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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think there is a place for escorting services within the swinging community?

I have notice escort profiles and wondered if they had much luck.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If someone wants to do escort work fine. But not within the swinging community they should be kept seperate. Swinging is swinging and not paying for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An outstanding no from me!

Swinging is about consenting adults having fun/socializing with like minded, paying for it is nothing to do with swinging.

I'm not against escorting or similar just don't believe the 2 should be mixed.

Thats just our thoughts anyway.

Tony

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Swinging isn't about charging for the experience no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don't think escorting should be part of a site like this!!

It's something totally different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it depends, u can just swing here with out charging yea, but then u can make men pay to take them to a swinging club thats ok init. thats like half swinging init lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man who's married/hooked... pays!

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By *harlie_n_DeeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Swinging isn't about charging for the experience no"

Where do you draw the line when charging? We notice you offer reduced price entry to Chameleons to men who will give you a lift.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

men choose to pay less to go to a club with a lady

ultimately its their choice

I can get in for a fiver or for free, either way it does me no real favours taking a guy in with me, but it helps them save money on their entry fees and also membership fees if they have none

Men are grown ups too you know and do have a choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think thay should be here saying what work thay do ,,,,,,,, as it could make for easy picking .. loads of men here looking for sex .... we give it free ...... and most of us are so much better in bed i am sure ,,, dont say for a blow job you pay this ,, ? and shag you pay this ,, we do it because we love it .... we dont need money for fun. It would take the fun out of it if was a job, jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no personal attacks in here...its a genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe anyone has actually been asked for money...

Really?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Swinging isn't about charging for the experience no

Where do you draw the line when charging? We notice you offer reduced price entry to Chameleons to men who will give you a lift."

I dont offer reduced price entry to anyone here. The club offers reduced fees to a man that goes with a lady, as I said I can get in for nowt or next to nowt. So I am doing THEM the favour here.

And whats wrong with getting a friend to give me a lift?

If we are both going in the same direction, it makes far more sense and also reduces my carbon footprint

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"well it depends, u can just swing here with out charging yea, but then u can make men pay to take them to a swinging club thats ok init. thats like half swinging init lol"

Are they 'tin-diggers'... like gold-diggers but cheaper?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well it depends, u can just swing here with out charging yea, but then u can make men pay to take them to a swinging club thats ok init. thats like half swinging init lol

Are they 'tin-diggers'... like gold-diggers but cheaper? "

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would be worried about a 'swinger' being someone who has paid them to take them to a club, would that person not feel they had a right to play with anyone as they have sppent money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would be worried about a 'swinger' bringing someone who has paid them to take them to a club, would that person not feel they had a right to play with anyone as they have sppent money?"

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

If I'm going to the club and they offer to pay to go in with me, its our business, as I said, I can and do often get in for nowt of next to nowt

I'm not gonna offer to pay 30 quid to take him in now am I?

He pays less to go in with me, I'm not taking him, hes not taking me, we both go together and do out own thing unless otherwise arranged

Its still swinging..its at a swingers club ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i noticed a couple profile on here who charge people for their time, not sure if they are still on here though.

sorry if this sounds bad, but my first reaction to them was 'who the hell would pay for these two' lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some guys would easy fall 'Victim' on the promise of something....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont actually think anyone should be asking for anything in return for sex. I like to think im doing it for the fun and not what i can get out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would take a special breed to work a guy over on a swing site... fact! Nassssssty Yuk....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"some guys would easy fall 'Victim' on the promise of something.... "

The question is ... would they get arsey if they got nothing?

Too many guys have an attitude of "I'm not paying 40 quid to get in a club and get nowt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some guys would easy fall 'Victim' on the promise of something....

The question is ... would they get arsey if they got nothing?

Too many guys have an attitude of "I'm not paying 40 quid to get in a club and get nowt" "

thats what i would think? say a guy pays a bird 100 to get him into a swinging club surly he must feel he would have a right to play with anyone cos he has paid that cash, and then i think its wrong of the escort to put people in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some guys would easy fall 'Victim' on the promise of something.... "
YES and thats why thay should not be on this site.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"some guys would easy fall 'Victim' on the promise of something....

The question is ... would they get arsey if they got nothing?

Too many guys have an attitude of "I'm not paying 40 quid to get in a club and get nowt"

thats what i would think? say a guy pays a bird 100 to get him into a swinging club surly he must feel he would have a right to play with anyone cos he has paid that cash, and then i think its wrong of the escort to put people in that situation"

I wonder how a couple would feel finding out the lady who played with them did it to keep her 'client' happy?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I dont play with cpls haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some guys would easy fall 'Victim' on the promise of something.... YES and thats why thay should not be on this site."

If they are on this site then admin should know.. the ip logged and the account, or accounts then booted and blocked... Along with any future ones!!

and 40 quid to get in a club??? I'd rather have a wank...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play with cpls haha"

Is it you???

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I dont play with cpls haha"

Why?... won't they stump up for a steak dinner?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I dont play with cpls haha

Is it you??? "

is what me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it! All this talk of who pays to get in and out of a club lol. Not seen a woman yet go into a pub with a male friend and pay for all her drinks. Just a life thing where if you’re a geezer you offer to treat a lady. Might be a drink, some food or a lift to a club. Not a lot of difference in it all looking from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play with cpls haha

Is it you???

is what me"

Nowt lol... I thought for a minute you were admitting your taking money off victims lol...

You said the couples thing...

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I dont play with cpls haha

Why?... won't they stump up for a steak dinner? "

dont you offer someone a cuppa when they come round your yours?

I do

and breakfast sometimes

Whats the difference??

I dont charge anyone I meet from here for eating or drinking at my home

I dont charge anyone anything from this site

a dinner between 2 conscenting adults is the same as popping out for a drink with the same 2 adults

If a guy offers to pay to accompany me to a club, then surely its his business.

You really should try reading my feedback and talking to the people that have happliy met me, there are loads!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I dont play with cpls haha

Why?... won't they stump up for a steak dinner? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

_ickmeallover has admitted to being an escort plenty of times on the forums, so i can see why she getting a bit defensive i guess but like the OP said this post was not a personal attack on anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet this woman not too long ago .... we was out side club cooling off ,,,,, when she had left the room everyone there saying she was escort and leve well alone .... lady had sore and things on her face nasty theeth and not nice hands ,,, I did think if a man was paying would thay not like better ,,,, and why was she doing this? maybe kids and stuff not sure but loads at the club new she was one. I felt a bit sorry for her ,,,,to tell the truth. jo xxxx still dont think should be on here for easy pickings as some men are mugs for a woman showing them that care taking time mailing and chating.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I dont play with cpls haha

Is it you???

is what me

Nowt lol... I thought for a minute you were admitting your taking money off victims lol...

You said the couples thing... "

None of the people I meet are victime

Your words not mine

I have admitted to nothing, why what are you accusing me of

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Love it! All this talk of who pays to get in and out of a club lol. Not seen a woman yet go into a pub with a male friend and pay for all her drinks. Just a life thing where if you’re a geezer you offer to treat a lady. Might be a drink, some food or a lift to a club. Not a lot of difference in it all looking from here.

"

The first sensible comment on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmm We'd take anyone anywhere though.. and not expect payment..

As said... if anyone manipulates a situation for financial gain on a site like this then... YUK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YUK.... Yuk Yukketty Yuk Yuk Yuk Yuk...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"... Just a life thing where if you’re a geezer you offer to treat a lady. Might be a drink, some food or a lift to a club. Not a lot of difference in it all looking from here.

"

Is there a difference between 'offering' and being told it is a condition before they even agree to meet?

I have to admit I do let guys pay for us both to go into the club... but then I generally insist on paying the bar bill for both of us.... (or vice versa)

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I go to a club alone I pay to get in

unless a guy offers to pay to take me there

your point is?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

call steve at the club and ask him who settles my bar bill most times I go with someone

dare all of ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd offer to pay as a gent.... (Gent)

Being told... or even being expected is cheap... nasty, yukkety yuk yuk yuk yuk..

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

If I offer to wear a red nightie for a meet it is something that is asked for and offered and agreed in advance and conditional of a meet

If I ask for dinner in exchange for a night at the club with me and its agreed

no money has changed hands with me

Just between my new friend and the restauranteur

or my new friend and the club owner

the contract is between them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I offer to wear a red nightie for a meet it is something that is asked for and offered and agreed in advance and conditional of a meet

If I ask for dinner in exchange for a night at the club with me and its agreed

no money has changed hands with me

Just between my new friend and the restauranteur

or my new friend and the club owner

the contract is between them"

confused.com

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'd offer to pay as a gent.... (Gent)

Being told... or even being expected is cheap... nasty, yukkety yuk yuk yuk yuk.. "

Before i shag you on the 6th you are to take me for a meal, not just any meal a posh meal. In fact id like to go to jonathons. You can also book me a nice hotel and then after youve done that i will allow you the pleasure of a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd offer to pay as a gent.... (Gent)

Being told... or even being expected is cheap... nasty, yukkety yuk yuk yuk yuk..

Before i shag you on the 6th you are to take me for a meal, not just any meal a posh meal. In fact id like to go to jonathons. You can also book me a nice hotel and then after youve done that i will allow you the pleasure of a shag "
i am coming on 6th ,, lol maybe i can come too he can pay ,, lololol xxxx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I go to a club alone I pay to get in

unless a guy offers to pay to take me there

your point is?"

My point is.... I was asking the guy HIS opinion, not yours! It's all me me me me me with you isn't it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'd offer to pay as a gent.... (Gent)

Being told... or even being expected is cheap... nasty, yukkety yuk yuk yuk yuk..

Before i shag you on the 6th you are to take me for a meal, not just any meal a posh meal. In fact id like to go to jonathons. You can also book me a nice hotel and then after youve done that i will allow you the pleasure of a shag i am coming on 6th ,, lol maybe i can come too he can pay ,, lololol xxxx "

Your welcome to come along lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any escort profiles should be reported to admin. no need for them on a swinging site, they can ply their trade out in the cold world lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Escorting isn't allowed on the site.

If you suspect anyone is charging use the REPORT link on their profile and report it and it will be looked into.

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