FabSwingers.com forum: How soon? Kissing edition

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

You've flirted with someone on here.

You meet - you like what you see.

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Before she’s said hello. That would be too soon.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Before she’s said hello. That would be too soon."

Just after though? Good we agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never too soon. Immediate physical attraction that's so intense I can't think about anything else.

That's the dream.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

How soon is now?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Before she’s said hello. That would be too soon."

"Just after though? Good we agree

Sometimes there’s just no point wasting any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no one time frame

Just depends on how I feel about the person or how the meets going

For instance I have meet people and been back at a hotel in like 10 minutes

Others I have meet spent 20 minutes with and walked away

There’s even been times I haven’t been feeling there’s a spark or anything but ich need scratched so off to the hotel for a one off with a thanks but your not for me afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before she’s said hello. That would be too soon.

Just after though? Good we agree

Sometimes there’s just no point wasting any time. "

Or just ignore them for the entire evening ha ha

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Sometimes there’s just no point wasting any time. "

The last forumer I met, I think I kissed her within 30 seconds of arriving in the pub. And I’m glad I did, too.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Before she’s said hello. That would be too soon."

It really wouldn’t be too soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer. Whenever you have the urge to kiss them providing the feelings are mutual is fine I’d say.

I met someone from here, we skipped the hello part and went straight in for a kiss.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Usually go off the unspoken chemistry, if I can see the signals there then it’s usually quite early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never too soon, just jump them, see what happens

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Sometimes there’s just no point wasting any time.

The last forumer I met, I think I kissed her within 30 seconds of arriving in the pub. And I’m glad I did, too."

Kiss and telling on the forums

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Some might say you should kiss after the dick goes in, before that might send the wrong signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before they've swigged their tea or coffee. I can't stand the taste

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Usually when the symbiosis kicks in and invokes a feeling of spontaneity - either at the time of greeting when you first embrace on the station concourse or when she nudges her leatherette bar stool closer and closer towards you.

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually when the symbiosis kicks in and invokes a feeling of spontaneity - either at the time of greeting when you first embrace on the station concourse or when she nudges her leatherette bar stool closer and closer towards you.

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing."

Just short in height

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"You've flirted with someone on here.

You meet - you like what you see.

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

Whilst you're still at the counter waiting for your coffee at Costa with a dozen OAP's, students and hipsters stood behind you.

Wait til you've got to the table....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again I'm with Natalie

Depends on the person and how it's going. You'll know when it's right. If you don't, don't do it.

I usually say I don't want that to happen on a social. And I'll let them know after if I want to see them again. If I want to see them again they have the green light to kiss when they want as they no I want more already and vice versa.

That said I was kissed at the end of one social by one guy and that lingered.

Another I was kissed minutes after showing up. And I mean kissed! But I'd spoken to him for months before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t kiss anyone until you’re sure you want to marry them.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing.

Just short in height

Thinking about me again Boo?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Don’t kiss anyone until you’re sure you want to marry them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t kiss anyone until you’re sure you want to marry them.

I don’t kiss anyone ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might come as a surprise but I love kissing.

However,I'm actually pretty shy so I usually spend time longing to be kissed before I actually am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's ever too soon. You can usually tell by their eyes, smile, how they react to you, if it wouldn't be appropriate x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Don’t kiss anyone until you’re sure you want to marry them.

I don’t kiss anyone ever

Really? Why? I love kissing

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer. Whenever you have the urge to kiss them providing the feelings are mutual is fine I’d say.

I met someone from here, we skipped the hello part and went straight in for a kiss. "

I'd be like 'besssstie' - hug - kiss.

Boom easy!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing.

Just short in height

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You're never short of charm, Bøø.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Good answers so far though everyone! Really rating the 'can be as soon as' ones - I'm pretty bad for making a move quickly if there's consent and chemistry to the surprise of no one ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing.

Just short in height

Thinking about me again Boo?

Always LB , proper Ladywank material you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing.

Just short in height

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You're never short of charm, Bøø.

I know

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Definitely here to watch Boo and Bird kiss.

Popcorn at the ready!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

This might sound a bit weird (I know it is) but the more interested I am in kissing someone, the happier I am to wait and let that anticipation build up.

I love that erotic charge that builds up, the lingering hugs, the gentle soft kisses to the cheek, the increased tactile behaviour. The flirting.

Don't get me wrong, I adore being pinned to a wall and kissed like there's nothing else in the world that matters but that moment.

Given a choice though? I'll always choose to let the tension build. Lean into that moment just before lips brush gently against each other, the way someone looks at me and I know that they really, really want to kiss me.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The kiss has to be passionate and not just a peck on the cheek. Ladies, rest assured you will not be short-changed when it comes to kissing.

Just short in height

Thinking about me again Boo?

Always LB , proper Ladywank material you are!

Like (ladywank)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer. Whenever you have the urge to kiss them providing the feelings are mutual is fine I’d say.

I met someone from here, we skipped the hello part and went straight in for a kiss.

I'd be like 'besssstie' - hug - kiss.

Boom easy!"

On the cheek. Boundaries brucey, boundaries!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer. Whenever you have the urge to kiss them providing the feelings are mutual is fine I’d say.

I met someone from here, we skipped the hello part and went straight in for a kiss.

I'd be like 'besssstie' - hug - kiss.

Boom easy!

On the cheek. Boundaries brucey, boundaries! "

Yeah sure you're right. Until the sexual chemistry builds up in the bedroom when you're talking about how the other boys have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it’s mainly down to how fast they’re running, obstacles, BMI calculations about amount of sedative I have them etc.

Fuvking exhausting when they don’t tire until they get past the co-op though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely here to watch Boo and Bird kiss.

Popcorn at the ready!"

I could turn to watch it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t kiss anyone until you’re sure you want to marry them.

I don’t kiss anyone ever

Shame.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Definitely here to watch Boo and Bird kiss.

Popcorn at the ready!

I could turn to watch it

Come sit next to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away to break the ice, unless of course they recoil in disgust the second the door opens.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ooo no never! X

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

You never did give that postcode...

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

Oh boy oh boy I do have a story to tell

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

Oh boy oh boy I do have a story to tell

Ooofffttt

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

You never did give that postcode...

I did! It was encrypted in my lengthy message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

Oh boy oh boy I do have a story to tell

Ooofffttt

Definition of Tease

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

I had a meet where a lady I had been messaging for a while came round my house.

She walked in and I kissed her hello, gently on the cheek and then lips as she offered them to me.

That kiss continued with hands on and then straight upstairs.

It was instant chemistry and very intense.

When we finally came down, I had to rebuild the kettle.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

If I’m attracted to someone then I’m going to want to kiss them, and if it feels like they want the same then I don’t think there needs to be much of a time limit put on when that happens, especially if it’s someone you’ve been chatting and flirting with for a while

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"You've flirted with someone on here.

You meet - you like what you see.

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

Before the chloroform wears off?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I’m waiting patiently for the next instalment - How soon? Fucking edition - to comment

You never did give that postcode...

I did! It was encrypted in my lengthy message

Well I did not work that shit out

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"You've flirted with someone on here.

You meet - you like what you see.

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

120 seconds, then game on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is hot as soon as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I may be a bit weird, Im not keen on being pounced on. I like to have the face kiss where you feel each others presence for the first time, take in their smell and warmth, perhaps a prickly stubbly cheek, and get a lingering arm round each other feeling their strength and the pressure of their touch. Then break away and depending on where you are sit and build eye contact, those smiling eyes, you both know you are going to get it and your body starts longing. I want that.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

When it feels right.

It doesn't have to be hard to be passionate, it can be gentle, explorative, questioning, tentative even..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As late as possible.

My makeup takes an age to put on.

Lets not be smudging it toi soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…..

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

If I’ve not finished my coffee, it’s too soon.

Truthfully- A kiss at the end is nice. There was this one time when I pounced on her within minutes, I couldn’t help it. She looked stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…..

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

If I’ve not finished my coffee, it’s too soon.

Truthfully- A kiss at the end is nice. There was this one time when I pounced on her within minutes, I couldn’t help it. She looked stunning.

It was quite the shock!

I was only there to deliver pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…..

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

If I’ve not finished my coffee, it’s too soon.

Truthfully- A kiss at the end is nice. There was this one time when I pounced on her within minutes, I couldn’t help it. She looked stunning.

It was quite the shock!

I was only there to deliver pizza "

Must have been a good pizza!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I may be a bit weird, Im not keen on being pounced on. I like to have the face kiss where you feel each others presence for the first time, take in their smell and warmth, perhaps a prickly stubbly cheek, and get a lingering arm round each other feeling their strength and the pressure of their touch. Then break away and depending on where you are sit and build eye contact, those smiling eyes, you both know you are going to get it and your body starts longing. I want that. "

Ooh nice description!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Are you still in Starbucks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…..

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

If I’ve not finished my coffee, it’s too soon.

Truthfully- A kiss at the end is nice. There was this one time when I pounced on her within minutes, I couldn’t help it. She looked stunning.

It was quite the shock!

I was only there to deliver pizza "

Haha.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

We met a guy at the weekend in a pub. When hubby came back with the 2nd drink the guy and I were already snogging the faces of each other and more as well. It was so hot, Mrs xxx

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Never too soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I welcome my meets with a kiss and a little fondle before any formalities take place.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Never too soon

I told ya I liked you belle!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I welcome my meets with a kiss and a little fondle before any formalities take place.

Good the less talking from you the better

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Never too soon

I told ya I liked you belle!"

You do?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

4 cocktails is plenty long enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've flirted with someone on here.

You meet - you like what you see.

How soon is too soon to go in for a hot kiss in your opinion?!

What is a hot kiss.. This weather it be wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I go in at the deep?

Does one hold back my emotions?

I sat there bored stiffless and say mate, giz a snog! Wearing me kiss me quick hat.

If you know that its leaving on amicable terms. No kiss on lips. If you fancy pants off well I will snog.. Passionately of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social is set up to see if there's a connection. I can't think of any better way of testing that! So straight in with the snog!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"A social is set up to see if there's a connection. I can't think of any better way of testing that! So straight in with the snog! "

Atta girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I welcome my meets with a kiss and a little fondle before any formalities take place.

Good the less talking from you the better

It's almost like you've heard her voice

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I welcome my meets with a kiss and a little fondle before any formalities take place.

Good the less talking from you the better

It's almost like you've heard her voice

No, just the shit I know she would say that would kill the erection

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If I know attraction is mutual then I don't wait long

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

You tell me Brucey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she finds me in her wardrobe

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"You tell me Brucey "

Oh she's letting me take control? Interesting....

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"You tell me Brucey

Oh she's letting me take control? Interesting...."

Nah, never, I just like you to think you have it

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