far as I'm concerned, they are

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"That's a very one sided view.

There are plenty of women on here playing behind husbands back they just don't get lambasted for it, it's even seen to be acceptable as their husbands are not giving them what they need.

Men are seen as bad people, but no one here knows their situation, what goes on behind closed doors as they say.

Also I would guess that the accepted single guys on here in some or even most cases are not actually single at all so not only are they cheating on partner or wife they are also deceiving the swingers they meet.

Yes the swinging community is a consentual community with trust within that community. How many people taking the he's a cheat stand point do not tell, their children, their parents, their friends, their work colleagues????

Draw your line where you want to but do not feel so entitled as to be able to draw the line for others or to judge them. "

Women get off more easily because more men want to sleep with cheating women and see it as hot.

So they won't slate them and will sympathise to try and get a shag.

As for not telling others we swing ,how does that harm anyone like cheating does.

We judge women to be the same as any man on here behind someone's back.

Even if we weren't on fab ,I wouldn't discuss my sex life with my family and definitely not with work colleagues.so it's not quite the same really.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why men or women within a swinging couple would have the need to cheat on their partner's, what would be the point of that.

Life is complicated and unpredictable, and sometimes throws people a curveball.

Ah well that's alright then. I mean I've had multiple curveballs thrown at me - I shall go and fuck lots of married men to make up for it. Make my kids proud.

Would I condone someone cheating just to ‘get off’? Yes.

Would I condone them if they were falling/had fallen in love with the person? Maybe, but it’s more understandable. Life is weird sometimes."

I know full well there are shades of grey. What I cannot ever understand is those who deliberately seek out married people with unsuspecting partners because they get off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a very one sided view.

There are plenty of women on here playing behind husbands back they just don't get lambasted for it, it's even seen to be acceptable as their husbands are not giving them what they need.

Men are seen as bad people, but no one here knows their situation, what goes on behind closed doors as they say.

Also I would guess that the accepted single guys on here in some or even most cases are not actually single at all so not only are they cheating on partner or wife they are also deceiving the swingers they meet.

Yes the swinging community is a consentual community with trust within that community. How many people taking the he's a cheat stand point do not tell, their children, their parents, their friends, their work colleagues????

Draw your line where you want to but do not feel so entitled as to be able to draw the line for others or to judge them. "

Who are replying to? The OP has a one-sided view?

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